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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can

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wat does it mean to eat someone out? ppl say that to ppl at skool and i would like to know wat it is.

giving a girl oral sex.

two guys tried to rape my gf when we were walking from a party. so i was in a fight with them, i knew it was a stupid move; i was out matched and out numbered, but i had to. well i manage to take one down and the other i guess just give up, but i took a good few hits, my ribs and face is like bruised up, and now my gf feels really bad about it, like it was her fault, how can i make her feel less guilty, and tell her that i dont care about a few hits in exchange for her safty? shes really sad and i that hurts more then any physical injury

talk to her. tell her what you just said in this description(sp) about the safty thing. tell her it wasnt her falt and that your ok.

On my sides are these marks, to be more specific my hips. I'm not sure if this is some sort of part of puberty I didn't learn about or something but it's starting to worry me. By the way I'm not fat, I play sports and I run and everything and I'm a vegetarian.. so I'm pretty skinny. I think maybe my hips are just widening or something, I dont' know, but can anyone tell me what the hell is going on?

i think they are stretch maks even though you are skinny but you may have grown to fast or your hips did. put some vitamin E on it, like aloe and it will make them go away

im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks

i think right now to make her happy is to be with her. give her some support.

17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high

i dont want to sound odd but have you had your period yet? because many people get emotional when they are about to get it. but you also might have depression. i would tell you mom/dad about it and go see a doctor

Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again?

i would say no, it doesnt make you a cutter. i think a cutter is when you do it for a period of time. just be careful

Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f

i think you should just try one more time and if he does something like that, then tell him its over. but its all up to you

Whats a fast results, easy way to lose jiggle in my butt and thighs?

you should run and eat healthy, also you should do squats

Lol ok im bout to go tanning, Like right now out back an I was wondering what like can I use to give me blonde natural highlights without like goin to the salon cause my friend said that some ppl so it that way, And another question is lol how can I get really really dark is it possible to use somethin that will make me dark or how long should i layout to get really dark PLEASE HELPP!!!

to make your own hair stuff that makes your hair blonder is to put lemon juice in your hair or get something in the store. if you want to be dark and not red you should put tanning lotion that is like spf 30 because it gets you tanner slower so you dont get red

Hey, im 5'7" and about 150lbs, my friends dont think that i am fat but i dont know if there lying to me because they dont want to hurt my feelings....So...do you think that sounds overweight or normal??
thanks

you sound perfect.i know im fat but everyone says that im not, and i know that they dont want to hurt my feelings. i mean if you want to just get in shape then you should just eat well and exercise about 3 times a week but you may lose weight by doing that.

16/f Okay, ive known this guy for like ever..he wants me to give him head..i I reallly wanna, but im kinda scared. Like i dk if I should or know. Hes never had it before..so can i still get anything?..plz help!! I rate ALL awnsers 5s!! ;) thx so much!

it sounds like your questioning your answer. to me when someone is questioning the answer they are not ready. i mean you could if you want to but you have to be ready for the consequences(sp).

Does anyone have a music code for the song 'Don't Phunk With my Heart' by 'Black-eyed peas' not the video..just the song.thanks!

Video code provided by Music Video Codes

i think thats what your looking for

I have two best friends, one is more in the "popular range" and I love her to death and I have the best of times when I hang out with her and some of her other friends. My other best friend isn't popular, and doesnt realy like popular people. She always listens to depressing music and acts a little like a slut now. She makes me feel guilty when I hang out with my other best friend. I dont wanna be best friends with her anymore but I dont know how to tell her. Any tips?

i know this may be rude or mean but you can say. 'can you please not say anything about my other friends, if you keep talking about them i dont think i want to be friends with you'

13/f

i feel kind of weird asking this but here is my problem/question:
i have to go to the doctors in a few days because i am going to another country and i need a physical before i leave. i will be swimming a lot were i am going and i want to shave my bikini area....first i want to know does your doctor say anything about shaving that area? and second i got bought nair and it says trim the hair before you use it. do i have to trim it with anything special?

please dont waste your time writing rude responses but if you really do help, then thanks!

usual the doctor wont not say anything but they might. for the nair, all it is, is a hair removal and what it means by trin is to cut it short and then apply it. have fun

What is the difference between being Punk and being Gothic? Is it a style or what? Please explain.

to me punk is music, but it could mean something else.gothic is like wearing all black, like this girl in my school is goth and she said that she burned the bible and it was the best thing ever, so they might not believe in a god. punk i would say it like skater ish but doesnt skate. i would say they are lables

its me AGAIN..anywho..

i kno that they half to pull of the bracets..that doesnt bother me. its the 4 rings in the back around my teeth. do they just pull those out too?

yes they do pull off the four rings in back of your mouth. it didnt hurt for me but it was a little tight so it kind of did.

i think i am way fat. everyone tells me i am skinny, but seirously, i am 5'3" and 112 pounds. my friends think that just cause i m going on a diet, i will be anorexic. help!!!!!!!!!!!!
i give high ratings

your not fat at all.but you can go on a diet if you want to, just dont go to crazy. like you can cut down on sugars and things like that. but dont cut them out all the way or some things may go wrong. you also can exercise more to get more like run, running takes fat off anywhere but you can also get more enderence(sp)not just to lose weight.

hey well i got my period in the middle of march (it was my first one) and i still haven't got another one! is there anythin wrong with me? i know it usually takes a while, but does it take this long? plz help

theres nothing wrong with you. when i got mine i was in 6th grade and in sept. then it stopped and i got it again in feb. my friend got hers in 6th and didnt get it until 8th grade. so it depends

On a typical day I eat one meal. I obsess over food. I weigh myself at least once a day. I lost 35 lbs. in the past 4 months and I have this addiction to losing more and more weight. I don't even like to drink water. I do have OCD and Anxiety. Do you think I could be Anorexic?

yes you are getting to the point where its addicting, your on the road to anorexia.your are at a good weight. you should go get some help before you have a heart attack and die.

hey all music question coming at ya who sings this song " dear jamie" what band thanks

hellogoodbye

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