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hi iam sarline.
I may be young but i have help alot of people.
i give great advice that is why i started an advice colum. just hit me with your best shot and if you are not satisfied just write comments to help me improve. i answer any questions. mostly for kids who are growing up. because i will like to see them grow up nicely and so that they could help others someday.
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E-mail: sarlinerocks@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: united state of maryland
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Yahoo: sarlinerocks@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 13, 2008
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Last Update: February 24, 2014
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how do I tell a girl I like her even though she has a boyfriend?

well sarline here

if you really like her just find a quite place and talk to her.

tell her this "i know it doesn't matter but i like you alot. i know you have a boyfriend that you like but i wanted to get it off my chest. again i like you alot".

maybe she will feel the same way.
if she doesn't don't worry there is always someone better out there looking for you.

thanks and write back comments.

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Our Host stand at work has been split up into 3 different teams(we're having a little competition between the 3 teams for different stuff)

anyways. we need a "team name" for my team and it has to be something VERY cute and something we can say outloud and stuff.

i need idea's for our team name!!!! :)

hey sarline here

how about:
worrios
winners
satellites(which is like fast wokers)
champions
strongholds

that is the best i got
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sarline
see you later

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right now im in the 8th grade and i want to know what's the best way to study...i have like 4 test tomorrow and i really need help..so if anyone can help me i will surely appreciate it....thanx alot!!!!

hey sarline here.

THe best way to study is find a quiet place.
we all have diffrent studying methods. like me i usually write a song about what iam studying.Tell your parents and siblings that you really need to study the will uderstand. go over notes and all

And get some of them to share their styding methods with you and maybe quiz.


Don't use a song that only work for some people.
but try it.
bye
write back comments and question
Good luck

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i really wanna give this guy a bj and even have sex with him but i just cant get myself around to do it. like the fact just scares me n hes asked me to do it a few times n he sed he'd eat me out too which i wanna do. i want to but im too scared to. how do i cure my scaredness?

sarline here

it is okay to be scared. the fact is your bf is probaly giving you peer pressure. you shouldn't do it if you are not ready. And the thing you can out of it is your pride and dignity.


just say no because from what you say i can tell you are not ready.

write back
sarline
love to see your comments

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like for girls people say gorgous, pretty, beautiful, but what would i say to my boyrfriend. i say he is cute and sweet all the time but what else??

hey sarline here.
how about your handsome, the best boyfriend ever, everything a girl hopes for, awesome and the best


write back
and bye

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WHAT ARE SOMETHINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH A MALE FRIEND ON THE phone???...really dont know...cuz i kno he likes me...just what should we talk about???...thanx alot!!!!

xoxoxox

hello

you can talk about movies, games, computer games, play station, wii and get to know what he likes or favorites things to do





bye for now
write comments
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sarline
see you

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Hey there, im 16f. I really am starting to think that everyone in my family is starting to take me for granted and just, not appreciate me. I am the middle child, that may be part of it, but. I live with my mom, my older bro 17, and my younger sis 10. A few examples are, when i do dishes, no body notices because my bro dirties them all up about ten minutes later, when i spend time with my family they treat me as if im an outsider.
- I had this really good friend that dumped me for my bro and is currently sleeping with him. My mom treats her as a replacement for me. Thats how i feel since my mom always invites her over even though i despise this girl now (she comes over enough as it is to see my brother), has 'private' convos about her life with this gal (stuff i don't know is happnin in her life), spends quality time with her, and doesn't care that im hurt seeing this 'so-called friend' suck faces with my bro. Besides he has three other girls hes going with right now! Today, my sister started crying, i did't even know, and my mom was like "hey, did you hit her or something!!" and I was thinking 'jeeze, i did't even know' and it is NOT like me at all to hit someone or be mean or anything like that. But my mom seems to think everythings pretty much my fault, except when my bros around. Hes a troublemaker. I work pretty much eveyday of the week. Part-time after school and on weekends. I would much rather be at work then at home, at least i can see everybody in my town, have a real conversation, and know these people appreciate me. I am very independant, and when i come home its like 'I don't belong here.' Because there is my 'so called friend' on the couch living here. Shes here every night. I don't like looking at her for too long. Whenever I help my sister with her homework for example, my sister will ask how do you spell 'pineapple' and i will tell her, but she isn't listening, so she gets mad and i tell her again, and she is still not listening. My mom then says to me "why won't you tell her the word?! it isn't too hard!" and i get in shit for trying to help her with her homework. Then, two minutes later, my 'so-called friend' walks in, and since she is so goody goody with my sis, she helps her and they are total best friends. That is how easy i am replaced. I don't like being in my home being degraded most the time. It doesn't make me feel appreciated at all. I keep a positive attitude, and now mostly try to keep to myself at home because of this. I basically spend most my time in my room. What do I do?! I am slowly getting pushed down into a pit.

hello
sarline here
the best answer i can give you is to talk to your mom and bro. try to get along with her and if that dosen't work make a distance between each other. get to know and make a schedule of when she can come over and talk to your brother about it.
tell your mom how you fell and make her understand. (call a family meeting and discuss your problems). let your voice be heard.
i have been in your shoes before and know how you feel.

bye write back
sarline

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I absolutely love my father, I really do, and he's a great dad and all but... I don't want to live with him any more. He's a slob, he's always moody and he uses his depression as an excuse. He also has a lot of debt and I'm sick of having his weights on my shoulders all the time, you know?

My brother has offered me that if I want to, I can rent a room of his house. I'm thinking of taking this up and possibly bringing a friend with me so it'd be less rent for me to pay 'cause we'd be splitting it. He's a reliable guy, too.

Does this seem like a bad idea? I'm 15 and a half, I'm paid $800 a month from my job, I plan on staying in school and my brother lives close to the school.

I'm just afraid my dad will get upset and stop talking to me.

hello.
iam exactly in your shoes right now except for the isult part. if you really love your dad you should try and help him not run away from him. you could ask your brother for help so that you can talk to him about his problems. but he needs you now more than ever. be there for him and help him and you might get an even bigger price.

p.s: i have also been they the best i did was help out because i love both my parents.

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At my school we have cheerleaders obviously. But last year i didn't make it, so my friend told me that since thre aren't enough cheerleaders theres going to be another try out in January. I really want to make it. So any tips?

hello
here is what you could do.
practice really hard.
try and show the juges that you are a hardwoker
give all you got
you might definately make it


bye write back
see you.

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16/f and my boyfriend is 15/m

My boyfriend and I just started going out in August and his birthday is on October 22nd. I really have no idea what to get him. I know he loves baseball, but I don't want to be cheesy and get him something baseball-related. I also don't want to get him clothes because that's just something I'd like to leave to him. I'd greatly appreciate if I could have some nice (not cheesy!) gift ideas for him. Thank you so much in advance!

hello

if you want to get a great gift for your boyfriend try going to a romantic place together.
a place that dosen't cost alot. just take him out and spend the evening together. oh maybe you get get tickets to a baseball game or somthing that you know he really likes like you!
here is an idea!
prepare a romantic meal at your house or palce that he would never forget

bye and write back
see you

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I'm losing all my friends because im annoying and the im always being a beep all the time how can i get my friends back or get new ones


P.S. almost everyone teases me cuase im short could u give me combacks to the teasing to

hello

if your friends says you are annoying then don't be annoying. i put myself in your shoes because my friens always told me how annoying i was but i did not want to listen and i was right not to. sometimes they are just teasing you. sometimes it is just how u are made. so just try to blend in and have fun and prove that you are not annoying.

p.s. you are not the only one that is short in the school or world. you might some people have more problems than you so consider yourself very bright and be happ with youre height.

bye and write comments
see you

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How do u lose weight without medicine?

to lose weight without medicine you must excersise and if u are not into that, go on a healthy diet. works like a charm


write back
sarline

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I really want a bf but im not so confident around guys how should i talk to guys and how should i get a guy to like me enough to ask me out please help.

well to do that, you have to make sure he is right for you. and you guys need to have something in comment (spelled that badly). you need to approche slowly like start as friend and see how it goes.


bye
write back

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my really good friedns had to go to summer school and she started hanging otu with the wrong ppl now she does pot out of a can a drinks lots of achocol nad i dont know what to do

well u need to reminde your friend of how she was before she turn to wrong crowd. You need to turn for help if she does not change. she must be a good friend, she just need to be helped to be what she was. And she needs you


bye
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Ok, sooo I babysit two little girls and they are 8 and 9 years old. I'm 14 and they always ask me to bring something fun for them to do. And I don't have things they would like anymore considering I'm 14 !!! Then I always ask them what the wanna do, and they say idk, or ugh I'm sooo bored!!!!


So, any tips on what I can do with them or bring for them to play with????

considering their age
a fun thing for you and them to do is to take them to the park and play.
if that dosen't work even though your'e 14 try doing something that you did when you were their age. and just have fun
tust me it works.
bye thanks for writting

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ok im in eighth grade right now and im in advance orchestra. should i start learning vibrato? :|

No finish and make sure you play the orchestra very well before you try something else.

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16/f
my parents keep such a strict eye on me, and i really just want to have fun. i got caught in my friend's car a couple of weeks ago when she was still on JOL, so i was grounded and now they're keeping an even closer watch on me.
tomorrow night, my friend is having a sort of party and i want to go. there will be alcohol there, and i want to have some to let loose and have fun. i don't know what to say to my parents, because i know they'll call me to ask what i'm doing and thoroughly question me. they need to let me make my own mistakes, but they don't understand that.
any advice on what to do about tomorrow night and in the future with my parents?
Thank you

your parents know what is best for you.
they love you and want to keep you safe.
at the same time they might be overdoing it so let them know they can tust you by showing them that they have raise you well.
and please don't drink alcohol. just try water or soda.just because your friends are drinking it dosen't mean you have to


bye and thanks for writting

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I know I've asked quite a few questions..
But heres another. Lol..


Well my friend "Jessica" likes a guy named "Anthony." She's liked him for a while now. They went out like a year and a half ago. But she's still not over him. Now she has a boyfriend named "Ryan." But shes still not over Anthony... But now im starting to like Anthony too. And i don't know what to do. I wouldnt wanna do anything to risk me and her friendship.. Shes just head over heels for one guy one minute.. then with the other another minute. Its sorta annoying.. But i dunno...


HELP?

u have to ask your friend to make a decision.
ask to choose a guy and stay with that guy.
or it might keep creating confussion.
make sure she has choosen with whom she would stay with then make your move.

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