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Q: okay . i liek this kidd steve . . and he likes me and all but today like a hole bunch of people from my town went to this fair thing . . see the most poular gurl in my shcool likes him to and he only wants to go out with her is becvuz she hadd bigs boobs he hates her personality . . and stuff . . me and him were chillin and holding hands and i was sittin on his lap and we were makin out and stuff .. and she is one of my friends . . but she also like this other kidd jason . . and she got madd at me and then steve went up to her . . and said sry and he kissed her ryte in frount of me then he came back to me and he kissed me and i was like wtf i made this big scence and everything . . the gurl . . like that kdd jason a lot more then steve but if jason doent go out with her she going to go out with steve even though he will cheat on her with me and i always sneek out of my house to do shit with him and stuff . . i dont kno what to do becuz i really like him . . and i think he likes me or is he a playa hellpp mee pleaseee

Hes a player. Making out with you, kissing her, and then trying to kiss you again? Obviously, hes a player and just wants all the sex he can get..dont tlak to him anymore unless u wanna get hurt

Q: I have heard about the 5 small meals a day diet. I'm not sure about what would be good to eat for it. I really only want to do this to stay healthy. I am also trying to be more healthy by stretching, walking for about 30 minutes a day, and doing other exercises. Do you think I should do any of this? I am 13, 5'2 and 115 lbs.
xxAmyxx

You should forget about the 5 small meals a day and eat regular. But exercise everyday. You are the right weight and to stay healthy, just eat what you want and when your about to get full, stop eating. And exercise!

Q: Heya! I'm passing out candy on Halloween, and I want to know how I should decorate my porch. Nothing too big or expensive, just stuff I can do from things I have around the house. I think I'll have the candy in a hollowed out pumpkin, but I'm not sure what to do to decorate my porch. Any suggestions? Thanks!

orange and black baloons? Go to target they have cheap haloween stuff

Q: i just cant get over the guy hu left which unfortunaly had to b my ex bf. i always think about him everyday. i had another ex but i dont feel the love as much as me n my ex had. its been a year already

Well you wont just completley forget about him. Sure you can forget about him sometimes, move on..like other guys but you'll always remember him. I know the feeling of missing him, even if he treated you like crap. You just need to go out with other guys and stuf..and tell yourself you deserve better. I mean he hit you! Hope I helped.

Q: me n my bf had been together for about 8 months and ten this thing haoened which wasnt suposed to hape. We beat eachother up n thats wen we broke up. But unfortunalty it has been his last year so he left. i feel so alone without him... Ps. we were very close to eachother. We made out every day..

Hey i know it sucks for it to be over..and you feel like you'll never love another guy again..and that you'll love him forever. Well its not true, I thought the same thing for a while, and I got over him like 2 months ago..its not gonna be easy..i cried, and cried sooo much..and i got mad a lot too...but it'll take time and just try to find new guys that always helps!

Q: First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind.

Those are just raging hormones. its natural..hope I helped

Q: Alright so in french today, a guy came in, handed my teacher a note and then my teacher gave it to me. in the note it said that they wanted me to join a club called "A World Of Differnce." Anyone know what the heck that is and if its anygood? i dunno they said it was about tollerence and stuff, but the note made no sence at all.

We wont know for sure...but you should go and check it out. Maybe its a club where people do community service??

Q: Ok, I'm running for Freshmen President. Anyone have any good tips for getting elected????

get your name out! Try to send all the freshmen candy, or cake or pizza..or something during 2nd period...make tshirts that say "Vote for me, (your name)"

Q: OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

No its not okay! Your right, it is crazy..but most people just do it to be "popular" but ya thats a wrong way of trying to be popular...good for you!

Q: Falling up rocks, but my favorite Christian group for rap would be Grits, fav. praise would be newsboys. man thats cool, i didnt think i would meet another person on here that likes falling up, whats ur name? by the way, my advice column is napalm3400, go check it out, and ask me a question. ttyl, bye.

my names sherry and i am in love with falling up...their so awesome..i left u a question...u can talk to me on aim if u want sherry7pchik

Q: i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.

I think interracial dating or marraige is prefeclty fine because if you love eachother then yea! But some people may disagree..just depends on who you ask.

Q: Okay ..i got a really bad grade on my spanish thingy .. i got an E and ive never gotten an E in my life. I mean i got grounded for a C and who knows what will happen with an E .. im too scared to show my mom so i thought about forging bcuz i've done it before but im afraid that like one day im gonna have a parent-teacher confrence and my teacher is gonna show her that and her be like i never signed that. i dont want the simple answer honesty is the key or whatever i want what yall would do! i rate really good =) please help me now!!!

Just tell your mom. be like "Mom, I'm really sorry but I need help. I'll go after school for tutoring or whatever" and tell her...thats what id do

Q: first of all... i want 2 tell u that u give really good advice!
& my question is- im 14 & i have a boyfriend who goes 2 a different school. i dont really get to see him very often. 1 of my friends (who goes to his school) told me that a girl there asked him out and he said that "he would think about it". i dont wanna believe that he would go out w/ another girl! do you think i should break up w/ him???

i think you should break up with him. If he really liked you he would tell that girl "no" not "i'll think about it"...hope i helped

Q: okay.. me and this guy have been talking for a while.. well.. last night he called me and was like.. " i like you and i wish you could have come to homecoming with me" and then he was like.. " we should hang out next weekend.. and go to tha mall or something.." and i was like.. omg.. i was so happy.. and then today i come up to mai friend kate and my friend kelsy.. and she was standing with them and all i heard was .. "were going out" and this other girl *hoo looks like a man* said it.. and i was like.. " who?" and she was like.. "marc" (the guy).. and i havnt seen him since.. but she was talking about the same one.. so.. yeah.. what should i do? ILL RATE!

Maybe he likes you but has a girlfriend. But dont go out with him or try to take him away...just wait till they break up and then yea!

Q: i was wondering if anyone knos where i can get one of those survey things that like u fill out about yourself they have like favorites and stuff like that u usually get them as forwards in your email but i always delete my mail so i dont have em anymore

go to www.hellzangelz.cjb.net and on the right side, scroll all the way down and you'll see about 8 surveys to choose from

Q: Sherry, you're gay. But I have a question, do u think it is okay to call people fat??

Your gay too! No its not ok to call people fat because thats really messed up and you might be the reason why that person becomes anerexic. Or they try to hurt themselves because you said that they were fat. So just keep your comments to yourself so noone gets hurt..and if im gay ..stay off my column!

Q: is being in a inter racial couple okay..do all ppl think taht???

I think its ok. I mean if you like eachother why not. No not all people think its ok. Like racists..or people that are not racists but they just dont like interracial dating. Hope I helped!

Q: OK well ummmmmm I like like 2 different guys and one has a gf and the other doesn't well so im gonna go 4 the 1 w/o...so guys/girls PLZ answer this Q!!
~*gOt Ne TiPs On HoW 2 WiN A GuYs HeArT OvEr?*~
Thanx soo much!! :)
[EMiLy]

Just look at him, and smile alot..flirt like crazy..good luck!

Q: so i like this guy. he likes me too, but hes concerned about the age difference and he wouldnt want my parents pressing charges on him, i know its illegal if we have sex, but i dont plan on it. hes 18 and ill be 15 in a month. i have talked to my parents and they both have no problem with him. i see where he is coming from but, when we are together we make out and stuff and it makes me want to be more than "friends with benefits".

so my question is should i pursue it and be like screw what my parents say if they ever found a reason to not like him? thanks in advance.

I heard its illegal for him to even be with you..even if you dont have sex..but if your parents are ok with it..then why not? Cops wont find out..

Q: okay this will be long so ebar wiht me lol
when iw as in fifth grade it was summer and it was 4:30 in the morning and well the lights were on so i woke up and saw my mom cleaning i asked her wat was rong and she said she would tell us when we woke up i was soo worried. well it turns out my dad had left in the middle of the ngiht to go wiht anotehr woman turns out the woman was my moms best friend i was soo mad at my dad cause it was three days after my birthday he may not no that but i do and i havent said i love u too him scicne then do u think i shuld like get help or something cause sometiems i feel like i dont belong! and id like someoent to talk to this about besides my friends cause they dont no wat im going thru! wat shuld i do? should i confront my parents and tell them i want one or wat?

You can always talk to me. I really care and I'll be glad to help. My email is vsgangstaboo420@yahoo.com and for aim my sn is sherry7pchik.

I'm really sorry about your situation. Thats so sad. You dont need help, your not crazy. You just need someone who will listen...so you can talk to me! Maybe you should call up your dad or write him and tell him how much you were hurt. And because this all happened right before your birthday. Any more questions ask..email me or IM me!