about

Hello, all- I'm Becky. I'm 16 years old but wise far beyond my years, so hopefully you can expect some good advice from me. I'm not here to spit out cutesy answers to every single question- I won't be a bitch, but I'll be sure to tell it like it is. Just accept it, and consider less-than-sweet answers as tough love. :]

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so, theres this guy he is sooo cute, funny, nice and just perfect. the thing is hes realllllly short and im pretty tall. i dont know what the matter is..i find myself completly loving him but i have this feeling if i ask him out he will be imtaimadated (or however u spell it) by my height.

If he likes you and you like him, then a little thing like height shouldn't matter. Just ask him out, and if he doesn't want to be with you because of your height, he isn't worth it. Hope I helped =]

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what does it mean when a guy tells a girl she looks like a freak (in sex terms).
haha like i was at this one party and we were just goofying off. we started playing "never have i ever" and the topic sex came up. and haha they accused me of having done stuff in the "sex closet" (yes we have a sex closet). the one guy was like (jokingly) "dude i bet that girl is sucha a freak, like in sex terms." and he was like "dude she even just looks like one too! haha" but he was REALLY nice and stuff, he wasn't saying it to be mean.. i could tell

and i was like wtf? did he think i was ugly or something? please help

A "freak" the way you're talking about is just a girl (or maybe a guy, but I've always heard it relating to girls) who has sex a lot and is good in bed.

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I would like to dye my hair light blonde, however, right now I have loreal color mousse in my hair, the color is chill plum(this is for like 12 shampoos or w/e, I heard it can go longer). My natural color is medium- dark brown.
Should I wait till the purple comes out to dye my hair, or can I dye it without it looking bad?

Thanks in advance!

Definitely wait until the purple is washed out. If you die your hair blonde when its purple, it could end up being a pretty gross color =]

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what's a ghetto? the dictionaries all have like scientific words that don't make sense

It's kind of a scary, dark, dirty place where poor people live. It's a good idea to never wander around one, especially alone (unless you have a death wish) hope i helped =]

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I NEED to find a certain platter. Its shaped like a fish, its dark blue, its got a kind of green plant with a yellow sunflower and 2 birds on it.

Does anyone know where i would be able to find one? (price does NOT matter)

Thanks so much!!

I don't know if this is what you're looking for but it closely resembles your description...

http://cgi.ebay.com/Fish-Platter-Bella-Casa-by-Ganz_W0QQitemZ130060609917QQihZ003QQcategoryZ45503QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem

Sorry if that's not what you're looking for =]

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Okayy soo i heard this song and im like in love with it and i really want to get it as a ring tone but i have no idea what its called ive tryed googling it and looking up the lyrics on lyric sites but nothings came up its like..
-I cant explain this feeling i think about it everyday and even tho we've moved on it gets so hard to walk away im gonna remember you your gonna remember me thanks!!! :]]

Walk Away~ Paula Deanda =]

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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not?

If you don't know without asking advicenators, then you aren't really ready. Also, just in my opinion, you are too young, and if something went wrong, do you really want to be a mother at 14? Just something to think about, but I definitely say don't do it.

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Okay, so I have a Nokia 6101 and I have no idea how to transfer the pictures in my phone to my computer. Also, I have no idea how to or where to get themes for my phone.....

Please help me figure things out because I'm not a born techie!!!!!

Thanks in advance!

Just email your pictures from your phone to your email address, then save the pictures from the email to My Pictures. In my opinion, this is the easiest way, but it isn't free =] Hope I helped

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I need help deciding between 2 pictures to send in for an audition. I know these are basically exactly the same, but I can't pick the better one.

Help?

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee.jpg

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b123/flippyfloppas/mebluee2.jpg

I think I like the first one better, because it makes you look not so pale, and it's more colorful. Good luck with your audition =]

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lately my mom's been acting strange. she run's more errands, goes back and forth cleaning the house, and is nervous when she cooks dinner. im so confused! when i ask her whats wrong she doesn't say anything and walks away. what is going on? no, my parents aren't getting a divorce, trust me.

-Patrice

It's the holiday time. My mom is really stressed right now, trying to get everything cleaned and perfect for everyone who is going to be visiting over break. That's probably your mom's issue right now. You can help by asking if there's anything you can do, or even just trying to be as good as you can. If it doesn't go away after the holidays, talk to your dad because it might be something worse, and she may need help. Hope I helped =]

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I want to be an A&R inthe music industry when i grow up...

can someone tell me everything the A&R does and if they go on tour a lot

like when youre an A&R under a record label, do you go on tour with some of the different bands under the label and get to tour a lot and stuff

and what else does the A&R do...

ONLY ANSWER IF YOU KNOW WHAT AN A&R IS OR IF YOU ARE ONE OR KNOW ONE...i need serious answers

I'm not sure if these links will help you, but you can check them out:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_%26_R

http://www.mediapositiveradio.com/general/dir/artist_and_repertoire

http://www.leigh-on-sea.com/theessentialguide/artists&repetoire.htm

Hope those helped at least a little bit =]

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I am short for my age, only like 5 foot and I way around 100 pounds. When I am wearing clothes, I look like I am alot less then 100. ANyways, I kind of have this "pouch" like where my belly button is but above that I am skinnier. How can I get rid of this "pouch" So I have more of a flatter stomach?

Running will help tone this area, so you should try and run a little bit everyday. Also, sit ups and crunches really work this area. Good luck, hope I helped =]

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I just got one, this is my first pet, and I have the food. The container says feed once, and the food says feed twice, so I dont know what to do. Besides that, how do i care for this kind of fish?

For the food, you need to just give a pinch every day. As for how you care for the betta, you need to change the water about every other week. Get another container, and a net, and just put the beta in that other container using the net (obviously, put some water in the container first.) When you change the water, you can use tap water, but I always (for my betta) put this stuff in it to purify the water. I'm not sure what it is, but you could ask a pet store worker, and they'll know what I'm talking about.
For more information, go to these sites:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siamese_fighting_fish#Ideal_Tank_Conditions

http://www.timsalphabettas.com/caring.html

http://www.cbsbettas.org/petbetta.html

Hope I helped =]

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Hey everyone [:

Ok, so i just came into highschool this year, and i made some amazing senior friends, let's call them A, B, and C. Well, i have a friend, D, that is so much better than me, and has replaced me multiple times with different people. D started hanging out with A,B, and C. One day, i got into a fight with A because of B.

following me?

Ok, so then D became all close with A, B, and C. And now they barely talk to me anymore because they are all obsessed with D. Whenever i am with them and her, i am so left out and not talked to, that i walk away and they don't notice.

What should i do? i have talked to them about it but they said i could "never be replaced." Too bad it already happened.

It's possible they don't even realize that they are leaving you out. You should try and think up fun things to talk about when you are all together. Also, you could plan something fun to do with all of them, like going shopping, or to a movie. If that doesn't work, though, and they still ignore you, it might be a good idea to meet new people that want to spend time with you. Hope I helped =]

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i think i have OCD.
like i always have to touch a doorknob 5 times to make sure the door is completely shut. and i have like to sort everything i eat.
one time when i was in disney world i stepped on a tile with my right foot but i couldnt with my left cuz it was a long line and i cried myself to sleep every night for 3 days. whenever i tell my mom she says: Oh you'll grow out of it but im 13 and this has been going on for a while. what can i do???

I think you do have OCD. Talk to someone you can trust will listen to you, like your mom or dad. It would also be a good idea to go to a counselor, or a therapist. They will be able to help you cope with yourself, and make your OCD better. Hope I helped =]

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how do you make a pic your pic caption on your myspace?

On your home page, click Add/Edit Photos (in the blue box on the top left corner). Under the picture that you want to add a caption to is a thing that says Add Caption. Click on that, type in your caption, then click Update Caption and you're done=]

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So on myspace, when someone wants to add me, they have to have my last name or email address...how do I change it so they don't have to have that?

On your home page, go to account settings (in the blue box). Then, on privacy settings, click change settings. then, unclick the box that says "Friend Requests - Require email or last name" so that the check is gone. Then click change settings, and it's done =]

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Alright...christmas is in 3 days...and i STILL haven't gotten my boyfriend anything! I have no idea wat to get him, and im really starting to freak out. I need some ideas as soon as possible!!!
thanx!!

~Bake him cookies
~Buy him a CD
~Get him an iTunes (or whatever music downloading thing he uses) giftcard
~Offer to pay on your next date
~If he needs it, get him a nice shirt or two
~Get hime some DVDs that he doesn't have
~Kind of the same thing as the DVD one, but buy him the first season of him favorite TV show on DVD

Hope this helped a bit! Good luck =]

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how do i get my make up to look like these pics..???



1. http://www.frontrowking.com/concerts/kelly%20clarkson/014.jpg

2.http://www.mp3zakaz.ru/images/cds200/Carrie_Underwood_-_Some.jpg

Use black mascara on both your lower and upper lashes. Also, use black liquid eyeliner on your upper and lower lids. For eyeshadow, create a smoky look with some grays and possibly brown. It looks like they both have a pinkish blush, so use that on the apples of your cheeks. For lips, use a clear or pink lip gloss. Hope I helped =]

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does anyone know any deep love questions?
if you do can you please give me at least 3?
thank you or maybe can i have a websites has love questions other than lovingyou.com? thank you

ex.True love with a guarantee of a broken heart. but thats stupid if its true love why would there be a broken heart?

You can go here:

http://iconator.com/awaycat.php?CatID=9

It has lots of romance messsages. Here are some examples, also:

1)You know you're in love when all you can think about is that one special person and you can't stand to be away from them for more then one second. You miss then even though they're standing right next to you. You fall asleep thinking about them, and dream about them every night.

2) One day you'll come to me and ask me what's more important: You or my life. I'll say my life and you'll walk away never knowing that you're my life.

3) If I could hold a star for everytime you made me smile, I would have the entire night sky in the palm of my hand.

Hope I helped!

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