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I have a question about seepage since me and my girlfriend are worried about her getting pregnant. At the point of orgasm I have a fetish in which I have my girlfriend spread her labia and I ejaculate right on her vaginal area. She says she can get pregnant this way, but I dont believe she can seeing as its not ejaculated inside her. How likely is it? (link)
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i got news for you if your sperm comes in contact with any of her fluid they can still swim up her vagina and get her pregnant i dont think you should take the chance because it only takes less then a speck of sperm and the tiniest drop of her fluid. if your girlfriend is uncomfortable with it then i think you should stop its her body to and really not fair.
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i like this guy an i think he feels the same way
we have been best friends for like ver an i have been there for him through alot of things
an well today his friend asked him "1-10 how much do you like her more then a friend"
he said"umm i'd say 8 1/2"
well does that mean he likes me or not?!?!? (link)
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well yes he likes you if he didnt hed say 1 or not at all.so yes its kind of obvious so ask him out.
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I lost my virginity to one of my guy friends on jan.7th. We were fine and talked a couple times a week up till yesterday. He sent me a text message yesterday and was telling me how he liked one of our friends and wanted my input on what he should do. I obviously told him that i wouldnt tell him what i thought because i care alot about him and dont want to see them together.
He told me that i knew that i was just a one time thing and i need to get over it. i got really upset and started flipping out on him. He said i was just a booty call and i should of kept my legs closed and quit throwing myself on him.
(he is the one that Asked me out that night, hes the one that wanted to have sex with me)
Im really upset and i cant handle this anymore. Its the second time in three months that he has used me.
Im begging you guys to help me out here.
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ok it takes two to have sex and he doesnt seem like a good friend.i have guy friends but i also dont like anyof them so its alittle diffrent but one thing is for sure they dont act like that. and if he asked you out then obviously he mislead you in thinking that it would be a relationship so i guess it wasnt clear that it was a one time thing. he doesnt deserve you that girl or any one else. just see it as a mistake and cut him off as a loss. anyone who truly your friend wouldnt be trying to get in your pants and treating you like that.this is the second time ok he's using you for what he can get hes not your friend and doesnt care so hes not worth it. dont let him do this to you anymore and stay away from him.
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When I get home from school, all I do is eat. But I want to stop doing that because I want to lose 10 pounds. So what are some HEALTHY snacks that are still good to eat? Thanks. :] (link)
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maybe you should find a hobby to distract you.....but granola bars,fruit snacks,muffins,peanut butter and jelly,smoothies,yogurts,parfaits,jello.vegetables fruits. celery burns calories and is good dipped in peanut butter,you could also get a veggie or fruit dip to dip them in.also you dont nescessarily have to stop eating the foods you like just cut down on the proportions.orderbs are good.you also invest in a healthy cook book.
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I have an event for which I need a new outfit.
I really want a shirt/top that encircles my neck, but I don't know what this kind of top is called, so I can't search for it.
Can anyone tell me what the name for these kind of tops is, and maybe give me some websites that have them?
Thanks! (link)
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oh do you mean like a circle cut i would stil reccomend the places i wrote below they all have websites.
i think you mean ringer tees.....you can get them at delilas,urban outfitters,alloy,body central,fashion shop,just about anyother trendy store.
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my guy friend goes to a different school. he was supposed to go to the dance with this other girl but those plans fell through. i was thinking if he still wanted to go, i could get him a ticket. but maybe his plans fell through cause he didn't want to go??? i don't want to be turned down, but should i ask him anyways? i think it would be fun if he came. what should i say to him? (link)
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if hes your friend then it should be able to ask...hey did you just not want to go because if you did i was thinking we could go as friends and have fun if you dont thats ok to just a suggestion. if hes your friend it shouldnt be that big of a deal
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“You can change your environment, but if you do not change yourself, the environmental changes are not effective”
I have an idea.. but I'll like to hear about what others view it as.
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its kind of like saying you can clean your house but if you continue being messy it really doesnt make a diffrence. because if you change your enviroment then and you dont change your self or personal habits youll always be contradicting your enviroment that you changed and be in a never endinng circle. youll be creating the problem that you just got done solveing
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i know this is cliche
but i desperately need to lose weight!
i just can't seem to avoid bad foods, and i always give in if they're around.
help! (link)
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Your going to have to help yourself. really its not always what you eat but how much you eat cut back the proportions and mix it with healthier food. think of how much you want to lose weight that will has got out power the will to overeat bad foods.
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this question is mostly for guys. but if any girls have guy friends or boyfriends that tell them, then this is for you too! do guys like when you have anything on your lips when you kiss them? i mean like lip gloss, lip stick, chapstick, nothing, etc. i mean wahts their preference and does anything annoy them? thanks in advance! (link)
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most of my friends are guys and i know they dont really care about if a girl is wearing lip gloss or not.but really every guy is diffrent so it depends on the individual.
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I need to lose 15 lbs. in a month. I hate exercising. I need dieting tips! (link)
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well you realy should diet first because if you gain muscle while excercising it will be harder to lose weight. id suggest something like weight watchers or smartones but if you dont like that kind of thing you could eat waterbased foods.you could also work out a diet plan with your doctor.
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17/M Right now, I feel about 20lbs overweight. Everytime I look down all I see is a giant mass of stomach and I've been desperately trying to get rid of it. I've managed to get it down a tiny bit but I feel like all my efforts are going to waste. I dont have a car so I walk EVERWHERE, I eat enough to sustain my daily energy intake and I work out. Is there a certain way I should be exercizing or something else that I may not be doing? I drink milk quite a bit, could that be it? Please respond. Thank you. (link)
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ok you should diet and get to the weight you want to before excersizing because when you gain muscle its harder to lose weight. have you tried going on weight watchers or smartones...if you have you might want to go to your doctor and work out a diet plan(i know people who have did that just explain your situation) that would be best for you because every body's body is diffrent.
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so i told thia guy that i liked him and he was cool with it and that, then people started telling me that he likes me and that. about 2 months later, we hadnt asked each other out (dont ask why, its just...differcult) anyways so ive like kinda gone off him, so now i like this other guy but how do i tell the first guy that i dont like LIKE him any more???
thanks
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well if he hasnt asked you out you dont really owe him an explanation.just focus on the other guy and the first will eventually move on...if he confronts you about just say look it doesnt really seem like our relationship is going anywhere and i feel its better for us to move on and its time you focus on someone else.....but anyways its not like your his girlfriend so you really dont have to explain yourself.
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mysapce has been acting wierd lately. First off it is like every 2 minutes that i will be doin something and the window will just dissapear or a meesgae with come up and when i press ok it goes away! does anyone no whats going on?? (link)
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you could have a virus or a hacker i think the best thing to do would be to do would be to write myspace about it. maybe you also could get some norton anti virus they sell it at walmarts just dont download any thing for free because sometimes people have free downloads that are posing as virus protection but actually contain viruses.
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I love a guy in my class named Raul. But he is moving 3 hours away. What should i say to him becuase tomorrow is the last day for him. He knows i like him and i think he likes me. What should i say? what is i start crying again? (link)
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well if you think he likes you then you should make amove and ask him out.....long distance relation ships can work.you have no reason to cry unless he says no and if he does then thats just how it goes but youve got to find out now or live without knowing. not all guys are forward about asking a girl out so take a shot dont tell him that you love him quite yet because he might get scared.oh yeah and make sure you get his number e-mail or address.
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can someone tell me where to find cute but not too skanke belly shirts? (link)
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clothing isnt what makes someone a skank...but anyways...usually any trendy girly store in the mall....dots,fashion shop,fashion bug,rave,wet seal,victoria secret,579,city trends,rave girl,marshalls,those are places where ive seen and purchased them but it might vary at diffrent locations....you also might check thrift stores,vintage shops,flea markets or consignment shops.i dont know if you have vintage stores where you at but if you do they have cute stuff but you have to dig and you can usually find a belly top or more also ive seen them before in catalogs like body central(cheap and cute),gypsy rose(more hippi type clothing),trashy.com(a little mature and expensive but good sales but depends on what your comfortable wearing to...if you look you can find stuff thats cute but judging by the name im not sure if youd approve),alloy or delilas(depends on the season) all of those have websites you caan visit.
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anyone please this is not that long and i really need help. Sometimes my parents can be complete IDIOTS. im not allowed to go skiing because My dad SAYS that im going to get hurt. I cant do an article for school on RAPE because my mom doesnt like it and now i have to stay up to research another one AND memorize it. (btw im 13/f) These stupid choices of my parents are making me depressed and i even cut myslef because of it. I cant have a boyfriend untill im 17, i cant wear a tampon yet, MY MOM DOESNT ACCEPT THAT IM GROWING UP. IVE TREID TALKING TO HER ABOUT THIS BUT SHE WILL NOT LISTEN. Seriously, My dads decision about skiing. I mean COME ON. IM GONNA GET HURT WTF. i know my parents care about me but they need to let go! They will NOT listen to me when i tell them all this. I cry all the time and i dont know what to do. Sometimes my life is perfect and sometimes i want to die. What i really want to ask you guys is what can i do now? Ive talked to them, that doesnt work. I know a note wont work and they WOUDL NOT go to a counseller or anything. I honestly feel that if i sucide myslef, they might learn something. (Also, im indian if that helps). Is anyone can help me PLEASE do so. (link)
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idiots is a harsh term..maybe over protective would be better. your parents are negative thinkers with skiing yes you could get hurt but you could get hurt walking across the street. as for rape its out there and needs to be adressed it doesnt matter if your mom likes it or not. as for a tampon i dont quite understand the harm there but i guess to them its something sexual.your only 13 but they do seem alittle extreme. cutting your self and suicide is not the answer and since you havee free will you cant really blame it on your parents thats a personal issue that your going to have to resolve with counseling if you cant stop yourself. im sure if your parents realized you were having that kind of problem then theyed get counseling for you but it doesnt really turn the tables in your favor either but it will still have to be done if you cant stop....but maybe that could open up a window to your parents issues to and result in family counseling im not saying that cutting your self or suicidal thinking is the way to go but it definetly needs to stop so maybe you could confront your parents about counseling from that angle and then when you go to a counselor you could just kind of ease the pressures of your parents into the situation. have you ever thought about talking to a school counselor about it that could get things into gear..As far as the boyfriend issue its not that unusual to wait until your seventeen to have a boyfriend because your just now hiting puberty....but everyone matures diffrently i do thinkl that your parents are to strict but still dont agree with the whole cutting your self thing or suicide solution because its just something thats going to inflict pain and really isnt going to get your point across theyll probably just think they should of been more protective but you shouldnt inflict that much pain how would you feel if someone commited suicide to teach you a lesson.anyways if you go to a school counselor without telling your parents first and tell them everything from theparents restrictions,to the cutting your wrist you suicidal thoughts and why basically everything you wrote hear will definetly get some reaction. just make sure the counselor doesnt get the idea that your being abused unless you really are physically or you could get tooken away from them....and make sure they understand that your not just some kid whos depressed because then they might just think you need medication.just tell them everything you wrote to us and you should get somekind of positive result and find some kind of compromise with your parents. as far as there approval you dont need there consent to see a school counselor.
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I was wearing panties and sweatpants. My boyfriend was like fingering me but i had on my sweatpants. Is that still considered being fingered? I'm really not sure considering I was wearing pants.
Also I'm a bit sore right now. What's going on? (he did it about 10 minutes ago) (link)
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i would still consider it fingering because he was still touching you in that area. your probably sore because he was pressing hard or if your just not use to it could be a cause to.
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over the weekend my best friend and i had the hugest fight we ever had, and weve been friends for 7 years now and i love her to death, but im tired of her taking advantage of me and taking me for granted. if im her BEST friend she should treat me the BEST. and she doesnt, so we made up at school today, but over the phone shes blowing me off again.. how do i get her to understand how selfish she is with out upsetting her *she upsets real easily* (link)
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OH WOW IM REALLY HURT...NOT.you dont personally know me for me to bring out the worst in you your just mad because my advice was truth ful and didnt baby you. im just being honest and if you dont like it turn your head inthe other direction....when you ask for advice you set your self up for harsh advice im not sugar coder or a yes man. but hey im talking from experience and sometimes friendships arent meant to last and dont.
shes not a friend and she obviously doesnt want to be friends. so its probably best for both of you that you separate. sometimes things arent meant to be but then again if your calling your so called friend selfish it doesnt seem like your all that good of a friend either maybe there are things about you that shed like to change as wel. or maybe youve just both changed and dont click anymore. it doesnt necessarily mean that your a bad person or that she a bad person. you say that she upsets real easily but sometimes some people bring out the worst in others. maybe she doesnt consider you her bestfriend. you say youve been friends for seven years but how close were you during that time it might seem harsh but take into consideration how close you were.were you inseprateable or joint at the hip or did you just see eachother in the same class. reevaluate yourself aswell you cant put the full blame on her. im not being mean but i doubt your perfect if you are thats extremly rare and deserve a prize.it sounds like she doesnt want to be friends ....people change and grow apart...not really a bad thing or make either person bad but it happen..and your more then likely going to have to move on. if your so much better then her )because it sounds like your putting yourself on a pedistool..sorry it just seems like your laying all the blame on her and taking no fault whatsoever) and if she so horrible then why do you want to be friends with her. two negatives dont make a positive and you obviously dont make eachother feel positive.so your probably better off. just chuck it off as a loss so you both can move on to better things.
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15/f. how can i improve my handwriting? i hate mine because i tend to connect a lot of my letter, but not in a cursive sort of way. so what are some things i can do to improve my handwriting.
also what can i do to increase my writing speed? i right sooooo slow. lol and it is really annoying when i have to take notes in class. i guess in order to write fast i don't have to worry about neatness, but it has to be readable =]
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you can practice writing sentances on paper repetively then when you get as neat as you wanted you can start setting time limits for you to finish writing sentances neatly.you can also buy a handwriting book.
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okay.
i'm doing a paper on teenage stress.
more focused "how teenage stress relates to teen drug and alocohol abuse"
meaning, do we drink when stressed.
& id like to do a simple, anonymous survey @ school. just type a paper, with all yes/no or 'fill in the bubble' questions.
k, here's where you come in
one] do you think this is a good idea
& two] what sort of questons should i put
i was thinking something like
when feeling stressed, do you have have an urge to drink alcohol; yes/no
& then they can circle one, you know?
any help would be great ! thanks :]
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yeah i think its a good idea but maybe you should have them explain why they think their only option iis to drink,since its anonymous. i think would give your paper more depth and quality and be more interesting.
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