Hello Everyone. I am Kaci. I am 18. I may be young, but I can give some good advice. If you ever need anything at all, do not heistate to ask. I'll help the best I can.
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im 5 days late...is there any other reason i could be late? (link)
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I just went through this! My period has always been regular, on time, the only time it was late was maybe a day or two. (It came at the 14th of every month) But this time it was 2 weeks late! I was freaking out when the 14th of November came and no period. I began stressing that I was pregnant, which wasn't good. Stressing over your period will only delay it. So try not to stress. I took 3 pregnancy test, and all came back negative. I was a little relieved. Than finally after I stopped stressing about being pregnant, my period finally came on the 27th. Normal period, heavy, 7 days, ect.
I'm 19. My birthday is the 20th of November, and my period usually comes on the 14th. (I know all this info you don't care for, but I'm trying to calm you down, lol)
I went to the doctor to get a blood test done, just to be in the safe. It came back negative. My doctor told me that usually when a female gets older, closer to being out of the teens (ranges from 18-24) their period will change on its own. He said it could also be from stresses of everyday life. Excess weight gain/loss, not eating right, exercising, ect.
I highly doubt your pregnant though.
If you notice spotting, don't freak out. I had some light spotting as well. It was just from where the period was trying to form, but it couldn't because of excess stress and such. Once you begin to think your pregnant, your body starts to believe it. Weird I know, but thats what my doctor told me.
Btw..if you do recieve your period, don't be alarmed if you get it twice in one month. Its just your body trying to cycle your period back to its normal range.
Like I said above. I usually got my period on the 14th. I was late, had it on the 27th-4th of December,
than on the 14th of Dec. I got my NORMAL period again, full 7 days. I freaked out, called my doctor, and he told me that it was normal. My body just trying to get back on my regular cycle.
Hope I helped! Just relax! Don't stress. If you want to relieve some stress, than how about taking a pregnancy test? Go and get first response; and take it first thing in the morning. I know the anxiousness of being pregnant will get to you and yo'll wanna take it sooner, but its false hope. Don't take it during the day because as the day progresses, your pee begins to be watered down, and that makes it hard for the test to read.
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17/f
My boyfriend is 18. I have no idea what to get him for Christmas. I was gonna get him a picture of us with some other stuff but I wanted to save that for Valentines Day.
He's not really into sports. He likes video games like any other guy but he has the ones he wants and I'm not really good choosing.
Then I was gonna get him a TV series of the show we both like but its on netflix soo yeah.
I got him a jacket for his birthday. I'm not sure what else he'd like but I want it to be something he'll like.
Any ideas would be really appreciated. Thanks so much! (link)
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How about some cologne? A shaving kit? A new hat? A shirt? Some homemade coupons are really good. You can write them out to say "Free 10, 15, 20 minute massage, a cooked meal, being his servent for the day," ect.
Its reallly hard to give you head on gift ideas because I don't know your boyfriend personally.
How about gift cards for a date night? Like gift card to his favorite place to eat, gas card, and even a gift card to a movie theater, bowling, or whatever else he likes to do. That way its something both of you can do together. (:
Or how about a gift card to his favorite store, that way he can pick out what he wants?
Does he were any type of jewelry? LIke my boyfriend wears chains- and I got him an engraved ring with our names on it for christmas.
If you like the idea of the gift cards, (which most people don't. They want something with more value to it) than you can do him a stocking. Put the gift cards in there, put him some of his favorite candies in there, even some deoderant (sp) cologne, and whatever else can fit in there. My boyfriend's favorite part at Christmas is his stocking, so I made him two of them.
You just really need to watch and remember converstaions you and your lover have had. Tell him to write down the top 5 things he wants for Christmas, and get him a couple of things off of there.
That way he won't know exactly what it is he's getting, but it'll be something he wants,
or you can do what I did last year on Christmas, ASk his mother. They always know. Or maybe his dad?
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It's been more than a year that my last relationship ended and I am still not totally over it, but I have a classmate who I am really close to. I am 20, i am at my second year of the university and I know this guy since i started it. He tried at me once after we knew each other for 1 month, but he was drunk, i dont know if it counts than. I kinda let him down than because he was too fast, but i regreted it...So, we are really good friends, we study together, we laugh a lot together and I got to like him a lot. I know he likes me too, but I do not know if he wants anything. He sometimes comes over, we watch film or cook something and all. But nothing happens. I know it is kinda because of me too, because I cant really snow much feelings, but I like him a lot and I am trying my best to show him i am interested (i help him in homeworks, i cook for him, i let him talk about his favourite topics). I dont know how else to show him...or make him to make a step. To make sure what he wants. I know he and his ex girlfriend are really good friends, and he sometimes talks about her. I don't get him, I dont know how to make him tell me what he wants. I cant ask him, I am not good at talking. When he is with me i feel really comfortable and time flies so fast. I don't trust anyone, but I know i could trust him. I need help from someone to tell me what to do. I dont like to stay this undecided. Thank you for anyone for the help in advance.
Kata
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The things you do that you think are showing him you like him aren't any different than what you guys do. Like its all friendly based. Nothing more. This is probably why he hasn't made a move; either that or fear of being rejected again.
I know you said your shy, and you don't like to talk, but thats the only way to figure out what he wants from you. You have to ask him. If you don't than your always going to be undecided.
How about being more physical with him? Complimenting him more? More flirtatious?
If you don't feel comfortable askin him in person, than do it over the phone.
But I recommend you doing it in person.
You shouldnt come right out and say, "Hey do you like me as a girlfriend?"
Ease your way into it. Like this,
"you remember that night you were drinking and you asked me out? Did you mean it, or was it just the liquior talking?"
Once he answers.
If yes he meant it than..
"Do you still mean it, or have your feelings changed, HONESTLY?"
And go with what he says. More than likely they haven't changed. You just need to be confident and ask!
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And again, thanks for the help :)
Well, at this point, I'm really thinking about just letting it go and stop thinking about it (thats actually what my friends think aswell), if she wants to keep our friendship than its fine with me, if not, its her loss, I'm not gonna be the one who keeps our friendship going by being the only one calling and messaging...We haven't talked since the last time we saw each other (Monday), and I think I'll just try moving on and not try to contact her (unless she does it first, which I doubt, although she did say she wants us to stay in touch), maybe I'll contact her in one-two weeks just to say hello and see how things go as you said, I don't know..
About asking her to hang out, I think its too early and will come "out of the blue"...
What do you think? :) (link)
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You are very welcome.
Like I have told you before, you know this girl better than I do. If you feel like my advice is misleading, or isn't helpful or right on the spot, PLEASE don't take it. I can only help you from my point of view, and sometimes I will be either very wrong, or very right.
See this is what I don't understand. Friends hang out. Doesn't matter if its completely random. They hang out. You and her are friends. Calling her up one day and asking her to go out for lunch wouldn't be wrong, at all. Friends do it all the time. There is NEVER a wrong time to ask someone to hangout.
Hanging out is what makes a friendship grow. It helps expand it. A friendship will not go anywhere with neither of you putting in effort of talking or seeing each other. Just because you guys hang don't mean ya'll are dating or anything. It's just as friends.
But like i said, if you believe this girl isn't right for you and you believe its best to just let go. Than let go. Obviously your friendship doesn't mean anything to her, because she isn't do anything to keep it. Let her go. Completely. Forget about the friendship. If she texts or calls you, cool. But consider it as an aquaintance. Nothing more, nothing less UNTIl she makes that extra, special effort.
I honestly believe that she saw you as an employee, someone to talk to at work. Now that work is over, she has no reason to speak to you. Put it like this,
Would you rather work with people who thought you were their friend, or their enemey? Working with someone who beleivs is your friend, makes work a lot less stressful, and lot more fun.
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Ok so here's the scoop. My husband and I both are in our 20s. He just got back from a year long deployment in October. Lately i've felt like he doesnt want anything to do with me. He's constantly playing his video games. Like literally all the time! He gets mad when i ask him if he will do simply tasks such as the dishes or just picking up the house a little bit. He's currently on unemployment due to just coming back from deployment. I currently work full time and pregnant. He gets irritated when i ask for a little help and says i need to stop nagging him. I feel like nothing will get done if i dont and the reason i've seen that is because thats how it goes. If i dont push him to do something he wont do it. When i get home from work, i'm tired, exhausted and just wanna relax. But the moment i walk in the door he tells me like oh the dogs need to be fed, etc. I'm just like you cant do simple tasks while i'm at work? He literally sits on the couch playing on his xbox or computer. I just cant handle it. He doesnt spend any time with me. I usually go to bed around midnight due to work, and he doesnt come to bed until like 6am or sometimes 8am. I have to like beg him to come to bed and he'll leave sometimes when i fall asleep just to make me happy but of course i wake up in the middle of the night due to being pregnant and having to pee a lot sorry TMI and find him once again on his games. I'm worried that once the baby comes he's going to continue in his ways, granted the baby isnt due until July but still. Any advice or suggestions on what i should do? I do rate and thanks for reading i just had to get this outta my system! (link)
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I have the same problem with my boyfriend. He would play the game ALL day if I'd let him; than I hear him screaming and cursing at the TV when he dies or something. It irriates me. We live together and when I need help with some house work, he gets all pissy and doesn't do it. Its irritating. It takes TWO people in a relationship and not just one, ya know?
God Bless you for doing everything your doing AND being pregnant! I could not imagine doing what your doing and having someone there who isn't helping at all!
If what the user below me said is true, than you need to really get him help. I just don't see what that problem has to do with games?
If I was you, while he's sleeping or something, I'd take the game away. I'd hide the X-Box, all his games, the remote, and even put a password on the computer. Yes this may make him mad, but tell him you need to talk to him, and this was the only way you could think of to actually sit down and speak to him without being interupted.
Let him know how you feel. Don't bash him, or be rude. Just be calm, cool, and collected. Let him know that being pregnant, working full time, plus house work is really hard. Pregnancy limits you to some things, and it also makes you run out of energy alot quicker than not being pregnant.
The only thing you can do, is talk to him. Sometimes talking doesn't really work; but you need to just let him know that it takes two people in a relationship, and the household responsibilities aren't just yours, their his too. Since you work 8+ hours a day, it would be nice to come home to a clean house so you can just relax and be with him. Enjoy each others company.
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People think i'm liing aobut being a virgin cuz i use extra-large tampons, but its not my fault i have a huge vigina and a wide flow. wht do i do? (link)
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You know this really isn't funny. There are movie boards you can find on google where people like you can go and mock movies that they like. This isn't the place for it.
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Okay! So my boyfriend and I were having sex and the condom broke, but he always pulls out before he busts and as soon as he felt it rip, he pulled out and got a new condom. Im on the backend of my period so i still have some blood, but its very light and little. So im not ovulationg or anything, so im wondering if im okay? If i wasnt on my period, i would be worried but since i still kinda am, im not as scared..but I just wanted to make sure! Thankyaaa :) (link)
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You could be pregnant regardless. There is always that possibility of pre-nut.
But personally, do I think your pregnant? No, I don't. Could there be a chance? Of course.
Just wait ti'll next month and see if you get your period, that really all you can do.
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i want to know how to sruch thick hair (link)
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For best results, do it over night. For example, get your hair wet, DO NOT USE CONDITIONAR, just use shampoo. When you get out of the shower leave a towel on it for about 5-8 minutes. That way it won't be dripping wet, and it will be damp.
Than get some hair spray, mouse, and gel and flip your head over, begin applying the three objects one at a time just like the girl did in the video below. (in the other post)
After that, figure out how you want your hair to set; make it set, and get a rubberband, hair tie, whatever- and pull your hair up in a messy bun, you don't want ANY hair hanging down. YOu can do it in a pony tail, or piggy tails. It doesn't matter. It may work better since you have thick hair to do it in piggy tails.
After its pulled up in a bun looking thing, apply hair spray to the bun. Than take a hair dryer, and apply heat for 5-8 minutes.
Than sleep on it. If you don't want to sleep on it, than just do everything else I said above, but the hair dryer, make sure you do that for 10-12 minutes!
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I'm a 30 yr old Mom of 2, torn between 2 men a man that I'm in love with that I'm not married too and another man that I love but am not in love with and am married too. We used to have an open marriage, but now it's gotten to the point of divorce...
I have 2 children with my husband, but their isn't any love there besides as friends. If there's any suggestions I would totally appreciate it. Thank you (link)
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Get a divorce. I know people don't get divorces when they have kids because of the affect divorces have on marriage. Personally, I'd rather see my parents get a divorce, be happy, rather than being able to tell they aren't happy.
If you really don't want a divorce, you said you guys had an open relationship, how about continuing it? You have to ask yourself, "what is making the relationship between my husband so rocky and bad?"
Maybe its because you have feelings for someone else, and those feelings have made you lose the ones for your Hubby. If thats the case, you don't deserve to be miserable your whole life. You have to do what you have to do.
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So, i have a friend lets call him Johnny, hes a complete sweetheart, hes such a gentleman, were really good friends, before he didnt seem into me, then randomly out of a sudden he asked for my number,asked me to text him, and always asked to call me, that is when we started becoming really close friends, he says he doesnt want a commited relationship because his previous one he was really commited in , she left him and broke his heart.. but whenever were out hell hold my hand when were sittin down , trying to be sneaky til he grabs my whole palm and puts our fingers between eachother, and honestly.. i know i shouldnt be letting him but like it gets so akward.. i dont know how to move until i fake something like "i need to get something from my bag" or reach over to get water, but whenever i let go he just seems to do it again whatever chance he gets, he sweet talks me alot, buys me credit to call him, opens the door for me when i get out of the car or in the car, carries my bag for me, hes a total sweetheart, now my point of this story is basically, his best friend which is my sisters boyfriend says that he isnt the kind of guy they think i should date, hes a GOOD person.. they say, but he isnt for me.. they think its because he does things with girls and all that.. but to me he seems so respectful, never crosses limits and treats me great. they tell me i should limit myself from him because they know the kind of guy he is and they dont want him to pull anything on me, johnny says im so diffrent than any other girl he knows, and that im so innocent and he loves it, because all the girls he knows do the wrong things.
But i really dont know, should i limit myself from him. that way i dont fall for someone that is jus gonna break my heart?
Or should i just not listen to his best friend and continue what im doing? and another question is, its not my fault right.. i usually dont let guys hold my hand unless im with them, but i didnt know how to move it, i didnt want it to get akward , i didnt wanna come off as rude, esp that hes my really good friend and hes such a sweetheart.
thank you, please no rude answers, i didnt ask a stupid question, atleast i dont think so. :) (link)
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Sometimes its good to listen to other people that way it'll help you in the long run. But than again, its also good to figure out things on your own. In any relationship you get into, you will always have that chance for heartbreak. If you do get with this guy, its a lesson well learned right? Wouldn't you rather figure out for yourself, rather than wondering 'what if' all the time?
I think you need to take matters into your own hands, and do what you feel is right for yourself. Not what everyone else thinks is right for you.
The only reason I'd tell you to limit yourself from him is because he told you he isn't ready for a committed relationship. The more he acts the way he is, the more it will confuse you when your feelings really start to build up. You will feel like he lead you on, or he was giving you mixed signals. When he grabs your hand again, you don't have to make it akaward, or be rude. Just simply say something like this,
*Move your hand away*
Look at him and say,
"You know I really like you. Your a total sweetheart and everything; but everytime you do things like this it makes my feelings for you grow stronger; and you told me you weren't ready for a committed relationship so I'd rather you not do things like this until you truly wanted to be with me. I just don't want to be lead on or read your signals the wrong way."
You don't have to say that exactly, but something around those words. That way your letting him know you like him, so you aren't neccessarily rejecting him; and your being nice about it.
Honestly, I think he's into you, but there is something more other than he doesn't want to be in a relationshp because of past experiences.
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how do you know if she really is cheating on him (link)
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She begins to act differently. She's distant. She's shady. You catch her in lies. She isn't where she says she is. She's talking and going out with more guys without letting her boyfriend know. She stops being affectionate completely. She acts more as a friend than a girlfriend.,
These things also get confused when a girl is losing feelings for her boyfriend as well. Sometimes none of those things can mean she's cheating; the best thing to do to find out is to basically spy on her. If your gut is telling you she's cheating, than you need to figure out why you feel that way. And try to do something about it.
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if u get fingered what happens (link)
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Nothing happens. It just gives you pleasure. It used for a subsitution for a male's genitals.
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Can you fist pound yourself? And if so can u do it if u don't have your cherry popped and have never had sex barite? Ps. I'm thireteen and a girl! (link)
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Look, when someone doesn't answer your question it doesn't mean to keep posting it over and over again. Obviously no one wants to answer it.
If you are just that curious, than how about lookin it up on google? Why would you even want to fist pound yourself? Your 13. You shouldn't even be thinking about sexual things. You should be enjoying your life and not even worry about it. Stick to regular masterbation.
The correct definition of a "fist pound" is when you close your hand to make a fist, and you bump with somoene elses hand, like a handshake.
Stop watching porn, that stuff isn't as real as it looks.
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I am 15, and I just realized that I have a string like thing hanging from my vagina. So I started Goggling what it might be. I think I had a Seperate Hymen, and it broke. I have never had sex, and I don't remember ever having pain from it breaking. So if you have anyother ideas on what it might be please tell me. Thanks (link)
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What does it feel like? Is it hard, is it soft?
Is it slimy?
I can't really help you here because it would help to know the texture of it. What color was it? Does it go away when you wipe?
I had something similar happen to me. It was thing, stringy, and it was kind of like silly putty. You could roll it in a ball, and than it would stick to your fingers and you can make it back into a string.
I went to my doctor about it, and he said it was Ovulation. Some women can tell when they ovulate, and some can't. But idk if this is the same case for you.
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OK so this guy asked me out. i like him and all but mostly as a friend but i wouldn't mind if we did but the thing is, is that i feel a bit embarrassed to date him. like I'm afraid that my friends would make fun of me 4 it. but i don't want to turn him down hes a good friend, and if i turn him down it will hurt him and rune our friendship. i really don't want to hurt him but i don't want people to know were dating and i don't want to sound like a jerk either..... please help me i don't know what to do and my friends don't give the best advice. so please please please help me tell me what to do. (link)
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First off, its your life. Not theirs. If they don't support your decision or your happiness than they aren't good friends.
Second off, don't date him just because you don't want to ruin the friendship. If you get with him for all the wrong reasons, and than act shady about it, it will ruin the friendship alot more worse than rejecting him.
Third off, if you like this boy, why would you be afraid of what people thought to the point you wouldn't want others to know you guys were dating? Thats very shallow. Just because he isn't the most popular guy, or the most attractive doesn't mean you can treat him this way. Guys that aren't the best looking, turn out to be the best boyfriends simply beacuse they don't get chances with girls very often, so when they do they treat them the way they want to be treated.
Looks are only skin deep. Looks can fade and people can become ugly with time. So the most sexiest guy in school won't be so sexy later on in life. Personality will always stay the same.
Obviously you don't really like this boy, or you wouldn't want to keep it from being known; so don't even bother. Tell him no because your shallow. You make get offended, but its the truth.
If you realize you do like him, than give him a chance. Who cares what others think. If they are going to judge you for it, than why you need them in your life?? Yes, they may talk for a few days, but after a week or so something else will be the "new" thing for people to gossip about.
I was in your position once. There was this guy, not attractive. but very very sweet. My friends always called him names, and made fun of him; than one day randomly he asked me out on a date. I told him yes. We went out, had a great time. Dated for 8 months. My friends respected my decision and ended up telling me how lucky I was to have such a great boyfriend. He was one of the best boyfriends I've ever had, and I will never regret dating him. He treated me like a real princess, and that doesn't come often these days.
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how to get rid of periods in a short period of time
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This question has been asked alot lately.
So I'll tell you what I've told them.
You can't get rid of your period for a short period of time. Its something you have to deal with.
If you don't like these answers, try google.
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ok, i realized this might be a bit crazy but here we go. today is 12/15, one of my bestfriends is about to have sex for the first time with her boyfriend. PROBLEM IS, she has her period. she cant just want for another time because their parents dont know and their parents are always home and tomorrow will be one night that they wont be home for a little bit. So she got her period yesterday, and shes been figuring out stuff that'll help it. She just needs it to stop for like an hour or two.. and she was doing this stuff like eating all fruits and doing exercises and it actually stopped for like 4 hours. and now im getting like three birth control pills from my other friend, like two hours before shes schedualed to.. well you know. so if she takes it then, will it maybe help? she just doesnt want to be all bloody for her first time.. what other tricks do you guys know? (link)
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Taking three birth controlls at once, is a bad idea. There is nothing you can do to stop a period. If she wants the blood to be reduced than I suggest them getting in a shower, or a hot tub. Water reduces blood.
Tell her for her and her boyfriend to get in the shower (not to have sex) and just fool around. Kissing, body touchin, ect. That'll get them in the 'mood'.
After that, tell her to take it to a bed, and than they can proceed. The blood won't be gone all the way, but it will be less heavier. As soon as they start having sex, her body fluids along with her wetness, discharge, cum ect will also keep the blood flow down.
But seriously, don't let her take 3 different birth controlls. Maybe only take one, but sometimes it takes days, maybe weeks for a birth controll to have an effect on a woman's period.
Make sure they have condoms too. Because being on her period, she can still get pregnant; and that would be a terrible thing especially since her parents don't know.
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Like 2 months after.us breaking up. And we werent talking. I was really drunk :( (link)
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Thats true. Guys are different than girls. They can "love" a girl, and a girl believes they love them the same way; but guys at that age dont really know the real meaning of love.
I was meaning to ask you, do you have a facebook? I'd love to add you, so I can check up on you and see how things are going for you.
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i want to know who is DJ ROWDY A. Also known as RAUL ALIANZA.
i want to know where was he from and how old is he. i want his whole biography.
hehe.ight peace (link)
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There is nothing about him on the internet, so his biography will be hard to find.
Here is an article:
http://www.mountainenterprise.com/atf.php?sid=9573¤t_edition=2011-11-25
His birthday was august 24 , 1990;
Dj Rowdy A drives a 2008 Scion XB // now read this :http://www.pe.com/local-news/riverside-c…
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Me and my boyfriend have been havung unprotected sex for a while now. For the past 9days i was spotting and then 2 days ago just stopped. I ve been feeling a little sick lately but can't really explain what i feel. Iey haven't started my period for this month yet nit i have irreagular periods so I'm not sure if im pate or not! Any advice? (link)
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The only thing to do is sit back and remember what time your period usually comes around.
If you miss a period, your body will let you know, you'll have all the symptons of being on your period, just minus the blood.
Spotting is a sign of pregnancy, but it doesn't neccessarily mean your pregnant. It can be from stress, excessive weight gain/loss, and like you said- you have irregular periods.
Your best bet is to go buy a home pregnancy test; there's one that comes with three. First response is the best.
Do not take it during the day or at night. As you are awake, and going through the day your pee becomes watered down, so it makes the test less accurate.
So take it first thing in the morning, so your pee is fresh.
I'd wait for this month to go by to see if you see a period; if you don't, the only thing you can do to know for sure if your pregnant, is go to the doctor and get a blood test done. Thats the only test than can be 100% accurate.
Good Luck To You!
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