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My boyfriend wants sex.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months,and he has never asked me for sex, until now. I want to have sex with him too, but I'm nervous. Anyways, he's not putting a lot of pressure on me, he said its perfectly fine if I don't do it, so I don't really feel that obligated to do it if I don't want to. I just...don't know. I do want to. I'd feel comfortable doing it with him. Idk maybe i'm crazy, but he's had A LOT of girlfriends and he didn't have sex with any of them except one girl who he might not even have been dating and it was just a big mistake, so maybe he thinks it would really mean something with me. Eeep, what to do? Should I tell him that I want to, and that maybe later on in our relationship i'll feel more comfortable? Idk what to tell him?
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The fact that you're doubting yourself by asking this question here tells me that you shouldn't. ANY time you have doubts about something like this, it means there's uncertainty, and you're not 100% confident in yourself.
I say, for now, you shouldn't do it. You said he isn't pressuring you, so he should be okay with you saying no for a little while longer.
DO NOT have sex unless you are 100% sure you are ready and are ready to face the consequences that can come along with sex. If you are 100% sure you're ready to face that- then go right ahead.
Remember- always use protection so you don't contract an STD ;]
--Jack
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I don't see how, in a way it would really mean something. If you aren't his first. Discuss this with him, you can say no. There is no law saying you must have sex with him. Tell him the honest truth. The key to every relationship communication.
Hoped I helped.
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