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Hello There!Erm where do I start?Well, my name is Vikki-Kimberly =)Im a good person. I dont bite =)I give people thousands of chances.I like to eat healthy... and... I have advice on practicly anything.I am in acting/signing/dancing groups.Yeah... Im just... easy to talk to. =)

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okay so ive been working out really hard trying to lose this last 5 pounds and today i had a splurgee day. im so mad at myself for it!! for breakfast i had some heatlhy eggs and oatmeal but for lunch i had a 10 piece mcnugget with french fries and then for a snack i had 2 donuts at work which they ALWAYS have the best ones.. its my weakness. and then i had for dinner 2 double hamburgers from burger king and a large fry from mcDees!!!! and then later tonight i had tortilla chips and cheese dip, 2 deliciouss muffins (im not sure from where or who they were by but a lot of calories i bet, but they were GOOODD) and then i just got one of those hershey "BK pies" from burger king!! ya SPLURGEE day. am i going to gain a shitload of weight tonight?! i feel like shit i want to go puke it all up because i worked sooo hard to lose 10 pounds i dont want to set myself back another week because of today!??! am i going to gain weight from today? tell me what to do im goin crazzayy

no do not resort to puking it up! it dont help your health.. which wont help you loose weight int he future!
and dont worry everyone has their "off days" from diets =) even celebs do!
if its really bothering you... get down and do sit ups till your tummy hurts liek a b.i! hehe
Um i cant really answer if your going to gain weight or not from it but you probally would... and im assuming that out of the things the boddy does.. itll dfo stay if you dont work it off. but i wouldnt thing youd gain that much =)
dont worry hun! youll get there!

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ok so im not exactly tall. I'm 16 and some 8th graders are taller then me :/ but then again they are really tall for their age.
erm so like what can i do to appear taller?
i know that i should have a good posture, but i mean how can i DRESS to appear tall? i already wear skinny jeans. my weight is normal, i dont have any fat dangling or anything like that :P

hey! um wear long tops with the skinny jeans... the seem to be in fashion right now so go for it!.. well there in fashion over here in the UK lol!
um baggy trousers look good with tight toops and make you look taller sometimes =).
Obviously heels will make you look taller aswell or shoes tht have a raise in them.. but are you propared to walk in them all day! lol
um and i think liek the big hairstyle make you look taller... for example... curls in your ponytail instead of just natural? maybe a big messy bun? i dunno expiriment with your hair and see if you look taller =)

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This is dumb, but how are you supposed to wear lipstick?

Do you put something on your lips first, like a chapstick? I was thinking of doing that with some spf chapstick before i put on lipstick

Do you need lipliner? what does lipliner do...ive never understood

do you cover the lipstick with a gloss??

PLEASE dont tell me to experiment, that is so not what i need just TELL ME exactly what to do and what you do or would do

well everyone has there different styles
so depending on what kinda look your going for.. youd do different things =)
personally i put some vaseline on my lips first and then the lipstick...
or the lipstick then the vaseline.. depends if i wanta shiny look or now =)
you can clover lipstick with gloss if you want... jsu be aware the colours will mix and may change the colour.. and obviously that gloos is shony and lipstick isnt
you dont need lipliner.. it6 just defines and brings out you lips more... to be honest i find lipliner a pain!

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how do make my girlfriend feel special

this is a really cute question!
-take her out
-hug her and tell her you love her... (when its done totally randomly its totallly cute!)
-call her beutiful
=)
-have a song that symblises your realtionship.. =) for example mine n my (unfortunatly) ex bf's song was angel by robbie williams =)
Just let her know your always gonna be there for her =) and shes more than you could ever want =D
inbox me if youe want any details?

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ok im baleemic and im boy friend is worried and my friends are to...
my boy friend is threatening to dump me...
they keep telling me to go to the hospital but i dont think i need to i dont see what the big prob is... its my life should i do what they say or just say f***k it and go on with what im doing???

Bulimia is a really concerning problem that you need to get sorted! i agree wit your friends! go and see a dcotor.. you can do damage to yourself!
which obviously you wouldnt see becuase you actualyl do it.
do what they say, for you health and your friendships!

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what does being eaten out feel like? my boyfriend wants to do it to me so i kinda want to know what to expect and what should i do while he's doing it?

Its Relly Nice =).
It Feels A Bit Like Fingering Sometimes... Um obviously its wet... so yeh
jus generally like you would in other "stuff" same princaples =D

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Hey all, Im 15/f. And my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year. He messaged me on myspace and said i am to obessive. even though he and never talk. Im very sonfused, he didnt break up with me, but i felt horrible after and now i am trying to back off, amd not talk as much. He called me later that night and said he was sorry that we got in a fight.. but now he is hardly talking to me.. Iddk what to do. Any advice?
Thanks in advance

i agree with the first commenter =)
um i know its hard! buh yeh give him his space... and if hes right for you hell come running back!
It might be hard it might be easy.. but yeh give him his space.
Put yourself in his position... having someone "cling" onto him... and too attatched. ever had that happen to you? its not always nice.
Um if hes hardly talkin to you now i would either
-send him a text saying "are we ok? =[ " or "im sorry kinda text"..
OR
- siriously jus let him come and talk to me =) leave it. but just dont go and flirt with any other guys! stay loyal to your man! =D

And Hun... he called back and said sorry... hes obviously got a little bit of decency =)

good luck!

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hey everyone, i am 14/f and i have had a bad reputation because i was emo/scene. I am now preppy, but i stil hold that bad rep, any advice on how i could get rid off that and become someone people like?

i went through that kinda thing... altho i neer labelsd myself
to be honest.. people will notice the changes... so you wont have to =)
just go with the flow and be yourelf =)

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so, I have this plain yellow t-shirt, and the thing is that it's slightly see through, so on the back you can see my bra.
I was just wondering whether I should wear a white or a yellow bra underneath it? I don't own a nude one...
So yes, which would be better?
Sorry for the weird question.

first of all your askin us when we have no idea how see through or what shade of yellow the yellow bra is hehe
to be honest i would try them both on with the top and judge for yourself in the mirror =)
although by imagining it in my head i would go with the yellow one (Y)
=D

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Ok, so my cheerleading season ended for this year and I really want my toe touch to look good for next season which starts in like December so I have about 8 months to improve my toe touch. This is what I really need. I want to get my legs up higher, roll my hips (which I have no idea what that means so if someone could explain it that would be great :D), get my legs straighter, and get good hight in my toe touch. So if someone could please answer this question I would so totally appreciate it :D. Thanks

ive been doing the exactly same thing as you for ages =)remember keep your chest up when doing a toe touch..-point you toes and try to get you legs as far out as possible!-obviously keep splitiing =)... espesially box... and jus sit there in a toe touch position... back stright and everything itll help you posture.. which will help your height =)-generally practise practise practise! the more you jump the better youll get!-make your motions sharp and dont punch out.. it can throw you off a bit.- my squad used to lift us up when we jump (for example, id hold onto you waist and help bring you up when you jump).. its the same kind of height priniple as a trampoline.. but you dont bounce! hehe- dont hold your breath hile jumping... my coach always tells us off for that although im nto sure why.. so yeah dont hold your breath! =D-more practise
-more practis
oh anda lil bit more practise =)
and you totally have a legendary jump =)

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I'm 17 and I've had sex for the first time about two months ago and I didn't bleed at all, one of my friends told me it might be because my "cherry" wasn't popped. Is this normal, even though it really hurt? Since then I've had sex two more times and still no bleeding, but it still hurts a lot upon penetration, is my boyfriend doing something wrong? Or should i not worry?

i agree with the person hu adviced before me =)
my mates had this worry but its absolutly fine =)
it could have been because of any sports you play?
riding horses dow it tooo (thats why "in the olden days" girls used to side sadle)
and if you ever used a tampon?
or fingerd yourself?
If that helps clear up any confusion =)
but yeh dont worry about it =)

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oKAY, i LOVE TO WEAR CUTE, COMFORTABLE HOODIES. I like to have namebrand hoodies too, sometimes. (it doesnt really matter to me.) anyways I was wondering if anyone can give me a site of nice (namebrand) hoodies that not everybody is wearing. I dont want some answer like aeropostle ambicrobian fitch, hollister, or american eagle. I'm also not the girly girly type that wants something pink with hearts all over it. I would probably NEVER wear that to school. I do like cute things though. lol. I'm a female by the way.

roxy.punkyfish.mckenzie.

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so in one of my classes i have to make a poster of a big event from the 1960s-1980s. i would like to do something like a mass murderer but the only people that i can really find anything about is ted bundy and charles manson. i wanna do someone that many people dont know about.

another topic i would like to do is like american gangsters; al capone was 1930s.

can anyone tell me someone that was just like al capone or any kind of gang massacres in the 1960s. or some other mass murderer deal. it would be a HUGE help.

hmm i dunno if your in england or whereever but in UK there was a guy called "Jack the ripper" he used to rip girls hearts out n tht (N) =( very graphic but it kuite intresting to write about

um and technikly adolf hitler was a masss murderer tooo lol... sorry was just an idea?

good luck =)

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Hi there. I'm an 18/M.

I have a big self esteem problem when it comes to girls. Normally, I am a really confident guy. Not scared to meet new people or speak to large crowds. But I have this problem when it comes to girls. See, when I meet a girl I like, instead of asking her out like a normal person would, I quickly idealize her in my mind to the point where I have convinced myself that she is way too amazing to ever want to talk to me. Then, because I have made her out to be so perfect, flawless, I stay in love with her for a year, or more, until I have completely destroyed my friendship and my chances with the girl. This problem has followed me through 13 years of school.

Now, I'm a Senior. Never had a girlfriend, and I'm doing it again with this amazing girl. How do I fix myself?

if you cant ask her write it down in a note and GIVE IT TO HER YOURSELF! personally i find it cute when i guy dows that =)
And Hey Everyone has there little habits dont worry about it.. itll bet bettter =)

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im so sick of the songs i have
i want sum good r&b i can dance to,any suggestions?

Verbs - SwaggerifficBritney Spears - CircusB5 - Get Ya HEad In THe Game (high school musical remix)Nelly Ft Fergie - Party PeopleRobyn - Konichtiwa Bitches (think tht the right spelling)Robyn - Bum Like YouPAramore - Misery BusinessAkon - Right Now (na na na)Velvet - Elecric AvenueVelvet - ChemistryLady Gaga - StarstuckLady Gaga - just DanceTinchy Styder ft Taio Cruz - Take Me Back
Kalomira - Secret Combination
George Sampson - Headz Up
Petey Pablo - Show Me the Money
Bob Sinclar - RockThisParty


There The One I Coulg Think Of OffThe TopOfMy Head

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Okkkk 18/f.
So, me and my best friend (Jonni) were talking about how she was getting some action and how I wasn't... since I haven't been in a relationship for about a year...
And I said "Damn, I need to get laid!" I was sort of kidding and sort of not kidding-- and I am a virgin.
So she and one of my best guy friends (Adam) have been doing some sexual things together... and I know his best friend, lets call him Frank.. and Adam told Jonni that Frank wanted to get laid.

SO, Jonni talked to Adam about getting me and Frank together... and when I got home today, I had a text message from him and we texted for awhile and we decided all four of us were going to hang out Friday night..
And there's a 75% chance that I might be losing my virginity... and I'm terrified because I don't want it to hurt, even though I know it's going to.

So, I have condoms, I'm on birth control... no problems... I'm still pretty scaredd... so any advicee?
Please & Thank You!!

i agree with the person that commented first.. wait
and im not beingbiased here... im avirgin like you too and i want my first tiem to be special.
and that what all my mates tell me.
Although the only thing m gonna say is if your reli up for this... it doesnt always hurt that much apaz =S which tbh i dont understand but whatever lol
oh and btws... please think about what your gonna do... and say n stuff.. like dont lead him on if you dont want sex.. trust me..
and if he tries to force you think about how your gonna say no... if your are ging to say no?
but yeh i really would try and get to know this guy first.. properly... so its special..

not jus because you want to be laid.
Good luck for whatever you do! xXx

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does anyone have any stories or tips on weight loss? im not fat but i wanted to loose about 5-20 pounds before summer and was wondering if anyone had any helpful hints or motivations. thanks!

hmm well im not too good on number n stuff as i dont liek the thing of gettin on the scales n stuff.. find it too.. annoying lolbut loosing alot fo weight can be done.I started running alot and drinking loooooooooooadaaads of water. and one day my mates started saying to me id got really slimmer... i even got a few compliments from a few guys! honestly my best guy mate even lifted up the bottom of my shirt n started poking my stomach lol!
so yeh i recomined sit ups and leg raises, mabe a run or two and looooottts of water! =)
(th eleg raises make your bum look mroe defined making you look more slimmer... aparently..)
good luck! you can do it if you try =D message me how it goes sometime!
vikkikimberly
=) xXx

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I'm quite pale and I want to get some fake tan.
When I used some before hand, (and I rub it in good) it will either
1)never show up
2) go blotchy
3) OR go orange

I was wondering if you could recommend a REALLY good one that has done justice for you.

Please, Anyone with experience and a good one to recommended


Many Thanks

(PS can you give the full names of the tan product so I can research it. I live in the UK so I think it would be harder for you to get me a UK LINK on the internet...so just a the full name would be good :) thanks)

hey! i live in the Uk too and feel your pain
personally i find them spray tans.. (not the pro tan shoppy ones lol)
um the one i find is really good is from gernier i think and it has an apricot sent to so i doesnt smell that horrible
um try loreal sublime broze too that good altho its smeells.. but you really have to wait fot it dry or it goes blochy but yeh that runs out nice too =)
i recommend the garnier one with apricot scent... i would go upstairs and look at the full name for you but i can barely lift myself up fromt he chair let alone stairs lol... and it has two tints... and its avaible in two specialities.. one does body the other does face... tis really good! =D inbox me another time if your desperate for the full name =)

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im trying to find some songs (any genre) with really good lyrics about the begining of relationships and falling in love and all that..anyone know some good ones?

Practicly Any Song By Taio Cruz (Y)
If She Knew - Lemar
See You Again - Miley Cyrus
Angel InThe Night - BassHunter
cant think of any other right now sorry =(
Vikkikimberly

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how do you makeout???

im guessing you mean kissing.. to be honest... just go with the flow... and exxpirimemt with different tecniques...i always find gliding your tongue along thw roof of the other person mouth usually send them wild for ya =)um if you huggins or something... dont hold so tightand one things for sure.. keep you eyes shut and tilt you head slightly =)
and yeh bear in mind you surroundings in stuff... so if you liek in the park i wouldnt reli go for a full on sexy snog lol message me agein if you want more info n stuff)

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