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some chick asked out my bf
over the weekend a girl lets call her B asked out my boyfriend. she knows that we have been together for over a year and she asked anyways and then she made up lies saying that i was calling her and IMing her when i dont have her number or screenname. what should i do
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Okay well if he turns her down then obvouisly he likes you and cares and if he says yes, then its a good thing you guys broke up because that means he doesnt really care about you. whoever this "B" girl is obvousily dont trust her or anything (i dont know if she was a friend or anything but if she is..then i suggest not hanging out with her anymore). talk to your boyfriend and explain the whole situation. everything should turn up fine.
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Just sit down with your boyfriend and explain the whole situation to him. If he trusts you and really cares about you, you'll be okay. Good luck.
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[EDIT: Yeah, she probably is going to start doing that. All girls are catty like that and think by talking about people behind their backs, it'll gain more people on their side and try and win them over. As long as you know, your boyfriend knows, and all his friends know that you two aren't breaking up, and she's just being an immature idiot, that's all that matters. His friends should just ignore her or walk away from her whenever she starts talking about you or your boyfriend. ]
Just talk to your boyfriend about this situation.
Just make sure that he doesn't have any feelings for her or anything, just to get that out of the way and so you're not thinking he's cheating on you or anything.
Also, just let him know what you're feeling whenever she did that so if she's ever to do it again, he can be like,"You know I have a girlfriend, so stop, please." And try and get her to stop flirting and make her realize that he's taken and there's nothing she can do about it.
There's no need to worry, though. If she's going to be that desperate to try and get your man by asking him out whenever he's already taken, who wants her? You already know he likes you, and your his and nobody else's and vice versa.
I hope I helped.
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Well, what does your boyfriend think of her? Does he think she is lying?
Sounds to me like she is a drama queen, who has the hots for your man!
Make sure your man is not interested in her. Put your mind to rest there. If he is not at all interested in her then you should just keep insisting that she is a liar and leave it at that.
If your man is interested. You will be able to tell if he is. He will seem distracted or pre-occupied. If this has happened then you nedd to take action. Catching someone in a lie is the best way to exspose them and end this whole mess. Basically, make her look like an ass, right in front of your boyfriend. Try not to lower yourself to her level in the process. Stay honest. Liars often tell lies to cover up lies. She will hang herself, you just need to give her a bit of rope.
Try asking her to prove that you IM'd her or called her. Tell her that if she cannot prove it then it didn't happen. See what she comes up with.
Good luck and remember, talk to your boyfriend first. Tell him that you are going to ask her for proof and see what she says. Put her on the spot. Better yet, have your boyfriend ask her right in front of you. Keep me posted!
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