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17/f
i cant orgasm from regular sex, like my boyfriend has to touch my clit. i HATE how i cant orgasm like every other girl in the world. is there a pill or something or somehow something can fix me.
There is no pill or medication that can "fix" your problem. It's not really a problem, actually. It's completely normal. My girlfriend's the same exact way. Try different positions so he can hit your g-spot more easily.
16/f me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 5 months now and i really love him i think he might be the "one" and you guys probly think its silly or w.e but i love him. Anyway weve been talking about have sex but we also have troble on finding a place because were always serounded by people.aka(family) ANd when we have sex i wanna know if ill know when/if im going to orgasm. my boyfriend keeps saying how hes going to suck at sex and struggle. but he fingers me most of the time when we can be alone and ive bleed twice. does that also mean it wont hurt as much when we do. im just really confused. of corse where going to use a condom. and idk if i should get birth control because i herd it makes you fat and well frankly im already fat as it is. and i dont wanna get fatter. i want this to be the best protected experience of my life. how do i make that happen?!
If you bled when he fingered you, he probably tore or stretched your hymen. That can help make intercourse less painful in the future.
As for birth control, if you can get a prescription from your doctor, definitely use it. Your doctor can help you find the best birth control for you that won't affect you negatively.
Trust me, you'll know when you have an orgasm. Get to know your own body before you have sex with this guy so you can let him know what you like.
hey so im 15 f
~well me and this guy in my classs during school would always flirt and like touch and constantly just flirt.... well...recently we started texting ALOT like all day! and he has recently started to talk sexually.... like he wants us to do stuff.... so now he wants us to hang out and you know ... do stuff.... well i have never done anything before.... like not even kissed.... welll not like actuallly..... so like i reallly wanna have fun with him ! but like i wouldnt go past oral .... well maybey not even that I DONT KNOW YET! like idk what to do ..... do it ... or not do it... so like basically what i am asking is..... what are the positives and negatives to taking him up on his offer? and please dont give negatives i want positives to! :) THANKS :)
There are no positives to taking him up on his offer. If he is texting you and trying to get you to do something with him when you haven't kissed and aren't in a relationship, he doesn't care about you.
My school has a dress code and i hate it! We have to wear collar shirts and they have to be a sertan color. Where can i get solid collar shirts?
Old Navy and the Gap sell quality polos in lots of different colors. They're great for uniforms and they fit well at a reasonable price.
17/F
I recently purchased Marc Jacobs perfume, and I was wondering where and how much I should apply?
It comes in a spray bottle. I want the scent to be noticeable enough so that people near me can smell it, but not too overpowering.
Thanks! :)
Unscrew the bottle, put the slightest drop of the fragrance on one wrist and rub your wrists together. Then, rub your wrists behind your ears. If the scent is light, you may want to rub some inside your elbows as well.
The heat and blood vessels near the skin in these areas will slowly release just the right amount of fragrance. Don't spray on the fragrance.
16/f
My mother is a very confrontational person. I love her but she is. Well, just in the car we where talking and nearly everything I had to say she had the completely opposite view on.
For one, we talked about piercings and tattoos. I love both, well my mom is a different story. I was talking to her about what kind of body art I would want in the future and how I would also like to stretch my ears (aka gauges/plugs). She completely flipped and started telling me how if I get piercings and tattoos I won't get a job and be homeless. Also, that I should want to make myself look like a freak. Completely blowing it out of proportion. I was really offended by this because I love it and do play on getting it done to myself when I am eighteen and can without her permission. I told her I wouldn't let other people's opinion get to me because I like it and that's all that matters to me. She said well you should! And I don't agree with that at all. What do you think?
I think that body art has become more of a common thing and is more accepted.
She got me kind of upset. I don't want to make her not proud of me. She said when I am out of her house I can do whatever the hell I want but she will still have the same opinion and so will I.
Your mom means well--and she's right. It is very difficult to get a job with visible tattoos and piercings. You may think body art is becoming more accepted, but the truth is it's not.
In a heartbeat, I hire the hardworking, qualified employee over the hardworking, qualified employee with earlobes stretched so wide I could stick my fist through them.
It's he'll out there for those looking for jobs. You need every advantage you can get.
A certain level of professionalism is required in the workplace. Unless you plan on being a tattoo artist the rest of your life, don't do it. Plain and simple. You may feel like your opinion is the only one that matters to you, and that's perfectly fine...if you're a multi-billionaire and you live alone on an island.
So I always have this discharge coming from my vagial area, and I am not sure what it is from. It makes me smell and that makes me self concious. I don't have any STD's so I know it isn't anything dealing with that. Someone please tell me whats wrong with me...
See an ob/gyn. Period.
People say it is bad, why is that?
Everyone needs their space. You can't appreciate being around a friend when you're around them all the time. People easily tire of each other.
I'm starting college next year.
I have a lot of friends right now who love drinking, getting high, etc. In college, I'll probably be surrounded by MORE people like this.
The problem is I dont' drink and do drugs AT ALL. It's not even that I think it's wrong, I just feel I don't need it. I've tried beer and whatnot before and I didn't like the taste. I've never tried drugs but I don't really feel the need to get high or see a real point to it.
Anyway, how alienated will I be in college? I'm worrying that I'll stand out. Right now it's not too bad; I just don't hang around with my friends if they're going to be drinking and shit. But in college, will it be different? How do I cope?
I was the same way. I've been to lots of parties where people offered me a cigarette or a beer and I've declined. You don't have to force your views on everyone then and there. When someone offers you something you don't want, just say no thanks. It's simple, but magic. I'm still friends with my drinking, smoking friends and they respect me for my choices. I still go to parties, and I still have a great time because I'd like to think I'm fun even without the help of drugs or alcohol.
Later in life, people will appreciate you and respect you, even if they don't now.
my boyfriend and i were having sex the other day and i got on top. i wouldnt have any problem with that except for the fact that after about five minutes of being on top, my knees started KILLING me. so i had to get off. :( which didn't satisfy my boyfriend. i wanna know how to keep my knees from getting sore while on top. oh, and if you're going to name this one position where i'm "bouncing" using my feet, i'm not into that. so please don't tell me that. thanks.
Find some support for your knees, like a rolled up towel or a pillow. Try to shift your weight to your arms or hips instead of trying to hold yourself up only on your knees.
I am so sad because my boyfriend and i just broke up. he broke up with me claiming we never saw each other...or we didnt see each other enough. The thing is we did see each other. Just yesterday he was going on about how he really liked me and how we were going to finally kiss. He isnt the kind of person who would say that just to get me excited eaither. My question to you is how do i get over him? i really really liked him alot and now i have no idea what to do!?!??! also can i text him like 2maro or the next day just being friends and ask him if we can just be friends? please help me soon!!!!!! thanks....
~kaya :"(
Don't try to be friends with someone you have romantic feelings for.
The heartache will go away with time. Work out or get a haircut or anything else that makes you feel confident. Don't let him see you sulk. All that says is he was right to break up with you. Focus on other things, like a sport or a hobby.
Is masterbating and having an orgasm yourself comsinderd having sex? And can a gyna-pussy doctor tell if you have ever had an orgasm?
Masturbation is not considered sex. Sex is between two people. When an ob/gyn asks if you have had sex, don't say yes if all you have been doing is masturbating.
An ob/gyn won't knkw if you have had an orgasm before unless you tell them.
I keep adding a person I know but the person told me she never got the friend request and said it happend with another person who was trying to add her. Is that possible that her facebook account is weird or is she purposely ignoring the request?
Sounds like she's lying. Ask her flat out if she doesn't want you to be her friend on Facebook. Be prepared if she says she doesn't.
If it really is a problem with her Facebook account, she shouldn't have any problem with sending you a request instead.
If it still doesn't work, stop asking. She's trying to tell you something.
ok well i am currently single. im not really lookin for someone but then i am. it seems like all the guys that i am somewhat interested in are older than me. im 22. the guys that im interested in and are interested in me are in thier 30s. is it bad to be 22 and interested in a guy in thier 30s? i mean they have been through more and already pretty much mature.what do you think? what is to much of a age difference for a 22 year old?
Guys in their twenties can be immature. Men in their thirties, for the most part, know what they're doing when it comes to dating. If you are attracted to a man in his thirties, by all means go for it.
I like this guy a lot, but everytime when i try to talk to him i get nervous. I think he knows that i like him cause his brother keeps looking at me weirdly and because sometime i see him looking at me too. sometime he would be very close to me that my back would touch him or sometimes he would come up and say half a sentence to me but never finishing it and just leave. other times he would just ignore me and do nothing, so one day i ignored him too when he was walking past me and i think i hurt him..
i am very confused, does he like me?
if he does then why cant he make the first move? and why does he keep giving me mixed signals?
Sounds like he's into you, but shy. It's hard when two shy people like each other because neither of them has the courage to do anything about it! The worst thing you could do at this point is tell him you like him, or ask him if he likes you.
That would seem desperate. Don't tell him, show him. If there's electricity in the air, lace your arm through his. Gauge his reaction before you do anything else.
So my boyfriend has fingered me before and I just kind of breathe deeply to let him know I like it. What else can I say to him or do besides that?
Let him know what he's doing specifically that you like. You don't have to scream at the top of your lungs to let him know he's doing something right. Subtle bodily cues like deep breathing, etc. should be enough, if he's paying attention.
There is this really hot girl I've been talking to. She told me she's slept with a lot of people. I mean, a lot, like 40 something guys. She's so hot though and, to be frank, she's easy.
I want to have sex. She told me that she'd do it with me next week if I come over to her place while her parents are gone. She has a big pool there and she said she always does it in the pool so that she's clean and STD free. What she was saying was that the chemicals in the pool kill any STDs that somebody might be carrying.
Sounds great but I want to double check this. I'd hate to have to go to the doctor after banging her. Is she telling the truth?
Pool chemicals do not kill STDs. You can still catch something if you have sex with this girl in the pool. Have her get tested beforehand regardless. She may already have an STD.