ok so this is the problem,last year i liked tis boy named nick for a while [6 months]but i never made a move.so he was in both my english and history classes and the first time i noticed him was because i think he looked at me alot.so he kept giving me mixed messages .and i dint get it .but ii still liked him.then someone told me that i looked athim way too much and thasat made me think hw like me when he dint.then at the begining of summer i started liking this other dude and him and rick are total opposites.he also wanst interested.do i seem to be attracted to people who dont give a d about me.and i dont give a chance to those i might have a chance at.anything would be great.
Julesianne answered Monday August 22 2005, 10:18 pm: hun.. i do the same thing. i always seem to think that guys are staring at me when theyre really lookin at me weird because im staring at them. then i start to like them because i think they like me and before i know it im in love with someone who probably doesnt even know who i am. the solution is communication. yea i know its hard to talk to guys especially the ones that you think you cant get. but you need to be confident and believe in yourself and talk. if you noticed rick(or nick..you made a typo) "looking at you" whether he was or not.. why not go up to him and strike a casual conversation... that way he knows youre interested in him and doesnt have to wonder why youre staring at him all the time. and if you dont score with one of the guys who seem "out of your league" so what. its their loss. just keep youre options open because im sure there are tons of guys in your ballpark that you just need to give a chance because theyre the ones that are trying to work up the courage to talk to you. good luck babe
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