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everytime a boy tries to put his arm around me or something i pull away, im really self conscious about my body, do you think that could be the problem? what can i do that won't make me like just pull away or something? (link)
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well... usually if a guy likes you they won't care about your weight... just don't worry... if you pull away from a guy it would probably hurt his feelings... just let it happen... if the guy thought you were heavy he probably wouldn't put his arm around you in the first place... just lean your head on his shoulder when his arm is around you and make him comfortable... hope this helps
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I jus wanted to say that im IN LOVE w/ my bf and we like have only held hands we've not even actaully gone newhere yet he is REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY hot and i like drool over him!!!! Is this normal? Maddy if u answer this ? i will beet the sh!t out of u!!!!
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its normal... but i hope you don't literally drool over him... i feel the same with my boyfriend... i am getting my first hug from him tomorrow and i am soooo excited... if you move to fast in a relationship then there will be nothing to be excited over... anymore questions about this situation... just drop them in my inbox because i can totally relate to you! happy vday... i can't wait til tomorrow!
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well me and my boyfriend usually chill w. a group of our friends and one of those people liked him but not anymore..i think .. now yesterday i was w. them and me and him were sharing a banket watchin the movie and she looked up with the rudest look ive ever seen!! i really feel uncomfy w. her w. me and him .. idk why shes one f my good friends too. i feel like better that shes jealous ..... ?
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PS. when you hold hands .. do they usually get sweaty? lol (link)
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If your doing a group thing just dont invite her... she probably still has feelings for your boyfriend.. but your boyfriend sounds sweet and trustworthy so he wouldn't like her back... first you should definetly talk to her... as for the holding hands thing... sumtimes they do... but just don't hold too tight and there won't be alot of sweat... hope i helped
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ok theres this one guy at school that i sorta like but i really never se him out of school and he really doesnt liek me like that.
but then theres this other guy hes a grade lower than me and i hang out with him all the time and im starting to like him. should i stop like the guy i go to school with or what? i dont know?! (link)
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well... there is nothing wrong liking a guy younger then you... it sounds like you really don't like the guy at your school... dont ask the younger guy out just yet,,, figure out your feelings first... you might end up not choosing either of them
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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE! (link)
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well if you like him then your going to have to make the first move... it sounds like he is shy... at school just go up to him and start a convo... like hey hows it going? that should brake the ice for him... if you don't like him then you shouldn't try and find out if he likes you... hope i helped
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im 18 and ive been with my bf for almost a year. he doesnt trust me to talk to other guys because for some reason he thinks that im going to flirt w/ them or do something unfaithful... ive blown off so many of my guy friends just to make him happy and now its getting ridiculous. i love him to death so i dont want to break up w/ him. so how can i make him trust me besides just telling him that im not going to do anything bad, because that hasnt worked. please help!!! (link)
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maybe you can hang out with a group of guys and include him with them and then he'll see that he can trust you... and have some alone time together and make him feel special... hope i helped
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Ok me and my BF just broke up and now I really like him..or do I am not sure what the hek my true fellings for him are....do I like Him or not..I dont know, someone please help me! (link)
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If your having mixed feelings... then you don't really like him... i don't think you love him... but i think you have a tiny crush... here are some ways to know if you really like him or not:
1) excited to see him
2) butterflies
3) he has the same feelings for you
4) you can tell him anything
5) always thinking of him
I would say you should move on... there is some1 out there who will make you happier
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How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it? (link)
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WEll... if i were you i would say to them very nicely that... "as nice and sweet as you are to me.. i only see you as a really good friend." I said that to my ex and we're still friends so it worked for me.
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ok sorry if this is kinda long....this is really hard for me to talk about ive never talked about this with anyone other than my aunt...
ok so my 28 year old aunt came and visited me and we are really close...and i was telling her that i think my parents are growing apart...and she said "no offense sweetie, but ive kinda always had a theory that your dad is gay, i mean me and your mom talk and the last time they had sex was when your brother was concieved...10 years ago" and naturally, i did take offense but i didn't tell her...the truth is is that ive always kinda thought the same thing but i haven't told anyone. ive been thinking about it recently because i caught my dad flirting with his boss (who is gay and tells everyone that he is) and my parents haven't spent there last two anniversaries together! my mom was out of state so my dad decided to spend them with his boss!! my dad also uses phrases like "oh my gosh" and "whatever" in a velley girl way...and he is very into fashion...and he is very feminine in everything he does....i mean hes not tall and buff actually quite the opposite...hes about 5'3 and 160 lbs.! I don't know what to do...some of my friends have asked me if hes gay and it really hurts me...but now...im starting to believe them...please help me! What should i do?? should i talk to my mom about this???
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Ill rate for anyone who actually takes my feelings into consideration... (link)
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well... talk to your mom definetly... but not only her... maybe you should talk to your dad too... tell your aunt you were offended... maybe you can go to a guidence couselor if your really having trouble... sry i can't be much help
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ok well i like this kid and i want to be his secret admirer(sp)because i know where his locker is and everything so i want to send nots and give clues to who i am an i was thinking of staarting monday(V-day) is that a good idea??
please dont delete this it means a lot to me (link)
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thats soo cute... just be sure he likes you back so you won't get hurt... you could of started b4 vday and then on vday he would find out who you were... but even though you didn't its still soo sweet... have fun... and good luck
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I think I like this guy, and he called me hot and everything but hes in the grade bollow me. Should I go for it or just forget about him? (link)
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i like a guy whos in a grade younger than me and i am soo happy... go for it... to me... younger guys are soo sweet... it doesn't matter what other people think
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Alright, theres this guy and we were talking and i was like what are you doing this weekend? and he was like nothing.. then he was like you? i was like nothing.. then i was like do you wanna do something this weekend? he was like yeah sure! so we are going to the movies and we are inviting friends and all but.. he seems like his is into me and stuff but on his profile it says "looking for a valentine" i mean hes always like i cant wait to go to the movies so i can hold your hand or i cant wait to go to the movies so i can kiss you and stuff.. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!??! (link)
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i think it means that he is into you.... he sounds sweet so if you like him then go out with him... wait and see what happens at the movies
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There is this guy that i really like. My friends tell me that he likes me too because of the way he acts towards me, and that its obvious that i like him, so i know he knows how i feel about him. But, i just want to come out and tell him how i feel about him, and i want to ask him how he feels about me so i know for sure...but im not sure how to do that with out making it all awkword and all...PLEASE HELP? (link)
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just flirt and drop little hints and than when the conversation is right ... just tell him
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I am in love with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me and is well and truly over me and I know that for a fact, so there is no chance of us getting back together. We're still friends and alot of people know I still have feelings for him and people have told him but I always deny it when he asks me. There is no point in me telling him how I feel because he doesn't want to get back together but he keeps asking me if I still have feelings for him. I want to tell him the truth because I hate lying to him but it might make things uncomfortable. Should I just tell him? (link)
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YOu should probably get over him... but if he ever asks you again just be like "yea, but i don't think you do" and than just take it from there... sry i am not much help... but it would be great if you told him the truth
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My best friend is moveing to new york and she said she would call me when she gets there it has been 2 weeks and i have heard no phone call ... i dont know if she is there or not or she just forgot. i dont want our friendship to end. please help me.
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does she have AIM or e - mail... i no this is a tough time for you... i live in NY and my best friend lives in Florida... she's been gone for about 4 years now.... and i cried everyday for the first day because we did practically everything together... and even though we aren't as close as be4 , we're managing to still be great friends and she is suppose to come and visit me in the summer... don't worry... if you guys are true friends... you'll stay friends
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There is this guy.. lets call him K.. well me and K have known each other and been friends for ever because my mom and his mom were friends since elementary school.. well me and K are like brother and sister but the thing is i really really like him but i dont kno how to show it.This year we have gotten closer than ever. i can tell him anything. any ways hes comming over to my house later and the thing is every time we hang out we go with all these other guys because im not a prep or anything im known as "one of the guys" how do i let him kno that i like him with out every one else finding out (link)
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maybe you can ask him to come over like 15 minutes earlier than everyone else and tell him then.... this will give you two a chance to be alone and you can tell him how you feel... than just don't mention it when all the guys are around... but if your not to sure that he has feelings for you than wait until the right time... if you tell him.. make him promise not to tell anyone else
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*SORRY THIS IS REALLLY LONG, BUT I NEED YOUR HELP*
okay so , ever since the beginning of school there was this guy that I liked, Rob. Hes really cute and everything, hes a freshman and im a sophomore. Well. I never did anything about it because well, Rob seemed as if he were out of my league. and he never paid attention to me. Well I know his mom because his mom works at the school and i have 2 classes with her. So what happens is, last week. I go to lunch and my friend has bible study with robs mom....my friend told me that Robs mom said that Rob has been trying to talk to me for the longest time and everytime he gets a chance,I walk away by accident...So I didnt believe it at first, but then my friend goes, and she works at a resturaunt, and Rob went to the resturaunt alone...So since he went alone, my friend had a waitress friend of hers go talk to him so she goes up to him and askes "Do you know a girl named Kelly" and he goes "Yeah" and she goes" Do you think shes hot" and he goes " I think shes pretty, shes not ugly" and she asked a bunch of questions...so it ended up that he was supposed to talk to me the next day at lunch, I knew he wasnt going to , so my friend was like * FINE im gonna go talk to him* and im like * FINE i dare you* i didnt think she would...but she did...and i dont know WHAT she said, but i deicided to try to be unnoticable, but she pointed right at me when i was sitting on the cafeteria floor... well i got home, and i asked my this friend of mine Justin, who also knows Rob...for Robs sn...he gives it to me, and i told him to keep it all on the downlow that i asked for it...then he goes "lol do you know who he likes" and I was like " no who" and he goes " I donno 0:)* and he puts the angel face, and everytime i asked him ... he put the angel face. WELL then I go onto my myspace, and i see that Rob commented on my page and he says "Heyy this is Rob. Whats up? Oh, and your friend, really did ask me those questions just so you know...oh can i have your sn if you have one, comment back on my page and give it to me byee* and so i was like * woooowwww he asked for my screen name* but yeah, then i talked to him twice already online...and hes extremley nice, and well the second time i talked to him , we were talking about Napoleon Dynamite, and randomley he goes * so are you going to the dance* and the dance is on the 26th...and i was like * neh , who knows, I dont really wanna go if i dont have anyone to go with you know? If not, then im just plannin on going to the movies that night or something who knows :-)* and i was like what about you? and he goes * idk i might not sure yet* and so i was like * ooo cool* and then i told him that i saw him at the other dance with his ex, and he tells me how much he hates his ex now and he asked me if i had any x's and i go * nope* and he goes * oh you dont? Im sorry* and im like * nah its fine, ive had my chances blah blah blah * and then he goes * so im guessing youve never done anything with a guy...or have you* and i go * nah i havnt lol, id rather have a guy who likes me for who i am, rather than for what i do* and he says * good choice* and then he had to leave, but, yeah, me and him dont talk at school i guess its cuz were shy , but i mean... why would his mom say * hes been trying to talk to her for a while* you know? I dont know, do you think hes interested in me...do you thimk he likes me? or what....OH and I asked Justin if Rob liked a freshman and he said * yeah he likes a freshman girl* so me being a sophomore..its not me...and then Rob goes and tells me that Justin is dumb and that I shouldnt talk to him and i asked if he lies and he said * ummmmm yeahh* and i go *even when it comes to keeping friends secrets?* and he goes * yup* and so I dont know...what do you think?! HELP!!!
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wow.... i think he likes you... ask him to the dance... don't listen to his friend... follow your heart and your desicion will be right... even if it doesn't work out... atleast you had a date... if i were you i would ask him if he likes you online since you two are both shy towards eachother in school... maybe you should talk to him in person first though
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*All my friends say I'm cute, but I think I'm ugly. They've all had boyfriends and I haven't. I'm 13 and in 7th grade, I've never been kissed or anything my little 11 year old brother already had his first kiss and he was making-out with the girl. I don't know what to do. I sort of guess I'm just ugly. But I can't take it. What can I do? It's tearing me apart it makes me feel unwanted.* (link)
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aww... don't worry... the right guy will come along and you'll be really happy... maybe try and be more outgoing around guys so this way they won't care about your looks and they will care about how sweet you are
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OK here's the deal... me and my two best friends, Julie and Jaimee we had this whole lil group thing going and we all put in our whole personality thing into it... so0o we decided ok we'll invite this other girl Kourtney into it... so kourtney she is the more sluttier of all of us and she has her way wit guyz... no offense to her... so0o Julie has been gettin really close wit Kourt and basically she is turning into Kourt.... she never was slutty AT ALL omfg... u have no clue.... but all of a sudden i mean it's like we have another Kourtney on our hands... I have nothing against Kourtney but I mean you can only have one Kourt... I miss the old Julie...the one that I knew... and I have no idea how to get her back....she's basically being a "pimpette" right now... handling two guyz at once... BOTH of which she doesn't even like... the old Julie would never EVER do this... how do I get her to realize that she's turning into Kourtney and how do I get the old Julie back?? thanks in advance... (link)
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hang out with her alone... talk to her about it... if your making plans for the night with your "group" don't invite kourtney... and if julie asks where's kourtney just be like well shoud couldn't come. Also, maybe find a new person to bring into the group who is not a slut at all... this way julie can be friends with her maybe turn back into the old julie
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my boyfriend spends a lot of time with me at my house, but the problem is that i have a lot of siblings (they are close to my age, not much younger) and he always talks to them. he'll just disappear and hangout with them more and it feels like hes ignoring me. i dont really want to talk to him about it cuz i told him i wanted him to get along with my family so i dont want to be a hypocrite.. what should i do and is there any way that i should just deal with it? (link)
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Maybe you can ask your parents to take your siblings to the movies one night so that way you 2 can be alone and than when they come back you'll just have to deal with it... or you can go over his house one time instead of yours.
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