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I made out with my boyfriend last night and my older brother walked in on us (we were in my room with the door locked but my bro just has to stick a penny in the door too twist it.. if you know how those work yeah)... He came in and got really really pissed and started yelling at my bf (which made him leave), My brother had me in tears, he acted like he was my parents he was yelling at me and everything... I mean all we were doing was making out just sitting there not even laying down or anything. Im 14 and hes 17 but he was sooooooo mean and he told my parents so now im grounded for a frigin MONTH!!! I was so pissed at my brother and he said he didnt want me too turn into a slut (wth all we did was makeout) So this morning he was in the living room and he told me my bf called and my bro told him he wasnt allowed to call my house anymore... WHY IS he taking this so out of proportion.. I started crying again so i told him i hated him and that i wished he would die and burn in hell... :( That got me grounded for even longer but i didnt mean it :( Ive tried apologizing and he wont listen too me. Does anybody know how i could apologize too him and handle this whole situation all together because if not i could lose my BF.. because hes not allowed over here and my parents say i cant see him :(.

try and say that you werent doing anything and hey i think you should be like to your brother hey i am sorry for all the stuff i said to you and say that your not going to be a slut than tell your parents that you really wanna see him and that some 14 year olds do way more things than just making out and ask how you can be able to see him again

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my sister is moving somewhere far away and im really hurt .. shes moving in my my father for a while or longer to get away from here.. ( her boyfriedn sucks )there has been rumors he has cheated on her and h controls her life.. not even kidding.. me and my sister are really close... 3 years away and we tell eachother everything.. how can i be ok.. and try to be happy for my sister.. or try to make my sister see she cant run away fro m her problems.. she has to deal with them ..

just tell her that she cant run away from her problems and that you really want her to stay....or you can even try and move in with her

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What do you do if a guy only likes you because you look good ??

try and talk to him get him let to know you better and maybe it wont be only about your looks thats if you like him back if you dont than i dont know it doesnt really matter

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UHH! My "FRIeNd" is such a bitch!!well we never hang out but were sort of like idk maybe i'd call it just school friends. well anyways she always says mean things to me but then she says just kidding! but i know there's always a little truth behind every just kidding.oh yeah and her mom works at the school and always is so rude so thats why my friend is so rude & uptight. this girl is a fake bitch.ohh yeah and guess what she's not popular at all,i'm just very nice to her i'm her only friend. she also always makes fun of the popular crowd who are also my friends! she is such a bitch!well ne ways should ii keep her as my friend? i mean i've already told her how rude she is to me.and she doesn't respect that. should i just blow her off when school starts? or should i be her friend? HELP! p.s. i rate HIGH! :-) :-)

i wouldnt be her friend cause you also told her that she is being rude and making fun of your other friends she could be acting like that so people can notice her but instead people mite think she is being annoying so just tell her that if she is not going to be nice than you will not be her friend....its not like shes your only friend maybe while your not her friend she will get to know how she needs to be nicer while she has no friends

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My friends told me to go Emo but I like Prep what should I do?

emo wow i like prep better its what you want or how good of a friend she is if shes emo than if you are really good friends maybe try and not to much emo thats if you want

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Every year, throughout the Western world, Gay Pride events take place in big city centres (and, in really progressive places like England, even in small villages which need a bit of gringo dollar to repair the church roof). And every year, in my opinion, Gay Pride events set back relations with religious groups and social conservatives throughout the Western world.

So what can be done to improve relations between "the Right" and homosexuals and their supporters?

Additional questions for consideration:
- What is really at the root of the tension between social conservatives and social liberals, and can anything be done to break it?
- Are any of you guilty of Homophobia?
- What are your reasons for supporting/not supporting/outright attacking homosexuals?
- What is the right attitude to take towards homosexuals, in your opinion?

(I am gay, incidentally, but I live in the UK and am perfectly content with myself. The first paragraph, as you may have guessed, was a ruse to catch your attention. I hope it works.)

there doing that for the church ok thats good that their helping out but i dont think so with the gay thing cause God made girls and boys and doesnt want them to juss like boys if your a boy or not just like girls if your a girl like yea there are some people that are gay and like to go i guess

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i like this guy who used to be in love with me but then he heard a rumor that i was playing him and when i told his friend(my ex best friend) that i liked him she told me i was trouble to him, waht do i do?

tell them thats the rumor wasnt true and just make sure that no one else starts a rumor

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Does anyone know where I can find the lyrics to "I Wish It So" from the musical "Juno" for free? I can't find it ANYWHERE.

azlyrics.com you juss need to know who sings it

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My bff is hanging out with this one girl that I hate and I feel really sad and I need to get over this. Help.

i would hang out with someone else than or just tell her why are you hanging out with her do you know what she did.....than tell her why you hate her

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Sometime this year i am planning to buy either an mp3 player or an ipod. I was wondering what people thought was better, an mp3 player or an ipod.

a ipod but some of they are way more money but it holds a lot more songs

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For along time now I have had scary thoughts. Thoughts that someone is going to kill me in my sleep. I always have thoughts of my sister or family member doing this. I also have thoughts of killing myself, I even go through the cabinets and pour some pills into ziploc bags and hide them in my room just in case I feel the need to overdose. Sometimes I get in crazy moods and can't control them and I am afraid I am going to do something I know I normally wouldn't do. I am like a different person when I am depressed and in a different mood. It's like I have a split personality or something. I don't know what is wrong with me, and I have this urge to always pull my eyebrows out. It feels so good to feel the hair slip from my skin. I get into a trance and can't stop pulling, afterwards I feel so guilty but while I am doing i its all I am focused on. Each hair I feel represents a problem in my life. And when they come out it feels for a moment I am free of worries. Is it strange to feel this way, to love to feel pain?

i dont know i dont love to feel pain but i have scary thoughts to but i think i am kind of stoping with the thoughts i just dont think of them and if i do i scare myself really bad and if you cant get them out of your head maybe you can try and think of all the good times or just do something thats fun and you wont think of bad things i used to pick my eyebrows wow thats weird about the same thing ok well i stoped cause it made my eyebrowns hurt to see if you love pain get your arm hair waxed and if that feels good maybe you do love pain if you have a lot of arm hair try and pull that it doesnt come out as much as eyebrow hair comes out

hope i helped plz rate 5

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Okay. Me and this kid went out for 5 months. He broke up with me a month ago cuz it was summer and we never really got to see each other. We still talk on the phone a lot, talk on-line, go to the movies, hang out all the time. I still really like him, and he still likes me. We talk about going out all the time because school starts in a week. Should I be the one asking him back out? Or should I wait for him. I tried moving on, but Idk. There's something about him that just drags me back to him. He's the easiest person to talk to. But I really don't know what to do. Should I try moving on, or should I stay with him. I really like him, but I just don't know what to do! Please help! I rate high! K, thanks =]

if you dont wanna ask him back out and you want him to ask you i would wait like 2 days into school and if he still doesnt maybe you should ask him but still hang out durnin the summer with him

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ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME!

i would do what you wanna do but tell him before you go to the dance that your breaking up with him if you do breakup with him

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i have a gut n its discusting!! how can i make my stomach flat?i suck in all the time so itmakes it look like im skinny n i dont wanna do that nemore also i would like to kno ways of toning up my legs.....iver tried workin out but i give up like 2min later nd diets i cant do ive juss stopped drinkin soda but it hasnt changed nething!

ok will i no its hard but this may work every other day like sunday tuesday thursday you work out for about a hour cuz your not doing all the days if you do every day maybe about 20 mins and if you get bord and just eat you can go out side and swim or invite a friend over or tan a lot of things to do if you get bord doing sports also help you can try out for track or soccer lots of running

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ok well me and my sister currently have a xanga layout site and we are looking for a new name cause the one we have now just has my name it in and we want one that would be good for the both of us. we want it to be somewhat original and say layouts not lays.


any suggestions?

layouts4u
your name & your sis name
mOre`layOutsz
OMG`layoutsz`here

ok well i dont know if you like any of them but if you pick one tell me what you picked and send me the layout site

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Ok, so there's this guy I've went out with twice for only a few weeks. The first time we went out, he dumped me after a week. The next time, I dumped him because he was acting weird around me.and i totally regret doing it. He's ALWAYS on my mind. He calls me occasionally.. and we talk online whenever he's on. I can never get him out of my head. Other guys are soo easy to get over but this one is so hard to. what should I do?!

i would ask him if he would go back out with you because its not like you and him never talk anymore and you were going out before so you kinda know him more than other girls who would just ask someone out for the first time hopefully he will say yes

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where is a good site where i can get some good codes for my xanga that has some christian music and country.thikans a million

well theres so many but i like musicvideocodes.com the best

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ok so this is the problem,last year i liked tis boy named nick for a while [6 months]but i never made a move.so he was in both my english and history classes and the first time i noticed him was because i think he looked at me alot.so he kept giving me mixed messages .and i dint get it .but ii still liked him.then someone told me that i looked athim way too much and thasat made me think hw like me when he dint.then at the begining of summer i started liking this other dude and him and rick are total opposites.he also wanst interested.do i seem to be attracted to people who dont give a d about me.and i dont give a chance to those i might have a chance at.anything would be great.

i would go back to that nick guy cuz at least he gave you looks

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This school year I started late because I was on vacation. Well, the first day I walked into my Physics class he smiled at me so I smiled back thinking "wow this guy is pretty hott" During that week we looked at each other in class and smiled but never talked. Today we had a fire drill and he was the fisrt out the classroom and I wasn't too far behind. He got to about half way where we were supposed to be and waite until I caught up and started walking again. When we got to out standing point, I was standing with another girl in my class and him and one of his friends stood by us. Then, HE STARTED TALKING TO THE GIRL I WAS WITH. This really made me made so I left and started talking to other people. I don't know if I was jealous or what but now I don't feel like tlaking to that girl at all. What am I supposed to do?


I know this sounds pretty kiddish but I've never been in this situation. I'm a senior by the way.

i would maybe start talking to other guys or maybe start and talk to him but the girl didnt do anything wrong she didnt know you liked him he probaly does like you but was shy and didnt wanna tell you something if he was going to tell you something so dont just keep him out talk to him and maybe thing will start happening

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what do u do to get rid of hiccups??

drink a lot of water or sing singing works better than saying your abcs but saying your abcs work to

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