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Q: for my health project i have to find out what turns a guy on about a girl and what guys like a girl to do them! so guys please help me here! thanks bunches
They like big boobs. And blowjobs, they always like blowjobs.

Q: I am a nineteen year old female living in Southern California. Years ago, when I was barely in elementary school, I was physically and sexually abused.

Though I believe I've moved past those issues, I notice that try as I might, I can't have an orgasm. I want to know how I would move beyond this problem and continue with my daily life.

Cheers.
I saw this Nip/Tuck episode once, and before the girl could have an orgasm with a guy, she first had to become comforable with herself. Being as the show is fiction, I can't say it would really work, but it sounds good. So try and learn how to pleasure yourself first.

Q: I have a friend (lets call her gina) and she'll be my friend for one minute and egt mad at me for nothing the next. and im really getting tired of it. its getting old and she's kinda popular and hangs out with a lot of my friends but if i get mad at her, she gets other people involved in hating me and if shes mad at me, so are they. what should i do. P.S, I rate 5's
-Brittany
Stop hanging with her.

Q: hey everyone i was just wondering, because this guy liked me before and now he doesn't. he says i'm boring. i think he only liked me before was because he didn't know me, now he kinda does and doesn't like you. how do i get him to want me/like me? he knows i like him and he told me he doesn't like me like that, but we could do stuff. i want for him to regret not asking me out. how do i do that? thanks in ad advance! i rate good. any tips are good!
Leave him alone. He doesn't like you get over it.

Q: well, I REALLY like this one guy, I mean REALLY LIKE and I have a feeling he likes me too. I have two classes with him and he like stares at me, but like alot of the time, I think a guy likes me and he doesn't.... so I need like to figure out if he likes me, can anyone help me?
How the fuck could we help you? Just ask him, or tell him you like him. Duh.

Q: As part of our spirt week we are having a twin day where you dress up like someone else intentionally. So my boyfriend and i want to be twins, but weve already done this a couple times and we ran out of ideas. We did matching basketball jerseys and matching hoodies. I was thinking making IM WITH STUPID shirts, but it seems kinda, well stupid! Anybody got any better ideas?
Try being a twin with a girl, becasue that would be a hell of alot easier, and it would keep your boyfriend from looking like a queer.

Q: well i have this friend and she is all nice and stuff around me...but when another person is around us shes different...for example today we went to abercrombie and i grabbed this shirt and she said she didnt like it...but then when my other friend came and said she liked it, she changed her mind...what should i do about it?
Do about what? Your friend changed her mind and that means shes mean around you. Stop being so emo! You know what maybe she doesn't like you and is trying to tell you to kill yourself.

Q: Evcer since i was littel. .everyone hads been calling me a duck because of the way that i walk. . .i really just need help0 to learn how not to care what people think. .sometimes i wish i could just be someone elese or something. . .
They should make fun of the way to type/spell instead.

Q: my boyfriend is really mean to me, he gets mad at everything, sometimes hes nice and sweet but then other times hes mean. like today i told him someone was trying to get wit me and he goes ok im like do you care? hes like no and i sad your a asshole and he said i know and then i said im gonna laugh when i die cuz the kid was really bothering me and wouldnt leave me alone and hes like punch him in the face. hes soo mean some times. how do i get him to be nicer?
You should dump him, because that can turn into abuse.

Q: my friend just pantsed my bf and his underwear came down too! he's supposed to come over tonight...i don't know how i'm going to face him!!! HELP!
Was he big?

Q: Anyone know where I can get one of those jackets that Mathew Lesko has?
I have no clue, but if you find one, you will be the coolest person ever.

Q: OKay...i am 15....I had my first period in Nov of 2004....and i started my period yesterday...this has never happend to me before...but...When i go pee...i bleed too....why is that???? like...i bleed more than i pee...and the blood is all gooey and chunky...i hope non of u think im weird...im just really nervous...because this has never happend to me before..
thanks girls
First of all, don't use so many periods, use one or commas. Second, it's normal, at least I think it is.

Q: ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)
Tell her your gay, that would be awesome. Oh and if your not even done with puberity there is no way in hell you 'love each other VERY much!!' thats dumb.

Q: I have a friend at school, his name is Tyler. He isn't your popular jock. No girls like him. Just recently iv learned he likes me and would want to go out with me. We are very good friends.
And if I went out with him and we break up, I'm afraid it would ruin our friend ship. What should I do? Help!!!!!!!!!!

Please reply ASAP
Why the fuck is this in the "sex" area? Are you not aware there is a "love life" section?

Q: Can you have sex when you're on your period? If so, what should you do? Also, is sex better (for male & female) if you shave your vagina? What does "popping the cherry" mean and does it happen every time you have sex & does it hurt? Sorry so many questions!
You can have sex if you're on your period but thats nasty. And sex isnt better or worse if you shave your vagina, that only matters if the guy is going down on you. "Popping the cherry" is a term that means breaking your hymen which is a fold of tissue that is inside your vaginal orifice and it breaks (most the time) when you have sex for the first time. And it can hurt to have sex for the first time but some times it doesnt, but for most it does, but not alot. Also I hope your not planning on having sex soon, because from your question you seem kina younge and you shouldnt be having sex if you have to ask what those things are. (not calling you dumb just younge)

Q: ok i have this friend and he's a guy and hes really cute but were just friends and we like to do sexual things but we havent had sex or anything. i showed him things and he's showed me things on our bodys.well we got into 3 fights and when we stop talking to each other he always comes and apologizes to me and i forgive him. now its a regular day in school and he calls my cell phone and askes me to come get him out of class so we can have sex in the stairwell in school. i wanna have sex with him but then im not sure were like really close friends and having sex with him it wont be the same after because it will be akward talking to him after we have sex. well if any one can give me some advice please cwrite back

signed: sexually wrecked princess
It would have helped alot if you put an age, and if your a virgin or not, but oh well. If your able to do sexual things with him and things be the same, then sex shouldnt be any different.

Q: I like this guy who's quite weird. People calls him a nerd. He seems so quiet, aloof, shy but incredibly smart. I didn't get to talk to him often, but when he talks to me, i notice that his voice goes soft. Other times when we were discussing a project in a group, he either seems bored, brash, flustered or really egoistical. He seldom talks to people in class in the past, but recently he seems happier. He seems to dislike me at first, either ignoring me or giving sarcastic coments just like he does most people, but now he seems to talk to me a bit. Then the other day he suddently comes around and calls my name and calls me his sweetheart. What does that mean? Does he like me or was he just joking?
Maybe people since people call him a nerd he just thinks that you were just predenting to be nice to him to turn around and be mean, but now that he knows that your a nice person he sees that he can let down his guard. So I would think that he does like you at least as a friend and you should try and make more out of it.

Q: Hey everyone,

Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female
Wait, you've never talked to him and yet there is sexual tension? Lmao! Haha, If I read that wrong I'm sorry, but if I read it right your a loser.

Q: Hi,
I was just putting in some new clean bedding for my rabbit and I reached into the hay bag and a very sharp bit of hay got stuck in my hand, about 3mm in. I pulled it out and it bled. I've washed it and put a plaster on but I was wondering if I can catch any kind of infection from that? It's clean hay and I've had my tetanus jab. Should I put antiseptic cream on? And now or when it's healed a little?
Sorry I dont really have an answer, but where are you from? I like the way you talk (or type whatever).

Q: i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
I lost mine when I was 15 and it wasnt because I didnt have respect, it was just because I wanted to and he was really hot. Also guys still have repect for me, just because your a girl and have sex doesnt mean guys think your an easy slut.

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not much to say, other than i'm a vegan, so i love animals.
my favorite thing to do is ride my bike around on nice spring days.

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