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I really like this boy and hes blanking me out of his life, what do i do? (link)
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Ignore him back. Fight fire with fire. Remember it's laws of the world. You never lose someone without finding someone better. Also he might be playing hard to get to make you like him more. Just play along and time will soon tell whats happening.
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I've heard that guys like it when a girl isn't always available to go out.. when he calls, for example, she's not always available to go out, or at least pretends not to be. WHat's your opinion on this? (link)
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Yes most guys even though they don't admit it the thrill is in the chase not the catch. Playing hard to get is one of the most effective and widely used tactics in dating. It works very well. This method uses human instinct that we want what we can't have to create tension in the mind. It's very clever really.
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I'd like to get to know this girl better. she sits a few seats behind me in one of my class's. It would seem awkward to just approach her. we chat occasionally but I would like to get to know her better. she has a great personallity, or so it seems. and she seems to be someone i could get to become close friends with. how do i initiate a conversation at least, and maybe ask her if she wanted to get otgether or somthing. just looking for a means to create a close friendship, possibly a close relationship later on. im older then her, but very unexperianced. i can be a bit eccentric and quirky at times, but i don't want to creep her out or anything. thanks in advance (link)
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Alright first of all if you want her as a girlfriend do not become her friend first. Girls almost never develop feelings for there friends because they see them as brothers instead of boyfriends. I know it makes no sense but that's life. Second just go up to her and ask her out on a date. Nothing to long or expensive and where you can talk a lot. Remember to smile and keep eye contact when talking to her and give her a compliment.
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is there a FIFA world cup every year? or is it only every 4 years?
thanks =) (link)
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The World Cup is only every four years but there are usually smaller cups and club championships every year.
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What are some things you can do or practise to get really good at soccer?? (link)
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Run like crazy. Also watching other people play soccer gives you a mental image of what you need to do. Also the more you touch the ball the more muscle memory you get and it will definitely improve your game.
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how do you get over a crush that probably may not result in anything (link)
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I would suggest talking to other boys. Try to ignore him as much as possible and do other activities that you get a good feeling from such as helping others and sports. This allows you to get happiness from your life not what one guy thinks about you.
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how can i sharpen up my flirting skills??...how can i flirt more but not look desprete??..wat are some flirting tips??
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Here are two tips that are absolutely necessary. Always smile and keep eye contact I cannot stress how important this is in flirting.
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We are having a dance the day after my 13th brithday. Ive already seen guys asking girls and ive been hoping to get a date. I mean, im not ugly, im average. But no guys ever seem to ask me because im usually best friends with the guys and they only see me as a friend now. It really hurts knowing no1 wants to go with me =( i really want some advice that could maybe somehow help me. thanks please help! (link)
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If know one asks you to the dance trust me it's not a big deal. You should go stag anyway and have a good time. I know what I'm talking about when I say more than enough boys will be there without dates too and you can dance with them. It's good because you can dance with more than one person instead of just one all night.
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Well, I started high school this year at a new school so I didn't know anybody. But now I have friends and one that I'm really close to. He and I Instant Message all the time, flirt, hug... I can tell him personal things and he will confort me when I'm sad. he's awesome. But I love him. I have a huge crush on him. But since I knew he didn't/doesn't like me back, last night when the subject came up I said I used to like him but that I didn't anymore. And he's like, "but I liked being liked by you. :-(" I said he gave me the idea he didn't want me to like him. So we recalled an awkward conversation we had a few weeks ago that had ended with him saying, "Why does this have to affect our relationship as friends?" Then he asked if he broke my heart, I said yes, and he felt really bad about it. And I kept trying to tell him it ok because he can't help it if he doesn't like me the way I like him. But he says he feels like he led me on, then pulled the rug out from under me. Which, he did. But I was like, "no, no, it's my fault." But that's not really true. He DID led me on! A lot! But I don't want to tell him that because he already hates himself for hurting me. And it'll just make me feel like an idiot for thinking he could ever like me. Tonight we're going to the Spring dance at our school... and I'm scared I'm going to start crying. He mad me promise a while back that I'd save him a slow down. But now that I'm certain he doesn't ever wanna be more than friend, I'm scared I'll cry or things will be awkward. Our relationship is a mess now! What do I do? (link)
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Listen your in a predicament many people fall into. We in the business call it the friend circle. Once inside the friend circle it is nearly impossible to get out. The thing is this guy thinks of you as more of a sister than a girlfriend. In order to get out of the circle though you need to put some space between the two of you. A month at least more time is even better. Because you two are close this will be hard but you need to do it. After a while start talking again but not in a friendly way. Try to make him think of you as girlfriend material and that should work. If it doesn't move on and try not to let it happen again. Good luck.
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My girls got a guy friend comin over to visit from out of state and says she doesnt want him to know about us because she thinks hes crushin on her and she doesnt want to hurt his feelings sense they have been friends for so long. Now they r gonna be spending a week together and im pretty much not invited. Now that seems a little off to me and i dont know exactly how to approach this because im alot newer than him and i stand a better chance at gettin the boot but im really into this girl. At the same time grittin my teeth, smile'n and toughin it out aint soundin like so much fun for me either. What should i do? (link)
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Dude don't worry. Chances are this guy is just a friend from back in the day and girls rarely have romantic feelings for their friends. Use this week to hang out with your friends and relax. When the weeks over tell your girl how much you missed her and things will be normal again. Try to avoid the subject as it could create awkward situations and get your girlfriend to get mad because it seems like you don't trust her.
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16/f. I'm still in love with my ex. We broke up at the beginning of June. The break-up wasn't entirly my fault, but I do take a lot of the blame. And I know that if we were to get back together, I would change so much and I would work so hard at it and try to make it last. One problem: the day we broke up he got a girlfriend and they are still together. And she is one of my friends, kind of. But I love him so much, and I want to tell him. I just don't know how to tell him, if I do. I don't know what to say or anything. And he is my best friend and I would hate to lose him if I do tell him. We have gone through a lot in the past and we are fine, it's just right now I don't know. I don't want to lose him. But this is driving me crazy, I just don't know what to do. (link)
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If you want my advice just ignore him. The only way to get over him is try getting a new better boyfriend.
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Okay, i'm like soooo in love with the guy who lives next door to me. Last summer we talked sum and we told each other that we liked each other, but now, we don't talk at all. And, i still like him....ALOT!!! How do i get him to talk to me again??? (link)
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Try ignoring him back. If that doesn't work just let it go.
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well i just got back from a party and i saw this boy who i kinda no and we were flirting and my friend told him that i liked him which i do! then later on i saw one of my old friends and we kind of went out a while ago but he was asking people if they had seen me so i talked to him aND HE likes me!!!!! but theres one more at school thati lkke and we talk but he has a g/f !!!!!! which one should i pick?????? (link)
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Probably your best bet would be the one without a girlfriend and that you have never dated before. Also consider who is the best football player (athlete).
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ok so theres this guy in my spanish class thats a year younger than me that i swear is perfect. hes taller than me hes cute hes smart hes funny hes athletic and hes so sweet. thursday after school i was walking in the hallway when he found me and asked me what i was doing over the weekend. i told him i was going to disney world because i was going there with choir and he was like oh yea thats right you told me that. and then we walked outside and both left. when i got home i realised he might have been trying to ask me out. but im not sure. hes really nice and he could have just been making conversation. he sits right infront of me and we talk alot everyday and he will just turn around and stare at me w/ a smirk on his face. i like him alot and i think he likes me too, but im not sure. im never sure! but anyways do yall think he was trying to ask me out and that he likes me? i dont know what to say to him to show him i like him without being just plain obvious. we would be soooo perfect together its crazy. thanks so much! (link)
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Yeah the dude was definitely trying to ask you on a date. When he said oh yeah I remember you told me about that it was him trying to cover up because he was embarrassed that in a way you rejected him even though you didn't mean to. Chances are he still likes you and he will ask you out again. Best of luck.
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