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I'm mature for my age.
i love helping people out.
when i grow up i want to go into the medical field, preferably a dietitian/nutritionist or veterinary medicine. so bring on the diet/food questions! i try to get on here as much as i can. & i H@Te Wh3N Pe0pLe TyP3 LyK3 d1s. or don't use proper grammar and spell simple stuff wrong. but i don't always either, so I'll forgive you & still answer your Q =]
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Well my bf is coming over next tuesday and i told him to bring some scary movies.He couldn't make it to the movies last time we were mean't to go out and i was expecting to kiss him then so no i want to kiss him this time.This will be our first kiss and mine first ever kiss so my question is should i make the first move or should he and what else should i do.My parents won't be there..
Thanx (link)
let the guy make the first move.
and don't force or pressure it, it will come when the time is right. and you'll know when that is.

hope i helped =]
Jess


how do you put a google image as a backround/desktop on your computer? (link)
two ways =]

1 - right click on the picture and select "set as desktop background"

or

2 - save it to your computer. open control panel. then click appearence and themes. then click change the desktop background. then click browse and go into your photos and select it. with this choice you can choose full screen, centered, or tiled. unlike the first way.


hope i helped =]


i feel like my hair is so flat. i want my hair to be straight but how do you get it not so flat? i have thick hair. is their a certain way to straighten it?thankss (link)
try putting mouse on the roots of your hair.
and when you straighten your hair do it in sections. put all of your hair up except for whats on your neck, straighten it. and let down some more hair and straighten that and repeat untill you've gotten to to the top of your head.

also blowdrying your hair when you head is upside down makes your hair have more volume.


hope i helped =]
Jess


Would doing pilates for 20 minutes a day in the core area help trim fat and inches off of my waistline, belly, and, hips? (link)
yes


Does anyone know if the 4th season of Greys Anatomy was completly ended because of the writers strike? And if there will every be another season again? ugh im obsessed with the show and im pissed about the stupid wtriters strike. I need answers! THANKS! (link)
i think i heard on the news last night that the writers strike might end soon.
and when they start writing again im pretty sure that they are going to pick up where they left off.

hope i helped :)


The other night i was at rehersal for a ceremony. there were about 125 of us on stage, sitting in chairs. The person that i have a crush on was sitting in my row, about five seats apart. There was people in between us, so we weren't close, who know's if my crush had seen that i was there. One of the announcers was going from the list of names, taking attendence. I looked over at my crush, they were pretty spaced out, reading the program not paying much attention (it was bland and boreing at the time.) I wasn't looking at my crush anymore, but when the speaker called my name, I saw my crush suddenly, as if impulsively i geuss, look up, right upon hearing my name called, and quickly look around. It all happened really fast. It surprised me that he would react that way to hearing my name. We do not really know each other very well, so i it defenitly puzzled me. Am i reading to much into this? does it mean anything? I know that it is possible to read people's body language, could i in this situation, or do you think it's completely random? If anyone has any thoughts on the situation, I would appreciate them. Thank you. (link)
well it sounds like your name caught his attention. or either your name is a really original name like Spontaneous or Laquishianaerepa. haha. um yeah.

try talking to him some :)
like if he has a myspace/facebook
or aim.

and then you guys will like start talking in person.

good luckk :)


ok so me and my boyfriend want to have sex. im 15/f. don't tell me i'm too young or not ready, because i know i am ready. but im just really really worried about getting pregnant. he said that we could do anal sex so i would have a lesser chance of getting pregnant.. so if anybody has had an experiance with that..?? and also, he said he would wear 2 condems, would that make it safer? thanks so much (link)
2 condoms.
no.
that doesnt make it safer.

and anal. idk. im not the person to really answer that one.


Heyy i always puta bit of maybelline matte mousse foundation on my lips to make a sort of 'nude/pink' colour but it always like gathers in flakes

i put lip balm beneath it to stop them from becoming dry but it kinda clumps it up and i get like gatherings of something inthe corner of my mouth.

Is there any way to do this properly or any products that create the same effect?

I also have a nice light pink lipstick by barry M but its always gone an hour or 2 later.. i want smooth luscious lips =]

xxx (link)
pretty much any lip balm/stick/gloss isn't going to stay on for longer than two hours.
but the matte mousse on your lips? i think a liquid foundation would work better on them.

my favorite lip gloss is c.o. bigellow in the color 1138 at bath and body works.
it tastes minty and gives your lips a light shade.


hope i helped :)
Jess


I need serious help
Im always sad and i havent stopped crying in like 3 weeks
i have thought of suicide alot before
and im thinking of it agian
there is so much stress in my life right now
i feel worthless
useless
unloved
lonely
and incredibly empty
im missing something in my life
and i dont know what it is
im afraid of myself because of my constant upsetting thoughts
i keep having horrible nightmares and i cant stop thinking that i have no future
i dont know what to do
my parents dont seem to care
and they made everything worse when i told them how i felt
please help me
im desperate and really afraid
(link)
i'd say you probably would need some professional help.
therapy or anti-depressants.
talk to your parents about going to a psycologist some time soon.
but it really helps to talk to somebody.
so if you ever want somebody to talk to contact me through email, IM, or myspace.

hope i helped :)
Jess

jessipaige1@gmail.com
xoxgorjess
www.myspace.com/lovemeex3


my music is getting really old.
im really into taylor swift and colbie caillat. i really like the upbeat country ya know like carrie underwood and kellie pickler, i kinda like paramore but no emo screamish techno stuff. any ideas? (link)
yess.
i love this website.
you can make an account for free and type in songs and bands you like and it will find music similar to the stuff you like. i have found lots of cool bands from it. and it lets you listen to the songs and judge if you like them or not. go check it out cause i can't explain all the coolness.

www.pandora.com

hope i helped :)
Jess


im a red head and chalky pale and i want to get a fake tan but if i cant tan is a tan in a tanning bed even possible for me??? (link)
um you'll probably burn.
i'd recomend jergens lotion with the bronzer stuff in it that will make you tanner.
start out light and then get darker as you go along.
but it IS winter and its kinda weird when people get tan all of the sudden in december.
but i understand where you are coming from :)

hope i helped :)
Jess


does anyone know these lyrics like i cant think of the song all i can remember is its a guy singing and there like "you and i had something but" and then another part was like " i had my intentions" and thats all i can remember hahaha does anyone know what this might be? (link)
www.songtapper.com
and
www.letssingit.com

those both sites are GREAT.

hope i helped :)
Jess


I need help on losing weight. (healthy ways)

What should i do? (link)
exercise. cardio and muscle building. muscle burns fat.
cut down on at least 500 calories a day.
on average you should loose 2 pounds a week which is healthy and you will have more of a chance of keeping the weight off compared to a fad diet.

hope i helped :)
IM me at xoxgorjess if you have any questions.
Jess


There are casting directors coming to my town from the Disney Channel show and from the people of Transformers. Me and my friend made an appointment and they just said we're going to read a short script on camera. But this girl at school said they just want your money (the lady didn't mention money on the phone). I'm not sure. I still want to go, but are they really going to do that? (link)
most of the time they do just want your money.
they will tell you you are good and you should get a portfolio which is around 2K.
but you can still go and check it out. they might not do that, but most of them do. but if they do ask for money don't give them any no matter what they say.

hope i helped :)
Jess


im thinking of selling my guitar. My Mum spent a fortune on it, about £200+ ($400+) and i dont even play it. The problem is, i dont know how and where to sell it. I want to make the money back, and maybe even a profit, but i think thats pretty unrealistic as its second hand. i cant find it anywhere on the net, so i cant find an average price. its a vintage metal axxe, mostly glossy black, but yellow aswell.Those shops that buy things off you to sell, like a pawn shop just rip people off so i dont want to do that. any help? (link)
craigslist.com is a good site. you can post things up for sale and people in your area find you so you don't have to ship it and stuff.

hope i helped :)


so what is the difference between oral and anal sex?? thankss (link)
oral, mouth.
anal, butt.


I have 2 questions about facebook

Like myspace where there is an Online picture, is there a way to tell if your friends are on?

And also, is there anyway to see page views like you can on myspace? (link)
yeah.
if you are online on facebook kinda under your picture it will say "this user is currently online" or something along those lines.
but it doesnt flash and stuff like the myspace one.
i just noticed it yesterday :)


14/f/freshman

i've been bulimic for a year. i think it's really messing with me. there was a period of time a few weeks ago when i stopped for like a week and a half. no joke i felt like a different person. i had energy and was less blah and seemed happier but then i i got back to my normal bulimic self after that week because i wasn't so busy. thats the only time i ever actually stopped. in a weird way i missed it, even though it was only a week. like it's normal for me i don't eat breakfast, lunch, and when i eat i throw some if not all up. i don't know how to stop or even if i want to. i can't eat in front of some people either..i can't help but feel bad when i eat or think that people are thinking i'm fat when i eat. i'm 5'6 and 122 pounds. my goal is 110. kay so should i get help even if i don't want it? what are the pros and cons? what exactly can docters or whatever do to treat it? i don't know what to do, the bulimia has become a part of me, only one person has found out and i didn't tell them. nothing bad has come from being this way except my mind was less cloudy and i have less energy. please give me some advice on anything :]
thank you (link)
we are learning about this stuff in health class right now.
and its really bad.
it can cause heart disease and a bunch of really bad stuff like that.
you need to get help tell someone you trust and they will help you.
professional help is probably the best.

for more info just IM me at xoxgorjess

hope i helped :)
Jess


http://cr.maxim.com/3501-4000/3563_lindsay-lohan-gm_l1.jpg

how long do you think her hair is?
bc mine is like 3 inches past my shoulders and would like to get my hair cut like hers when its long enough... thanksss!!! (link)
you could do that with the length of hair you have now. you just need to put layers in.
but to style it like she has hers. it looks simple but it probably required a lot of time to get the volume it has.

hope i helped :)
Jess


I have Adobe Photoshop Album Started Edition 3.0



does this have a tool where you can make your teeth whiter, blemish remover, etc


PLEASE HELP! (link)
i don't think so.
the album starter edition is i think for just storing pictures and simple stuff.
you need adobe photoshop elements to do all that good stuff.

hope i helped :)
Jess




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