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There's a guy I like and I've caught him staring at me quite a few times. He has seen my crazy side like when I am around my close friends, is that bad? But I was stading behind him during this class thing we were doing and I got this hate vibe coming from him. I get that from every guy I like and I HATE it!! It makes me just want to give up. Why does this happen with every guy I like? (link)
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What kind of hate vibe do you think it was? Maybe he wasn't doing it maybe he actually doesn't hate you. I think your being to hard on your self and that you should be your self around everyone and they will soon except your ways.
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when do you know when you are about to have your period? (link)
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You will know when you start to develop breasts and sometimes you may get cramps or discharge that's either clear or white.
Hope I helped some and if it didn't help ask you Mom when she got hers and you will mostly get it around the same time as her but not for everyones case.
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Ok my friend asked me how to give a hickie but like i know how but i cant explain it to her. can you help? please (link)
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Well first you have to know what a hickie is and then you should no what it is and how to give one. So go look it up at dictionary.com
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So me and my close friend are hangingout. She's e my only friend and she asked if she could invite people to come. I said sure. She didn't tell me wat people she invited. It's worrying me because I think she'll invite her other friends or my ex-friends. What will happen if they come? They're super mean and will make sure I don't talk, look, or even hangout with my close friend. This always happens when it comes to hanging out with my friend. They find out and ruin it for the both of us. (link)
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Then call her and tell her who you would prefer not come and if she has a problem with it then work it out and tell her you reasonings
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I guess about two days ago or something I discovered a feeling of a lump in my throat when I swallowed. It was at the top, back of my throat and I continuously swallowed and got it to the bottom of my throat but it wouldn't go any further. Then it came back up to the top....It's really annoying. It doesn't feel sharp or anything, just a mushy lump that doesn't want to move. I REALLLLY hope it's not a bug because that would descusting....oops I spelt that wrong...I think. Well, my mom said not to worry about it but that's what she says about everything so Help? THANKS!!!! :D (link)
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it is sick season so possibly you are getting sick but i dont think you swallowed a bug ;) but maybe get a doctor to check it out or even the school nurse or yor mom. Find out what it is and if hurts you really should something about it or if it's irratating. If u cant see a nurse or ur mom or doctor dont know what's up try taking some medicine that make colds go away it might be a symptom of a cold. Sorry and hope it goes away
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Theres girl at my school who are on the football team and they are good. Can they get football scholarships or play college football? (link)
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Possibly if they are acepted and are super good like REALY GOOD! But it's hard to find good players especially girls when it comes to football and baseball and such! Wish them good luck :)
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I love to sing, but sometimes I just think I sound terrible. Is there any way to make me sing better? (link)
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Are voices sound a lot different to our selves than they really do. First see make a recording of u singin then listen to it and see what u wanna improve. But I would say practice a lot because it really helps!
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I asked a question like this about another guy but now another one has popped up...Well he started sitting with me at lunch and talks to me a lot. His hair was pretty today, lol:) I saw him in the mall once and after that he started trying to take my food and he would throw other food at me. Haha but I got my revenge... I heard about the if he bugs you he likes you thing. But just getting another P.O.V. :) He doesn't bother anybody else, excpet when he sat on my friends binder when she was getting lunch.....Well ya that's it THANKS!!!! (link)
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It seems like he does like you if he's teasing you. If he talks to you a lot also then he probably does like you :) See how he reacts when you tease him and play cose attention to find out more:)
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I REALLY really like this guy. (Were both 11) Were friends and stuff, but I want to tell him I like him; I actuallt think I LOVE him... What do I do? (link)
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I just turned 12 but this happened to me and i told the guy i liked him and it turned out he liked me too. If yu have a phone you could make it seem mysterios and say "i wanted to tell you ssomething" then tell him. Or if u dont have a phone walk up to him and say it in a sweet, nice way. Just remember that boys can't keep secrets!! Haha so good luck and hope it turns out ok
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hello sir , i am dying to get rid of pimples am 17 ... they are all across my face , my forehead , chin , cheeks etc...
some are dry & some are red and big
HOW CAN I REMOVE THEM? it pains? i cant sleep or study :"(
help me sir, thank you (link)
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I am not a sir but I can try and give you advice. I say go to a skin doctor or pharmacy and get some creams that can help. What will help is before you put stuff on you face wash your face 2 times a day. But you are better of seeing a skin doctor if it's destracting you that much
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I liked this guy and he liked me too, he told me, but he has a girlfriend and they are really close. He told me he just wants to be friends, but he rarely ever talks to me. Then I tried to move on and this other guy i started talking to said he liked me and i also liked him, but he also has a gf and acts like he doesnt want anything to do with me. Can anyone help me understand why this keeps happening? (link)
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When a guy says he likes you he means it mist of the time so only you will know the real reason why but maybe it's because they just said it. First, how did they say it? Did it look like they meaned it? Find out those then I can help you
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Hi I am 18/F
I've had a rough past year with just everything, and recently my sister and a few of my friends have been making me feel bad about my appearance. I have a very well filled out bottom, It's not big or anything, but compared to my top half I look unevenly proportioned. I have small breasts, my family is full of late bloomers. They're not extremely small but they could be bigger. Is there certain shirts or things I could wear to look more proportioned? I wear mostly band t-shirts, shorts, and jeans. What are some things I could switch to that would make me look better, I am also tall almost 5"9 (link)
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Your body is perfect everyone's different in a special way. They are not being very good friends by saying this. If you'd like you could go shop around and look at good trends and get ideas from the people at a certain clothing store ti help find cloths for your body. But my best advice for this is to think positivly about your body! Have fun shopping and look through magazines too to see what u like and don't! Good luck :)
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I've been thinking lately a lot about suicide. I have attempted it once, but ended up in the hospital, this happened a over a year ago. People said it'd get better, I've been trying really hard, but everything is just getting worse. I'm on meds, i have a doctor, therapist, and psychologist. I almost killed myself the other day, but failed because i was to scared. Now I'm thinking, maybe I should run away? (link)
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suicide and running away is not the answer. If you are still thinking about this you obviously ned more help because you only live once and it would hurt everyone who cared (which is more than you think) about you and leave them worried they did something worng. Get more help because the people you may be working with right now are not helping you. Just do'
n't run away or comit suicide plz! I rpeat DO NOT
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My little cousin, (11 F) is short, and she says her breasts hurt when something touches them. She is worried she has breast cancer, which I don't believe, and I can't remember what it was like when I was 11. Please help as soon as possible. Also, she is turning 12. (link)
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I am short too and just turned 12 in January and I agree I don't think it's breast cancer but she is going through a time where her breasts are growing and she's going through puberty so yes they will be more sensitive and if something touches them, hurts them or anything it wouldn't worry me. Mine are the same some of the time. She's alright no breast cancer for her but still it may be possible and if you are still really worryed then go get it checked out by a doctor and they can help her or wait till her 1 year physical where the doctors should examine her and look at the way she is growing and if everythings is growing fine.
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So, long story short..
My 11 (almost 12) year old cousin REALLY likes a boy in her class. She's in elementry, going onto Jr. high in a few months. Sooo, this is what she said is going on:
-He stares at her pretty much ALL the time
-He sits next to her in chorus, lunch, ect.
-He seems to be like RIGHT next to her.
-He makes her laugh A LOT
Please give me answers. She won't stop thinking and talking about him. They've known each other for 4 years! (link)
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It's most likely he does like her if he's doing this. When your in middle school or jr. high when a boy looks at you, sits with you and talks to you he likes you. But ahe will find out soon because boys can not keep a secret and im 12 in middle school right now (just started) and all the boys who likes or liked me did all this then word got around (like i sad boys cant keep a secret) and i knew they did from people telling me. So looks to me this guy wants to be friends with her and most likely has a little crush
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when i try to tlk to my friend she walks away like i did something ...i dont understand? (link)
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My friend keeps doing the same thing and did it last week too. Then after i didn't let it bother me she apoligized. So what I suggest is don't let it bother you and since it won't look like it's bothering you she will be mad and realize she didn't do a good job making you mad or get any attention. Don't say anything to her and pretend you didn't even notice. There are 3 reasons she could be going this
1.) She feels the need to put someone down because she feels bad about something.
2.) She's jealous or you did something to her or a rumor was told to her maybe about you
3.) she wants to get on your nerves and she's not being a good friend. Just act like you don't even notice and she'll get over it. Sorry and good luck :)
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My 11 year old sister(turning 12 next month) is 87 pounds, and kinda short, but getting taller. She keeps saying "I'm so fat! I want to lose weight!" She cuts herself now,(which I only know) and I think it's because she thinks she is fat. I try to tell her she isn't but she isn't listening. She says everything looks fat on her. Is she anerexic? My mom said she might have to be force fed in a hospital. (link)
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I just turned 12 this month and weigh 73 pounds so no she isn't anerexic. It is probably the hormones that are causing this behavior. I am short too but getting taller as well.But if she is cutting her self that isn't normal or exceptible no matter how old you are and by making it so your the only person who knows your not being a good sister until you tell someone! So tell someone to help her because she does need help and will thank you later in life when those scars aren't as big as they could've have been! Help her as soon as possible! Please!
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I like this guy in my class.
He always makes me laugh, and he always seems to be right by me. I've known (and liked) him for 4 years. Do you think he likes me? Help! (link)
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We cant help you if you don't share what he does to you or thoughts that make you think he likes you, we also need you age as all age groups are different once we have this information we will help you and share our opinions :)
-Thanks
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so i updated my iphone 3G to iOS 5.0.1 and now it tells me my music has no content, and same with my photos (other then my camera album). When I clicked on my apps they opened then quickly closed! How do I fix it?! I have already tried syncing it, turning it off then back on then syncing. Please Help! (link)
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Try going to a phone, computer or ipod store where the peple who work there will know best. Don't do anything more though cause it could be messing it up more. I say go to a person whos job is to look and fix things like this. Good luck :)
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what are some cases of which money cant be a source of helping others
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Helping others can be lifting a feather for them or making their bed in the morning. There's s saying that goes "Money can't buy you happiness". If a person makes you happy just think they werrn't bought. Helping isn't money it's trying.
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