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First off I LOVE THAT!!! holier-than-thou...hilarious and true!! and second, my reason for writing this can you tell me what this sounds like: love, lust, obsession, crush, stalker, etc... okay this girl likes this guy and she thinks about him constantly, dreams about him, gets tounge tied around him, feels like she is high on life when he is around her, seems like she is always learning something new about him, and she is not so much as afraid to tell him that she likes him, but is afraid to tell him in front of this girl who seems to be around him all the time... but she dont even talk to him, she just has put bits and peices together that staple his personality into one, and she dont like him for just his looks but also for his personality. she thinks he has the greatest personality ever. so yeah hope i didnt overwhelm you..but can you help me, please??
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where do you think the best place for your first kiss EVER would be? any suggestions would be appreciated. :]
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would you brake up with someone that ..its almost 20 years old and is still in high school and your 17 and are already in colleage?? he's not the best person in the world but he's okay, and you've fought a lot latly but you can't imagine being without him but you want whats best for you and you know he's not ???? but you love him so much ? =S
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This may be long, and if it is I apologize in advance.
Three weeks ago we got a foreign exchange student, his name is Damon, and he's from Italy. (He's in my grade; I'm a junior) Normally foreign exchange students just fall into a certain group...like when we got a student from Spain, he just fell in with the Spanish speakers...but he's already extremly popular, and so many girls like him already. He's very good looking actually, and the sexy accent also adds to that. He's fair skinned, has black wavy hair that falls to his shoulders and dark green eyes.
Anyways, he's extraordinarily smart. He speaks Spanish, Italian, German, (Which I'm also fluent in)English, and French. He's in a lot of my AP classes and we were assigned to do a project together in my AP English class. It's a 10 page essay and we're supposed to work together.
So for the past week we've been meeting up after school and practice (He made Varsity soccer, and I'm a varsity cheerleader so we both have practice after school)at a cafe or some other place and we've been working together on this project we have. A few days ago when we were working he said "I think we've worked enough today, why don't we get to know eachother a little better" and I said okay. So we talked and I actually got to know him a lot better, there were some things he wouldn't talk about...like his family, but I learned we have the same taste in books and in music and he really is a great guy.
What I really like about him though is that he's a great listener and more mature than guys his age. He actually pays atention to me when I talk and looks at my eyes, not my... Anyway, he's so nice to me. He hugs me when he sees me in the halls and calls me beautiful and he's taken to calling me "principessa" which obviously means princess in English. We've also started to hang out when we're not working on the project. Sometimes he speaks to me in Italian, which I understand some, but I'm nowhere near fluent so I always say I don't understand. He just siles and says "Well I guess we're going to have to fix that aren't we?" And he has been teaching me some.
Here's the problem:
I can't tell if he likes me. If he was American then I'd say yah...but people tell me that's just the way Italian guys act? I have a bunch of girls telling me that what he's doing means nothing and that he's just a player, and that's just how Italian boys act around girls; they're just bg flirts... So now I'm all confused, and I don't know what to believe. I don't know if I want to get invlolved with a guy who may not even be in the staes a year from now...
Today my ex-boyfriend Theron came up to me and started harrasing me about Damon and then, poof, Damon shows up out of nowhere and all of a sudden there fighting. (Not phsically, but it probably would have gone there if I hadn't stopped them) Damons defending me because Theron's saying some pretty hurtful stuff...
After the mess of a fight Damon could tell I was upset so he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies, and I said yes. Afterward he drove me home and walked me to my door and he hugged me and then pulled away. I thought he was going to kiss me for a second, but them he just leaned down and kissed me on my forehead and said goodnight. Now I'm even more confused, because if he's playing a game then he's really good at it and now I like him more then ever...I don't know what to do anymore.
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hi do morning after pills work..and if the girl takes a pill instead of the guy useing a condom so the guy can cum in side her whats better??
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okay let's say you were in this situation: You're a SMART student...and you always read everything on time and complete work. but one one certain night, you can't finish a book because it makes you fall asleep [there are like 3 chapters remaining]. would you use sparknotes? would you feel guilty about it? do you think it's acceptable once in a while?
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Does anyone have any idea of what movie this might be?
It has Jim Carry in it, He lives in a town but in reality people are controlling his life for an experiment, he catches on to it eventually, like on part in the movie he was mad at his wife, so she said "Help" and police came? something like that. In the ending, he rides a boat to the "end" of the ocean, which is really the end of that fake world and walks into the real one. Its really interesting, i haven't seen it since i was probably 8, i'm 14 now. Any one have any idea of what its called, or where i could find the name of it? Thanks :]
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i love the song by Fratellis by "Henrietta" but im confused at what it means.. and dont tell me to go to some site and search.. like copy and paste or just give your own input.. (btw i LOOOVE the fratellis. they are my favorite rock band!! =] also why do you think they're not like amazingly popular in the US now when all their songs like.. kickass?)
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me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 7 months, we've never really "gone at it" like fought fought, with screaming and yelling.
well im 15, turn 16 in march and theres kid that i DO NOT like who's 16 and drives. he drives her everywhere with her friends, and only once has he drivin her anywhere alone (which was from her practice to her house, and she called me once she got home).
he doesn't like me either, long story there but its irrelevant. so me going with her anywhere in that same car is out of the question.
i'm not going to lie i'm extremely jealous, and i feel like...worthless? because if she gets stuck anywhere, she has to call him to pick her up. and he's not a good driver, infact, i've heard of several "just missed" happenings with him. and my girlfriend was in the car.
His cars an old beat up ford contour, and i have a nice 98 camaro. minor relief there.
but once again, who's 16 and has a license.
is it ok to be pissed?
how should i explain how this makes me feel to my girlfriend? I've tried before and failed miserably.
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17/female
thing is..... I Like this guy and I know he likes me aswell but we are just 2 totally differnt people!
for a start I really hate people smoking around me and he smokes. but he said he would stop for me!
Another thing is... he drinks alcohol every weekend and am not really like that!
I wont bore you with all the details but these kind of things are putting me off him, should I forget it and go for it?
please answer my question :)
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what are your favorite quotes?
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17/f okay so i hang out with a close knit group who has been like this for three years. I have an amazing best friend who i adore and love. anyways.... so my sister is a freshmen and she is with my group now too. which is cool. so on to my problem..... okay there is this girl that came to my school like a week ago and i have found that i dont like her all that much and neither do alot of the people that i hang out with. My bff was the one that invited her over and i dont really know why other than she was trying to be nice. But lately she has been acting really weird. and i havent been at school cause i am sick so i dont know whats going on but people are calling me and teling me that my bf is like following her around and that this new girl is trying to take over the group. and i dont know why no one is putting this girl in her place but now i feel like it is my job to do it. and i dont know why i dont like her i just get a bad vibe and dont get why my bff is throwing herself out there trying to make her feel like part of the group. im not jealous.....i just dont get why she would be putting this girl before all her friends..... can someone please help me???? What should i do with this girl?Show her her place or let her take over??? and what if my best friend doesnt see she is acting like a little puppy dog??she isnt like that!!she is a leader not a follower!!!!please and thank you to anyone that can help me sort this out....sorry its kinda long
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First off im f/16 (if that helps :D)
I am in this wonderful relationship with my boyfriend, who happens to be my best friend as well.
For a background story, i met him in 9th grade when he was in 11th, we became best friends, we finally got together and been going out for little over 5 months.
Anyways I am in completely LOVE with him, although some may say sixteen doesn't know true love, I am more than hundred percent sure that he is the one i love truly with all my heart.
My problem is, i've always had this some sort of "commitment issue" but don't get me wrong, I am way past that and over that ever since i am with my current boyfriend.
But that is also a backdrop to me pushing off someone I love. To make this long story short, I freak out and just push my emotion to max.
For example, tonight we met up at the football game in our school (we barely get to see each other because he is in college and lives pretty far away and i cant drive), (i dont know if it was caused by me PMS-ing but) I saw him and he said he was going to church near my house after the football game and he asked me if i can go, i said only if your friend would give me a ride. He said probably not without asking him (which i expected kind of) but i guess I was already kind of ticked off from my family and other stuff like getting rain POURED because it was tropical storms coming, so I kind of took it out on him and got mad that he wouldn't even bother asking before saying no to me. (I know it's totally my fault) and I left him hanging and all that, and I started crying and i did tell him it wasnt him but I was still acting like a baby and such.
So I finally got to talk to him and he said everything was alright and that he is not mad at me at all but sometimes I feel like I am going to act upon my emotion like this again and just keep pushing him away slowly.
So what is wrong with me? Am I bipolar or something? (family history... I dont know if that's genetic) Why do i freak out and just push off the one i love the most? How can I handle myself better? Because even the littlest thing sometimes really get to me and I start going off and stuff.
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if i am 15 and i date a 17 year old, is that illegal?
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Okay so over the passed few weeks i've been horny, im a virgin, n im 18 n i think its about time!! I wanna have sex but the problem is that idk who with...the only guys i wouldn't regret it is with my 2 passed ex's but i dont wanna have to contact them. would it be stupid if i just did it with any guy? Not like a one night stand or just any guy but but a guy that i know or something.
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I've been dating this guy for about 5 weeks. He's really great and I trust him. So far all he's done to me is under the shirt and on top of the pants. I've done more to him, but we haven't had sex.
I have this problem where absolutely NOTHING will go in my vagina. It's not a "relax" type of thing, I'm doing everything the right way and it won't budge. Finger, tampon, NOTHING. The hole is just too tight or something. I try and try and it doesn't work. I try to relax, use lube, and use my finger to try to get myself used to it, but even if I almost get it in there, my fingernails scratch me, so I just stop.
This Saturday we are going to be at a hotel and we'll be alone for a few hours. I plan on letting him finger me...or at least let him try to. I know that if I didn't have this pain problem, I would have already had sex with my boyfriend. I have a friend that had the same problem and she told me how bad it hurt when she finally did it. Needless to say, I'm scared to death. I don't think I'll ever be anymore ready than this. I just want to get it over with, but I don't want it to be a totally horrible experience. Any thoughts?
Also, I'm completely paranoid about EVERYTHING about myself. Before I started kissing guys, I was paranoid about my breath. If a guy were to touch my leg, I'd be paranoid about them not being perfectly smooth. If my boyfriend pulls my shirt up and puts his hands under there, I'd be paranoid about not being super toned and skinny. And it's not that my boyfriend makes me feel that way, I'm ALWAYS like that. Most of this I've gotten over eventually with him, but when sex comes into the picture, there's a whole other mess of things to be paranoid about:
-I'm going to shave because I know most guys prefer that. It's not a big deal the first time, but afterward I have major problems with cutting myself, no matter what I do.
-The smell down there. I know it's never going to smell like flowers, and I definitely shower daily and all that, but I know I'm going to be totally paranoid about it.
-Again, the weight thing. I don't want to be naked around anyone. I'm way too self conscious. Plus, I'm really self conscious about my boobs. They aren't awful, but they aren't exactly symmetrical either. Is keeping my bra on out of the ordinary?
-I don't think I get as wet as most girls. I eventually do, but it takes a long time. I don't want to be one of those dried up girls I hear so much about, and I don't want to bring lube into it because that would be embarrassing. I know all about lubricated condoms, but what about his fingers? Plus, I'll be scared, so that'll bring the wetness down even more. Is there anything I can do about that?
I know people are going to say it just doesn't seem like I'm ready, but this is who I am and always have been, and it's not going to change until I just dive in and face my fears. I just need some thoughts or ideas that could help me out.
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i had oral sex with my boy friend and i swallowed his sperm,does swallowed sperm get one pregnant.
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I've been taking birthcontrol pills for almost 7 months or so, the past couple weeks i've been forgeting to take one, but the next day i would take two. I've did it like 8 times already. I was wondering if i could be pregnant? And since i take the pill, will that affect a pregnancy test if i took one? Thank's so mucn :D
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my friend is gay. and i love him.
and everyone wants me to tell him i like him
but i cant. because hes gay, but im the only one
in the entire world that knows
WAT DO I DO?!
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is there any way people can see that you've visited their AIM buddy profile, facebook, or myspace?
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