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ok so most of my friends are guys and lately a couple of people have started to call me a slut and stuff and idk what to do. its not like ive ever done anything with anyone ever. i havent even had my first kiss yet. i dont go around hanging on them or even hugging them. i just like smile and laugh when they say something funny or like bring up a funny memory but this happens all the time so i can kinda see where those people are coming from. whats wrong with me??? btw 15/f
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they're just jealous that you get so much attention from the guys. don't worry about it. the guys know you aren't a slut and you know you aren't a slut. tell those girls to shut it.. you're just friends with the guys you don't do anything with them.
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I have this problem all the time, being in a male-dominated field of study.
Here's an example of a typical comeback...
"Me? A slut? Hmm, that's funny... You're assuming that I have sex with every guy I hang out with. What are you basing this on? Is that what you do?"
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"I guess I just have really strong willpower, because it's just SO hard to resist their manly charms."
Don't be bothered too much by it. Just because some girls don't know how to be friends with a guy without having sex with him doesn't mean that you're not sensible enough to do so.
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Tell them you'll file sexual harassment if they keep calling you a slut.
And if they don't stop, go to your counselor/principal.
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Well, I know alot of girls who have mostly guy friends. I have alot of guy friends too. Theres nothing wrong with you. You know about all of the girl drama that goes on, and thats why alot of the girls I know have mostly guy friends. To avoid as much girl drama as they can.
Hope that helped a little bit.
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