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First Time
Okay so over the passed few weeks i've been horny, im a virgin, n im 18 n i think its about time!! I wanna have sex but the problem is that idk who with...the only guys i wouldn't regret it is with my 2 passed ex's but i dont wanna have to contact them. would it be stupid if i just did it with any guy? Not like a one night stand or just any guy but but a guy that i know or something.
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I'm gonna tell you my story, because it's kinda similar to yours. The only difference is that I had a certain guy in mind. I'd had a crush on him for months.. and even though I knew he was a total dog who only used girls for sex, I didn't care. He was sooo sexy, and I just really wanted to have sex with him! Eventually we hooked up at a party and I lost my virginity to him. For the next couple months we would hang out and have sex. I knew I was just another notch on his belt, but I didn't care... it was fun!
It wasn't until later that I really, really regreted it. Because finally I found a boyfriend who I was truly in love with. And the first time we had sex, I felt sooooooo bad that I hadn't waited. I felt like I had cheated both of us out of something that could have been so very special.
So my advice is... hold out, girl! The time will come eventually! And you'll be so glad you waited!
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I agree with spookykiwi, and I have to add that if your supposedly 'ready', but you don't know who to do it with... You're not. When your truly ready you'll know for who. It will be very clear and you won't have to go through the trouble of going through every name in your little black book to pick out the lucky guy.
Goodluck & Make good choices
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Don't give it away.
being 'horny' for a few weeks is no reason to randomly lose your virginity to 'some guy' you know.
Find a boyfriend. Work up. Enjoy foreplay - which *can* be just as satisfying as sex. Then once you've been together a while have sex.
I'm not suggesting you have have a 'special' first time surrounded with rose petals/scented candles and all that sentimental nonsense. I'm simply saying that your first time will be much more worth while with someone you have feelings for...not only that but you'll be less likely to regret the decision later.
Good luck, I hope you make a decision you are proud of(whatever it may be) :)
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