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Age: 15
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Ok, he checks me out, but he doesn't flirt with me. So.....what do you think?
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RE: (Reply to previously asked question)
Well he checks you out, right? Then he probably likes you :)
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I've convinced myself that just because the rest of my family smokes, doesn't mean I will. But most people I know say "you never know if you're going to end up smoking yet"
I always tell them "I promise you I'm not going to smoke" and they tell me I cant make a promise like that. Hardly anyone believes me. A few people do but that's not enough. I could start smoking anytime...so when is the right time that they will believe me? When I'm older? I'm still young, and if I'm not smoking now...I'm not a smoker, so why can't I just stay like I am.....NOT A SMOKER. I know a lot of people say that they're not going to smoke and some of them end up smoking, but I'm not one of those people. I counted how much money my family would waste altogether with the money they spend on cigarettes all combined....and thats like 50,000 a year!
That's messed up.
I'm not going to smoke because I already see the way my family struggles with it. It breaks my heart that they're controlled by a poisonous stick. What should I do? Do you think I'm going to smoke just because the rest of my family does? I'm not the kind of person who gives into peer pressure...and I've already turned an offer for a cigarette down.
I'm about to take all their cigarettes and flush them down the toilet...that's how scared I am for them, and it's going to waste a lot of their money, but that will just teach them a lesson. (even though most people say that a if you take their cigarettes away, it will just make them want to smoke more, well I'll make sure they dont) Should I? I'm so confused...and sorry for the length. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Smoking isn't heredity, its voluntarily done. Just because your whole family smokes doesn't mean you will. But ultimately, it's your choice. It's up to you whether or not you're going to smoke or not! So ignore your friends, they are really oblivious if they think just because your family smokes it means you will too. If you don't give into peer pressure or temptation, you won't end up smoking at all. So just stay true to yourself and your promises and don't smoke! It's horrible for your health anyway. You wouldn't wanna cut your life by 14 years now would you?
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*ehem!* (Clears throat)
I am going to take you all the way back in to september, on the secound. . Please buckle your seatbelts and keep all objects and of course yoruself i the time machine, dont want any lose parts left behind in the past. . that would suck . .well anyways 9Presses the button and sets it to Spet 2, 2003 @ 9:15 a.m )
It all started the first day of school. . IF you believe in love at first site, well you better because this is it!
I was waiting in the gym. .lade da. . and I saw this really hott kid. . omg he was soo hott. . I just fell in love instintly, somethign about him made me want him instantly. . not just because he was hott. . because I dont know I think I knew how he was. . but I never met him before. . because i wa snew to the school . . They never called my name. . SO I had to go to the office,a nd obviously my mom left. . so I was crossing my fingers hoping I would be in his class (6th grade) And well I ende dp in hi class!! YAY! well if you think thats the happy ending your wrong. . I got to know him, like how he interacts with other people, hes soo sweet and really funny, hes liek the class clown/rebel he gets in trouble quite a few while im miss. shy/good girl lol. . well I really like funny pople, you know peopel with a good sense of humor. . and guys who r sweet and cool witht heir friends, not sweet like sweet liek umm like ehs not a freaking jerk .. ok. . I cnat believe his best friend tripped me! lol well anyways. . like a month later, they were switching classes around. . and guess what! HE GOT MOVED OUT OF MY CLASS! I was soo sad. . I ahte the dman teachers. . they probly new i liekd him and didnt want me to get tino touble with him .. because thye didnt think he was good enough for me. . well they r wrong! he is perfect and I wont stop likign him untill the day I die! hes the best thign that ever happened to me! I LOVE HIM AND I HOPE HE FINDS OUT BECAUSE I WANT AN EEN EBTETR CHANCE WITH HIM. . well i dont even think he lieks me. . well he does act stupid. . I do when I am arond him lol .. and he looks at me. . I see him Im not blind. . lol Well hes super special and all I want toknow is. .
AM I obsessed over him?
Do you think he is right for me, or do you agree witht he dumbass teachers??
And umm. . What if he does like me. . what should I do.....
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Teachers don't move students out of classes, nor do they have the power to unless its for educational purposes, like moving from an Advanced class to an Average. Guidance Counceler's are usually the one's to do those type of things, so he didn't get moved because the teachers saw a connection. Anyway, it's okay to be obsessed with a guy, I know (haha). You should know in your heart if he's right for you or not. If he does like you, then go for it! Ask him out, what have you got to lose?
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ok so i gave my boyfriend head. and now i think i may be pregnant. it was the first time ive ever done ne thing like that and im scared. its kind of like the first time, and im majorly freaking out. i told my friend and she was all like " omg u swallowed>?" and i was all like " yea" and then she told me that i could be pregnant! ive never had sex and now im gonna have a baby!! please tell me what to do!! im only 15! (link)
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It's impossible to become pregnant through oral sex. The sperm cells in semen, if swallowed, will pass through your digestive system, not your reproductive. So there's no possible way to become pregnant though that!
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well some people said to my girlfriend that they think i like someone else...doesnt really bother me except for the fact that they didnt even think to ask if any of it was true....and my girlfriend decided to believe it but we worked it out now but im still a little pissed....what do i do these are my friends im talking about....i feel betrayed by the fact thatnot one of them decided to ask me about it.....even my own sister jumped on the band wagfon and agreed with everyone....what do i do i still care about my friends but if thats the way they are going to treat me then i feel as if there not really friends at all...what do i do? (link)
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If *everyone* thinks you like someone else, then there's got to be something you're doing to make it seem like it. Maybe you're paying too much attention to that other someone then your significant other? Friends don't betray others unless there's a reason or reasonable proof of something worth betraying. So maybe you're just not noticing the lack of attention towards your girlfriend.
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By showing affection, what do you mean? (You answered my previous question) (link)
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RE: (Reply to previously asked question)
If the guy is checking you out, trying to flirt with you, etc. stuff like that.
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i went to thailand and i stole a cops night stick, then yelled "whats the capital of thailand" then smacked him in that spot and yelled "BANGKOK" now im under arrest and looking at a possible death penalty. GOD DMN IT. (link)
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Do that to every one that tries to sentence you to death! Then if its a woman do the same except make it 'BANGBOOB'
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Is it wrong to wait on a person? I mean, if you're not sure that you would even end up with this person. I mean, there are things that make it seem like you would, or that there is a definent possability...Ah. Help. (link)
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It's never wrong to wait on a person, as long as you believe he or she is the one. But it is wrong to get false hope on one person. If that person you're talking about isn't showing any sign of affection towards you, then you should just move on and go for someone else. Otherwise, you'll just wait and wait and might never get a chance at love!
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I'm 16. I'm mentally a tomboy. All my close friends are boys/men. I'm a heterosexual girl.
The problem is, I get along with men wonderfully as friends. Nearly everyone sees me as the perfect girl: I'm easy to talk to, pretty attractive, and considerate. Yet, as a result, I never find myself considering any male friend as even a 'prospect.' Sure, I find several attractive, but in my current situation I have enough male companionship/interaction to be completely oblivious to these needs and urges I'm supposed to be having.
I end up holding off from dating because I always find something not quite right, not necessarily with the person, but with the 'feel'. Not only that, but I'm terrified of short term high schoolesque commitment, as well as the whole 'social' "did you hear harry's dating sally? Jane's furious!".
Recently, I've found someone that I could fit well with (who has feelings for me), but I'm not sure if I should encourage this relationship any further because I might find something wrong within a few short weeks. It's not little, knowing myself, it's a huge possibility.
Is it fair to subject this wonderful guy to what's basically an experiment to see how long I can stay in a relationship (though I definitely care about him), or should I wait until I can manage to get out of this mindset?
~Only Me (link)
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Well you really ought to take that risk. Love is a big risk, and one you need to take. A relationship doesn't always work out, but a lot of the times it does work out really well, and you'll never know unless you take that big leap! So go for it!
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Um...I'm sorry but I'm not quite clear on what oral sex is...or ejaculation...it's all so confusing because I thought oral sex was simply saying the actions, not actually doing them. I didn't know you could get HIV and all of that stuff from it. Can someone please explain it to me???
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Curious (link)
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o_o, didn't you learn this stuff in 5th grade? If not, ask your parents! :)
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Everybody's always getting colds and the flu and stuff in the winter... my question is, how do you know if you're so sick you should see a doctor? (link)
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Well, just see a doctor when you think you're sick. Lke when you cough a lot, sneeze a lot, losing voice, very lethargic, etc. Anything abnormal.
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just before christmas i had a fight with two of my at the time best friends my mum was there and everything one of my friends called my6 month pregnant mum a f*****n fat mole and i whent off my head at her like any daughter would about 3 days after that we came back from our x-mas holidays to find a notice in our letter box asking either me or my mum to ring the police station. the next day my mum rang the police and a cop came to talk to us the bitches had put out a report on me saying that i said i was going to kill them and i was going to stab them which i DID NOT say the cops let it be and said that she is just trying to get attention. now they have gone around telling other people that my mum said she was going to stab them, but she told the police it was me so they are lying to everyone trying to press charges on me so i really need some advice on what to do here please (link)
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Well I don't think the police can do anything unless they have proof that either of you said that. If you even must, take a lie detector test or have your so called "Friends" take one and that'll prove that you're innocent. If that's the way your "friends" treat you then ditch them, get new friends that won't press false charges against you. Tell their parents what they did, or actually stab them(I'M KIDDING! lol).
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how do u give oral to a guy????
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O_o.. if you don't know how.. perhaps you're not ready for it yet. Have a nice day! (Psst.. practice on a banana first)
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Is it wrong to copy software to your computer that you don't pay for? (link)
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Yes it is [illegal], but why express the fact you did/are going to do it when no one knows? lol
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How do I win back my ex boyfriend that cares for me and I care for him but he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now? I mean we flirt, cuddle, play around,and hug.I'm very confused. (link)
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Well if he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, then just leave his requests be. There's got to be a reason why he doesn't want to be in one, maybe he's scared of getting hurt? So just lay low for now, yes you two obviously like eachother, but just wait until he is ready for a relationship to make your move.
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Chatspeak burns my eyes. How can I jump through my computer and kill people who use it? (link)
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lol.. how does it burn your eyes? lol.. if you ever figure out how to jump through computer's and kill people.. tell me!.. ha.. i'm just kidding =P
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I am confused because I like this kid and I think he likes me but i can't tell how do i know? (link)
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Ask one of his friends if he likes you, write the guy a note, or just flat out talk to him. Introduce yourself, get to know eachother and look for signs that show he likes you. People usually get nervous when talking to someone they like, so just watch for nervousnous. Watch how much he stares! lol.. Just stuff like that!
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theirs this boy named Dorian I really like him but he doesnt want a relationship and when he does he's confused and I really want it to work and dont know what to do Should i keep trying or give up what should I say to him (link)
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Well, if he doesn't want a relationship, then maybe you should just respect that and just leave him alone for a bit. Wait a while, but stay a close friend to him, then when he finally does accept to a relationship, then that's when you make your move! :)
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Ok, so I'm still hung up on my ex boyfriend. And he has a new girlfriend. But, everyone tells me not to give up on him. (There's a lot of reasons why they say this.) And it would be so easy to make him jealous, but I don't really want to do that...and I don't want to use and hurt another person in the process. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do? Thanks. (link)
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Well if he's your exboyfriend, then there must be a reason why the two of you broke up? What I would do if I were you is to just forget about him, there's so many other people out there in the world for you. Ooh, and also, don't make him jealous. If he still likes you he'll notice you without the need of anyone else, and you might hurt the person you're using. So if you want, you can still keep up the hope, but for now, just look for someone better. Good Luck!
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I like this 1 guy and i knew him from my old school. I think he likes me by the way he acts. he isnt all out going and flirty bcuz thats not his personality. My friend said that This boy (we'll call him Fred) asked if she knew me. Since Fred asked if she knows me i seems like he likes me. My friend said she thinks he likes me 2,
Do u think he likes me??
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He probably does like you, why else would he ask your friend if she knows you? So what I say is, talk to him! :)
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