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This is killing me.. reallly it is.
Alright soo I have a best friend lets call him Luke..We have been best friends since the 6th grade. We tell eachother how we are going to get married andd yea he's like the best friend anyone could have. He makes me laugh at anything and I just love him to death..
Well now, I have a boyfriend, lets call him Mark. Well Luke and Mark don't get along very well... Luke and I are like always lovey dovey that's just how we are with eachother..We love eachother like a brother and sister..Well Mark doesn't like that very muchh..So Luke and I can't act like that in front of Mark. I am like in love with Mark though..but Luke just thinks he mistreats me and all that and he's not happy with him and me being together. Well last night there was a party and i was with Mark most of the time..Luke got kinda mad but he dealt with it..But then today he sent me an e-mail saying if we can't act like ourselves in front of Mark well then we might as well not talk.. I guess i'll talk to you when you guys are over and done with..sorry.
This split me apart...I don't knowwhat to do..I love Mark but Luke is my other half..Please help me and thank you for readying this and sorry for it being longg.
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ok first of all, it sounds like Luke likes you. he probably just doesnt want to ruin your friendship by telling you that. if Mark doesn't accept how you act with your BEST friend then maybe he isn't the best guy for you. you need to talk to him and explain that you and Luke are JUST FRIENDS, and if he can't accept that then you should find a new guy.
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If you can't be yourself with your BEST FRIEND Luke around your boyfriend who you love, it's not really right. Maybe Mark just feels that because you act lovey dovey with Luke, you really like him. Talk to Mark. I seriously think that if you can't be yourself with your boyfriend, you're kind of wasting your time. Mark should accept your friends. Luke might be overreacting too, though. It depends on how you look at the situation but Luke should realize that Mark is your boyfriend and you have to spend some time with him as well. Make sure that all the lines of communication are open so that you can always talk to both of them. Sit with Mark and explain what your and Luke's friendship means to you. If he's as great as you think, he'll understand.
I hope I helped
Leah
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If "Mark" doesn't like it if you be yourself in front of him even if it is with another guy then do you really think you should date him? If "Mark" can't except that you have a best friend that happenes to be another boy, then maybe he doesn't want you are much as he should. Also, don't leave "Luke" out of the picture if you still want to date "Mark". He is still your best friend.
I hope that I helped you!
Good Luck!
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well if "mark" cant deal with you and "Luke" being friends and the way you acted before than i don't think its really love, because you and Luke have been friends since 6th grade because of what you do and i dont care what you say a long friendship beats out a love relationship any day. Hope all goes well!
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