Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
Answers: 182
Last Update: November 15, 2007
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HI,
MY MOM JUST RECENTLY LOST HER DAD AND WITHIN 4 YEARS SHE LOST TWO BROTHERS. NOW, SHE WAKES UP AT 11:00 AND THEN GOES BACK TO BED AROUND 1:00. TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE SHE IS ALWAYS SLEEPING. AND I WANT TO DO MORE THINGS WITH HER. CAN YOU HELP ME? PLEASE SUGGEST SOME THINGS I CAN DO TO HELP HER!
SIGNED,
**NEEDS HELP** (link)
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well, how about you just tell her that you really miss spending time with her and ask her if she can arrange time so you two can hang out and do girl things.. go get your nails done or something. comfort her and just let her know its okay to live her life normally without having to just be all upset all the time
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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ok it sounds like hes just trying to persuade you to do things you dont want to.. hes not worth it and especially if you dont want to be with him you shouldn't break it gently to him though! tell him you stillw ant to be friends but only if he cuts out the drugs adn shit.. tell him that if he really cares about you he'll do it. he shouldn't be doing that stuff anyways and tell him that you really care about him as a friend and don't want him getting hurt by that stuff!
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so ive made out with a few guys b4 but i get sick of doing the same old tricks and teasing. is there any new moves that turns a guy on while makeing out with them?? i mean i knoe how to kiss and all but i want to learn more please help (link)
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kiss his neck and stuff.. that always works!
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hey i wrot to u before about the guy i like and everyone said he likes me and hes been keeping up the flirting but hes also sending sum but not all of the signals to my sister wut shud i do ? please help ASAP
thanks Kate (link)
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back off!! sounds like a jerkk and a player.. u dont need any guy like that at all!
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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?
-Sincerely, hopeless (link)
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i have a friend who feels the same way you do, just believe in yourself, the right man will come eventually!! you just gotta give it time and don't rush into anything, just be yourself and have fun being single!
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Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
Please help ME!!! (link)
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awe go for it and tell him!!=D
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Okay, ONLINE, I've been talking to this guy for at least 2 years. He is the sweetest, greatest guy. But I ONLY have talked to him online, and the phone. And believe me, he's no 50 year old man.:P Well, for like the first year I talked to him, I liked him so much. I even got jealous if he talked to another girl. And, turns out, he liked me too. Just..both of us never said anything. Which totally sucks, because things could've been so differet! :( But, my problem is that I still like him. I love him, hell. I do..but I think he's over me. In his mind we're still just really best friends, but I want to be more. If I tell him, he'll probably be freaked out..cause, well, he prob. thinks I'm over him, too. But..noo..=/ (link)
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well i don't think theres much you can do just because its an online fling.. but then again if you really do care about this guy i would just tell him and come clean about it.. who knows maybe he feels the same way about u?!=P if he doesnt then make him like u! just talk to him and flirt a lil and stuff that always seems to turn guys on! =)
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Hey. I really want to join the step team for my middle school, but I don't know how to step. I don't know if they will teach you how to step or if you already have to know it. Please give me advice because I really need your help! thanx. (link)
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well thats cool! im sure they'll help you in any way they can!
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Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 14 months and our love for each other is stronger than you could ever believe. Around our 11 month anniversary we lost our virginity to each other. I honestly don't regret it but im starting to believe that we are too young. I love him more than anything and it scares me how much i love him sometimes. Do you think we are too young to have this kind of relationship ? (link)
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no not at all!!
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this might sound stupid...but whats an orgasim? (link)
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its like.. when you feel excitement i guess you could say LoL
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what does cybering mean? (link)
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uh.. where you like act like your having sex online and you like say what your gonna do and stuff.. yah
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my hair is wavy--not straight and i usually straighten it--i wanted to try to make it really curly so i tried scrunching moose...gel..hairspray curling shampoo and other stuff nothing will work plz help me! (link)
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buy a different kind of mousse.. before you buy it read the front label and see which kind it is.. it might not be the kind for your hair.. some are stronger than others. try putting A LOT in it and just let it sit for awhile.. it should look good after awhile but just make sure u put a lot
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Hey you guys, can you hel;p me? I'm looking for a good website with cute girly clothes that don't cost a lot, almost like a cheap delias.....do you guys have any favoirite websites? (link)
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rugged wearhouse.. i don't go there often but most of my friends do.. they have all kinds of brands for like 5 bux and everything its really cheap there
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okay so my friend alex(we'll say) she knew this guy we'll say his name is tyler. okay so alex met tyler at her old school and when i asked her if she knew ne hotties she gave me his sn. so i i.med him one day and we've been talkin online for the past 9 months or so. and i really have grown to love him! i think that i might even be falling for him. and i really wanna meet him face to face one day. but i have no clue how i would explain him to my parents! bcuz when i first got aim i wasn't suppsoed to talk to n e one i didn't knoe! and now i might even go meet him?? idk so please help me asap! (link)
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well, i think thats really cool how your friend introduced you to him and everything.. im sure your parents will be fine with it if you tell them that your friend introduced you guys and wanted to hook you up or something.. something like that will probably get you off the hook w/ your parents!
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Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free? (link)
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yeh! buddypic, facethejury, amihotornot but im not sure if thats still up...
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I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how? I also have to say that she doesn't know how to drive, and only earns $14 dollars per hour at her new job! And my dad only married her bcus he was alone at the house (I was with my mom) and was afraid if something happened to him, no1 would call the police. (link)
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hmm.. maybe you should talk to your dad about the situation.. im sure he'll help you out through all of this!!
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hey i have this friend and i dont really like her and she annoys me. well she considers me her best friend and all and always wants to come over. i always make up some excuse so she doesnt. my mom doesnt like her either and doesnt want me to hang out with her. i mean that would be fine and all but we dont only go to school together we also have dance together which is EVERY day of the week. so i cant really get away from her. i dont want to hurt her feelings or make her mad at me (or her mom mad at me) cause than at dance it could be a problem. wat should i do ??? (link)
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i'd just tell her how you feel.. but in a nice way.. i had that problem once with one of my friends and i just told her that i thought that she was cool and all but she should just try hanging out with other people and stuff but u still want to be her friend.. either that or try to introduce her to someone else someone who you think she'll like and maybe she'll back off more!
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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks! (link)
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no i dont think soo??
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well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child.. (link)
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aw.. im sorry!! i think that you should explain to him and your mom both that you've wanted to see him but are just a lil weary because he said that.. deep down inside he didnt mean that and he does love you! he must have just said that out of anger.. i think its great you want to see him again and you should! as for how to act, i know it would be a lil awkward but you should just be yourself around him, dont be a brat just be the nice person you are and everything will be fine!=D
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hey i went out with this guy for about four months and then he dumped me and i i loved him so much! i miss him so bad! were like really good friends now and i know that i can tell him anything and he'll like always understand! and i just think thats the coolest thing ever! he knows how i feel about him and i talked to him for a while about it and he said he like loves me to death as a friend... and only as a friend! what should i do we've been friends for a while now and i think that if he was going to ever get any feelings for me he would have shown them by now! he's always acting like he likes me but then when we talk he says he doesn't i don't get it! he's so confusing! were supposed to go to a movie soon and i wanted to ask him out but i wasn't sure if he really liked me like because he acted like it or if it was just acting! he's a shy person and i know he doen't like to ask girls out because he gets really nervous and he gets nervous whenever i talk to him about that kind of stuff so i don't know if i should ask him out at the movies or what!?!? what should i do? (link)
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i'd talk to him again about it.. tell him u really like it and ur just really confused.. as for asking him out i'd wait to see his response--maybe hes just leading u on or something?? if all he wants to be is friends then maybe u should just try to move on hes just not worth ur time and some guys are like that.
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