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Hey im 13/f. I was going out with this kid Anthony and i thought he was perfect. I met him through a friend of mine and he lives about 30 minutes away from me. I didnt get to see him that much, usually only every other weekend. I thought things were going great and everything but he just stopped calling me for no reason. I started to wonder if he lost his phone, or maybe he didnt like me anymore. Turns out i was right, because i couple nights ago he got his cousin to text me saying it was over since "we never got to hang out." ive been heartbroken ever since. I`m seeing him in a couple weeks, and i know that if i hang out with him he`ll start liking me and will ask me out but will the same thing just happen? I really like him and i would take him back in a second but i dont want him to keep dumping me since we live far away from eachother. I guess..i just dont know what to do. Anyone know anything to help with the situation? Should i talk to him about things? Thankss soo much. (link)
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kay well when you seem him try to look good =] haha no but serouisly you could take him back but then tell him that he has to be serouis and cant just stop talking to you or keep dumping you and then going back out with him. i mean come on its just ganna be a waste of time if you keep going back and forth with him. talk to him about it.
hoppppe i helped~~~
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is it true that if you run away and leave a note saying that you went with some1 that the police cant come looking for you?
-tks-
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no...99.9% of the time they do. so pretty much yeah they look for u
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My friend "George" asked me if i liked him acouple of weeks ago. i told him i did but wasnt ready for a relationship. Just now he asked me if i like him. I dont no how to respond. the thing is i do like him more than a friend but i dont want to get involved with him any further than freindship. What should i do? by the way im sixteen (link)
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i guess you should explain to him that you do like him, but your just not ready for a relationship. he SHOULD understand and if he doesnt, dont worry its not your fault. also, you could explain that your not ready for a relationship but you like him and that you will let him kno when you are ready for one (he probably will ask "when will you or something")
overall just explain to him that you like him more then a friend but dont want to take your relationship any further.
hope i helped
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okayy. So is it possible for a guy 2 years older than you to like you. Last year we went to the same schoool, this year, we go to different schoools. Last year, he was like "well ill go out wtih you in like 3 years" just like randomly as im talking to him online. And at that point, i had no feelings for him so i thought it was kind of odd. then through the year, after talking to him, i really started to like him. And now that we dont go to the same schools, i barely talk to him. And i dont know if im wasting my time and should move on? Or if i should really consider going out with him. Last year some of his friends would be like yeah i think he likes you. But i always am like "no thats too good to be true" I just want to know some other peoples opinions on this. Thanks so muchh! :] (link)
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move on, if he barley talks to you now, then he would probably barley talk to you if you were in a relationship as well.
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How can I get rid of the fat on my stomach and my lovehandles? I do crunches, but it only seems to work on my upper abs, and I still have the lower belly fat. Is there any way I can get rid of this and get flat abs and no lovehandles? (link)
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FORGET CRUNCHES! you need to do CROSS SIT UPS! start off with 100 everyday for about a week, then 200 a day for about 2 weeks and THEN 400 a day....you'll see results. trust me. also, check in magazines, they have srticals about working out and stuff all the time! try the cross crunch..about 20-25 dollars in walmart
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over the weekend a girl lets call her B asked out my boyfriend. she knows that we have been together for over a year and she asked anyways and then she made up lies saying that i was calling her and IMing her when i dont have her number or screenname. what should i do (link)
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Okay well if he turns her down then obvouisly he likes you and cares and if he says yes, then its a good thing you guys broke up because that means he doesnt really care about you. whoever this "B" girl is obvousily dont trust her or anything (i dont know if she was a friend or anything but if she is..then i suggest not hanging out with her anymore). talk to your boyfriend and explain the whole situation. everything should turn up fine.
-wish you luck*
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considered a slut if she has sex on the first date? (link)
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Some people might view them as a slut. A slut is pretty much giving it up easily and doing stuff with guys alot.
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I'm a person who has a super high libido. I am thinking of going to a boarding school next year, but I won't be able to pleasure myself then. How would I ever get the room to myself long enough to achieve the big 'O'? I currently do it every single day. I don't know how I'd survive without doing it every day.
help me.
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okayy well you should try doing it when no one is around or in the shower/bathroom or something. ovousily try doing it when you have privacy. either that or you could try to stop...
hope i helped
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ok soo i`m 14/f and i have just feel soo shity about everything me and my mom got into a pretty big fight today and it was really heart breaking because we were getting along soooo great. and now things feel like everythings falling apart i broke up with the guy i liked a lot because he never had time for me because of fucking hockey and he really hurt me when i broke up with him. we`re not even friends. its soo heart breaking and i try to talk to him but either he gives me dirty looks for ignors me or makes fun of my text messages. i keep telling myself hes not worth it but it hurts soo god damn much! the only person that has stuck by myside my hole life almost is my best friend Nes. she understands me and i love that. and she knows how much mike might to me. and it just sucks i trying to flirt with other guys but they are starting to get annoying, i think i need a vacation. really or like go to the spa!! i got no sleep lastnight because i couldn`t stop thinking about him. i`m just slowly getting over him. and i really need to!! for ym health i have lost 15 pounds because of the break up. i need help fast!! (link)
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Okay first, you REALLY need to get over him. risking your health is NOT going to help you. Firstly, start hanging out with your friends more and dont talk about him much. Take all that sadness and turn it into determination. try to meet new guys (that arn't anyoying). serouisly, you need to start doing sports or something to keep you bussy and keep your mind on something else instead of him. if you need any more help try going to www.seventeen.com (or get a magazine) and check if they have anything about break ups and stuff (they ussaully do). also if you go to the website, go to the top and there should be a thing that says ask jenna or someone like that. stay strong =)
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i was wondering if anyone had any good song suggestions for me. i want songs that are kind of gangster and punk and slow, so basically a variety. please list the title and artish
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okay i know ALOT of music. i'll give you a couple artists and if you want anymore tell me.
pussy cat dolls, lil wayne, ying yang twins, usher, 50 cent, akon, all american rejects, p-diddy, and SOOO much more..
if you want more justt tell me and i'll give you a bunch
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My boyfriend and I have been sexually active, and I'm just wondering when it is safest to have sex without the possibility of pregnancy... like right before or right after having a period? thanks. (link)
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Um. i would say the best time to have it is after, but its never really safe. you should always were protection but even then, theres always a chance.
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ok, so, yesterday, somehow, i asked my crush out. he's my guy best friend, and while we were talking, i just kinda slipped it in there. I ACTUALLY ASKED HIM OUT! this morning when i woke up, it seemed like a dream. but it wasn't. after i asked him out, he replied by saying, "i need time to think". how should i take that? what does that mean? if you asked somebody out and said that, what would you have thought? maybe i'm looking into this too far, but i can't help but do it, cuz i'm so nervous and stuff.
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I did say the same thing to people when they ask me out. Sometimes I say it because I dont want to hurt the persons feelings and i tell them that i need time, to actaully make it seem like i am considering it. on the other hand, sometimes i really do need to think. it couldnt be that he really needs time to think, or it could but that he doesnt want to hurt your feelings. just dont get your hopes up, but dont think that you dont have a chance.
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My ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. 15 days ago he broke up with me because he was unhappy. For the last couple of days I was fine.. but last night and today I have been really upset. I cant seem to let him go. I still cant accept that me and my ex are over. I told him my deepest darkest secret and trusted him with my life. I truley loved him. And still do. I want to know how to let go and get past this so I can move on. I like my friend and he's asked me out but I havent gone out with him because I'm still hung up on my ex.
By the way, my ex used to be this sweet loving guy and now he's turned into a complete idiot. He is trying to take this girls innocence and virginity, ( a new girl in his life). I find this very hard to believe but it is true, I heard it from my ex, and I dont want to be with that kind of guy.. so how can I still want an idiot of a guy like this? WHAT DO I DO?!
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Firstly, I dont truss anyone with my secrets because you never know. so i would serouisly start trying to meet other guys and not constintaly be thinking of your ex. and if he has turned in to a total idoit- why should you care? hes not your boyfriend anymore and let him learn from his mistakes. that girl, you could tell her but she might not believe you, she might tell ur ex and he'll get pissed. i wouldnt tell her because it doesnt really involve you. even maybe just forgeting about guys for a while might be good. hang out with your firends instead and get you mind off him!
hope i helped=]
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my relatives and parents are asking me what i want for christmas! i really dont know what to ask for.. im already getting gift certificates, money, and clothes from so many people i dont need any more of that stuff.... im already asking for makeup, and a coach purse for christmas. i have an ipod and im getting 5 ipod giftcards already so im good. i wanna get a psp or ps2, what do you think is better? i just need ideas of things to ask for. i have a cell phone, i just got a new computer, i have tons of movies and music and stuff. christmas is coming around and i dont want to have to make a christmas list at the list minute. what are you guys asking for christmas?? i need lots of ideas, lists and websites are good. (link)
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Wow. your lucky. your getting like so much stuff! kay well if i were you i would probably ask for money because you can save it and use it later on. maybe a laptop too because you could always use that. even a portable dvd player that they have..what about a pet?? haha. okay well serouisly i would save the money because you could save it.
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i'm 14,live in NYC, never had a boy-freind of hooked up with a boy before.
Boys intimidate me but i want a bf cause i want someone who can understand me and hold me when im upset and love me, but that never seems like its ever gonna happan cause i get so nervous around them.
also every time i thik about hooking up with boys i start crying because i REALLY want to hook up with someone and every time i think about it a sense of despair comes over me and it feels like im NEVER gonna hook up with anyone
is it because i'm not likeable, or just not outgoing enough, what do boys find wrong with me.
ive read the answers to questions kinda like this one, on sites like this one and none of them ever help, they always make me feel worse instead of better.
dont tell me my first kiss is gonna come, just wait for it, cause it doesnt seem like thats ever going to happen to me.
advice on how to feel better about this and how to be less awkward around boys would be a great help.
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Alright, well I guess I used to be a little shy of guys but now im just what ever. Start trying to become more outgoing by randomly talking to people. That happend to me because at the shore me and my friend DIDNT care what people thought of us and we talked to EVERYONE there. It turned out that we actaully became friends with people from there. I guess you could first start by trying to get your self esstem up more, and try becoming more outgoing. Im SURE if you read in seventeen magazine or something like that, you might find some advice. Try going to www.seventeen.com and go to the top and there should be a thing that says as Jenna or someone a question. Ask her and she'll right back to you. I really dont know what else to say because this hasnt really happend to me before. Just try talking to a close friend about it, and try just being louder around guys- dont be nervouse because theres nothing to be nervouse about (just laugh alot ;) thats what i do - not freakishly tho)
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Riiight...
I'm 14. My girlfriend is 16. We both love each other very much.
Recently, after a night of passion (basically lots of making out and holding one another), she offered to take me to third base. I am simply not sure I'm ready for this, for a couple reasons...
The major one is it's simply incredibly daunting. I've never made it that far with any girl, and this is the kind of thing I've heard about in health class. I feel a little young and unprepared... I just get rather nervous when I consider it.
The other is simply the original idea I had when I first heard of it. I remember back years ago, when I first heard of the whole idea, I remember thinking "Wow, that sounds really disgusting for her. I would never make ANY girl do that for me". She says it doesn't bother me, but I don't know...
What you have to understand is that it's not her, it's me. I love and trust her indefinitely, it's issues I just have with myself. I think I also feel a little insecure about my body... I'm also afraid, however, that if I continuously pass something like this up, I'll just never be ready no matter how old I get.
Please don't answer this from a religious standpoint, and don't just say "talk to her" because I'm already doing that. She'd like an answer by Saturday.
Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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Okay, well i was ganna say talk to her about it and stuff but you already have. So if you dont want to do it, the DONT. you cant be pressured into something that you dont want to do. Tell her you need to take your time and when you really want to do stuff with her, then do it. its really up to you, but i suggest you do what you feel it right...
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ok, so, for christmas, i'm giving my close friends a silver bracelet. i'm putting it in a kinda small box-ish thing and putting a ribbon around it and a flower on it. i was gonna put other things in it cuz the box is pretty big for just a bracelet. what else should i put in it?
also, i like my guy best friend, and i was just thinking of maybe buying him something for christmas. is that a good idea? if so, what should i buy him? i was thinking of maybe asking him of what he wants for christmas and make it sound like a fun-tease kind of thing. but i'm not sure if i should do that. so any help for these would be very great! (link)
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Okay well maybe you should put like rings, necklaces or something like that. Even like lip gloss, gift cards, cards, make up- "girly" stuff. Okay for the guy, well what is he into. Like is he sporty or what? Okay well maybe something like axe or tag or a shirt or something. Even a simon gift card to the mall would be good, that way he has a gift but he can get what he likes.
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ive been confused for awhile now. im still in love with my ex. i cant help it, he is everything i look for in a guy. well i like this other guy alot too. i was found out he is goin to ask me out and idk what to do. i know he would treat me great but i still love my ex (link)
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Actually if you do go out with him it might get your mind of your ex and let you relize you like this guy alot more. I dont know, its worth a shot.
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I have a problem of constant worrying about getting things done. I feel as if there aren't enough hours in the day to finish all the homework teachers give us, I don't understand the lessons, then I fail the test, then it all starts over again.
I'm about to break down and cry. I get sick from worrying so much! The stress from school is killing me and my demanding parents aren't helping. What should I do? (link)
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the SAME thing happens to me. okay well i have really gotten to solve my problem but you could try making a schedule or doing your homework right when you get home, giving you the rest of then night to study or do what ever.
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Alright so there is this boy a really like. Hes my sisters best frend so i really didnt think i had a chance with him. But i always wondered what he though of me. So the other night when imy friend was here she asked him for me. She told him all about how i like him and everything, but now im regeting it. I feel like it was stupid to have my friend do it and i should have done it myself. So i am just wondering what you think? SHould i have done it myself. I know i cant take back time and change it but do you think it was stupid to have my friend do it? Do you thikn ghe will think im more childish now and to afraid to confront him myself? (link)
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k firstly i need to know, how much older is he then you, and what was his answers/reactions about when your friend talked to him
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