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this boy
Ok well Ive liked this guy since the first time i had ever layed eyes on him. I was the new girl so I thought he was out of my league... as years went on we got really close. We had liked each other at one point... but nothing really happened. Well I'm trying to get over him. I've tried everything! a different guy... trying to tell myself that I dont.. everything. But with a different guy I never have the same feelings as with him. And when i keep telling myself I dont, it works kind of good... until i see him and all my feeling start rushing back. He has hurt me so many time... I dont know how many times I have cried because of this guy. I just need help.. what do I do?? I dont THINK i'm like in love with him or anyhing... but every time I see him, all of a sudden, every care in the world goes away... and I get kind of nervous... but I try not to let it show. My bff keeps telling me that I need to get over him because it's been too long (like 4 years!) and he has hurt me so bad... but I cant help it! what should I do?!? ahh! please help! I'll rate if you ask!
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Well.You didnt really mention how he feels about you. Have you talked to him about it? Casually bring up the fact that like *last yea i totally had a crush on you.* and see what he says. The rush feeling could also be love, but not in that way. Brotherly love! Like ive mentioned to others, when you know someone that long its just like knowing your brother. You get jealous when he dates other girls because you still want him to be around you, and you hate it when he hangs out with his other friends and not you. Its perfectly normal. So try telling him how you feel if you guys are close friends. Its better to let it out than keep it in and hurt your self.
xo-Jen-ox
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lol u dont have to rate its ok i would dump him after all the same thing happened w/ my parents and let me tell u he left marks he threw us out of the house and all kinds of bad stuff he would even beat my mom. well after 15years it was all over she had told him to pack his stuff and moove out and she still hasnt gotten back w/ him and if i were u i would just pray about it and give it all to god. anyways i hope that will help u after all its no lie.
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im really sorry what ur going through..thats happened to me once...and it was like the same situation ur in...the only thing that i can say is ===give it time...i know its been FOUR YEARS...but so what? it could take 10 years..but u just need to let it go...give it time, dont try and find some1 new, its going to be even harder because ur gunna compare him to tha guy u really really like...then its gunna make u think about him even more and make u think that hes the only one for u because no other guy cant compare...but u know thats not true...so dont try and find some1 else, itll only make it worse...go0d lucK
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Talk to him and ask him why he makes you cry and shit like that. Tell him how you feel about him. See if he's worth it, if he is, then go out with him. Otherwise, you're going to have to find a way to forget him or just be friends with him. Good luck.
-xXoBrianna
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wow girl i dunno ive been in situ.'s kinda like it buttt maybe you should talk to him about it, and try and think about the bad things more than the good cuz maybe that will help you to look at him more as a friend than a bf type, u have to TRY to get over some one to get over them!!! hope everything goes well for you
*jesikuh
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