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I went out with this guy months ago and he is pretty mean to everyone. We only dated for a month, but I still miss him. How do I stop missing him? (link)
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Aw , it's okay that's totally normal , okay so , I say it's only a month , not that bad , BUT , you do this , you go around your friends , go look at other guys , watch movies , day dream about other guys or fantasies , go delete him off everything - you have to delete him in order to start forgetting about him, if not then don't look at him. Just let lose and go on other dates there's tons of guys out there , you will stop missing him you just need to let him go. My advice to you is don't let a guy get you down. Move on. So many better guys out there , why miss someone who is mean to other people? Not worth it. Find a new guy. Good luck! : )
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is there a photo booth 4 dell laptops?? if so which 1 has it (link)
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Hope this helps ,
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081111121055AAGzNIl
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080413115928AAvWElA
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so i had this boyfriend. we dated for a few months and then broke up. we have been friends with benefits i guess you can say since the beginning of summer. i like hooking up with him, but he definetly cares about me more than i do him. don't get me wrong hes a sweet guy but i don't have romantic feelings. my relationship before him was 2 years and i feel like i need to "experiment" with other guys and stuff. you know figure out what i really want in a boyfriend and eventually a husband. he gets upset when i hook up with other guys though. but i told him i didn't want commitment andi don't want a relationship right now. i've been hookig up with other guys but i feel guilty cause i'm keeping it from him even though i told him clearly that hooking up with other people is not cheating since we are not in a relationship. can anyone help me with this messy situation? thankss (link)
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Well , I think since your not in a relationship with him , you don't have to worry about anything. Don't let it get to you , but it's getting it to you because you care about him and still do like him , but it's up to you , you can either get the bate with all the guys and keep a secret or , if he doesn't do what your doing and you stop and take a breather and go back to him that's not bad either , it's your choice though. My advice to you is follow your heart , not your head. If you want this guy , go back to him , if not , go to others and experiement and let him go , OR tell him the truth , the truth will come out eventually.
Good luck girl!
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My boyfriend and i are fed up of just making out so we want to get touchy feely with each other.
I sed i would give a hj which i thought he would say yes to, but he sed he wont let me touch him anywhere unless i let him finger me and im not sure what to do coz he wants to do it while we are in the cinema and i dont know if i should say yes.
BTW i am 14 and he is almost 15 (link)
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Don't do it , you'll regret it one day , if he says that to you , don't leave him , he's not treating you right with respect. Goodluck girl!
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okay so i started a new job about a month ago..and i started talking to this guy who works there who i thought was kinda cute like the 3rd day this lady who works there said he thought i was cute and i said i thought he was too and the next day he said what did she say to you about me and i said well she said you thought i was pretty cute and then later that day he asked for my number...then like 2 weeks later last week he asked me if i ever wanted to go out sometime and i said sure and he said alright ill let you know the details later and now its been almost a week and a half since he asked that and he still hasnt asked me out....but at work we always work together and he helps me with stuff and talks to me and does that both look at each other look away thing if they like you and he smiles and laughs at everything i do so im guessing he likes me lol but i just dont understand whats taking him so long. Im really into astrology and well im a saggittarius and hes a cancer and i read that their shy guys,you usually have to make the first move and that their hard to read...soo im just really confused what is he waiting for?
thanks! (link)
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ahah , oh yeah he likes you , he's interested , and don't care about what it says on that stuff , go and make a move , why wait around? cut to the chase , goodluck girl :)
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Alright. I am a 16 year old girl as is my best friend but he is a boy. We are juniors and we have been friends since we were 7ish/8ish. He's the best. Girls at my school only start drama with everyone and they don't keep secrets. I feel with this boy, that all of my secrets are safe and he can solve all of my problems and he starts no drama at all because he is very shy which is suuuuch a plus! We text all the time, during that time we talk about random things from what we're doing to like what we want to be in life. Usually he is the first one to end the conversation, when I end it, I don't think he likes that because when I say I have to go or I'm being called down for dinner he just says "oh.. ok. cya then." I like to party, not gonna lie. I usually have my certain party friends and my other just chillin watching a movie friends. My partying friends and I, we like to drink. Now, every time I text him, he is usually at a party or with some friends so I let him go have his fun. When I'm at a party and we are texting, I tell him what he's doing and he asks whose party it is or where I'm at. He suffers with low self esteem because of his older brother. People put my friend through a lot because supposedly his brother is "perfect" and my friend doesn't come close and people actually tell them that. So, I always tell him things like I'm your friend, not his. He's ugly. I think you're way better. Just to boost his self esteem. He's always there for me. I went through a time where my "friend" called me all of this terrible stuff and it made me cry my eyes out and he said that I am nothing like that. She's wrong and she's just jealous of me. Immediately after saying that, I smiled. He just.. makes everything better. He wears a bracelet that was once mine and he stole it from me. He can't sing for me when he can sing for everyone else and there mom's, haha. I give him snacks after practice for school everyday. As close as I just described we are, we've never hung out outside of school, your probably thinking 'wow, two best friends that never hung out before' I know right, but he has his gang outside of school and I have mine. We were supposed to hang out and he bailed because he has something to do with his family and he said he will definately see me the day he comes back unless for some God forsaken reason he can't. It just makes me mad that he would bail for the stupid reason he gave me.
Anyway, do you think I'm right? Does he like me or no? Thanks!! (link)
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Ahah oh man , well does he always bail on you? or is it that one time? don't worry about it , it happens , but wow sounds like you guys are meant to be... you guys seem so compatible for eachother , you never know , don't care what others think , if he's there for you and it makes you smile , let him like you which he obviously does if he asks in detail of where you are , and is there for you , wears your bracelet , and can't sing in front of you because obvoiusly he's shy and has a low self esteem like you said of what you would think. He cares of what you think. But , ask him about it you know , see what's up.
My advice is that he likes you , test him , see if he'll come back which he does after that. Good luck girl :)
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okay so i have thought this guy was really hott for like ever but he is like older then me kinda by a lot. im 17 and he is 24. well one day he texted me and told me he thought i was hott so we hung out one day and we hooked up. well he has a fiance but he told me that they were bout to break up because they fight all the time and they do. she left for like a week then came back because her friend didnt want her there anymore. but then i got a wedding invitation in the mail so i asked him bout it and he told me he was done with me and everything so i have ben ignoring him but i see him like everywhere cause he like lives next door. so he texted me and told me that he still wanted to hang even thou he is getting married and i told him i cant do that he is getting married and he was like dont worry bout her? like what am i suppose to do. i know he is like only using me but he is sooo hot. and he told me he oesnt get a long with her and i know he doesnt cause i have scene it. but he is still gonna marry her anyway. what do i do? should i hang with him still?and how do i make him not get married if he doesnt wnt to? (link)
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Well , obviously if you want to get hurt go right ahead , this guy doesn't have a good commitment status if he's getting married and has a thing with you. Age doesn't matter so don't worry about it , and if he doesn't want to then he won't , but it's really his choice , you can't really make a guy do something he doesn't want right? There are so many hot guys in this world , hotter and hotter , you can always find better ones who are avaiable and won't use you. I don't think you want to get used and hurt do you? But good luck , my advice is move on to another hot guy lol , how would you like if next thing you know his ''wife'' is next door with him to you , that would be awkward , but the choice is yours. Goodluck girl :)
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I'm thinking of studying abroad in Australia for a semester. How much money would I need to bring with me? (Not including cost of tuition) (link)
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That's great you should do it! Well I mean depends where your coming from , BUT if it's for a semester definatley more then 1,000 , depends if your a spender or saver you know. If you don't go out too much and are a shop-a-holic , not that much , but if your the type that spends all the money well , then a lot of it.
Hope that helps! Good luck and have fun!
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i am on my period and i am going swimming with my camp tommorow do i wear a pad or what. (link)
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ah alright don't worry! use a tampon, more specifically , a sports one the ones you see on tv they put on the ''platex'' sports tampons.
Hope that helps good luck!
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Ok I keep seeing about it on here and it seems like a lot of people swear by it and others say it isn't true so I want to ask YOU: Does rinsing your hair in cold water make it shiny like they say? Honestly?
If it does is there a special way that you have to do it so that it works right?
Thank you!
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Well! wow new new's I never heard about , BUT I was looking this up and it gives details on how to do it... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090814070047AAIEOL2
hope that helps:) good luck!
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Okay so I been with this guy for a year and 8 months this summer we broke up because he said he can not focus in school , but I don't know why that's a reason to break up. We could have just spoke less if he really loved me , so any ways I been doing my own thing having fun chilling with my best friends and I guess he. Been reading my facebook status and he see that I been having fun so he said he wanted me back and I took him back. But not even two days went by and we broke up , he wants me to wait and he tells me a real women waits but I feel that u should make someone wait , and I seen he been commenting females picture say they sexy and all that mess and it hurts . How you tell me to wait but you talking to other girls , and when I talk to him about it he says its just a joke , he thinks I'm talking to other boys cuz I be hanging out late but I'm really not , and me and him go to the same school so I'm going to be seeing him everyday, I don't know if I should just leave him alone.he was my first and from my understanding your first is the hardest to let go , I just wanna be happy , I'm just confused (link)
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Well , it seems he was confused , wasn't ready for anything too big , but that's okay that's normal , and well I guess if you really love him , you let it go right? But I see he wants you back so it might be meant to be , if it comes back it's yours right? But , if he thinks your hanging around with guys and stuff and your not? Obviously he's jealous since he's bringing that up and looking at your facebook stuff right? and really why would he care if he ended it right? Obviously he's not over anything , but show him if you want that your not doing what he's possibly assuming. I mean , if you don't know then your confused too , but it is hard to let go , but is it worth it ? or are you willing to wait till it get's worse and try to let go later? I personally would leave it alone , if he wants he can , and not necassarily that a real women will wait , sometimes they do sometimes they don't , depends on the person. I'm sure he's missing out on a wonderful girl like yourself. Don't worry about him , he'll be back.
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Hi Guys
To begin with, I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now. Everything is great except one thing. Before we got together, we knew eachother, we weren't like good friends but we had mutual friends. He had a girlfriend and he always used to talk about her and how he loved her. I didn't really see him until about 5 months later and he didn't have a girlfriend then. He flirted, and we got along great. He seemed perfect. We met again in April, and by May we were together. My mutual friends said before we met again in April, he was upset that his girlfriend had finished their relationship and that he wanted her back.
I wasn't sure what to think of this, I felt quite used. I confronted him about it and he denied it - he said they ended their relationship 3 months ago, our friends say differently. He says he loves me - and that he never loved her. I also know that's a lie because i'd heard him say it before. He's denied all of this, which annoys me so much because I know he's lying. I have given him every opportunity to admit he's lying and he hasn't.
I really, really like this guy which is why i'm so unsure what to do. In every other way he's perfect but he's so defensive about his ex. I've never been jealous or anything in my previous relationships which is why I know it's not a jealousy thing on my part. Right now I have told him I don't want to speak to him until I have thought this through. I'm not sure if I can stay with a guy who is continuing to lie to me?
What should I do? We've spoke about it numerous times but it leads nowhere. If I end our relationship, what should I say to him?
Thanks! (link)
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Well , this guy might have mixed feelings , if he keeps denying it and your sure he is then , you need to let him go , why stick around with someone who keeps denying everything to your face? There's so many other guys in this world , BUT if you really really like this guy I think you should seriously sit down and talk to him like without any hesitation once and for all. If a guy's lying to you all the time , don't even go for it. Once a guy lies once like that he will keep lying to you , exactly what he is doing to you right now. I think you did the right thing since you said to think it through. Maybe he is doing it because he just can't get over her at the moment , but at the same time he likes you a lot better. But , sooner or later the truth will come out. I think you should try a few times if this guy really matters to you then try making him give the truth out confront him good about it not suspiciously. If you wanted to end the relationship you can lead up to it in a nice way talk to him about how much you like him , but he's not playing his part that hes lying to you and it takes two to make a relationship work and make things less complicated.
Good luck! : ) you did the right choice
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Okay so me and my friends and my boyfrien are all goin to camp.. It's younglife camp if you're familliar with that. Well it's a 5 day camp. What are some things I can do to turn my boyfriend on there or make him be like wow that's reallly cool and stuff?! Like I don't want to have sex or touch him anywear or fr him to touch me cause we both are only almost 14 but. Anyways..... What are some things I can do?? Asap please ik goin to camp Sunday!!! :) (link)
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Well okay that's fun , and alright well from what I know stick to a group of friends and him and then switch a bit to him and just you alone so you guys have a variety . Well you can always go and make jokes or go out and eat you know. Go tell stories and whatever activities they have planned go do it asap! Bring him along likes it or not. Go smile and laugh and play games that you guys have. If you don't want the phsyical stuff , then go and just show him what you can.
Good luck : )
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I'm an Atheist and it's something about me that I consider pretty well known amongst my family. My parents know, and don't really care, because they respect me enough as an adult to not let minor things like religion come between us. However, a couple of my other family members can't seem to get over it.
I have no issue with people who are religious, and I'm really very civil towards them, and will continue to be until they start to treat me differently or until they start pushing their beliefs down my throat. I just want to be respected the same way that I respect them. Just because I don't believe in God, it doesn't mean that I'm not a good person. I am. I work everyday, I donate clothes to those who need it, and the majority of the time, I do give money to the homeless. I have morals, and standards, and I make my personal decisions to the best of my ability. But my family members seem to think that because I'm Atheist that I cannot do or have any of those things.
I wanna know how I can get them off of my back. I'm never going to stop being who I am, and I'm certainly not going to change because they disagree with me, but it's getting to the point where they've stopped being civil with me because we have a differing belief. They keep making snide comments, and it's really starting to anger me. I've been over the whole thing, but with them constantly bringing it up and berating me because of it, it's getting hard to ignore and I really am trying hard to keep from snapping.
Any ideas on what I should do?
Thanks in advance! (link)
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Well that's your choice right. Don't worry about it and breathe it out. There acting like this because their so focussed on their own religion that they become narrow minded or/and closed minded, it is normal. You sound like a good girl and god bless you. But , I think getting off them off your back , you need to not argue , just got with the flow , they will realize they aren't being civil to you. That's good your trying it shows you care , I think you should really sit down and talk to them either like one or two of them and explain to them, make a list of the important things and talk about it. They will accept you the way you are don't worry they have they just can't justify to it. Don't have your hopes down , people tend to be this way and it's okay. You need to relax and don't bring it up so much. Focus on other topics , show them your just as good as they are right in front of their eyes.
Good luck : )
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I am starting high school next week and I'm really really nervous. I haven't gotten to talk to many of my friends over the summer and I guess I'm afraid they've changed a lot. I want to fit in and I'm afraid I won't. Is high school really hard? Do you get a lot of homework? Will my friends still be my friends? Should I dress differently than last year? I don't know what to think of this new school...please tell me everything you kno! (link)
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Oh don't worry about it. Nervous is the worst!don't be nervous! You will fit in either way there's enough kids that will fit in somewhere. Highschool is not hard at all it's just moving classes that's it , just do your homework. Homework depends on the level you too so if you took college levels not so much homework , but if you took university levels you'll get a bit , but it depends really on the teacher. don't stress there isn't a lot. If your friends are really your friends they won't go away from you , they will stay by your side. And no don't dress differently be who you are that will make you fit in even more. And highschool is not bad , big opportunity to meet new people and have fun , don't stress . Good luck : )
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I have a best friend. We were friends since third grade. We are both now in tenth, I am a fifteen year old girl and he is a fifteen year old boy. He means so much to me, I love him like a brother. But everyone thinks we like each other. That boys and girls can't be as close as we are and not be in love. I just want your opinion on this, do you think that by the way we act, we seem "in love"?
We are both in the marching band and every time he marches by me, he and I would smile at each other. Everyday I bring him in a pack of crackers because he likes them a lot. We also text each other a lot. Sometimes with a purpose of finding something out, sometimes for no reason at all. We talk about anything, literally, anything. We talked about bugs once, which ones we liked and which ones we didn't. He is usually the one that is negative about things, he struggles with his confidence level. Every time he says something negative, I will always say something happy or positive and he would laugh so I know he's better. On the off chance I'm not in a good mood, he won't leave me alone until I tell him what's wrong, then I would apologize for dumping all of my problems and struggles on him and he would always say back that I don't have to apologize for wanting his help, that he wants to know what's bothering me and he wants to know how he can help. When he knows I am sad, he will play a song on his guitar for me because he knows I love that but he won't sing. He sings in front of his other friends that are girls and he even told me he performed at a party in front on boys and girls, yet he can't sing in front of just me..
I'm not sure if you are aware of the silly bandz? They are rubber bands in the shapes of animals or symbols. I gave him one of them and he wears it everyday. If I ever need help on homework, I would text him and he would ask which page, which problem, what part and he would help me immensely to the point that I understand the whole chapter.
He is such a shy person, he wouldn't tell anyone that he liked them unless he was moving to another country the day after. To answer my question, do you think everyone is right? Is there more than friend feelings there? Please don't answer back "Just talk to him" because we have talked about this and nothing goes anywhere. Thanks for any help! (link)
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Well , I can tell you guys are perfect for eachother from helping with confidence boost to smiling in band practice to texting randomly to helping eachother to all this wow , i'm really impressed. I think people are right, it seems you guys really are more then friends , think about it , why wouldn't he play for you on his guitar? when he did for everyone else? what about him wearing your bandz thing everyday... he seems dedicated and so do you. And not telling if he liked you or not a day before leaving the country, hm that's another hint. Maybe he doesn't want to say anything , maybe he doesn't want to ruin what you guys have built. It seems you guys are in love , but not really showing i , you guys or he does not realize it. When you talk to him , ask him more you have to make some questions that will lead it on. You guys seem so good for eachother.Good luck :)
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Hello. I'm 18/f. I've only had 2 serious boyfriends. My current boyfriend I've been dating for 3 years, & stuff is really rocky right now. I know we love each other but I don't know if we'll make it through this time.
The thought of losing him terrifies me. Among all of the fears of losing HIM, I also have the fear of dating...
I've dated him since I was 15. It was instant...we never really took it slow & i already knew him before then.
I was just wondering if anyone out there had any ideas on how to get over the dating/kissing new people fears/nerves.
Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks! (link)
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alright , so I see you never really did anything for fun and now your scared , that's okay. How to get over all that depends on you , go out with your friends , go look up some good looking guys , surround yourself with what you like doing best and focus on that. Get rid of them on your online chatting sites anything , get away from it , uhm also you can't get actually over it because at some point you will get lonley , but that's okay , you can always find yourself doing something. If it's cocky right now , don't worry about it really just let it loose and don't have any fear , that's the worst , be confident. Good luck and just go out and experience life!
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hey, Im gonna keep this short and sweet. So my hair doesnt grow as fast as it should, (or as fast as I wish it would). Is there any way I could get my hair to grow really long, really fast? (link)
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Alright well there's no really official way , BUT , I would say you can try the following that I have found ....
1. Eat a healthy diet. Minimize fat and sugar intake and increase protein.
2. Get plenty of rest.
3. Cut back on smoking, caffeine and sodas.
4. Exercise frequently.
Additional tips:
1. Take supplements known to boost hair growth: Vitamins B, C, E, Beta Carotene, Magnesium.
2. Avoid heat styling.
3. Try hot oil treatments on your scalp.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_make_your_hair_grow_faster_and_longer that should help you out... with etc...
Hope I helped , good luck :)
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hi,
I'm a 22 year old female,I've been video and voice chating with a guy for 5 months now,we're from different cities of a same country but I study abroad,after 4 months we met and kissed,we talk every day but recently I've noticed he's a bit distant and I don't know what to think...? (link)
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Hm well that's good you do , well do you really like this guy? I'm sure it can still work out , maybe he has a lot of things on his mind , or he's really busy , maybe he just needs some space for himself. If he keeps this up you should ask him if everything is alright , see how he reacts. I think if you guys talked everyday since after 4 months , and waited after 4 months , obviously there is a connection , and i'm sure nothing has changed. Every relationship has these kinds of glitches , but i'm sure it will pass. Keep your head up high , don't worry.
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I turned fifteen at the very end of june and the guy I'm interested in turns eighteen in the middle of january... Sooo quite an age gap. We have a lottt of mutual friends so we've been hanging around eachother for awhile. I was dating this douche for about seven months and its been twon months siince we broke up and this new guy has really taken my interest... I don't know if I can do it though! Haha he's a lot older than me... And I mean my last bf waaas two yers older but it was more like a year and eight months haha. Still... How can I get this guy to notice that I'm interested? I texted him a few days ago and we hung out with a few other people, but it was me and the guy that set it up. And it was really fun. But he hasn't texted me since then... And I don't know, I want him to make a move but I don't know how to do this... (link)
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Well , first of all , don't worry about the age difference , that's totally fine. I mean if you really like this guy , the age won't matter , and if he likes you back a lot he won't mind the age gap either. Plus , older guys are a lot better in many ways. So go for it. Well , maybe he thinks your a friendly type , if you just text him and hung out with a few friends maybe he just get's the point that you seem like just a friend. When you hang out with him , you should give him a smile , or flirt with him a bit , ask him questions , and be yourself. Give him a small hint , text him asking him what he's doing. Also , make eye contact and see if he make eye contact back with you , sometimes right in the eye , and also smile too. If you have confidence , that's a bonus , guys love confidence in a girl. Just remeber be yourself around him.
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