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What to do?
17/female
thing is..... I Like this guy and I know he likes me aswell but we are just 2 totally differnt people!
for a start I really hate people smoking around me and he smokes. but he said he would stop for me!
Another thing is... he drinks alcohol every weekend and am not really like that!
I wont bore you with all the details but these kind of things are putting me off him, should I forget it and go for it?
please answer my question :)
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I personally think that you shouldn't make this guy change for you, although if you really like him just go for it! He is obviously willing to make changes to be with you and you could be a very good infulence on him, as long as you don't get forced into stuff that you dislike : )
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honestly, if you are going to make him change for you then i don't understand how you like him. if you like him enough to date him you shouldn't expect him to change. it wont last if you do expect it. if you can look past the things you don't like and don't let it bother you then things could work but if not then it won't last very long.
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I think you should not forget about it because he may not be a good guy for starters he smokes,drinks that is a bad sign he could get abusive when he starts drinking,you can't believe the guy if he simply tells you he will change for you,tell him you would believe it if you see the change first then you'll talk about having a relationship with him.
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