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i have 2 questions, and i would like honest answers!
What do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13. Had 2 other bfs at 14, cheated on the last 1 with a guy she hardly knew the 2nd day they hung out? (the guy was 17) they are still together.

What do you consider a guy that has sex with a girl he barely knows the 2nd night knowing she has a bf??

i rate 5s for intelligent answers!!! (link)
Hmmm...I think I might know you because that is going on right now in my life! WIERD!! Well anyway I think that that girl needs to think about what she's doing and she that it's stupid and I';m not sayign she can't ahve sex, but find one guy...that's near her age..and use protection. Most liekly the girl you're referring to has probably ruined her reputation...but she can fix it if she sticks with one guy...a decent guy! Well I hope helped..good luck. and if you need any more help drop one in my inbox! ♥ caitie


Well i have to do a project for my government class in school and i have to get other peoples opinions. I'd really appreciate it if you guys could give me your opinions!

My question is: What is your interpretation of this quote and how do you think this quote applies to responsible citizenship?

"My fellow americans, ask not what your country can do for you-ask what you can do for your country"

THANKS SOO MUCH IN ADVANCE!! (link)
I think it means that you are responsible for how your country is run...your opinion counts for alot. I think in order to be a responsible citizen you have to participate in stating your opinion on how you think your country should be run. Hope I helped...good luck hope you get an A+!! ♥ caitie


I am a sophmore and it is so hard for me to try to concentrate when I am trying to study. I don't play music or look at tv. I just can't get into it. If I do read it, I don't remember it. Can someone please help me? Maybe I have a learing disorder at home. I don't know what to do, can you help asap? (link)
Ok....i heard that sucking on something liek a mint while studying or taking a test helps you concentrate! hopefully that will work..good lukc! ♥ caitie


I really messed up something with my two friends. My friend Caleb is a junior. He recently started dating Katie, an eighth grader. I was at her house playing basketball with them and her little sister. At one point they just started kissing a lot. Later he told me they were going out. So today, my friend Charlie said something like "Are Katie and Bledsoe going out?". I was like "No, she's going out with Caleb isn't she?". I left after that. Apparently, Caleb was trying to keep their relationship secret. Whoops. Charlie told Caleb that I was making up stuff about him. Caleb kept denying that anything was going on. I honestly didn't know they were keeping it secret. They were making out in their driveway. They were making out in front of her little sister. How was I supposed to know? I just need to find a way to explain all of this to Caleb and Katie. They're both really good friends of mine. I haven't even talked to either of them since.

If you need more information or something, IM me at ACWNS09@aol.com or ACWR09@aol.com. (link)
Ok..wow that really sucks! First, thanks for asking me! What I think you should do is first is explain to Caleb, because guys are more forgiving. Let him know that you didnt know it was a secret honestly, and you didn't mean to be the one to get it out in the open..it was realy a big mistake...and I don't want you to be mad at me anymore! basically just tell him that it was an accident and explain everything that happened. Next, go to Katie and tell her the same thing...going to her 2nd gives her more time to cool off, beacsue we all know how girls are lol! I also think it's messed up that they're mad at you when they clearly didn't tell you that it was a secret relationship..but I'm sure once they know everything..they'll understand. Good luck...and keep the questions coming! ♥ caitie


i know this is asked a LOT but..
i like this guy. by these few things, does he like me do you think?
-he whispers "(my name) is such a slut!" so i can hear it then im like yur cool nd he smiles
-he was lying down nd i layed on him nd he was like just talking to me nd smelling my hair nd putting his finger near my face..lol it was cute thou
-he wanted to c if i could bite him so hes like walking his hands down my face nd feeling my lips
-he was on the computer nd my other friend was on a computer rite next to him, i was in the middle reading both ;). well he IMs "(my name) is a whore" nd stuff like like nd im laughing or wutever
-he was playing football with everyone nd he goes "come on (my name) tackle me!" (so i did hahaha, i was the only one that could, was he being easy on me..?)
-i sat next to him on the couch nd he goes "eww i dont want to sit next to (my name)" nd i just ignore it while he puts a pillow between us. then he goes "im just kidding u kno that right?"
-my friend who he was IMing next to me, she said "i think he likes you!"


do u think..?

ps-ill rate 5's for EVERYTHING thats not smart a**! cause this was long! (link)
Yes, I think he definitly likes you. He jokes around as if he doesn't liek you..and that's translation for guy flirting. And the whole in the bed with the biting thing sounds so cute and usually ppl who are "just" friends don't do that..so ya most def. he likes you! Hope I helped! ♥ caiite


what does it mean to "feel someone up"? (link)
It meeans to touch liek idk their "private parts" i guess you could say. Like boobs, butt, penis....it's normally done with clothes on while making out. Hope I helped! ♥ caitie


What are some good tips to really turn my boyfriend on while we're making out?? (link)
Nibble on his ear a little...the nerves in guy's ears are directly connected to the ones in their pernis...it feels awesome to them! Hope I helped! ♥ caitie


my moms bday is on friday and i was going to make her a CD. does anybody know any good songs?! i want good country music thats momish (haha) or variety.. love.sad.slow.variety.classic anything moms would like! thanks (link)
Well i dont know bout your mama...but mine loves Elvis so prety much anyhting by him or...I Feel Like A Woman by Shania Twain. Happy B-day to your momz! ♥ caitie


What good *recent* scary movies have come out on DVD? (link)
1. The Amityville Horror
2. The Ring 2
3. House of Wax
Umm that's all I can think of 4 now...but i know alot of good scary movies they're just not BRAND new....go to my inbox if you'd liek to know! Hope I helped ♥ caitie


ok my guy friend was over a few weeks ago and we like open mouth kissed for about a minute and he did stick his tounge in my mouth and i stuck mine in his and he rubbed me "down there"(but i was wearing pants). people asked me if i made out with him and i just dont answer but hes telling people that he didnt make out with me it was just a kiss..... what was it? (link)
That was definitly making out....maybe he feels uncomfotable about it and that's whyb he's lying! Confront him on it, just say so what that wasn't making out..and if he's sais no joke around and say well...is this...nd srat making out with him! Good luck! Hope I helped ♥


what POSITIVE effects come from birthcontrol? i heard it lightens your period and helps you lose weight. can you take it even if your not/dont think you are pregnant? (link)
hah funny..I just answered a question saying it doesn't make you lose weight..it makes you gain weight actually..but yes it does lighten your period and it also reduces the intensity of cramps. Yes, you can take for other things besides hirth control..for ex. if you have an irregualr period..it can make it regualr..or it can be used to lighten your flow..or to reduce cramps. Hope I helped! ♥ caitie


does birthcontrol help you to lose weight?
like my friend jus said he thinks im on birth control because im really skinny.

im not on birth control i was just wondering. (link)
No, actually it makes you gain weight..sometimes. It's a side-effect, I've never heard of people losing wieght unless ofcourse it alters their appitite..but normally..no it doesnt! Hope I helped! ♥ caitie


alright guys. well. tonight i think i'm going to the movies with my boyfriend. and he wants to see into the blue. you know the one with jessica alba and the REALLY hott guy with the nice 6pack abs? alright. well the problem is that if we go i know the whole time he'll be like in his head thinking goddamn she's so fine blahblah about jessica alba. but i'm not like that when i'm with him. and i bet that later on he'd tell me how hot she looked in different sceens and stuff. so i'm like... well i'll see if i can go to that one even though i really don't want to.

i really don't think thats a "couples" movie.
thats like. horny guy alone. do you agree?

and if like you were me (if you're a girl) would it bother you that like he'll talk about that stuff after the movie, when he know's that you wont talk about how hot the guys is?

please help as soon as you can. (link)
Well I just saw that with my 2 friends and one came with her bf anf it wasnt akward at all...it's a really good movie...but i'll admit they do a couple close ups on Jessica's ass...but your bf will probably be worried about you thinkin, "damn, Paul Walker is hott!" (cuz he like never has a shirt on :) ) Honestly I say just go see it because..guys or girls can't help but have some eye candy..it doesn't need to be an actress it could be another girl at your school..it's just gonna happen, you can't avoid it sorry! I wouldn't base what you do on whether your bf is gonna be thinking about another girl..if he wanted soemone else he wouldn;t be with you..but obviously your his main interest right now! And if my bf started talking about how hott some other girl is..I'd be really pissed..but if he's talkin bout an actress it's no big deal..because they're made up to look gorgeous and it's not liek their any competition! But, if he obsesses about her,,I would tell him to stfu lol! Well hope i hope helped and good luck! ♥ caitie


I realize that this is a question asked millions of times per day and that I normally skip over questions like these. Please don't do that here. There's this guy in one of my classes, and I like him. Since the beginning of the year, he's been emphasising the traits that we have in common. For example, I am an unuually loud and outgoing person. He has become loud and seems really confident. Plus he has style and is so cute. He's funny and makes me smile. Lately, he's been walking 1/2way to my next class with me and today his arm was around me for like a long time. I haven't really had any experience with guys, but I am in high school, and so is he. Do you think that he's being friendly, or that he likes me? Thanks for not disregarding this question, and I will rate well for genuine advice! (link)
Well if you see him like this will a bunch of girls then he's most likely a big flirt..but if not them i think he definitly likes you! Even flirts don't walk people to their classes..so that's def. a good sign! I say flirt back and you guys will probably go otu soon1 Good Luck! ♥ caitie


if u were going to have sex but were a condom how could u still get pregnant of a disease? (link)
Sometimes the condom will break from all the friction, or even sometimes freaks put holes in com=ndoms for fun! Ya wierd right..i recommend using a condom and th epill though for extra protection aginst pregnancy..although the pill doesn't protect you from diseases! hope i helped! ♥ caitie


how do you change the bg/font color on aol instant mess. ? (link)
Type "preferences" in the URL and it will take you to a setting menu..in abc order...scroll down to F an dclick on font and text..the rest is sel-explanatory! Hope i helped! ♥ caitie


i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong (link)
No theres nothing wrong with that it's just your hormones....but just because your curious don't go grab the first hott guy you see and be like hey let's f***! lol! You might want it...but you might not be ready..i'm not saying you're too young or you're not ready I'm just saying do it when you ARE ready! If you have any questions about sex or anything you can im me at angleyezxo21xo...well i hope i helped and good luck! ♥


i dont know what to be for halloween
last year i was a hooker hahah..this year im in highschool and i wanna be something like i was last year but idk really....any ideas of what i could be w/ a friend haha even tho u dont know me... (link)
You could be a sexy cowgirl..like go bust a corsette and wear a jean skirt with cowgirl boots and buy a pink cowgirl hat....I was gonna be that last year..but me friends did it and it was really cute! Happy Halloween! ♥ caitie


sry if this is long but ok so like the thing is my parents got divoreced 3 years ago and now i have a step bro and step sis. All of a sudden i think i am to fat even though i no i am way skinny and i want to become belimic. Also i just dont see a point in living i mean u always go to school and work what is the point in it? please help me what should i do? (link)
Ok, I understand how you feeli about the same old thing everyday..sometimes I feel that way, but you should try making a plan with your friends to do something every weekend that way you have soemthing to look forward too... Really you shouldn't become belimic...it's so0o0o unhealthy and feeling depressed isn't a good reason to do that! If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here..just im me at angleyezxo21xo! good luck! ♥


does anyone know what it means to be "idle" on aim? i'm totally confused by that! lol thanks... (link)
It;s when you've been away from the computet for a while..like your still. Hope i helped! ♥ caitie




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