| |
hey. my name's ren. well, to start off. i just started back to school, everythings going great. i'm so happy. i'm doing good, getting every accomplished. i know it's my junior year & i have to buckle down.
but theres still a part of me thats lonley and sad. all i feel like doing is sitting in my room, cry, listen to my music, cut, and read.
i'm a recovering cutter. i still every-so often cut, but.. i don't know what wrong with me.
please help. (link)
|
i usta be like that (without the cutting) believe it or not... i think u should juss hang out with friends more, that helped me a lot! im guessing you have some good friends who will be there for you! thats what their there for, go out and have a good time or juss stay home and talk about things! long talks with good pals are always great =D get back to me on how things go
*jesikuh
|
okayy theres this guy that i like and i think he likes me cuz hes always like lets be partners and we do this card swap thing and hes like hey find the card that matches mine and switch with them so we can be together...ha i think he does but how do i know for sure..haha (link)
|
tell him ur interested, then he will prolly be like well she said it i might as well =D
*jesikuh
|
me and my friend are on a diet and it doesnt seem ti be working! we have tried the fruits and veggies diet but i doesnt help at all! (link)
|
hmm well it should, juss keep doing it and try exercising too! juss a lil could do more help than none =D
*jesikuh
|
Ok, I'm 14 and im a girl. I like this guy named Alex B. (i dunt wanna give out his last name). I have liked him ever since school started last week. We used to go to different school but we are now going to our freshman campus together. I really like him but do not know how to tell him that i do. I think he likes someone else, but i am not sure. (link)
|
i think you should juss come out and say it! that way he can consider you, and who cares if he likes some one else, people can like more than one person! i think u should juss flat out tell him tho its what i do and i think it works pretty well =D
*jesikuh
|
a few days ago i posted this:i Met this guy at a festival about 3 weeks ago called Shane.We got each others numbers and talked like alot but then last monday he said that we should wait a while till he calls agian cuz theres not really that much to talk about hes said ill call you in a few days and ill make shure sumpthing happens and if nuthing happens then ill make suttin up but ill ttyl.Its been 7 days since he last called do you think hell ever call agian???i know this is a really stupid post but im worried i really liked him---------but i didnt say that im known to not sound interested in guys on the phone,the day b4 the last day he called he had asked me to call him but i didnt so he called and asked why i didnt call and i said that i guess i didnt really feel like it(wich is rude)and i also wasnt listening to him very well becuz i kept interupting him and when he was talking i was like um wat so i think its my fault he didnt call back becuase maybe he thinks i didnt want to talk to him do you think im right?and do you think i should call him this time??
(link)
|
you juss sound like not a phone person, like me! haha i think you should try calling him tho and maybe talking to him in a quiet room so u can focus on what he's saying and stuff. no tv or music or anything, im the same way tho! hope everything goes well...
*jesikuh
|
ok.. my birthday is on saterday.. well yea.. everyones asking me what i want and i say.. idk.. but i do know.. i just think it costs too much to ask a friend to get you.. but anyways.. i was wondering what i should tell people to get me.. i mean.. i already know the girls are going to get me like.. shower gel and stuff.. but the question is.. what would i ask a guy to get me? sorry it was so long.. :D
p.s. im pretty much a grlie girl so.. taht might help... maybe..
i willll rate ya :D (link)
|
hmm a guy could juss give u money and then u can get what you want haha thats what i always do...or a cd u want or something like that! happy early birthday!
*jesikuh
|
I met my current boyfriend at the beginning of summer. We have been off and on many times. I'm 15 and he's turning 16 soon. I have no idea what to do about his birthday because first of all, we don't know eachother that well yet and we haven't been going out for a long time. Should I even get him anything? Or is a special birthday call, hug, kiss (I know it sounds lame) good enough? (link)
|
hmmmm you could juss get him a tee shirt from his favorite store if you kno what store he likes! but if ur short on cash, a hug and a kiss or something special that doesnt take moolah should be good enough for ur sweetie =D
*jesikuh
|
high skool is startin in less than a week, so im pumped bout that. the only thing is... i hang out with everyone. im not popular or nething but i have a bunch of friends, which can b bad. i hang out with a group of friends, then go over n hang with another. but the thing is im not really accepted in either one. they like me, but i can tell there talking behind my backs cause i hang out with such and such. ive tried for 2 years to balance it out, but it annoying me so much. can someone just tellme what to do?? i rate (link)
|
well obviously if their talking shit, that IS shit...find some friends who accept you for who you are and dont talk shit! u dont have to be popular or be in with the cool kids, plus ur starting a new school so ur bound to find new friends, i did my frosh year, u'll be okay =D
*jesikuh
|
My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway? (link)
|
i really think that she should juss openly say i have an ex named jonathan and i wouldnt be comfortable naming our baby that...then they can comprimise..if he gets mad that major BS lol
*jesikuh
|
My friend is gonig outw ith my first love and ever and I am a little upset because he has half of my heart and i know she loves him so much and he loves her so ,much but half of me feels jealous is that normal? (link)
|
sooo normal!!! juss chill about it, if its meant to be he'll come to you =D
*jesikuh
|
Last question today i swear ..
Well whenever my best friend is around her boyfriend she id relly mean to me and starts like changing what do i do? (link)
|
a lot of girls are like that...i have girlfriends like that. its very gay i kno! but once she starts getting all bitchy tell her to knock it off and you dont appriciate people talking to you like that, and if she doesnt stop make HER feel like shit! its mean i kno but its the only way to get thru to people. and when people make me mad, i juss say k lol it works i tell ya cuz it makes em mad and then u can juss say it again with attitude =D
*jesikuh
|
im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl.... (link)
|
do whatever you want hunnie. if people wanna make fun of you, tell them to f-off lol its none of their business and what they say doesnt kill you soo juss follow ur
|
Ok well Ive liked this guy since the first time i had ever layed eyes on him. I was the new girl so I thought he was out of my league... as years went on we got really close. We had liked each other at one point... but nothing really happened. Well I'm trying to get over him. I've tried everything! a different guy... trying to tell myself that I dont.. everything. But with a different guy I never have the same feelings as with him. And when i keep telling myself I dont, it works kind of good... until i see him and all my feeling start rushing back. He has hurt me so many time... I dont know how many times I have cried because of this guy. I just need help.. what do I do?? I dont THINK i'm like in love with him or anyhing... but every time I see him, all of a sudden, every care in the world goes away... and I get kind of nervous... but I try not to let it show. My bff keeps telling me that I need to get over him because it's been too long (like 4 years!) and he has hurt me so bad... but I cant help it! what should I do?!? ahh! please help! I'll rate if you ask! (link)
|
wow girl i dunno ive been in situ.'s kinda like it buttt maybe you should talk to him about it, and try and think about the bad things more than the good cuz maybe that will help you to look at him more as a friend than a bf type, u have to TRY to get over some one to get over them!!! hope everything goes well for you
*jesikuh
|
hi every one......im Tripp...and im in a band...and we REALLY suck ass....we practice like every day and shit...but we still suck like really bad....so if u know n e thing else we could do....tell me. (link)
|
i dunno maybe you should think about new members or something??
*jesikuh
|
What's the average size of a guy's penis?
my bf is 16 and his penis is almost 6 inches long
is that average? he's a bit worried. (link)
|
i dunno, i mean guys usually are like oh yeah 6-7...but ya kno they can be a bit cocky =D but i think for ur bf's age that 6 is okay, its not anything bad!
*jesikuh
|
Anyone know how to get your face any thinner? Kind of a dumb question but are there any excercises to thin out the face? Thanks! (link)
|
if you lose weight ur face should thin out, thats what mine did
|
okay so i was gonna have sex with this boy jon (we'll say) but then we both decided we weren't ready and ever since we really haven't talked much. and every time i c him he always has another gurl over or sumthing and he just ignors me. how can i get him to open up to me again? (link)
|
obviously hes gay and isnt a good friend...but u shoudlnt be having sex until ur with a person for a long time and u trust the person and u think u might be with them for awhile...dont juss do it cuz ur pressured or u wanna look cool or anything, being a virgin's cool too ya kno =D
*jesikuh
|
I really like my best friend. He is perfect..I think so atleast =). I think he likes me too. But I'm really shy and I have decided to tell him how i feel. B/C not tellin him isnt an option nemore. My feeling are too strong. So..how should I tell him? I'm j/ really worried we wont remain friends if I tell him.. Like if he ends up NOT liking me. Thanks for your help! =) (link)
|
well juss by expirence i kno its not the greatest thing to go out with ur best friend.. but u got nothin to lose! i think u should juss tell him u kinda think of him as more of a friend! if he freaks out hes prolly juss not ready for it (guys are immature =D) orrr i dunno. i think u should tell him tho, i always tell a guy when i like them, seems to work out for me!!!
*jesikuh
|
This girl that I used to be friends with is spreading rumors about me. She is telling everyone I had sex with this guy I liked. The guy and I hooked up not long after the rumors started. He's three years older than me, so we didn't tell many people. We didn't wanna hafta deal with all their shit.
He and I didn't have sex until almost 2 months after these rumors were started. My best friend heard the rumors, and she was mad cause I didnt tell her I had sex for the first time. I didn't want her to know I did, so I told her they weren't true.
I want these rumors to stop cause its no one else's business if I had sex with him or not. I don't want to talk to this girl in person cause i already wanna beat her ass, and if i saw her, i know i would loose control and hit her.
Is there any other way to stop these rumors without talkin to her about it? And don't tell me to ignore them cause that never works. I have ignored them for almost 3 months, and im sick of it.
Please Help me!!
(link)
|
confront the girl...try not to lose control...your right it is NONE of anyones business what ur sex life is like...but u'll prolly be best off either confronting the girl and telling her she needs to shut her mouth or juss ignore it..a rumors just a rumor...remember that! it wont kill ya =D
*jesikuh
|
no one i ask seems to know the answer to this question...
how exactly do you skank?
please don't tell me that's a stupid question...i really wanna know how to! (link)
|
i dunno...sleep around? =D
*jesikuh
|
|