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Hello There!Erm where do I start?Well, my name is Vikki-Kimberly =)Im a good person. I dont bite =)I give people thousands of chances.I like to eat healthy... and... I have advice on practicly anything.I am in acting/signing/dancing groups.Yeah... Im just... easy to talk to. =)

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what are the traits of vulnerable person if they tend to not show it?

they may be submissive or have a submissive nature.
they may be easily lead or gullable.
they may also trust people easily.

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Okay. I'm trying to get a certificate so i'll be able to get more babysitting jobs. But i dont know where to get the certifacte at. i think i get it at YMCA but im not sure. so could someone write back...please. and thanks

i would write to connexions if you are a teen. they have some great advice
they may also give you help on getting a CRB which will maximise your chances on gettin a babysitting job!
If your in school or college id alo talk to a carrers adviser-even if its just a saturday job thing... they can help you maximise your chances.
Oh id also look into contacting a nursery too!

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i always get weedgies , how do i prevent this from happening ?


-meghan:)

it may just be the style of underwear.
obviously things like thongs on a girl you are more prone to it.
Expiriment with different styles.

I used to have this problem also. If it makes you feel any better the underwear that used to stop doing this after a while, i think it was because my bum and hips were changin shape and therefore making it a better fit.

Basically.. just expiriment with different types of underwear, also from different stores... i know frenchies from a store where i live feel totally different to frenchies from another store just down the road.

Hope this helped!

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i was not the best student but i want to go abroad for a year do really well then transfer.

what are easy colleges in england or france that i can apply to?


i agree with the guys commetn about richmond. i applied there (im from england) they are a very good college!
i also recommend kingston college - thats the college i go to!
um stanmore college are veryy good
also i recommend long road college in cambrishire know a few people that go there.
(im thinking of the top of my head right now... messege me at some point and ill get this leaflet ive got soemwhere tht list a good couple of colelges)
also im assuming your from america... you want to check that your not gettin mixed up between university and college as we have a different education system to you guys =) (altho apologies if i have assumed wrong)
and excuse and typing errors... recently finished a long condition session.

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18/m

If my girlfriend and I are kissing and she is in my lap straddling me with a leg on either side and my pants are undone and she is wearing a dress and has it kind of pulled up so her feminine parts are "grinding" so to speak (like a skateboard on a rail) on my masculine parts but we are both still wearing our underwears (her=panties, me=boxers)... is there a possibility of pregnancy? Yes, I would be leaking semens cause thats what Mr. Johnson likes to do when things start to get hot n' heavy but not quite hot n' heavy enough to make him want to give it all he's got... you know what I mean ;).

Seriously though I need to know cause my love asked me to ask you fellows... or somebody she didn't specify who but seeing as all these little 14-year-old girls are having similar problems (although my issue involves common sense and lacks alcohol) I thought this would be the place to go.

WHAT SAY YOU?!?!?!?!

thanks! =]

oh and I don't do condoms and she don't do birth control... and definitely not plan-B.

hey um i feel your gf worries..
i had these thoughts in my head a few weeks ago too
(and no im nto a 14 year old slut either =) )
and tbh i always get these worries im begining to think its normal =S
but anyways my man always says to me its very very veryy unlikly!
if you got you pants on and she got hers on thenn thers pretty much no chance =)
sorry i couldnt write a long essay about it - as im actually meant to be doing work. i hope you girlfriends thought rest soon. and to be honest once she starts a period this month... im sure that put your minds at rest =)
i hope i helped you =) have fun ;)

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I am a girl and i really don't like my skin color. Last year, people used to make fun of me :( and i cant take it anymore...is there anyway i can lighten my skin tone? btw.im not REALLY dark..im like kind of dark i gues..but not like africans black americans!

i totally agree with frenchie.
if it makes you feel any better i hated my skin tone when i waas younger too... expiriment with different clothing colours... or make up if you wear it.
frenshies point on the nakedness was a good idea actually... tried and tested... i found moisturising helped me alot. jus being able to stare at your skin while rubbin in your cream ... its weird but it helped me.. maybe itll help you =)

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england uk
Hey UM Wasnt Sure What topic to put this under
but anyways you may have gatherd im a cheerleader =D
competitive cheerleader
i want to get some cheer shoes for my next comp in october i think it is?
anyways what do people recommend =)

im not a tumbler yet... im learning walkover that aout as far as i can go for the mo
i could be a flyer soon because my coach wants to get my scorpion up in the air soon
jumps are basicly my specailty =D
but yeah i want a lightwieght shoe in case you havent gatherd
i dont mind buyin a pair from an abroad company
and yeh i would like one that looks nice too ;) but thats not priority hehe

anyways recommendations? (website link too if possible please)

thanks in advace =D

(oh and ive also only jus used white trainers for cheer comps andi jus wanted to see a proper cherleading shoe) thought i should add that =D

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i just wanted to know if there are anymore girl singers that sing songs like "forgiven" or "angels" by Within Temotation? if you could give me another girl singer that sings something similar to these songs that would be awesome! please answer and help me.

Evanescence have some songs like Within Tempationum dunnobout listing bands but i can list a few songsIs It True - Yohanna
Butterfly fly away - Miley + Bill Ray Cyrus
Shine On - Holy Ghost (I thinkkk)

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What are some foods I can eat every day to lose weight?
Also, what are some foods I should stay clear of? I know the basics, like, chips, chocolate, candy, etc.

What I mean is, what kind of main meals should I eat that would help me lose a lot of weight?

I would like a flat stomach, no need for abs.
My stomach looks something like this:
http://www.ratemyeverything.net/image/5162/0/my_belly_top.ashx

Except it is quite smaller than the one in the picture. My most trouble spot is the area right under the belly button and above the vaginal area.
Thank you so much in advanced.

frist of all to loose weight you gotta ecxcersize to.. id recommend jus doing like 20 crunches(mini sit ups basicly) a day or less if u feel thats what you feel you need.
as well as diet
-um rice is very good =D but fried rice = BADDD
-drink alot of water before you do anything tho it flushes out your body and makes you feel great before you start.
-some people say if you have healthy cereals for diner for example insted of a meal like a cottage pie, even though that is healthy as well as having cereals for breakfast that weill help you loose weight (and drop a jean size to aparently)
-do stay away from ice cream hehe
-oh and fresh fruit is ten time better than tinned fruit
-homemade meals are also healhier than ready meals.
hmm but more about main meals now:
-like i said with the cereals
-try to incorperate lots of fruit and veg into your meals for example cottage pie is a great choice, you usually have potato, onions, carrots, sweetcorn. spagetti bollineasie also let you expiriment for example celery (takes yummy in spag bol!)
-soups, can be homemade or tinned and still taste yummy and be healthy
-sauces brown sauce is better than ketchup! personallyi cant stand brown sauce but hey least im honest right?
-pasta meals
good luck =D

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I want to do something that you have to train for. I'm just not sure what. I have plenty of time to do it. I'm a 15y/o girl just so you know. I'm homeschooled, so that's what I mean by I have plenty of time. I have a very flexible schedule. Anyway i'm just not sure what to do. Any ideas?
Any answers are greatly appreciated, take care.

hmmm well you could go a range of things... im assuming you mean physically train.
um id say allstar cheerleading(for exaample a squad like Stingray Allstars in GA is a allstar squad - theyre not school based, or if your from England, North London Wildcats is an allstar squad based in north london again not school based), gymnastics or dance... because they are really competitive and need training.
um take up an instrument?
take up theatre?
figureskating?
ask your neighbour n mates ns tuff what hobbies they have and get ideas from them =D
good luck!

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Ok so i already posted this once but i didnt get as much feedback as i wanted. Please read this and tell me what you think. I had to write it for english it is loves/loses. Thanks in advance!


I love you now,
I lost you yet,
I will always be here.
Don’t you fret

I know it hurts
But life goes on
I will try not to listen
To those sappy love songs,

Cause when I do,
I think of you
And what we used to be,
I just wish you would see

I gave you everything,
Yet you pushed me away,
I promise I will miss you,
Every single day

Me and you,
We can find a way,
And maybe…just maybe
We can be together someday.

wow i wish i could write poetry as good as that!ive actually added this to my favorities!so dont take this down! hehe (not that id steal it jus a good thing to either cry or smile to)its so good!i really hope you get the grade your aiming for and higher! =Dyou got the loves vs losses thing really good =Dwell done!

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lately ive been feeling empty..useless and not good enough.
theres days when im like really happy and then just toally depressed
its mostly guy troubles i guess.
i havnt had a proper bf/gf relationship with a guy in ages everytime it gets near that stage with someone like something happens.
i was meeting up and hanging out with this one guy for a while and he seemed really nice at first then i found out after a while it was clear he was only interested in just sex and afterwards i found out he was a stoner.so i stopped texting and hanging out with him then i seen him with another really stunning girl and it bothered me although i know it shouldnt have.
then theres another guy that ive known for ages and reallyy like i kissed him once too and i thought it was gonna go somewhere cos he used to text me all the time but then all of a sudden he just stopped and got distant and it made me feel like crap.
I was on his bebo (like myspace) one day and there were so many comments from loadss of girls.
i hate feeling like a need a bf or guy to be happier but its just getting me down lately that i seem to attract all the wrong guys.
i keep asking myself whats wrong with me?
i just dont know what to do sometimes i just feel like im stuck in a rut and if i go out with my friends and we see couples and stuff i get jealous.
ive been trying to focus on other things in my life but it almost always finds someway to get me down.
has anyone any advice?..or has felt or does feel how i do right now?

Hey
everyone goes through this. i fact in some ways i dont think people stop going through this.
and yes i do feel that way right now
tears help... baths with lots of bubbles, and teddybears. hobbies. me-pampering-time. reading. shopping.. stuff that generally makes you happy.
but to be honest the best thing i find tht cheers me up.. is when i hang out with my guy mates... so i know that i AM accepted by guys...(jus make sure you hand with the guys you like as friend TOO MUCH to ever date) =)
what i started doing a few months back was flirt with alot of guys n stuff, be single but flirt with them n stuff. altho now im in the problem of fightin them off but hey it does make you feel so much better
but remember no-one is useless!
hope i gave you a few ideas

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hello, im 15 f, and im cuban.
my boyfriend is 18 black and mexican.

heres the thing, my parents just recently found out that me and him are dating, and they fliped out. they say im nasty for liking a black guy, and that im only putting myself down and that im too pretty and light skined for him and etc.. i really dont know what to do cause i like him alot and i dont want to loose him over something so dumb like his skin color. and he isnt even that dark! hes like chris brown dark. and he dresses very nice, and is a good kid. i have to talk to my parents today. how can i convince them to let me be with him? oh and my dad was saying things like what would people think? and how it looks bad for someone whos white to be with someone whos black.

to bo honest hun id tell them everything you sed here!
your totally right its not right that skin colour is such a big issue.
you could ask your parents to meet him... to show them that hes a good kid.
when you talk to them tho be nice! itll only go in your favour! =D good luck!
tell your boyfriend what your parentsthink though... so he knows how to act and not be "offended" n tht if you get me.
i wush you and you boyfriend best of luck. god blass take care
vikki

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So my friend and I are running for co-presidents of the senior class and I was wondering if anyone has any good ideas for fundraisers or activities we can advertise. If anything fun happened at your school or if something really unsuccessful happened but you have a suggestion of how to make it better, please let me know. Thanks!

cake sales
sponserd runs
sponcerd dress up like an idiot day
fates
do sponcerd things.. =D

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21/f
Sometimes people tell me I am pretty/gorgeous/beautiful and I don't know what I'm expected to say. I just say "Thank you" now but it feels so awkward. I feel like they're just trying to build up my confidence because I am very fat. It kind of insults me because I don't want somebody to lie to me to try to make me feel better. What should I say? How should I get over being upset about it?

hey pretty! =D
i totally feel your pain! definatly accept the compliment =) there meant to make you feel good!
some people may be trying to boost confidence but i can assure you most compliment are genuine =)
hmm im not sure how to not get upset over... but id just accept the compliment and create a new subject maybe or point out something pretty on them.. or say something like "aww thanks im tryin out *something new.. could be make up, diet, excersize, clothes range*
but at the end of the day as long as YOU think your purdy and YOU have confidence in YOURSELF then that al that matters =)

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I am looking for a home remedy for scars...
I have a lot on my face, mostly from picking zits and picking at the scabs, therefore causing scars. they arent noticeable with make up but summer is just around the corner and i would love to be able to have people see me without make up, meaning no scars. i've tried maderma but that did not help and made my skin flaky. does any one have any home remedies? any creams? treatments from the dermatologist? ANYTHING?! i am willing to try anything. thank you!!!

water water water... might help recent ones..
um try freederm brand... it good =D
um also try bio-oil thats meant to treat scars
um you ever tryed a face sauna?
and try not to pick at any in the future =)
but im sure you look pretty just as you are =D
but yeah thats what id do
Good luck!

Take Care xXx

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im trying out for tryouts within a month i need to figure out how to get my legs higher off the ground. i am very flexible and can do pretty good high kicks but, when it comes to getting both feet off the ground i just cant do it. how can i get my toe touches looking amazing?!?

hey! first off.. good luck at tryouts =)
um when you practise be sure to breathe while jumping... im not sure why but my coaches have always told us to breathe when we jump and not to hold our breath.
Personally for height i find herkies and hurdlers and stars to help height and confisence in jumping (and to also brush up on technique)
but the main way to get height is to practise..
i did write a long thing to someone about height on jumps a few days ago so check out my advice colum!


oh one mroe thing... if your practising and cant get it.. dont get annoyed with yourself! cuz it will ware you out and you jumps will look horrible..
if it starts to bug you. take a deep breathe and try a different jump = with a smile of course =)

oh and are you sure you have ther ight technique? jus double check on that too =) it may help =D

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15/F

I got grounded for a month , the longest I had ever been grounded for since then my mom has done nothing but been up my ass. I mean its getting to the point where I pretty much want to go crazy physo bitch on her and hit her. I mean my parents dont understand that I want them too go away on their motorcycles trips and have fun and leave me here. They need that bonding anyways. And this is EXACTLY what happens ; my dad will be all excited saying were going on a 4 hour motorcycle ride tomorow and your moms going too we are going to leave you the house (me being excited cause ive only seen their faces for a damn month) I cant wait just to relax watch movies maybe have a friend over. But I wake up expecting them to be gone and NOPE THERE THEY ARE. My dads mad lookking and my moms all hey amanda! hey!!! Im about to go fucking crazy. I ask why arent you guys motorcycle riding? My moms liike you werent going? Wtf ? Be independant mom. Then I get an attitude because I mean im 15 I want to do things not be stuck with my parents 24/7 so my dad thinks I have a plan to bring my boyfriend over and like fuck him? I was actually planning on just having the house to myself. So bottom line I need to get my mom off my back I am about to go crazy and I dont want to get grounded even longer. But this shit has to stop! (:

Helppp;;;
Thanks!

Oh wow thats a tough one... ive been there well simalar situation.
um for the grounded bit.. be good dont give back chat hey they may even unground you earlier than expected.
if your dad actually said that id sit down wit him.. and reassure him your not gonna have sex till a long time from now.
and arent r generally always clingy liek that so chill.. and im assumin your an only child... which yeah is kinda worse for parents beign attatched.. cuz your their only baby.. and despite what they say sometime you mean the world to them.
but what ever you do please do not "crazy physco bitch" on your mum! it wont help!
next time when they say theyre gonna go out... ASK.. if you can have a mate over and watch movies... so your folks know you wont be doing anything x rated.
but hun every teenager goes through the pain of parents caring too much... at the end of the day they are trying to understand you and keep you as their little baby... yes its annoying.. but sometimes its easier to stick it out and bite your tongue and do as your told...
hope you feel better soon =)

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Is this wierd:
About a month ago when I was menstruating, I was about to go into the shower one morning, and i just stood in my bathroom naked in front of the mirror, took some blood from "down there" with my finger, and painted myself with it. I made four dots on each of my breasts, a small heart on my upper chest, a circle around my bellybutton, and a line going down the back of my spine (bottom part.) I dont know why I did it, I just did. What is your opinion?

lol tbh that sounds kinda funky!
buh hey we do some weird things whileo n our period... just dont worry about it.
but anyways you asked my opinion so ill give it;. its kinda funny! lol... but yeh.. dont think its weird =S lol
so chillax =D

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i need some inspiration.
my art side of my head has been pretty dry.
i'm 16/f
is there any websites that have like prompts? you know how you get writing prompts, well i need some for drawing/painting.
if you have ever done a cool project share it with me!
or if you have found a website with such.
thanks so much :)

um i dunno about about the website and such but as a fellow art student illshare with you all the projects ive ever done =D- Sleep.this was my exam project... um i looked into still life and surrealism... also a bit of pop art.for my exam i did 3 panels... the first one being a guy sleeping with clocks in the background.. the second one being the clocks beinging to melt and the guy waking up.. my last panel was the guy wakin up from a nightmare.. because the clocks has exploded... yet again in the background!I looked at michelle spiziri and dali as my painters. so that how i got the idea. Personally i find faces hard to draw do not drawin the eyes n stuff was totally awesome for me =D- Natural Forms project.this was my first project as an art student. The artist i looked at was randall-page, henrry moore, blosfeldt and michael gutteridge. MY final peice was a collabiriation of plants and flowers in different medias and a totem pole insprired by henry morre.. personalyl i ahted this project but some bits were really cool. i drew flowers, leafs, um statues... things with tone and natural things liek trees.-Modern Individualsthis project was my second project.it was about well.. modern individuals. Like drawing people and such and such. some people chsoe to do famous people... and some choose to do everyday people.. um i looked at people in everyday situations liek shopping... but my cherelading side got thebetter of me and i did a cheerleader for my final peice. um... which i painted on canvas-Figures in the Interiorthis project was a continuation of the above topic. but about things or people inside somewhere. some people did things such as babies in the womb.. while others did things like a cat in a basket. or someone in a sports hall.. i had a picture of a girl in a trolley drinkin coke and i chose to do that. um other people in my class chose other topics:-Red. some poepl looked into different thigns to do with red... the Red owuld be the main colour or the most attractive colour in the piece.. some people did a monotone with red... while other did something like a red flower... other poeple lookd into the concept of blood and feeligns such as love and hate.-Emotion. MOst people that chose this did a still life of someone look angry or scared and such an such. i think one person did a surrealism peice.-comoflague... looking at things camoflaguing... my mate did this because he absokutley HATES toning! really nice peice of a tiger and zebra (bother red and black with a stripy red and black background.. it look totally awesome!You could look at things like troops clothing and tigers fur.
-marriage and weddings/and ceromonies. kind of explains itself heehe.. funerlas marigages christanings baptising olympics

um i think flickr.com or something liek that has good picture if you want inspiration... if you go on yahoo images and type in images you likely to find something from flickr! good luck!

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