I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
E-mail: xkelseyx12@yahoo.com
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Age: 15
Member Since: June 6, 2008
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i want to make a website, ending in actuall - .com or .co.uk - how can i do this?
Money isnt a problem..
Thanks c
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my best friend makes tons of websites and she emailed me these links that will hopefully help!
http://www.2createawebsite.com/
http://www.quackit.com/create-a-website/
... I hope these help you out!
Good luck :)
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ah, yes, everyone's favorite question. "HOW DO I MAKE OUT?"
please don't answer with, "it just happens" or, "i can't explain it"
please do answer with, your own experiences of your first "make out." and how it happened. i want to know details of what you did! everything, where you put your hands, your tounge, and what you wore. don't leave out a single detail.
THANKS! (link)
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okay well you really can't prepare for it... and honestly the more you think about it, the more you will probably worry and then you won't even enjoy it.. but since you asked I will tell you about my frist time haha..
... I was at a party and I was wearing a bathing suit(not really sure why thats important but whatever) it was with a guy I had been vrushing on for awhile and we were both sitting and just talking when he kissed me. and then we started making out.
...what to do with your hands? you can either just gently wrap them around his neck or you can run them through his hair.
...and then the tricky part, your tounge. i know you said you didnt want to hear it, but trust me after you have your first make out, you wont know how to explain it either. start off slowly, you dont want to rush into things. you can start by just runing your tounge along his lower lip until he opens his mouth a little, unless he slips his tounge out first. then just caress his tounge with yours.
...my best advice for when you do have your first make out. is just relax and see what happens. most likely when you do, you wont be thinking about my pointers anyways. just go with the flow and see how it feels.
I hope this helped at least a little. Good luck :)
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I kind of have a problema: I like my best friend, and I think he likes me back. The problem is, neither of us have done anything about it!!!
Here is why I think he likes me:
1.) When we went on our Disneyland trip with choir, WE HELD HANDS ON A RIDE!!! (it was a scary ride and we both held hands mutually.)
2.) WHen I tried on a hat, he was all like,'That hat looks so sexxxxi on you!"
3.) When I was wearing a certain lip gloss, he's all like, "Your lips are so sparkly today!"
4.) He likes putting his arms around me. (Like over my shoulders & stuff.) He's like,"let me tell ya a secret!" And he got really close to me told me a secret about our other Best Friend, Koby.
5.)He asked me for my phone number, so I gave it to him. He said he was gonna call me so I could be in his band. (Only girl in it)
6.) He is very protective. I was running in the student elections, (I am now student body president for ext year, YAY!) And a guy ripped down my signs. I started yelling at the guy and whatever, and 'D' ran over. He's like,"Want me to BEAT HIM UP?!?" I am like no, that's sweet though."
I need to know: Does he like me just as a buddy or as something more?
Thanks in advance. BTW, I don't want to date him now, seeing that we're both only 13, but it would be nice just to know. (link)
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well it certainly sounds like it but the best way to find out is to ask :) just do it casually.. when your talking just be like your a great friend and when he says it back (which he obviously will) be like do you ever think that maybe you like me as more than a friend... ro something like that.
good luck :)
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hey,
im 15 years old, about 5'5 and weigh about 165lbs.
Ive always had a large frame, and i know I am built bigger and I always will be. But I do want to lose weight. So far Ive lost about 5lbs. in 3 weeks with weight watchers, and I want to lose 20lbs. I would really like to weigh 150lbs. by the end of July. I exercise everyday for at least an hour, I guess my problem is that I like to eat. But ive dieted before, and I know what to eat and such, it's just that it's hard being a teenage when I can't like eat anything! But I'm on a summer swim team so I will be swimming like 3-4 days a week and doing abdominal exercises and I have friends in my neighborhood to ride bikes and jog with. But any suggestions? There are times when I want to quit because I'm not making any progress..and i think about food wayyy to much, which is suprising because I'm really active and invloved with school and 4-H and alot of other things. And if you have any advice for like cravings or like any food advice of dieting please help! I really want to meet this goal so badly! thank-you! (link)
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When I tried losing weight this is what i did to get rid of those cravings. instead of snacking on high fat things the recipe that I found that works the best is a fruit dip.. all you have to do is mix marshmellow puff and cream cheese. if you get fat free cream/ low calorie cream cheese it is healthiest. then you can dip whatever fruit you want in it. grapes are my favorite :) this helps because it is sweet and really good. this way you can prevent your intense craving for ice cream and sweets.
Hope this helps :) and good luck!
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There this guy I'm kind of interested in. He's in one of my classes and we're always talking and stuff, but I want to be able to get him to "see" me in a different way. Any tips on how I can be more flirty subtly? I always seem to be near him, and its a class where we are always working on projects or in groups. We're always looking and smiling at eachother and chatting, but I want to be able to do more.
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just have fun with it :) if you are having fun being with him.. he'll have fun being with you! whenever you are talking gently touch his arm or whatever. and if you are both working in a big group lean over and whisper a compliment in his ear or something to make him laugh. just do whatever you can to get closer to him!
good luck :)
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ihave a somewhat preppy syle now, but i have become interested in edgy style clothing. does anyone know some good stores for any season (prefferably summer//fall) good stores that has edgy clothes? teewhy in advance.
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well I dress pretty preppy but my best friend has a really edgy wardrobe. she shops at places like abchor blue and pac sun.. but the she loves shopping at secondhand stores such as My Sisters Closet.
hope these stores work for you :)
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So, what exactly constitutes a soulmake? Is it some quality like being so alike in so many things? Or is it some kind of able to tolerate each other's differences and faults and end up loving them/you for those as well as the pros? (link)
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I beleive that a soulmate is different for everyone. Some people think their soul mate is the person that they fall in love with and who would do anything for them. Others thnk their soulmate is the person that understands everything about them and accepts all their flaws. For me, that is my best friend. I am obviously not roamntically in love with her... but she understands me and is very similar to me. She knows about all my issues and she loves me anyways...in a sisterly way... so a soulmate is whatever or whoever you want it to be. It depends on wether you see the romantic side of it or the friendly side of it.
Hopefully this helps a little :)
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Anyone who has smoked pot, what does it feel like? Both positive and negative effects that you experienced. How long does it last for? Would you do it again? Would you recommend it to others? Was your first experience different from later experiences?
Please answer all the questions. Thank you (link)
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Pot is illegal so unfortunatly none of these questions are going to be answered unless people want to be banned from the site. As far as I am concerned no substance is good enough to make you risk getting arrested for. There are other things that you can do to make you feel good, pot is not the answer!
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hey, i'm friends with this guy, but i really like him... as in like, like him! but i don't know how to get him to realise i like him without the rest of our friends noticing!! what should i do? oh and any tips you have for turning a guy on... so i can try them out after your advice helps me get this guy!! =] thanks! (link)
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The best way to get a guy to realize you like him is to just be straight about it and tell him.. the next time you and him are just talking... casually bring up that you think there might be something more between the two of you.
Good luck, hope all goes well :)
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okay so i am like 34a bra size, but if i wear bras that snap in the front i look a lil bigger. so it summer and i wanna go swimming but i want to find a bathing suit like that, is there anywhere i can find some like that? (link)
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I have seen them in Victoria Secret catalogs but you can only buy those online...
Hope you find what you are looking for :)
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well this summer i really want to work out and get some hot abs before i go back to school, since i'll be starting off as a freshman in highschool and i wanna look AMAZING!! so- i was wondering if i could get some healthy eating tips and some workout tips (for abs-duh) so i can get a toned stomach for the fall. i already have an ab cruncher but i also need some other tips so please help!! thank you!! (link)
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Healthy eating tips: everything is okay in moderation.. try eating smaller portions and when you are really hungry fruit and light whip cream are always really good. Don't think of it as a diet. because just using the word scares some people.
As for exercise... my favorite ABS exercise is one you do with a partner. Lay on the floor and hold on to your partners ankles. Have your partner push your legs down and use your stomach muscles to bring them back up without touching the floor. Keep you legs straight and do three sets of twenty.
Good luck :)
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How do I be more funny? I wish I was funny but I have bad self-esteem. (link)
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Well you can't exactly STUDY being funny. It is something that comes naturally, and we all have a funny side: you just have to let it show! Just relax and be yourself. I know it sounds cheesy but if your having fun, other people will have fun too. As for your self esteem, just keep telling yourself that no one can be a better you. Don't worry about what people think of you, because they can't do it any better!
Good luck !
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I know this guy who I have been friends with for almost a year. I heard he liked me but I kinda laught at the fact he liked me. Now I feel bad for laughing at him and actually start to like him. I don't know if he still likes me but how do I get him to like me again without feeling like an idiot? (link)
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Well life certainly would be easier if you could make people like you, but unforunatly thats not exactly the way it works. Although you can't force someone into liking you, you can certainly let them know you are interested. Let him know that you are starting to like him... and see where it goes from there.
Good luck :)
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I really like this guy that i just met (right before school ended) and well i've liked him for about a month and the next time i'll see him is probably in august or september. And I like him sooo much i think i'll go crazy if i don't see him now. can someone help me?!
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Well it would be best if you could get his number... if you can get that, you are golden! But if there is absolutely no way you can get in touch with him and you really aren'y going to see him till September, try finding someone ro something that can occupy your time so that you arent constantly thinking about him.
Good luck, hope all ends well :)
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these two good guy friends of mine, i think they might like me. i mean, theyre good guys, they would be the types of guys i would choose to have a bf if i wanted one, but i dont. i also dont have any feelings for them. well theyre both flirting with me and giving me compliments. the thing is, i didnt realize it b4, which was really dumb of me. i mean, how can i not have realized that? its obvious. theyre complimenting me about my name, about my new shoes, always staring at me and then when i see them staring, they will quickly turn away, blushing. also, ill give them a compliment, and they'll blush for a second and give a very flirty response...like for example i say sumthing like "i like the name ryan(one of the guys). its like my favorite boy name." and then they'll hesitate 4 a sec, then say sumthing like, "i know why, because its MY name, thats why...c'mon admit it..." and with sum very flirty grin. they also call me more than my best friends do. and the worse thing is, theyre like best friends with each other...and if i ever decide to go out with one of them, it would be bad...and you know some boys, they're very competitive and yes, it would ruin their friendship. and yes those types of boys. really, i dont know what to do...i think they might like me.....what should i do? thank you so much if you answer this question. i would appreciate it so much....i really need help...itsz like tearing me apart...i dont know...please...thank you (link)
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unless you have feelings for them... DONT DATE THEM! nothing good will ever come out of dating someone that you don't like. and as hard as it may seem, the best thing you can do is come straight out and tell both the boys that your just not interested. Be nice about it and let them down easy, but you also dont want to make it seem like they still have a chance.
I hope this helps, good luck with it! :)
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lets say youre in this situation. (its also mine..)
from grade 1 to 9, you had nearly straight As. you were an overachiever. your parents were proud of you. stress never got to you.
in the 10th grade, you were SOO tired of always getting the straight As and the stress got to you so much, that you just completely let yourself go. you always felt like sleeping, you would go days without eating..and days where you ate too much. you never felt like doing homework anymore and felt the need to look at the mirror and look perfect for a boyfriend more than doing work in school. you've found that you're losing friends and your grades slip slowly...to a point where you're getting Cs instead of the As you thought you would get in certain subjects. you only do what is easy for you and you dont even study for tests. you finished the year off...normally. average. not as the overachiever straight A for final grade person you used to be.
would you think this is depression? why would this happen to a person who has never done bad in anything..? all of a sudden? it just doesnt make any sense to me! I'm slowly getting better and hopefully will get back on track by next year. But I don't know what happened to me. What would you think?
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Well I obviously not an expert in this category and if you are really worried I would go see someone. I know it seems scary and a little embarassing to go see a coounselor, but it is most likely nothing and it will help you feel a lot better just getting some answers. I was ina similar stuation like this and what I found was that the only reason I was trying to get straight A's and strivinng to be the perfect student was for the approval of my parents. Once I started doing things for myself, I was finding that applying myself was much easier. So the next time your studying, instead of saying "my parents would be really proud if I got an A" say "if I get an A on this it will make me feel really good about myself and then I can go get a new T-shirt hehe." just start doing things for yourself and not for other people!
good luck and I hope this helps you
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i've been wanting to try some OPI nail polishes. the ones i want are from the Nicole line...or whatever you want to call it. now, i want to try the nics sticks, and the ones in the jars...do both of these nail polishes go on really well? are they runny? like watery runny? and how many coats do you usually have to put on to make it look good?
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I am probably one of OPI's biggest fans haha :) its the only nail polish I use, and now that the "nic sticks" have come out, I change colors everyday because it is just so convenient. Both the sticks and the jar colors are really easy to use. When using the jar I usually just have to use one coat as long as the color isnt like really light and the sticks I use like three coats. The stick is a little less runny, which is what I like about it. And it is much easier to apply!
Hope this helps, good luck! :)
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I went to the doctors the other day, and I got told that I have a huge nasal polymer(I think it was polymer..something poly anyway :\)
It's about 90% in capacity, so I'm getting it removed in August.
I'm 15/f btw.
I know it's about a 15 minute surgery, and I'll be under general anesthetic but I'm a bit scared.
How will I feel after surgery?
How do you go on anesthetic..so on.
So if you've had the surgery, I'd like your experience!
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Well I haven't under went any surgery, but I recently had to have a test taken where I had to be put under anesthesia. Like you, I was scared out of my mind, but the process was really simple. The hardest part for me was the IV because I am not a big fan of needles. But all they did was put the IV in my arm and then when the took me into the procedure room they put me under laughing gas to make me sleepy. Then they gave the anesthesia to me through the IV. The next thing I remembered I was in the recovery room. It is really nothing to freak out about! It just kinda feels weird because you don't remember anything. Also, many people react differently to the anesthesia. After I woke up I was wide awake and I felt fine, but a friend of mine was sleepy all day and went home and just slept. Either way its not really a big deal.
Hope this helps you feel better about it! Good luck with everything :)
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Well my name and Jenny and me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 years now, and we are perfect. We take long walks, we lay on the beach, we laugh together. We're totally young and in love. We're both 15 by the way. Well, me and my boyfriend have been best friends with a boy since 6th grade. Me and my best friend have always been like brother and sister. And since he's my best friend and everything we talk about alot of stuff and help eachother through problems. He admitted to me that he likes me, and that he's tried to stop but he cant control it. He says when he sees me and my boyfriend together he gets sad, he said he feels like my boyfriend is the luckiest boy in the world. I told him that he already knows i'm in love with my boyfriend and i will always see him as my best friend, nothing more. He knows that. My best friend said he was never sure about his feelings for me before, but now he realizes that he likes me...alot. May even love me. He describes me as his perfect girl. This was a shock to me because we have always had a brother and sister relationship and i couldnt believe he felt this way. Now i dont know whether i should stop talking to him, so he'll get over me. Because he has to get over me or else he's just gonna be hurting all the time seeing how in love me and my boyfriend are. Or should i keep talking to him, because we feel that if we stop talking, it'll ruin our friendship. None of us want that to happen. He really is a true friend and is always there for me. I dont know what to do...he cant just shut me out of his life because he said its too hard. And its too hard for me as well. (link)
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well i think that most teenage girld will agree that we've all been in a similar situation. He is probably admitting it to you now because he is seeing you in a different light because of your boyfriend. It may seem easiest to stop talking to him, but that will most likely be counter productive. He will just think about you more if you don't talk to him all the time. The best thing for you to do is clearly tell him that you love your boyfriend and then help him find a girl for himself. Also, be careful how you act around him. My best friend is a guy, and i know that with me and him, we are very close. Many poeple mistake us for a couple because body language and everything, so when you are around him try to back off a little. You don't want him to get any wrong ideas.
Good luck and I hope all goes well for you
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pss. he is probably just now realizing that he likes you, so that is why it is so hard for him. Especially if this is your first really serious boyfriend, he probably didnt know it before but now that he can;t have you... he really wants you! Lets face it, boys are absolutely clue less. and many times they dont see how wonderful us girls are until they cant have you anymore. He most likely tried to keep it from you at first because he cared so much that he didnt want to ruin your relationship... but afetr two years it's probably killing him to not have you. No matter how hard it is for the both of you, he most likely felt like you just had to know.
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I don't have very big boobs- I wear a 34B, but the cups are almost too small. Plus, my left boob is definitely a C cup, but my right fits a B perfectly. I'm not really worried about that, as I’ve heard they'll even out eventually (I’m only 17).
Anyway, I just want my boobs to look smaller. I envy my girlfriends that have small boobs- they look cuter in tank tops and halters, whereas mine look semi-slutty in certain tops. I'd love to wear a simple, spaghetti strap shirt with a triangle chest area without having to wear a tank under it to hide cleavage.
Is there anything I can do to make them look smaller? Any type of bras, workouts, or anything? Any help is appreciated.
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well if anyone understands this issue, its me! I am a proud 34 C and I have been since the sixth grade. =/ i understand all your worries because i used to hate it so much, but I have learned that its best to embrace what you got. The worst thing you could do is try to cover it up, because a lot of people pay thousands of dollars to get bigger boobs. The most flattering shirts on girls with big boobs are v-necks. I know that this may seem a little slutty but as long as your not wearing a push up bra or anything and the v isn't too deep, you should be okay. As for the tank-tops, well I wish i could say that this is an easy accomplishment, but no such luck. The best way to wear a tank top is to wear one with thicker straps. This way you can wear wear a bra without your straps showing through. And whatever you do, don't try to convince yourself that your boobs are smaller by attempting to wear smaller tops. Always by the bigger size, because if you attempting to fit into a smaller size, you will only look bigger. I hope this helps, just remember be happy with your body! because chances are someone else would kill to have it :)
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