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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.
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ok well im 14 and i have been a cutter since i was 12. im also anorexic. i have been since i was like 10. i also have trouble eating infront of people, when i have to eat. i just get nervous and very self concious when i eat around other people. even my parents. im 4'10" and i currently weigh 94 lb. i want to get over my cutting and eating disorder SO BAD! i have tryed forever but just run back to them. i think about suicide a lot, espically after this year. this year i lost a lot of friends. 2 died in a car accident on the same day and 4 killed themselves. it has affected me badly.
now i am addicted to cutting. i cant feel the pain anymore. no matter how much or how deep i cut. ive tryed the rubber band thing but it doesnt work. if you have any ideas on how to stop then please answer. i rate high.
First of all, if you are 4'10" and 94lbs, you're not anorexic. your bmi is 19.6. You're perfect. You probably just have anxiety around people.
I KNOW you don't want to hear this and you say this isn't why you came to advicenators, but you need to go to a therapist. It's simple as that. You don't even need to tell them about you're cutting (I didn't...I just had really bad depression, I got better). But if you did tell them about you're cutting, you might get even more better. But you really need to get help. I went through the same thing. The exact same thing. And I'm still struggling. I'm starting to have problem with food now. But I have the will to get better. And I'm sure you do too, you just need someone to help you.
If you need to talk about cutting/depression or anything, please IM me AIM: fatalxhaerts (not misspelled)
good luck hun!
im 13/f about 111lbs.
I cant fit into a size 3 most of the time and that makes me think im fat. I see girls on tv who are in their 20s who weigh less then me. I've tried to cut down on the oh so loverely junk food. But that lasted 30 minz. (( i love chips
first of all, you are FINE. you're not overweight. (depending on your hieght, but i don't think you are). And you're 13, you're still growing.
But, eat lots of good food, such as veges and fruits, instead of chips. maybe get addicted to cereal instead of chips. and stop drinking soda all together.
okay, i like this guy, and whenever i post new pictures, and i tell him, hes like "when you are done, show me" then hes like "i like the third one bottom row" and stuff like that. i was onat midnight the other night and he came back home from canada. and this is the convo without our sn's
him: hey
me: hey, the power just came on.
him: really? all of my clocks are messed up because i got back from canada, i probally missed it.
me: yeah maybe
him: im so hyper, in canada its 9 but here at home its 12!
me: l o l thats cool
him: yeah
him: got to go, TV's calling me
me: l o l okay
me: ttul x Oo bye
was he like flirting with me or something? i want to ask him out, but i d k what to say.
polease help me and tell me if the convo ment something to him... and next itme we talk (maybe later today) ill posta new one... x Oo PEACE
first of all, i think that was a normal conversation with a boy.
second, just ask him out. no big deal.
Okay so I'm 14 (girl btw) ...5'0 and I'm about 85 pounds. I obviously have a high metabolism and I have to gain 95ish pounds before xmas or... I'm going to the hospital because my mom thinks I have an eating disorder (i dont) How do I gain weight and actually "keep it up" ?
It is NOT healthy to gain 95lbs. and your mother wants you to be 180pounds!?!?!? no.. DO not try to gain weight. When she takes you to the hospital, they will tell her you have a fast metabolism. Do not worry. It's not your problem. My mom worried about me for a bit too, but I finally started gaining weight because my metabolism slowed down.
Just don't worry. You'll be fine. My friend has the same problem, but she's starting to gain weight.
Good luck, hun!
alright well my hair is getting dried and my ends are splitting mostly because i straighten it like everyday. i use this gel stuff for when i get out of the shower so it can protect my hair from getting damaged but im guessing its not working... does anyone know of anything to use for my hair..?
You need a hair trim. That will help your hair greatly. You should get your hair trimmed about every 3 months.
I am thinking of making a website. I know HTML and that stuff. I was just wondering if anyone knew of any Good but Free Web Host?
~Thanx alot
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what is this song it is a rock song and i noe girls sing ti and it goes, "why cant i breath when ever i think about you, y cant i speak whenever i talk about you..." can someone plz tell me hwo sings it and what it is called.. thanks
first of all, it's called google.
second, the answer: "why can't i" by Liz Phair
edit: haha i know you found it out already, i just felt like being an ass and replying like 18 other people did before me. thanks for rating though. and GOOGLE is your friend.
ok i have a couple questions so here they go..
1. I have sorta bags and wrinkley things under my eyes even though i get a lot of sleep..how can i tighten up the bags or whatever so i dont like so tired all the time? i used foundation but that does work.
2. I guess i have a sorta big nose..what can i do to make it seem like its smaller? like what makeup?
3. I only get about 4 zits (that are pretty noticeable) in one spot. I use everything to try to get it off. I use the mask stuff, tried toothpaste, clean it a lot, and sometimes just let it be to see what happens. NOTHINGS working. is there anything that i can use to make it go away farily quickly?
>>if you try to answer these as good as you can i'll rate your answer a five! thanks!
1. never had this problem. so sorry can't help there.
2. just try to make your eyes stand out.
3. proactive will solve all your problems!
hey so i have this problem with two boys coby and kalvin. i really like coby and like kalvin. coby is going to a different highschool than me and kalvin is going to my same highschool but i am in love with coby. i dont know what to do. i cant tell kalvin the truth because coby is one of his good friends. kalvin and me are close as friends and me and coby are close all around. what do i do? please help i rate 5's all the way
neither.
i start school soon & the doctor says i can use herbal stuff to help me get to sleep earlier than im us eto...have any of you used it and tel me if its worked? thanks
Chamomile tea. Drink that before you go to bed.
Or you can take this vitamin called "Maletonin". I use that. Talk to your doctor about it first though!
Other than that, I recommend Chamomile tea (make sure there's no sugar).
I really love to sing and my friends say I'm good. I don't think I am all that good though and I want to know some good ways to get better without taking voice lessons because I don't have a lot of money. My goal isn't to be a proffesional singer but I just want to be a source of entertainment to my friends because singing is a huge part of my life. Please answer I'll rate 5's
Well, I've never taken voice lessons but I just got better by "training" my voice to Amy Lee from Evanesence. I would just constantly sing the songs on their "Fallen" album. Also, drink a lot of water.
here's some sites with tips:
http://free-singing-tips.com/
http://www.rivkinetic.org/magazine/mag5.html
http://singingvoice.worldzonepro.com/health.html
hope I helped!
okay yeah i have a bad temper or w/e... but i started liking My Chemical Romance before the became more popular then all these people i know start saying "oh my gosh! my chemical romane is the best band ever i love them!" and the know helena from trl... thats the only song they know. i know about 15 songs of theres. and i loved hot topic since years ago, and these people are like "oh my gosh how could you go in there? that store is for creeps and blah blah blah" and i'm like no... and they carry a lot of cool band shirts and stuff! i mean? and they say the love MCR and they wouldn't even take one step into a hot topic even for $10 to get one of their shirts?? is this a poser? i kinda dunno if this is the true definition or w/e...
silly people!!! *giggles*
i am 5'3" and weigh 104 lbs( i am a girl)
i just got back form camp and now my mom is telling me that i look too skinny, but i think i need to loose 5 pounds. how can i make her see things my way so she doesnt get mad at me when i diet.
you're underweight for your height. no need to lose anything. gain some weight.
Okay my dad is an alcoholic!! He has been all my life!! He drinks right before he comes home from work and he gets so waisted on the weekends!! I've dealt with this all my life!! HE has never been there for me and when he tries he's drunk and I don't want nothing to do with him. Sometimes I just wish him and my mom would get a divorce I think she would be a lot happier. My brothers have been doing drugs for the past 3 years so that doesn't help either but they are working on getting there life straight and they are trying. My dads not!! How do I get him to change? I know it would take a long time but he hasnt even shown progress and he hasnt even tried. I'm about to be 16 and those years with him are nothing...he has never been there and now its like I dont care and I will never be close to him!! What should I do?!?
my dad is an alcoholic too. so i know how it is. you can't change the way an alcoholic is.
but tell your mom to maybe talk to him. or tell him he needs help for his problem.
i m 13 & i have a crush on a 15 year old guy and i THINK he likes me too so my b-day is coming up this saturday and i was wondering what i could do to get him horny or @ least make him show that he likes me p.s. I WILL have a pool so any sexy things i could do in there w/out people noticing that much PLEASE HELP!!! :(
13?!
oh well.
put your hand down his swim trunks, that'll startle him.
okay so i had sex with my boyfriend last night and ever since then i have been throwing up and i keep needing the toilet i no im not pregnant and there is no chance i could be cuase im on the pill and he used a condom, ive had sex before and never felt like this whats wrong with me have i got a desease or something im gettin really worried please help i will rate high
ok if you just had sex with him last night, there is no way your pregnant already. but it's still possible that your pregnant.
and you might possibly just be sick. go to the doctor if it doesn't go away.
Ok i posted before but got no answers so ill respond. My Microsoft Works will not work!!!! I tried reinstalling it like 3 times. Its Microsoft works 7.0, The spreadsheet and everything except the Works Word Processor works. And Under the Works word processor are all those catergorys like cover letters,cards,flyers,outlines, all that stuff and they will not work. WHAT DO I DO PLEAAAAAASE HELP ILL RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm sorry, I don't know how to help you. go on a microsoft forum and ask. They will be able to help on there. if you need a website for a microsoft forum, leave one in my inbox and I'll find it for you.
http://forums.microsoft.com/MSDN/default.aspx there's the website. hope it helps!
I used to cut. Not going to go into details, I used to cut and once I thought I went too deep. I've since realized how stupid and dangerous I was being. However, fo whatever reason, I feel the need to do so again. I don't want to, but I'm tempted and I don't know why. Can anyone please help? Please, no jack asses sayin crap about me bein a stupid "emo" and no bad mouthing me just because of something I used to do
I used to cut too. It's a really hard thing to get over. I had to go to therapy to get over it. So you might need to go to a therapist. You don't even need to tell them about your cutting, just talk about your depression. (I'm guessing you have depression).
But try snapping a rubberband to your wrist when you want to cut. Worked for me.
Good luck.
If you need anymore advice on cutting just IM on AIM: fatalxhaerts
How do you make words over lap on Myspace?
http://www.pixelfx.org/
look on there.
I would find the exact page, but I'm at a friends.
hope that helps
my mom has almost no style at all. she is only 35 she SHOULD still have some fashion sense! ok but yea, her body shape makes it hard for me to find anything she would look good in. shes kinda short..about 5'1 and she has a "beer belly" like a guy would....just a huge gut. shes not fat all the way around. just her gut. so i can't get her tight jeans so she can look good. and i can't seem to find her any cute shirts that she likes unless they are purple lol. what style would make her gut seem smaller (like striped verticly, or ...idk a certain color or something)
Leave your poor mom alone. Gosh! Fricken idiots!