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Talking to boys..


Question Posted Sunday June 22 2008, 3:17 pm

I really want a Boyfriend, but I have a problemo talkin to them! I like have no effin clue wat to talk about I just feel really awkward when talking to them! I can talk to them fine when i'm with like one other friend with me! i need to know how to talk to them beacuse I am really boy crazy! hahahaha HELP!

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Additional info, added Sunday June 22 2008, 3:20 pm:
Im 14 years old! Going to be a freshman next year!!!!.

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letloveunite answered Sunday June 22 2008, 9:50 pm:
Uhm well if it helps for your friend to be there..Then just for a while have her by your side until you get into the comfortable mode..it may take a while..but i'm sure it'll happen..hopefully?

Well truthfully i saw you question and i was interested in answering because i thought OHH i'm good with talking to boys!

So let me tell you a little secret...I guess one big way of talking to a guy through flirting :P

No really~

Approach a guy or if he's near you is a lot better. But just say ohh did u see that celtcis game they won the championship or the red sox..etc what ever sport and just entwine your self into a deeper convo.

Don't plan your convo...Because 1. You get too excited and you think about how great this convo is going to be with this boy..then once you have the convo it might not have filled your expectations so you'll be upset.
2. it's sometimes easier when you just see something happen while your near a guy and go free style from there and just let the words come out from what ever your thinkin about in your noggin.

Like i know that usually when i'm with my guy friends something funny happens and i just say like..."...wow.." And they start a convo themself :P

Ask questions it HELPS!
Like. oh your hair it's shorter? and they would maybe say no i didn't get a hair cut..and just kinda like blush and say ohh sorry i thought you did..well hmm something does look different...about you. and maybe he'll say Well i did get a bit tan from vaca or maybe he'll say huh i don't why.. then u just improvise from there

LOOK CUTE/GOOD
it def helps!!

Put some curlers into your hair
put a little make up on
New clothes
Shows your body curves
ETC!

i Hope this helped :( i don't think it really did..

But i tried my best..( i'm a girl so it's a little harder for me to come from a boys perspective :)

-Serenity

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LostAngel answered Sunday June 22 2008, 6:56 pm:
Hun...just be yourself. =]

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