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I've taken nude pictures on my webcam before, and little did I know computer stores see everythin you do on your computer, including see the pictures taht you see. Some guy has them and sent them to a lot of people i dont know, now he found my syke adress and is harassing me saying hes going to send them to my family and friends. Please how do I go about this to the police? Who do I contact? Im only 16, a minor in my state. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
be honest and tell them they have seen worse i promise. your parents well get over it the police will give you a warning and a lecture and they will move on just tell them


Hello! 14 f


Okay well to start off, I'm the shy type I don't ujust well to new things..when I first started middle school..I was terrified and I couldnt handle it to well. Now I will be a freshmen and I'm freaking out..I'm stressing and worrying..:/ My boyfriend has been in the high school for a few years now, he told me I'll get use to it and I'll be fine. He said I shouldn't worry because he'll be there for me. :x Well Still..can someone give me an insight? How was your peoples freshmen year? How did you get use to it! Thanks for all the advice you share! Thanks! (link)
alright take advice from me i am going into my freshman year too im about to tur n14 and i know that is scary but remember you have all your friends to get to look forward to seeing. it isn't much different from middle school. of course youll hate some things and love others trust me it will be fun


Hey everyone, 22/f.

Basically, just like my subject says, I have a tattoo on my back of a symbol that's pretty important to me (I designed it), but I'm beginning to see a future for myself in which I don't want to have a tattoo. So, I'm looking at getting rid of it. It's all black ink and the size of my palm, approximately.

1. Has anyone tried Wrecking Balm? I ordered it, I have it, but I'm concerned about skin damage, as I know it's basically a bunch of chemicals. I don't really have sensitive skin anywhere, but I am pretty pale, and scar easily, ish.

2. Has anyone tried laser removal, or intense pulsed light? The only issue with these is that I really don't have a ton of money. So, I dunno.

I'm basically asking for any advice you can give me on this. I've made my decision; I just need to know how to reach my end goal in the best way possible.

Thanks!! :) (link)
lazer removal is the only way the other stuff doesnt work


Should I get the powershot s90 or sd4000IS?
It doesn't help that they are close in price either. So which one is better?

http://www.amazon.com/Canon-PowerShot-SD4000IS-Digital-Optical/dp/B003L77Y5S/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=electronics&qid=1277861671&sr=1-1

http://www.amazon.com/Canon-PowerShot-Digital-Optical-Stabilized/dp/B002LITT42/ref=cm_cmu_pg__header (link)
the second one the s90 you get more for your money


16/f

My mother is a very confrontational person. I love her but she is. Well, just in the car we where talking and nearly everything I had to say she had the completely opposite view on.

For one, we talked about piercings and tattoos. I love both, well my mom is a different story. I was talking to her about what kind of body art I would want in the future and how I would also like to stretch my ears (aka gauges/plugs). She completely flipped and started telling me how if I get piercings and tattoos I won't get a job and be homeless. Also, that I should want to make myself look like a freak. Completely blowing it out of proportion. I was really offended by this because I love it and do play on getting it done to myself when I am eighteen and can without her permission. I told her I wouldn't let other people's opinion get to me because I like it and that's all that matters to me. She said well you should! And I don't agree with that at all. What do you think?

I think that body art has become more of a common thing and is more accepted.

She got me kind of upset. I don't want to make her not proud of me. She said when I am out of her house I can do whatever the hell I want but she will still have the same opinion and so will I. (link)
look im a teenager to i personally think you should respect your mom and do what she says while you are under her roof but think about it it is your life not hers you can do whatever you want when you are out of her care


hey. my name is evan. im 15 years old. i currently have melanoma skin cancer. this is kinda embarassing to ask but my older brother punches me in the junk for no reason alot and i just wanted to no why it hurts so much to be hit there. and also y does it hurt girls to be hit there? and y do i feel like throwing up when it happens. i hope these questions didnt make u feel uncomfortable. thanks for your help. (link)
face it no matter where u get hit it will hurt!!!!!! GIRLS INCLUDED!!!!!! And it doesnt hurt that bad and it is because it travels through your stomach (the pain does)


ok so people are talking about cumming! And whn thy say this they are like well u cum hen I'm having sex or what not and I have no idea what it is. I know it's like sperm but for a girl? I haven't had my period but I have masturbated. The only thing is I don't know the differinces between distcharge before it cone out and cum!? Pleas help!!! I need it! :( thanks in advance! (link)
when a female cums she releases just a bunch of random fluiids in her tubes... people also use it as slang for orgasm and discharge is the same thing glad i could help any questions for me go ahaed and ask


I have been casually seeing this guy for around a year now. For the first 6 months it was just a laugh like nothing serious but now we are getting quite serious like he tells me his feelings are soo strong for me and stuff. We're always out, tell each other everything and like plans for the future and stuff. But he is geniunely scared of relationships. He was in one for 2 years and he's still best friends with the girl but they constantly argue and stuff and he says he doens't want me and him to ruin what we've got by a relationship. He's never seen a steady one seen as his parents split up, he had been cheated on when he was younger and alot of his friends parents have split up. i think he has alot of trust issues.

Thing is i have really fallen for him, we've been through alot together and alothough we're not actually in a relationship he always txts me random things like "my feelings for you are so strong" or "your an amazing person and i'm so glad with where we are" Last night i told him i love him and he seemed a bit taken aback by it, he said that they are really strong words but i just said thats how i feel i'm not expecting you to say anything back, maybe i shouldn't have said anything, then he said he was glad i did and nothing will change between us.


Does it matter he didn't say it back?
What do you think of our whole situation of not been fully committed?
Sorry it's long (link)
hes just scared im sorry but he is scared if he get close to a girl in a sensual relationship he might get his heart broken again give him time to come around you will grow on him and he will end up loving you for you. he is just scared so he didnt say anything its ok. i think you should take it slow let him come around at his own time. if you have anymore questions ask me. i'd love to see how this turns out


sooo i really love the dress in this picture:

http://little-bit-of-love.tumblr.com/post/762087460/rosekayy-via-thesewereherconfessions

and i was wondering if anyone knows where i can get a dress like this? i live in Maryland, but online stores work tooo.

i just really like the lace detail at the bottom, thanks in advance! (link)
ebay...amazon.... kohls


soo a couple a days ago i got high for the first time. i had smoked two previous times but i didnt get high. however, when i got high i colapsed to the floor, and my whole body was throbbing with pain. it was terrible, and i thought that it would go on forever but it did stop. i am just wondering why that happend, and if it will happen if i smoke again. (link)
nah crap it will happen again look depending on what you are smoking it could be anything but more then likely it was a miniature seazure be thankful it didnt kill you and dont do it again youll die... yes even weed


me and my sis have the same best friend named hailey and shas gunna start comming over like every day and i need ideas of what to do when she does lots of ideas please!!!!!!! (link)
swimming is always fun... other than that i really dont know... sorry


how do you know if your a good kisser? how do you learn to kiss? whats the best kinda kiss? (link)
you dont need to learn to kiss its impossible..... you just get experience and you will find what you and your partner like. the best kind of kiss though is one that is enjoyable for both of you. oh and there is no such thing as a bad kisser


I was told that shisha was not addictive but now I find myself craving it every single day. I cannot go without it or I cannot sleep or function properly. I feel pathetic and low. I've never felt so depressed and bad in my entire life. Heck, I've never spent so much money on something like this crap in my entire life. I don't even have an addictive personality so I don't know why I'm so...addicted!

Please, help me kick this habit. It's terrible, making me broke, and ruining my life. It's ruining my life. What do I do? How do I stop smoking shisha? I'm begging for real help here. (link)
Ok First off you should not have started smoking in the begginning. that was your first mistake. look i am going to tell you the easy way to GET OVER IT(!!!!!!!) try throwing it away and just not buying more. or you could do the easy way and go down one by one every day until your out it works very well if your not strong enough just to throw it away


m/18

next feb or so i will be joing the army, and i really need to work on my cardio. I have a gym membership and i do 5 minutes on the treadmil, the bike, and the stair master. Every week i add an extra minute to every thing. My question is that an acceptable way to get better cardio? Also is there anything else i can do to supplement it or any other exercises i can do to help? (link)
yes but start at 30 and always stretch first and try mixing up the speeds inclines and difficulty


My bestfriend never talks to me anymore. Like i'll go up to her and ask her if she wants to sit by me she'll just snuff me all the time. I'm almost 16 and I'm a female. If someone could please give me advice that would be nice.
Thx (link)
shes not avoidng you but seriously everybody needs a break every now and then. its nothuing to get upset over


My mother has been physically and emotionally abusive all my life. the are spells of good, normal times but the bad times come unexpectedly. I am 47 years old. my mother has been helping my fund my child's education. She graduated in the top of her class , we had a party went out for dinner and had a great time. my daughter made a slide show of pictures of her growing up with the family. my mother felt that the other grand parent had more pictures. they have given very little to their education. She feels disrespected and this had grown into a major emotional problem. The video my daughter made was wonderful and I know my daughter felt she was fair and didn't count the pictures. she has turned a beautiful thing into something horrible. my mother was helping me with my other daughter's education and we need the help. she wants my kids to acknowledge that she helped and they refused. she doesn't want them to respect them. Mostly she is making me feel like I did something wrong and I know I didn't . what do I do? Am I crazy?
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first off your daughter need to be thankful!!!! and she needs to show that to your mother...you are not crazy. look if you are 47 your mother is probbaly near the end of her life make if glorious for her how would you want to remember your last times with her . your daughter needs to awcknowlegde that 2




Is it just something that some people get luckily,or can it passed on from your parents? My dad eats a LOT of junk,he eats a lot of hot stuff too and a lot of salt. he puts salt on everything and he eats all day. He also goes to the bathroom a LOT. He weighs 150 pounds and it looks like he cant gain more than that. Hes been eating like this for years, he eats wayy more than me and he doesn't gain anything.
I think its lucky to have high metabolism cuz u can eat all the junk you want and gain no weight. I would love to do that.How does he have high metabolism and how can I get it? (link)
he has the matabolism becauseits in his genes u cant get it


my ex boyfriend only wants what he doesnt have (me) we have been off and on again and now are just mates. he admitted to likeing me yesterday but i think were better off as mates. does this work out sometimes? (link)
if you like him tell him and be with him just tell him to cut the crap and lets face it you want to be more then mates just tell hime and see what happens gou out give him 1 omre try


17/f I've been dating this guy since March 25th and last night i had a dream (nightmare) that he cheated on me. i wont go in to too many details but it was with my sister in the dream *i dont have a sister in real life* and one of her friends. i walked in and i started crying and he didn't think he did anything wrong. their shirts were off and i had to try and explain that it would be the same thing if i was there with his brother but he said it wasnt...why would i dream about him cheating on me? it's freaking me out and i don't want to sleep again let alone kiss my boyfriend... anything you can tell me about this would be great......please don't tell me to use dreammoods. :/ (link)
dreams are just that dreams it more then likely has nothing to do with real life... it is just fine calm down just talk to him personally


I don't want to be just friends with this person I want to be more. So that's what I'm doing I emailed him it's just I can't pretend I don't have these feelings I don't want us to catch up as friends more like catch up and get to know each other as more than friends I mean we use to hold hands hug all that stuff we spoke about being with each other so many times I know he must care more than a friend but I just don't want to be only his friend I love this guy its hard to accept him as just a friend. He told me he keeps the messages because it makes him happy when he reads it its so confusing lol (link)
Just tell hime you like him and ask him out just get it over with but ask himm in person its always better




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