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Last night I had this dream about this guy I used to really like. I guess you could say we were going out, but it did'nt last long cause I had to move. I mean we went on one date, held hands and stuff. Well we both really liked each other alot. I guess I never really got any closure cause I was stupid and was too scared to even talk to him before I moved, but I really miss him. and I dont he's still on my mind alot. Little things still remind me of him. I dont know it's just kind of bugging me. Any thought or advice on and for this? It'd be greatly appreciated. Please and thankyou in advance.

I kinda had a dream like this, not too long ago. It was with my ex-best friends, it was a dream we were best friends again.
Ever heard the expression: "A dream is a wish your heart wants"?

I knew in my mind mentally, I wanted him back as a friend. It was just my heart telling my brain..or my brain telling my heart what I wanted.

If I were you, i'd contact him. Catch up if you can, never hurts to try. =]

Hoped I helped.

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I want to go to a school for massage therapy.
I was just wondering how long it takes,
the cost (rough), if any of you are massage therapists.. if you love it, if it makes enough money to live on and stuff. What you really love about it? If you can work full time being one, and stuff thanks!

If its hard to find a job once you've completed school.

If I were you..I'd stop by a few local massage therapists, and ask them roughly what it took them. =] Visit maybe 3 or 4. Get their view on it. =]

Hoped I helped.

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I want to lose weight so bad i weigh 15 and iam about 5 foot 1 and i've tried everything that i could think of that i thought would help me lose weight and nothing seems to work. HOw much weight do yall think i need to lose please help me any help would be appreciated. thanks.

A lot of girls don't realize that muscle has a lot to do with our body weight. When we work out..we may lose fat..and not realize it, that it turns into muscle..when you see your body gets slimmer...even if your weight makes you seem over weight..you really aren't..it's just your body turning into muscle. Muscle makes us heavier than fat.

To get slimmer..and lose 'weight'
try Power walk for an hour a day? Power Walk 2-4 miles? thats what does it for me..=]

Hoped I helped.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months,and he has never asked me for sex, until now. I want to have sex with him too, but I'm nervous. Anyways, he's not putting a lot of pressure on me, he said its perfectly fine if I don't do it, so I don't really feel that obligated to do it if I don't want to. I just...don't know. I do want to. I'd feel comfortable doing it with him. Idk maybe i'm crazy, but he's had A LOT of girlfriends and he didn't have sex with any of them except one girl who he might not even have been dating and it was just a big mistake, so maybe he thinks it would really mean something with me. Eeep, what to do? Should I tell him that I want to, and that maybe later on in our relationship i'll feel more comfortable? Idk what to tell him?

I don't see how, in a way it would really mean something. If you aren't his first. Discuss this with him, you can say no. There is no law saying you must have sex with him. Tell him the honest truth. The key to every relationship communication.

Hoped I helped.

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Im 14 years old, im 5'9, and i weigh 167 at the most. usually around 163-165 my weight goes up and down.

but i was wondering if that was an unhealthy weight? like overweight?

thank you :D
-kenzie

It's not really overweight. A lot of girls don't realize that muscle has a lot to do with our body weight. Just because we may seem to be overweight, doesn't exactly mean we are. It seems to be an okay weight with me. If you feel uncomfortable, talk to your doctor about ways you can get fit, if they say you are over weight.

Hoped I helped.

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is there a way i can lose 3-5 pounds in a week
my diet is really good but i need some tips on exercises that will work my stomach area and the back of my thighs. thanks.



ps. i dont prefer running.

Power walk for an hour a day? Power Walk 2-4 miles? thats what does it for me..=]

Hoped I helped.

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okay well i like this guy who funny and def outgoing
well i was wondering what that type of guy looks for in a girl?

thanks :]

To be honest..most guys..look for girls who are just being themselves. =]

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does anyone know who makes this, or where this is from?

http://www.nancarrow-webdesk.com/warehouse/storage2/2008-w22/img.242433_t.jpg


its the jacket chris martin is wearing.

thank you

It's possible it was a designer jacket made specially for him. Try ebay?

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Does anyone know where I can find you know like crime/detective type magazines? (Besides the internet!!) I've never seen them in Wal-MArt or anything and I know they were more popular back in the day..

You could order a subscription online of some sort of magazine, try amazon.com or maybe borders books?

Hoped I helped.

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Is there any websites that can help me find a mobile home for rent in jesup georgia?

http://www.trulia.com/GA/Jesup/

http://www.oodle.com/housing/rent/mobile/


Not sure if thats what your looking for.
Just simply go to google/yahoo type in "rent mobile homes in jesup georgia"

Hoped I helped.

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I'm going to have a haircut and I want it to be Emo. I have really long hair and they are already black. Any sugestions on what is really in emo-long style? I dont want it to be OTT. Just cute emo (I have a baby face).Also could you tell me how to dress emo/makeup/accessories...Any help or site suggestions will be highly appreciated.
Muahh!

Hairdressers normally know the best look for you, if you explain to them what kind of style you want. They could give you ideas, or look though some hair cutting magazines.

Hope I helped.

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I really forget.. we read it last year in my class... its like these kids who have to go to this like swampy place.. and they cant leave it.. there is some kid named Emmet in it.. I forget the main charater but there were like boys.. and then the main character had to go in this chair sometimes and it like drove him crazy cause he had to be like silent or something. and they wanted to leave but couldnt.. i think the cover is orange, too? and like he had to be sent there for some reason.. and the people who made the place like something was wrong with them.. they wanted to earn money or something like that and were criminals but changed their names? please help i really dont remember more things but its such a good book

Go to borders or a libary. Look it up on sparknotes, or askjeeves. Or google keywords about the book.

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I think this is a sex question. 13/f (haven't started period yet)

Lately i have been having a really heavy discharge, and i t is slightly orangey, rather than tan. I am currently using Carefree With Cotton Extract Breathable Pantyliners. They aren't extremely thick, but they aren't ultra thin. They are fairly comfortable, and i quite like them, but just recently my discharge is going right through them, and stainging my briefs too. I know that mostly discharge washes out, but that's not really the point. I was just wondering if any one knew of a really good pad? Bearing in mind i wear women's boxers, and they are fairly thin widthed. But i do have a couple pairs of propper pants if need be. Thanks in advance for your help =P

Try Stayfree. =]

Hoped I helped.

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Question #1: Does is icarly an actuall website like the show. IF so what's the web address. www. what?

Question #2:When you write in a question can the other members see who wrote it?

1- www.icarly.com just like the show.
2- only Level 2 and 3 Moderators, I believe. Most certain Level 3's can see.

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do guys like long skinny legs, or girls that look like models? im not asking because im overwieght or jealous, but becuase my friend is not that pretty, but she has a model-like build and guys tend to be attracted to her...

Every guy is different, even if they all seem to be the same. They all perfer different things. =]

Hoped I helped.

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I really want a Boyfriend, but I have a problemo talkin to them! I like have no effin clue wat to talk about I just feel really awkward when talking to them! I can talk to them fine when i'm with like one other friend with me! i need to know how to talk to them beacuse I am really boy crazy! hahahaha HELP!

Hun...just be yourself. =]


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I have never kissed anyone in my life, I really want to know how so when I do kiss someone I wont be HORRIBLE!
:]]]

It just comes naturally.

I'm assuming when your asking how to kiss, you mean make out.

-Just tilt your head slightly (making sure your going opposite directions.) and open your mouth slightly as you get closer to the persons lips, and gently slip your tongue in when you touch their lips with yours.
-You just have to feel comfortable, we can't tell you how to get use to it or how to do it. It comes naturally, over time you will notice that.

The guy normally is the one who leads. =]

Hoped I helped.

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i shave my pubic hair, and i always get razor burn, how can i stop this?

Make sure to change the blade, make sure you wet the skin, and lather it with shaving cream, shaving from the bottom to the top.

If that doesn't work, try changing razors and/or shaving cream.

Hoped I helped.

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I was watching the best of Made (the show on MTV) and as the best trasformation, it showed this girl that wanted to be a beauty pageant and it just gave me a WOW reaction at the end.

I never watched that eposode of her being transformed but I know for sure that she NEVER had surgery and the transformation was much better then what celeberties goes through.

I just know that they gave her contacts, did her hair, and used make up on her. It make me beleive that there is no such thing is 'ugly', it's just that girls that are considered ugly are girls that don't know how to beatify themselves.

Does anyone know the name of the eposode of that so I can look it up on Youtube? If not, for those of you that actually watched that eposode, what did they do to her exactly to make her look so different but so beautiful?

Go to MTV.com, they usually have an episode guide of all those shows. They give you details for each episode.

Hoped I helped.

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Okay, Im 17 years old and I use to have a lot of black hairs on my arms, but now I shave them..
is that weird?

Not exactly no, you were uncomfortable with it. But people don't notice dark hair on arms as much you think. Inless you dwell on it.

Hoped I helped.

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