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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

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heyy. i need advice. i liked this cute boy for a year but nothing has happened. i know 99.9 percent sure that he doesn't like me. we are sorta good friends. i've told him once before but he said that he'd rather just be friends so i lied and said that i didn't like him anymore because he was acting weird when i told him. & i know i'm in love with the boy but i never think that he'll like me. any ideas for me to try to get him to notice me for more than a friend? i rate high. thankkkssss.

I'm sure he made it pretty clear that he just wants to stay friends with you and nothing more. You have to respect his decision and not try to be something more then friends because he doesn't want that. You can't really make him notice you any more than you already have because if he liked you in that kind of way, he would of noticted you more than a friend. Respect his decision and just try to move on. I know it might be hard, but you have to. Don't be stuck on this guy forever and you'll find someone else.

ookaayy. soo. i did something i regret, but thats a whole big story that i don't think youd wanna listen to bcuz itd take over 2000 characters NEWAY. k, so. long story short- this guy put his penis in my vagina n it was barely in, and wasnt in long, but it did that a few times... n i didn't bleed n i don't use tampons, i use pads. soo. is that sex? or whattt.

In a way, yes it's considered sex. It wasn't the real thing, but yeah.

how do you really have sex??

Oh wow.. uhm google it.

hey, I have light brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes, and i want to start wearing a little eye make-up. Any suggestions?

Don't go heavy on the make up, so for now just start wearing very netrual and warm colors. You can start of with foundation, but I don't think you would really need that. Add a little blush and bronzer. For eyeliner eather brown or black will look good and top it off with mascara and eye shadow. Use shimmery colors, warm and for hazel eyes, green looks the best. It's spring so wear light clothes and make up.

what can i get to keep my discharge from getting sll over my underware

i know its a stupid ? but oh well

You should wear pantyliners. They're just really small, thin pads for that kind of purpose. If you don't have those, just take some toilet paper or a tissue, fold it and put it down there until you get the pantyliners.

When you talk about a play in a paper (for school) do you underline the name or do you put it in italics? Thank you!

For titles, you usually underline but you can also do italics. Do one, not both.

you cant get pregnant by touching your boyfriends private area &hes not wet &doesnt have precum.. then you touch yourself with the same hand a few minutes later, right?

No you can't. When sperm hits the air or water, the cells die.

ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like 3 or 4 days ago i'v only been eating like 1 meal a day everything just taste nasty. I dont want to go back to being anerxioc so how do i like start eating back to normal again.

I don't see how your break up has anything to do with your eating disorder? If you don't want to be anorexic again, start eating. It's for the best and if you don't want to get sick and die, you'd get help fast. If you're going back to being anorexic because you and your boyfriend broke up, well.. that's just shallow. I'm not trying to sound bitchy, but why get depressed over a guy when you will have soo manay better options. I'm sure you're beautiful no matter what, so get healthy and just move on.

my boyfriend wants to give me a gold diamond ring and i told him no but he said he is going to buy it any way should i let him i will feel bad though cause he is wasting his money on me but he said he is not but still he talks about getting me stuff but i say no then i say i am going to get him things and he says no can anyone help me on how me and him can buy eachother things without the guilt? plez help fast he is gonna get the ring on wednessday

He wants to give the ring to you because he cares about you and he isn't wasting his money, he's spending it because he wants to not because he has to. Don't feel guilty about it. He's buying you things because he likes you and so just say thanks. He feels the same way you do, so just think that you guys are getting each other gifts because you care for one another.

ok I broke up with my ex and it broke my heart really bad it took a long time to get over it so then I got a new boy friend and we`ve been dating for a little while so last week I didnt know that my boyfriend met my ex and they didnt know it either.my BF asking me the same question I said why you keep asking that I already told you,he said because this guy I was just talking and then he asked if I had a GF I said yeah he asked your nameI told him your nickname and he said I think I know her,I asked him of a description it matched him, I said I didnt know him he didnt tell him we dated either,even B4 he met my BF,he`d stare slow down and stare at me when he saw me,WHY does he do that,and why did he try to get in my business,he didnt want me,Iloved him.

Your question doesn't make much sence and your grammar is horrible. If you want me to answer it, try again.

Hey. I need your advice here. How young do you think is too young to lose your virginity, and how high are the risks of getting pregnant when you have protection?? Thanks So Much.

I don't think that there is a certain age but I don't think kids should start having sex.. like age 11 or 12. Anyways, whenever 2 people are in a serious relationship and they feel like they're ready to go to that step, I think it's okay. There are always risks of getting pregnant even if you use protection. The condom can break or slip off, but the chances are very slim.

How do you turn off an iPod mini? Seriously i thought they would make it really obvious. So what i do is put it on hold and push pause and it eventually turns off i think? Am i wasting battery this way?

I have a video ipod and I guess they all turn off the same. Well, you can't really shut it off but when you're listening to a song, press pause and it will save the battery. If you swich it to hold, it won't waste any battery and that's basicly shutting it off.

Hey, do you know how to set your myspace to private? kthx byee

Change your age to 14.

when i hover over the links at the top of your page that say stuff like "Home" and "Add as friend" the picture kind of reverses. How can i do that to my advice column? ill rate 5s.

I don't know. It just does it. I never really realized before.

Hi. okay well Im in 8th grade(female), and this guy & I have gone to school together for about 5 years. We never really hung out or held a convosation till this year at a party. At the party we hung all night. We talked about just about everything. We basicly flirted all night.lol Then after the party we both liked each other. We were the talk on the school for about a week.We have NO classes together or anything. So the only time we talk is at track pratice or on the internet. At track he flirts like crazy with me and on the internet he sends kissy faces but thats all. He wont say he likes me or anything. Do you think he likes me or should I move on? thanks.

There is a chance that he liked you and he is sending you some signs. Maybe he isn't really ready to tell you because he thinks that you don't have those kind of feelings for him. When you talk to him just bring it up. Start having a conversation about it and then ask if he likes you. You have nothing to lose.

wut is batting? thanksx yall.

Google it.

so my friends having a party and he invited all of my friends, except me..what should i do? should i confront him? or just leave it go?

PS.
it made me mad to know he did this but w/e

If he's your friend then yes you should tell him. Just ask him why he didn't invite you.

i've been googling all day and i cant it anywere,so i want 2 noo ..
whats ther average weight of someone who is 4"8 1/2?
whats the average weight of someone who is 5"3 ?

4'8 around 100 lbs. & for 5'3 around 115-130.

i want to know how i can get cute away messages with hearts and colors etc. where can i get them and how can i save them on my aim so that te colors wont go away. thanks

You have to download this program called applesauce and just go to google and type in applesauce colors. It doesn't take long and it doesn't cause virues. There are a lot of colors on there. For the hearts, you have to find the right font for it.

I Posted On Here Before W/ A Similair Question. I'm 15 && Five Two. I Used To Be Around 135. Now I Am Around 129. My Question Is, How Much More Weight Should I Loose To "Look Good"? Don't Tell Me To Ask The Doctors (Already Have!) Or Go To Am-I-Fat.Com - I Want Your Opinion! Also, Any Tips On Loosing Weight? Can I Get Down To 122ish By June? Thanks! Ill Rate Fives As Long As You Answer My Question/Questions.

I think that you probally look really good right now, but I hope that you want to lose this weight for yourself and not about what other people might think of you. There is a possible way to get down to 122 by June but the healthiest amount of weight that you should be loosing is about 2-3 pounds a week. You don't have to starve yourself or anything and please don't. Eat your normal foods and eat less calories a day. You should try eating about 1500 a day. Eat the right amount of everything. I'm not saying that you shouldn't have any cookies or chips, but if you do have a handful of chips and have 1 or 2 cookies and don't make it your everyday rutine. Have healthy snacks. If you don't like fruit, make a fruit smoothie. It's better. Exercise is also a very important part of toning your body. Walking and swimming are really good so walk for about an hour a day and do other exercises in between. You can go to www.toneteen.com and go to fitness and there will be exercises for each part of the body. If you also go to www.seventeen.com and go to health, there are video clips of good exercises. Good luck & make sure you stay healthy.

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