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And again, thanks for the help :)
Well, at this point, I'm really thinking about just letting it go and stop thinking about it (thats actually what my friends think aswell), if she wants to keep our friendship than its fine with me, if not, its her loss, I'm not gonna be the one who keeps our friendship going by being the only one calling and messaging...We haven't talked since the last time we saw each other (Monday), and I think I'll just try moving on and not try to contact her (unless she does it first, which I doubt, although she did say she wants us to stay in touch), maybe I'll contact her in one-two weeks just to say hello and see how things go as you said, I don't know..
About asking her to hang out, I think its too early and will come "out of the blue"...
What do you think? :)
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You are very welcome.
Like I have told you before, you know this girl better than I do. If you feel like my advice is misleading, or isn't helpful or right on the spot, PLEASE don't take it. I can only help you from my point of view, and sometimes I will be either very wrong, or very right.
See this is what I don't understand. Friends hang out. Doesn't matter if its completely random. They hang out. You and her are friends. Calling her up one day and asking her to go out for lunch wouldn't be wrong, at all. Friends do it all the time. There is NEVER a wrong time to ask someone to hangout.
Hanging out is what makes a friendship grow. It helps expand it. A friendship will not go anywhere with neither of you putting in effort of talking or seeing each other. Just because you guys hang don't mean ya'll are dating or anything. It's just as friends.
But like i said, if you believe this girl isn't right for you and you believe its best to just let go. Than let go. Obviously your friendship doesn't mean anything to her, because she isn't do anything to keep it. Let her go. Completely. Forget about the friendship. If she texts or calls you, cool. But consider it as an aquaintance. Nothing more, nothing less UNTIl she makes that extra, special effort.
I honestly believe that she saw you as an employee, someone to talk to at work. Now that work is over, she has no reason to speak to you. Put it like this,
Would you rather work with people who thought you were their friend, or their enemey? Working with someone who beleivs is your friend, makes work a lot less stressful, and lot more fun.
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