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My girls got a guy friend comin over to visit from out of state and says she doesnt want him to know about us because she thinks hes crushin on her and she doesnt want to hurt his feelings sense they have been friends for so long. Now they r gonna be spending a week together and im pretty much not invited. Now that seems a little off to me and i dont know exactly how to approach this because im alot newer than him and i stand a better chance at gettin the boot but im really into this girl. At the same time grittin my teeth, smile'n and toughin it out aint soundin like so much fun for me either. What should i do?
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Dude don't worry. Chances are this guy is just a friend from back in the day and girls rarely have romantic feelings for their friends. Use this week to hang out with your friends and relax. When the weeks over tell your girl how much you missed her and things will be normal again. Try to avoid the subject as it could create awkward situations and get your girlfriend to get mad because it seems like you don't trust her.
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Tell your girlfriend about your concerns. If she cares about you, she'll understand. There's no reason she can't intoduce you two as friends and maybe you can hang out with them a few days out of the week that he'll be there. Ask your girlfriend straight out if she has feelings for this guy. If she doesn't, then there is no reason he can't know she has a boyfriend. It would be better to hurt his feelings now than let his crush build up and get hurt worse later.
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