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ANNOYING!
Okay, well you know when you just know a guy likes you?
Well, ive heard many tmes that this guy likes me, and the way he acts, its pretty obvious. But he is the most annoying boy to walk this earth! He keeps following me, and getting really close to my face when he talks, and spits during it! I back up but he just gets closer and babbles on about all this stuff because hes "REally hyper" Ive given him "hints" ignored him, everything possible! Everyday i meet my friends in a specific spot before the bell for homeroom rings, and hes figured out my schedule! He follows me there and pretends hes friends with my friends when i know hes not! I dont think ive ever been this more angry or upset. i really need help. hes also obnoxious and immature, and everytime i ignore him he goes "why you ignoring me?! Your depressed arent you? tell me why your deppressed BLAH BLAH..." Im sorry but ive had it. I need a way to get him off my back and out of my life. Please! Im really nor trying to be mean, but my best friend has tried giving me tips and ive done everything! So have my friends at school, they all agree hes annoying too, by the way.
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If you have tried everything, perhaps it's time for you to become a little more firm. When he gets too close - say you prefer your own space.
Find a way to let him know you don't like him. Or next time he follows you to your friends, think of a plan. Talk about someone you like and make it obvious it is not him, for example.
I can imagine how annoying this is, but kudos for him not giving up yet!
Don't worry though, he will realize sooner or later.
Try to meet your friends in a different spot? That should give him some idea at least.
and don't lead him on in any way. If you don't, you've nothing to feel guilty about and within time, he will back off.
When he talks to you, be civil, but try to make it very brief. It's not nice to be mean.
He's either just really infatuated with you or really doesn't realize how annoying he is being. If he still doesn't get the message, the only thing left to do would be to ask him why he always follows you etc. Hear his side. Then tell him it makes you uncomfortable and if he could please stop.
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don't be mean. this guy obviously likes you a lot. tell him he needs to give you a little space. when he's talking really close to your face back up. when he follows you don't talk to him. tell your friends not to talk to him either. hopefully he will get the hint.
<33 good luck
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