|
Soulmate?
So, what exactly constitutes a soulmake? Is it some quality like being so alike in so many things? Or is it some kind of able to tolerate each other's differences and faults and end up loving them/you for those as well as the pros?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
several ways of knowing: when you leave them, you never forget them and no one stacks up to the memory; 2- when you are together all time stands still and it feels unreal and you think of nothing else. if you stay together, time flies no matter how bad it is, if you split, it feels like there are no happy days, ever... it seems that you only realize when you loose them.
]
Yes, it does involves the things in which you have mentioned in your question. It also consists of loving so deeply that it involves loving from your mind, your heart and your soul. In my opinion it takes TIME, to get to that level of feeling that someone is your soul mate or that you are their soul mate.
There's so much tolerated, encumbered, and sacrificed to obtain that type of love, and it comes with time because it's not always positive and these words I have just described are viewed as negative, but once these things have been shared between two it turns into an appreciation. A bond is formed which constitutes, understanding, trust, love, truth, respect,admoration, humility, humbleness, appreciation, communication,fidelity, honor, and submissiveness and intimacy on a mental and spiritual level before physical even comes to play. It also consists of being equally yoked,which is referred to in the Bible.
With a soul mate, you can feel their emotion as they feel yours. You actually know each other better or on the level of knowing selves. It's deep, and it's very hard to get there, it's not easy at all to find the person worthy of holding the title of a soul mate. Respect that it is the same for them too. Once and if a soul mate is ever found, hold on to them, and let NOTHING or NO ONE ever come in between it, because there will only be one person in life, who is an actual true real soul mate. It's not questionable once you've found each other because the both of you will know.
It must happen naturally and not be forced or rushed. I hope this helps shed some light on my opinion of what a soul mate is constituted of.
]
I beleive that a soulmate is different for everyone. Some people think their soul mate is the person that they fall in love with and who would do anything for them. Others thnk their soulmate is the person that understands everything about them and accepts all their flaws. For me, that is my best friend. I am obviously not roamntically in love with her... but she understands me and is very similar to me. She knows about all my issues and she loves me anyways...in a sisterly way... so a soulmate is whatever or whoever you want it to be. It depends on wether you see the romantic side of it or the friendly side of it.
Hopefully this helps a little :)
]
More Questions: |