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how do you learn to kiss?
how do you know if your a good kisser? how do you learn to kiss? whats the best kinda kiss?
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you dont need to learn to kiss its impossible..... you just get experience and you will find what you and your partner like. the best kind of kiss though is one that is enjoyable for both of you. oh and there is no such thing as a bad kisser
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My best advice is to relax, and invest in some Carmex. Best. Lip. Balm. EVER. As far as what you do while you kiss, don't pucker up - if you pucker your lips, they'll feel hard and unpleasant. You'll know if you're a good kisser when you have some practice. Don't be nervous; just kiss the way you want to BE kissed.
As weird as this sounds, you can practice using your hand as a hand puppet (you know, the kind where the thumb is the lower jaw and you move that to make it talk). Soft, slightly squishy lips are the most pleasant to kiss. My boyfriend, for example, is the most incredible kisser. He kisses gently and sweetly, and I feel like I could just sink into his lips forever.
I think the best kind of kisses are gentle, loving, and slow, with little to no tongue. Don't get me wrong, it's fun to play around with that a little, but too much tongue is just...slobbery and messy, and all-in-all unpleasant. I once dated a guy who couldn't kiss me without tongue, and it was awful. On the other hand, my current boyfriend likes to use tongue when things get a little more passionate...*ahem*. A good balance is important.
Anyway, those are my two (or three) cents on the subject. If you have any other questions, feel free to drop a question in my inbox. I always answer. :)
Siren
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Trust me, it comes naturally. It's very hard to be a "bad kisser". Just don't knock teeth, no biting, and don't slobber all over the guy. You'll know what I mean when you kiss a guy, it's really quite easy and nothing to worry about :)
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