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i really wanna give this guy a bj and even have sex with him but i just cant get myself around to do it. like the fact just scares me n hes asked me to do it a few times n he sed he'd eat me out too which i wanna do. i want to but im too scared to. how do i cure my scaredness?
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i agree with all the other responses you got but i know your position. you are scared, and pressured but in a way you want it.
i had the bj problem for a long time.
and getting eaten out is fucking AMAZING haha
so just let him worry about that part, not you.
the bj part....is just scary all around. i remember being scared i was going to be bad at it, but really theres no way you can be. tell him what you are really worried about about giving him a bj. if it is anywhere close to what i was scared about, he can tell you what to do and you will be just fine!
hope i somewhat helped.
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honestly if you are scared and want to cure it is because you are not ready. And thats okay, its fine. You should never do something b/c you feel you have to or are being forced. If you are scared wait until you truly feel safe and unafraid. Tell him you just aren't ready yet, and leave it at that.
Sorry if this sin't what you wanted to hear, but if it just scares you then just take some time to figure it out. No worries.
Good luck! :)
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You can't "cure" it, because you're simply not ready. Stop fooling yourself, because by your question, it's obvious you are.
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This probably isnt what you wanted to hear but, i am not completely sure that you are ready. There is a difference between being nervous, and being scared "not getting yourself around to doing it" I was extremely nervous my first time, but i wasnt scared. Another thing, which the other person stated below is peer presure. Dont do anything that you arent comfortable with. It seems to me that he is kinda peer pressuring you. Youre first time you will be nervous, but if your scared then i dont think youre ready yet.
GOOD LUCK!
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sarline here
it is okay to be scared. the fact is your bf is probaly giving you peer pressure. you shouldn't do it if you are not ready. And the thing you can out of it is your pride and dignity.
just say no because from what you say i can tell you are not ready.
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sarline
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