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bad love triangle


Question Posted Saturday November 10 2007, 4:03 pm

i'm in a reallyyy bad position in a love triangle.

guy one and i have been friends the same amount of time guy two and i have been friends [i met them at the same time.] well, in around march, guy one started liking me, and i was totally flattered except i didn't like him at the time. in fact, i liked guy two.

well, about a month ago, i found out guy two likes me too. so now, guy and guy two like me. but i stopped liking guy two a long time ago.

guy one is really heartbroken that he found out that i used to like guy two & that guy two likes me now.

i know for a fact i dont like guy one, but guy one likes me more than guy two. and guy two is way hotter than guy one.

they were both my really good friends, and i can't tell them both that i don't like either of them cause i'm leaning towards guy two. but i had another totally different crush who was NEITHER of these guys. i've never liked guy one, but guy one is so sweet and he always calls me beautiful, but guy two has a lot more experience with girls and likes me a lot less.

i don't know what i want.


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Razhie answered Sunday November 11 2007, 10:41 am:
Sounds like you don't really want either of them.

At least, not right now.

Which is fine. Great even! Because you avoid a shit load of a drama that way.

You don't hafta date everyone who has a crush on you or everyone you have a crush on.

You shouldn't date someone you are merely 'leaning towards'. Especailly not if it is going to damage a few friendships. Don't date either of them unless you are really excited about it.

Actually, just don't date anyone unless you really excited about it.

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kayybabyx3 answered Saturday November 10 2007, 10:28 pm:
dont go out with either of them.

you obviously dont like guy one..and if you went out with him youd just be leading him on..just tell him you want to be friends.
guy two: if he likes you alot less,then why go out with him?i dont think you want him either..liike you used to like and now he likes you..but you dont like him..
yeah i say tell both of them you just want to be friends right now.

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XoXoXoXo77 answered Saturday November 10 2007, 10:00 pm:
honestly, it doesn't really sound like you want either of them. tell them both that you just want to be friends.

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