|
I feel .. different
I have two best friends, one is more in the "popular range" and I love her to death and I have the best of times when I hang out with her and some of her other friends. My other best friend isn't popular, and doesnt realy like popular people. She always listens to depressing music and acts a little like a slut now. She makes me feel guilty when I hang out with my other best friend. I dont wanna be best friends with her anymore but I dont know how to tell her. Any tips?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
ok your right this is a toughy ok ummmmmmmmm!
so the one that aint so popular is startin to bug you does she have like another friend? well talk this over with her tell her that you think you might have made a new best friend and tell her who it is and if she says i dont like her or if your her friend i aint yourz tell her that if she is gonna be like that you dont want her as a friend because i am serious you dont needsome1 like that you need some 1 better than that you seem really nice and i no you dont wanna break her heart but if shes does that she dont deserve some 1 as sweet as you and she aint a good friend i hope i helped you and i hope you get through this ok bye.
]
I still interact with a lot of people I strongly dislike out of habit. And partially because of this im constantly asked by my other friends "how can you hang out with this kind of person" well, I simply tell them that there is plenty of history between the two of us, and that the person is alright. I let them know that I don't expect the two of them to be friends, and that their prejudices shouldn't have to effect my life.
If they can't accept the fact that you lead a different life than them, well.
What can I say? Just gradually drift away, its better not to literally address the problem, just slowly slip away and let it work itself out.
]
If she's as annoying as she sounds, flat out tell her how you feel about her. If she changes her ways for you, stick with her for awhile. If she freaks out, leave her. You'll both get over it sooner or later.
]
slowly start spending less time with her .
id tell her that she was bringing me down and stuff and that unless change was in the forecast of her life... that you might have to be the cloud that rains on her parade cuz youre not into it
]
Just ask her first "Are you jealous when I hang out with [the other girl]?" You'll find that you don't need to tell her that you don't want to be friends with her. You'll maybe start to drift away from eachother. Don't tell her "I don't want to be friends" because she'll be depressed and have a horrible life. Maybe if she calls to ask to hang just pretend that you're busy nad when she realizes that you don't have time for her she'll maybe stop tyring. Or she might get mad. I dunno!!! I don't know your friend so it is hard to tell you what to do!
-I tried
Arielle ♥
]
i know this may be rude or mean but you can say. 'can you please not say anything about my other friends, if you keep talking about them i dont think i want to be friends with you'
]
I had the same problem.......wht my advice is you start hanging more with the popular girl and start acting like a popular grl....if she asks y just say we have a little more in common and say it nicely not something tht will make her upset but dnt worry i did tht and its all worked out now <3
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question: .
| Next Question >>>
|
|