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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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ok so most of my friends are guys and lately a couple of people have started to call me a slut and stuff and idk what to do. its not like ive ever done anything with anyone ever. i havent even had my first kiss yet. i dont go around hanging on them or even hugging them. i just like smile and laugh when they say something funny or like bring up a funny memory but this happens all the time so i can kinda see where those people are coming from. whats wrong with me??? btw 15/f
they're just jealous that you get so much attention from the guys. don't worry about it. the guys know you aren't a slut and you know you aren't a slut. tell those girls to shut it.. you're just friends with the guys you don't do anything with them.
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I really really like this guy Dan.
We aren't dating, but we are practicaly a couple, just minus the asking out bit.
So I made out with him for the first time a couple of days ago.
And I was quite disapointed.
He's too slobbery, and I like of lots of tongue when I kiss and he doesn't do much with his.
Is there any way to kinda correct him without, flat out tellling him whats wrong.
I can try and show him what I like, but
How do you deal with those exact problems.
you can't really show him how to be less slobbery. you kinda have to tell him. and if you use your tounge more when you guys are kissing maybe he will catch on.
good luck
i'm in a reallyyy bad position in a love triangle.
guy one and i have been friends the same amount of time guy two and i have been friends [i met them at the same time.] well, in around march, guy one started liking me, and i was totally flattered except i didn't like him at the time. in fact, i liked guy two.
well, about a month ago, i found out guy two likes me too. so now, guy and guy two like me. but i stopped liking guy two a long time ago.
guy one is really heartbroken that he found out that i used to like guy two & that guy two likes me now.
i know for a fact i dont like guy one, but guy one likes me more than guy two. and guy two is way hotter than guy one.
they were both my really good friends, and i can't tell them both that i don't like either of them cause i'm leaning towards guy two. but i had another totally different crush who was NEITHER of these guys. i've never liked guy one, but guy one is so sweet and he always calls me beautiful, but guy two has a lot more experience with girls and likes me a lot less.
i don't know what i want.
honestly, it doesn't really sound like you want either of them. tell them both that you just want to be friends.
is there a term for a guy sucking on a girls chest???
well..most people i know call it sloppy second (not to be confused with sloppy secondS). it is called that because feeling up is considered second base and then 'sloppy' second would be using your mouth for second base. it makes sense if you think about it. haha
how do you get a guy to feel you up?
Thanks for your advice :)
okay well im guessing you probably have a boyfriend or just want to know in general. well..if you guys already like eachother then start making out and if he doesn't feel you up himself then take his hands and guide them wherever you want them to go. he will get the idea and i'm sure he'll be happy to do whatever you want him to do.
My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old, we've been dating almost two years. We have been sexually active for some time and never had a problem.
Last night, though, he seemed to be having some male issues. That is, getting hard enough to have good sex. He was able to keep it up enough to get off once, but it was pretty obvious there was a problem. He was very embarassed and I feel bad for him, it's the first time it has happened to us. Any advice on what I should say to him? Or what the reason for this could've been? Thanks
maybe he just doesn't get as turned on as he used to. maybe you should try some new stuff. or he could have been masturbating earlier that day and he just wasn't horny enough. i wouldn't mention anything unless it happens again next time you have sex. then i would ask if either of the two things i mentioned are the case.
I am going with my girlfriend's family for Thanksgiving this year to her family friend's house, and I was wondering:
1) What should I bring? (gifts, food, etc)
2) What should I talk about?
3) General advice about girlfriend's parents.
This is not the first time meeting her parents, but the first time really having a conversation with them.
that sounds kinda awkward for you.. haha. well i guess it depends on how old you are. but anyways
1)ask your girlfriend's parents if theres any food you should bring. maybe you could bring a dessert or something. :]
2)they will probably just ask you questions so answer them politely. you can ask questions too.. but don't get too personal. you don't want to be rude.
3)be nice. be funny. be outgoing. be easygoing. don't swear or say anything naughty to your girlfriend in front of them :] haha
good luck
My boyfriend and I are thinking about having sex. But before I act on this thought, I want to hear some personal experiences. Have you ever had sex? if the answer is no, then why haven't you? Is it because of religion, personal beliefs, morals, etc? But if you have, then What happened? Why did you decide to participate in sex? Do you regret it? I'm asking these questions because I want to know what everyday people think about this, because once its gone i can never get it back.
i don't agree with the person below me. you should have sex when you feel you're ready and mature enough to do it. you should be in love with the person you are going to do it with. there's no set time to do it..you don't have to wait until you're out of high school. i haven't had sex.. but i came pretty close last year when i was a freshman in high school. looking back, i know that sounds slutty but i was really in love with the guy i was going out with and i went out with him for a year. i think that if i had done it i probably would still be together with him today. so no, i probably wouldn't have regretted it. if you really like your boyfriend then do it. but don't feel like you HAVE to or hes pressuring you to. and if he is then tell him if you're not ready.
I really need a good book to read!!!
Im 15/f so i dont want anythign short... something i can really get into
Maybe somethign about teens with problems (drugs, alcohol, self destruction)
Im really open for any kind of book
Please help!
the pact.
my sisters keeper.
--- both of those are by jodi picoult
they're amazing read them!
haha
girls only please. so im 16/f, and though im of a somewhat light complexion, i think my private area is too dark. is there anything, if possible, like a cream or something, to make it lighter?? thanXx in advance.
thats actually normal. its supposed to be like that. and if it's a guy that said it was darker than the rest of your body maybe he didnt mean it in a bad way? a guy has said that to me before and i was just like yeah.. i know. but if he did say it in a mean way then i wouldn't pay any attention to him because it's normal and he obviously hasn't seen very many girls 'private areas' or he would know that.
ok i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for christmas! hes not really into into anything like a certain sport...he bmx's but not really into anyone specific so thats out...but i have no idea what to get him! it has to be something good...not just like a hat or something because i know he has got me something good. PLEASE HELP! any suggestions will help.
also, his birthday is soon after christmas, and i need ideas for that too. hes turning 16 so it has to be good too
thanks for Any help!
xxx
okay yeah this is a tough one. i had problems with this too. you could get him....
-- cologne
-- a video game
-- itunes giftcard
-- giftcard to a clothing store
-- giftcard to best buy
sorry thats all i got! hope i helped
Okay, well you know when you just know a guy likes you?
Well, ive heard many tmes that this guy likes me, and the way he acts, its pretty obvious. But he is the most annoying boy to walk this earth! He keeps following me, and getting really close to my face when he talks, and spits during it! I back up but he just gets closer and babbles on about all this stuff because hes "REally hyper" Ive given him "hints" ignored him, everything possible! Everyday i meet my friends in a specific spot before the bell for homeroom rings, and hes figured out my schedule! He follows me there and pretends hes friends with my friends when i know hes not! I dont think ive ever been this more angry or upset. i really need help. hes also obnoxious and immature, and everytime i ignore him he goes "why you ignoring me?! Your depressed arent you? tell me why your deppressed BLAH BLAH..." Im sorry but ive had it. I need a way to get him off my back and out of my life. Please! Im really nor trying to be mean, but my best friend has tried giving me tips and ive done everything! So have my friends at school, they all agree hes annoying too, by the way.
don't be mean. this guy obviously likes you a lot. tell him he needs to give you a little space. when he's talking really close to your face back up. when he follows you don't talk to him. tell your friends not to talk to him either. hopefully he will get the hint.
Alright soo I have a best friend lets call him Luke..We have been best friends since the 6th grade. We tell eachother how we are going to get married andd yea he's like the best friend anyone could have. He makes me laugh at anything and I just love him to death..
Well now, I have a boyfriend, lets call him Mark. Well Luke and Mark don't get along very well... Luke and I are like always lovey dovey that's just how we are with eachother..We love eachother like a brother and sister..Well Mark doesn't like that very muchh..So Luke and I can't act like that in front of Mark. I am like in love with Mark though..but Luke just thinks he mistreats me and all that and he's not happy with him and me being together. Well last night there was a party and i was with Mark most of the time..Luke got kinda mad but he dealt with it..But then today he sent me an e-mail saying if we can't act like ourselves in front of Mark well then we might as well not talk.. I guess i'll talk to you when you guys are over and done with..sorry.
This split me apart...I don't knowwhat to do..I love Mark but Luke is my other half..Please help me and thank you for readying this and sorry for it being longg.
ok first of all, it sounds like Luke likes you. he probably just doesnt want to ruin your friendship by telling you that. if Mark doesn't accept how you act with your BEST friend then maybe he isn't the best guy for you. you need to talk to him and explain that you and Luke are JUST FRIENDS, and if he can't accept that then you should find a new guy.
okay so me and this kid who i went out with towards the end of the summer and nobody liked the fact i went out with him but i really liked him but i had to break up with hinm after a month cause he chrated on me for that whole time pretty much and now i have a new boyfriend that i really like but these feelings just keep comming back to me.
same thing with this kid i met off of a site i really am starting to like. hes really cute and everything ive been looking for in a guy.
i dont know what to do i really want to get over my ex.
okay first of all, forget about your ex. he cheated on you. he obviously didnt care enough about you. sorry if thats kinda harsh but you need to realize what a dick he was to you if you want to get over him. i wouldnt put effort into a relationship with someone you met on a site. they could be lying about who they are and everything. i would stick with your new boyfriend because it sounds like you really do like him. dont worry if you doubt if you like him occasionally. that happens sometimes.
What's the average percentage for body fat for fashion models?
i don't think anyone's actually calculated what the average % body fat for fashion models are but i know that the underweight % is anything under 15% and most models are underweight.. so yeah under 15%
I was just wondering, how come most of the stuff that's on clearance on the hollister website usually can't be found in the store? like sometimes i'll go out to buy something on clearance from hollister that i saw on the site isn't there.
clearance stuff usually sells faster so that particular store you went to may already be out of that item..or the item may have never been on clearance at that store because they might have sold all of it before it went on sale.
hope i helped
What's the average weight for a 5"5 model?
um im guessing its like 110 and under
but thats not a very healthy weight
I have a guy friend who for the last 3 days has called me every night and we have talked on the phone for hours. I’m house sitting at the moment and he knows that I’m by myself. He tells me that he calls and talks to me cause he doesn’t want me to be bored or alone. I do have a problem though. He is engaged, but he hardly ever sees her, and when they talk on the phone it’s only for like 15 minutes. Just the other night I was at his house and his fiancé called. I decided to leave like 5 minutes after she called, so I could head over to the house I’m watching. It’s like a 3 minute drive and he called me before I even got there. So that means he hung up with his fiancé and immediately called me, and we were on the phone for three hours. He called me tonight also, and we were on the phone for another 2 and a half hours. That would make this day number four. Friday night he asked me to go to midnight mayhem with him, but we were going to meet up with his friends first. He had called me earlier in the day and made sure I was still able to go, which I was. So I went and the whole time he was pretty much right next to me. Making sure I was okay, and sitting close enough to where our legs were touching. Then on the way home he kept asking and making sure that I had fun. Which I did. Sorry but I have a couple of questions. 1) Do guys really hate to talk on the phone, and if so is our 2-3 hour conversations a sign he likes me? 2) I want to talk to him and tell him how I feel but I’m not sure how to go about it without ruining our friendship. How do I go about doing this? And 3) What would you do if you were in my position?
I would like to end this though by saying that I have no intentions of doing anything with this man unless he is separated from his fiancé.
Thank You!
okay well..
1. it kinda depends on the guy. most of the time guys only talk on the phone that long if they like you...thats how its been for me. we just learned about this in english..guys use communication to achieve goals (getting you to like him).. thats my guess. maybe you could include a little more info about what you guys talk about and stuff?
2. i wouldnt talk to him about it yet. first i would ask him why he calls you so much if he has a fiance. do it in nice, gentle way though so he doesnt get mad. maybe that will help him sort out his real feelings.
3. see number 2 :] and then if he likes you..go for it! but MAKE SURE he already broke things off with his fiance.
Ok , my bf and I have been going out for a few months. Is it ok if I don't like him as much as he likes me? lately, he's just been more of a friend. I know that if we broke up, i'd start cruching on him again. This happens with almost all of the guys I go out with. It's like, you love him, but once you're going out, it's just different. Please help!
i know exactly what you mean. basically you want him until you have him. and then when you dont have him anymore you want him again. you need to make your relationship more exciting i guess. try to get him to act more like a boyfriend than a friend. maybe you need to act more like a girlfriend than a friend too.
I really really like this guy. I thought he liked me too, but just recently he got a new gf... How do you go after someone who has a gf? do you just wait to see how their relationship goes, move on... what? please help
i would say move on. maybe flirt a little, but not too much because then the other girl will get mad at you and he might too and it will make it obvious that you like him and make you seem desperate. so just move on for now and when they break up go for it!