okay so i have thought this guy was really hott for like ever but he is like older then me kinda by a lot. im 17 and he is 24. well one day he texted me and told me he thought i was hott so we hung out one day and we hooked up. well he has a fiance but he told me that they were bout to break up because they fight all the time and they do. she left for like a week then came back because her friend didnt want her there anymore. but then i got a wedding invitation in the mail so i asked him bout it and he told me he was done with me and everything so i have ben ignoring him but i see him like everywhere cause he like lives next door. so he texted me and told me that he still wanted to hang even thou he is getting married and i told him i cant do that he is getting married and he was like dont worry bout her? like what am i suppose to do. i know he is like only using me but he is sooo hot. and he told me he oesnt get a long with her and i know he doesnt cause i have scene it. but he is still gonna marry her anyway. what do i do? should i hang with him still?and how do i make him not get married if he doesnt wnt to?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? snowboardbabe answered Tuesday August 17 2010, 10:40 pm: Well , obviously if you want to get hurt go right ahead , this guy doesn't have a good commitment status if he's getting married and has a thing with you. Age doesn't matter so don't worry about it , and if he doesn't want to then he won't , but it's really his choice , you can't really make a guy do something he doesn't want right? There are so many hot guys in this world , hotter and hotter , you can always find better ones who are avaiable and won't use you. I don't think you want to get used and hurt do you? But good luck , my advice is move on to another hot guy lol , how would you like if next thing you know his ''wife'' is next door with him to you , that would be awkward , but the choice is yours. Goodluck girl :) [ snowboardbabe's advice column | Ask snowboardbabe A Question ]
Matt answered Friday August 13 2010, 11:30 pm: My lady friend says: "How is this person 17 and not know how to spell?"
I think you guys should drive your trailer homes over to each other and combine them so that you guys can be extra close and share a living room. Then call MTV to tape a reality show about your lives. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Friday August 13 2010, 5:08 pm: You can't force him to do anything, first of all. You can give him your opinion about it but that's about it. I get he is hot and all but he is clearly just using you. Even you seem to realize that. There are plenty of other really hot guys who will like you for you. Respect yourself and your body. You can get any hot guy you want, one who will respect you :) [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
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