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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"? (link)
hey babe, a friend is someone you talk to in conversation kinda like hey, or, yeah are you going there to. a best friend is someone you dont just talk in conversation but talk like they are you dairy. you can say anything to them and they are just fun to be around and you would do anything for them.

xO. jessica


Ok im 15 and ive been going out with my BF for about 7 months now... HE's great and everything, we hung out yesterday, went to the movies, and yeah it was great!!! ;)... Well this morning when i called him he never answered which was weird because he always does it for me but i was like "ok maybe hes sleeping or something"... So then later on i called him and still nothing but a lil while ago i IMED him when i came online and i was like "Oh hey whats up,blah,blah why didnt you pick up your celly when i called you" and he was like "Because i didnt feel like it".. SO im thinking ok maybe hes having a bad day or something, so i asked him if he was and he was like no im fine... So it made me upset because he didnt feel like talking to me, so i told him he was making me mad and he was like "So" and i just got mad hes never treated me like this before... I love him so much and i dont know why hes being so rude too me today :(... So i signed offline and when i did i told him that i hope hes in a better mood later and too call me and that i loved him' and he never answered me :(... Not even too say bye or i love you too.... ::GRR:: This is really making me upset, I dont know what too DO!!! He always tells me he loves me and today he blows me off like im a piece of shit, IM really pissed and ready too break up with him even though i really dont want too!! ugh PLEASE HELP... GIVE ME ADVICE

xConfusedx (link)
hey babe, well nothing much you can do but wait for the next day and maybe he would realize how he treated you. if hes in the same mood and doesnt feel like talking to you, you can ask him why. but i recomend not acting too clingy, if you know what i mean.

xO. jessica


i'm 14/f, and i need new sneakers. can anyone recommend me any brand of sneakers(not nike because EVERYONE has them) or any kind of sneakers that they think is really good and looks really nice? (link)
depends on what you like. my favorites are; k-swiss, converse, addidas the original three stripe, vans i baught i white pair at the end of the year and had people sign them as a memory haha.

xO. jessica


I live in an apartment with my mom. We want to get a cat and the landlady said we can if it doesn't have any claws. We aren't sure if thats ok to do to a cat. I no one other person who has a cat like this and the cat seems happy. What do you think? (link)
well i have three cats all with claws. they have sertain breeds that dont have claws im pretty sure. but de-clawing a cat.. it can go both ways hhappy or sad. you should ask a cat breeder.

xO. jessica


my hair is pretty straight and i want to have curly hair like the mary kate and ashley ( not permanently though ) so what can i do to make it curly.. i dont have a hot iron curler thing so im not gonna go and buy one.. any tips? \

ps. i have those like curling things that you wrap your hair around .. if i were to use those, should my hair be wet or dry and how long should it be in there (link)
well mar-kate and ashley have more wavy than curly. you would probobly want to use the curler in dry hair. and to get hair like theirs take a shower and lap you hair in a hair rap for about 10 min. then but it up in a messy bun. wen it drys out it should be wavy.

xO. jessica


so i've been tanning in a lay down bed for about 2 years now, and i always stop during the summer.. and now it is time to start up again. my sister and i were talking and she said i should go to a stand up bed. So my question is: what one is better, a lay down or stand up? i'll rate (link)
ive done both i personally like the laydown kind better because the stand up ones hurt your arms and sholdiers after a bit. also more uncomfurtable. but the standup ones are faster.

xO. jessica


My mom makes me wear the dumbest clothes! It's so annoying. She's Chinese, and she grew up in a society you get one pair of pants a year. I'm 13, but the kind of clothes I have to wear are like for a ten-year-old! I hate it! Stuff like pink and white striped T shirts and rose-printed shorts and stuff she thinks that are "cute" and "what kids should wear." I H-A-T-E pastels!

Stuff like this:
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=sc_pgc_r_6_0_13142261/601-1335553-9076132?%5Fencoding=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B0007KQZ3Y

http://store.nordstrom.com/product/product_brandboutique.asp?styleid=2866100&boutique=roxy&category=2379292~2380331~2379796~2384475&NextStyleID=2866090&PrevStyleID=2866103
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Ive tried talking to her, but she never changes her mind. When I show her my kind of stuff, she wrinkles her nose.
On the other hand, I like stuff like Converse shoes, torn jeans, tyedye stuff like that. People never take me seriously! What should I do and where can I get some good jeans? (link)
even though she is the one paying for you clothes you should still have a say in things. explain to her you are your own person your 13 and you dont desirve to have to wear the clothes you dont want to. if its price a store like abercrombie or hollister wont budge her they are pricey but aeropostale i think is basicly the same thing but much much cheeper. for jeans abercrombie hollister forever 21 gap charlette rosse aeropostale ae. all have great jeans. the cheepest would be aeropostal basicly same stuff as ae and abercrombie. ripped jeans there to.


Is there any make-up of some sort that covers up blushing so nobody can tell if you're embarassed? (link)
not usuing any blush for sure. um liquid makeup usuing a half a shade darker.

xO. jessica


okay well ill just make this short for you i just wanna look hot! and i have a very good reason but then i mite run out of room lol well plz help me just on stuff like makeup, clothes, the way i act, hair, etc.
**THX** (link)
so many diffrent clothing styles. the stores that are "hot" are like abercrombie hollister forever 21. use alot of accesories. like the huge beeds. for makeup liquid: get a half a shade darker than you are and apply it really lightly. for eyes eyeliner and mascara but dont put the mascara so it looks like you have spiders on your eyes. and makesure its not the clump type. for shadows um.. anything light colored or metalicy but dont put in on the whole lid put it like a little bit over your lash area. lips gloss but dont get a pink pink one. get a clear pinkish tint one. or clear pinkish-peach one. the ones that match your skin tone. for hair there is so much you can do you can straighten it. waven it. but it all up, have way up. use a clip and hair band tie the hair band piny tail and bring up the hair and clip it and shake the ends that are sticking up to look messy. for the way you act i think you should stick with who you are, you dont wanna come of as fake. but uh.. acting really sweet isnt so hot but like kinda play hard to get with the guys. mess with their heads haha. but with the girls dont do that =]. use the words like babe [not baby], gorgeous, sexy, alot.

xO. jessica


What vitamins are good for healthy skin and where is the best place to get these vitamins.

I am completely against supplements so if you mention supplements.. you instantly score a 1 :) i just wanna know the best sources to get the vitamins/minerals without taking supplements (link)
a health food store. or an organic health food store. probobly not a place like wallgreens

xO. jessica


ok well im 17 and me and my boyfriend met like a month ago at my friends grad party and we just hit it off and now we are an "item". THe bad thing is that he lives in detroit which is like an hour and a half from where i live so we never get to see each other but we talk almost everyday on the phone.we love each other but im just scared to lose him cause i finally found someone worth loving but long distance relationships never work out from what my friends say but i want to know how you guys would handle being in a relationship like mine. thanks (link)
well your 17 so your going to collage soon. ask him wich ones he plans on going to maybe you guys could go to the same schools. also maybe meeting up every weekend or everyother would be what i would do. but telling him how you feel definetly so he know your not just a girl who likes him. but you want to be with him.

xO. jessica


i know this is a stupid question but whats emo ? like when someone says .. very emo .. something like that. or thats a emo picture what does it mean ?? ill rate the first 5 people to answer (link)
emo means emotional. but not the crying emo. usually people describe emo in the type of goth way. like slit my rist and stain my eyes.

xO. jessica


I have volleyball tonight and im a nervous wreck!! becuz the commisioner for my school volleyball is coming and its kind of like a tryout thing but have of my grade will be together and then half will be on the high school juniors team and im a sophomore and its like an advanced thing and i am like really excited but then im nervous too. What is a good way not to get to nervous and do bad at the sport????
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i play volleyball to. i played since i was like 6 and always been nervouse because i was always better than people. but i learned to use the nervousness in a way. if your nervous just pretend its a practice not a tryout. think that no one is watching. and act conceted, like in your mind say "im the best" "these people suck compare to me" and then pruve it in you game.

xO. jessica


hey i really like your page. how did you do that? and if that is you in your picture, then you are GORGEOUS hunniee! just can you help me out with how you did that to your page?
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aw thnx.. yeah its me lol. but do you mean the background layout? you would go to Miscellaneous and click Page Backgrounds. then click the diffrent pages to find the diffrent layouts. then when you find the layout copy the code ontop like "/img/bg/bg1.jpg ". then you would go to column setting and put the code in background URL.


hey whats the best workout to tone your lower stomach? thanx xxx (link)
crunches bye far. if you life your legs up in the air and cross them around your feet keep them slighly bent at the knees and the closer you keep you things to you stomach the more work-out it would be on the lower stomach.

xO. jessica


Sometime this year i am planning to buy either an mp3 player or an ipod. I was wondering what people thought was better, an mp3 player or an ipod. (link)
i have an ipod i think its great but it doesnt have radio.

xO. jessica


I've been trying to get my layout for myspace to work for the past couple of hours and have had no luck. I used http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/reborn_3_2.htm to make my layout and when I preview you it looks right but when I put it into the "about me" section it doesn't come out the same. The size of the tables seem to change. The tables on the right with the "Latest Blog Entry", "about me", "friends" etc. sections turn really small. Does anyone know how I could possibly this and get the tables alligned properly?
Thank to everyone that helps! (link)
i have myspace to. the latest version should work, are you sure you putting in the text size right or maybe not thinking its something else that happened to me. but try a diffrent version see if it helps.

xO. jessica


Even though I am currently dating my boyfriend, would it still be right for him to properly ask me to Home Comming? Or is it just an obligation and we both know it so there for he doesn't need to ask. (link)
well i was invited to the senior dance wen i was a sophmore but that was just cause i was on the dance commite i had no choice but, i guess it also an obligation but it would be part of the whole experience if he asked you.

xO. jessica


This school year I started late because I was on vacation. Well, the first day I walked into my Physics class he smiled at me so I smiled back thinking "wow this guy is pretty hott" During that week we looked at each other in class and smiled but never talked. Today we had a fire drill and he was the fisrt out the classroom and I wasn't too far behind. He got to about half way where we were supposed to be and waite until I caught up and started walking again. When we got to out standing point, I was standing with another girl in my class and him and one of his friends stood by us. Then, HE STARTED TALKING TO THE GIRL I WAS WITH. This really made me made so I left and started talking to other people. I don't know if I was jealous or what but now I don't feel like tlaking to that girl at all. What am I supposed to do?


I know this sounds pretty kiddish but I've never been in this situation. I'm a senior by the way. (link)
guys really have no clue to what girls like and act like and if they like them. so dont take anything they do to affense if its not something that they meant to hurt you bye. but you can ignore him and icealte him, play hard to get lol. make him notice you. you can always ask the girl about what she and the guy were talking about, you never know it could have been about you [in a good way].

xO. jessica


so school's arround the corner! and i need a new outfit, i dont wanna wear a skirt. i just wanna look really cute and preppy but i dont want to shop at abercrombie, hollister, delias, aeropostale... but at foever21 yeah! only cause every1 has close from there. so if you can help thanx! ..oh how should i wear my hair too. i want to make a really good 8th grade first impresion! (link)
yeah forever 21 is real cute i shop their to. but its not really preppy like AF or HCO. its more trendy and hot . stores like forever 21 would be Guess? or Bebe. for hair.. well it depends what you look good in. look at some pictures like on peoples myspaces . i dont know, but that always works. i have a myspace you can check in but magazines work like teen vouge, teen people.

xO. jessica




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