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I read Mike's question. Maybe you 2 should talk about it? Or do you not want to be together and just want to be friends?
Sarah
Lol, yeah I know we should talk about it. We make an effort to and trust me it's always on my mind. It's just we don't clear up the issues at all really when we do talk about it. I'm sure that doesn't really make sence but that's how it is between us. I'd love to be able to just sit down talk it all out and get it all figured out. I'm sure we will one day.
You and your ex have been separated for what? Almost 4 months now right? I lost track. What have you guys been talking about since then? Have you even talked about what's getting in the way of you two being together? Just wondering...
.Mike.
No we haven't really talked about that Mike, it comes up occassionally.
If I asked Courtney out would you be mad at me? Would you be mad at her if she said yes, or if she said yes with any guy? Because I know it happens and she does flirt a lot. I'm not sure if it's flirting or being nice. Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference with girls.
Jack
How could I be mad at you for asking her out? I don't know about being mad about it. It'd affect me with any guy of course. But don't know how exactly.
Hey Juan! How are you doing? I hope good. I have a quesion for you. If Courtney were to hook up with another guy would you want her to tell you? What if she didn't? I was wondering.
Sarah
Well I'm doing good. I would want to know actually. If she didn't i guess she just didn't want me to know and well it'd be hard because I would think she trusts me enough to let me know. Can't force anyone to share anything they didn't want.
Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts.
The first thing you need to do is find someone that is willing to listen. Everyone needs someone to vent to. If you think you really have no one like that the other suggestion would be to just write things out like in a notebook or journal. When things get bad that usually works if nothing else.
I was at a friends party. We started playing 7 Minutes In Heaven. Well, my best friends BF, who we'll call Phil, was there. Well, I had been crushing on Phil for a long time and they dared me to make-out with him for 7 mins. Well, I made a dumb move. I did it. Well, later, when my BFF, who we'll cal Diane, Diane asked Phil back out earlier that night and he said yes. Well Phil told Diane he ust kissed me on the cheek so she wouldnt get mad cause he reaaaallly likes me. Well, she broke ^ with him. she was gonna sk him back out but he spilled: EVERYTHING Well, she called me, totally pissed. And I have tried everything apologizing trying to talk to he. She hates me. WHAT DO I DO?! ~*~ Alyssa ~*~
I don't think there is much you can do in this situation. Did you know that she had asked him out earlier that day? How long were they "broken up" for before this party? You hurt your friend by doing what you did. It's hard for anyone to get over something like that. My only suggestion is to continue to try to talk to her. Hopefully, she's the better person and can get over it.
i was dating this kid, and then we broke up. he has a new gf, and i still like him. people say he still has feelings for me, but if he does, he wont admit it. it seems like he does because hes flirty, but since he has a gf i dont know what to think. how can i get him to say what he really feels?
The only way to really do that is to keep talking to him and stay close to him. Most guys don't care to be all that open with how they feel and all that. It takes time for them to let that all out and even then it's only with people they trust.
i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high.
If you feel that strongly about it, do you think it matters what others tell you? I know there is such a thing as pressure but you have to try to let it not bother you. Just let them make their comments. At least that's what I would do.
I like this guy Dylan. N i finally told him and it turns out he likes me! Wahoo right? Wrong. He doesn't date. He got hurt really bad in a past relationship and gave dating up. He doesn't like talking about it, so I dont push. We are really good friends but I can't help but want it to be me. He says if he would take it back he would, but he would have to change who he is and that would kill him.
It is possible to get over him just going to take some time. How to do that? Um, it's kind of hard to do if you keep talking to him. I would say just try to focus your interest with another guy. It might be hard but if it's the case you have to think of Dylan as just a good friend.
ok well im stuck between 2 realli great guys. Both like me and i like both of them. guy #1 is cute and very poetic i know its kinda bad but he is also my recent ex boyfriend but i have feelings for him still. guy #2 is very cute and sweet but also my boyfriend from last summer. I dont kno which one to choose its very hard!!! there is also another problem, well guy #2 has a goodfriend that has liked me for a long time and i think if i date guy #2 then he and his friend will be fighting and his friend will hate me and of course i dont want that but i realli care about guy #2 he is very special what should i do???
Why did you break up with guy 1? It's normal to still have feeling for your most recent ex. Good to hear you still talking to the other guy though. I would say you have to really sit down and think about what you want. Is it with guy 1 or 2? Leave guy 2's friend out of it, especially if you don't like him in that way. I always say you should follow what your heart tells you but sometimes you have to help it make a choice.
okay im with this guy. i REALLY like him a lot and everything and im into being active with a guy like making out and everything. i've given head and been fingered and made-out with a guy before all in one night and it was my frist time for everything, but im not sure if my boyfriend right now is into all of that. He said he's eaten a girl out,fingered, and made-out, but i was talking to this other guy (that im kinda interested in) and he said that he probably wouldn't do anything with me. BUT my problem is..i really want to do stuff with this other guy and we've talked and everything..and decided that if we do mess around, neither one of us is going to tell anyone else. Im not sure what to do. I really like my boyfriend, but i REALLY wanna mess around with this other guy! Would it be bad for stuff to happen and noone find out? ahh.
There is no such thing as only two people knowing something. One way or another it comes out. Second it's not bad that you want to do things with this other guy but to be honest, even if you don't tell your boyfriend, in my opinion, it's wrong to do anything with someone else if you in a relationship. That will hurt him even more if and when he finds out.
ok well my friend (shes a girl)we'll call her krys..shes over for x mas and so is my other friend (he's a guy)we'll call him bob...well krys has a way to kinda like hypnitize guys and i really really like my friend bob but krys did her lil eye thing and now he likes her...she does it to all the guys she see's, she knows she can do that and she takes advantage of it...well at first i wasnt upset becuz i thought maybe she didnt relize she was flirting...then after i talked to her and told her how i feel she still does it...now im mad at her cuz ive told her that i like him and that shes flirting and when i asked if she liked him she said "no" and now im mad at her but im not sure if i should be...PLEASE HELP!!!
I would say that you should be mad. You talked to her about it and she still does it? You asked her if she likes the boy and she said no? I'd be upset if I were you too.
i found the perfect guy for me. i'm a christian girl, and he's a youth leader, we have the same sense of humor, he's totaly cute, and he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the problem is that he's quite a bit older than me, and by the time i'm old enough to date him, he'll probably be married, because, well who wouldn't want to marry him? see, i'm only 14, and he's 20, but i think he likes me a little too. i'll find out for sure by tomarrow if he does, and add it on here. but he told me i was beautiful and stuff, so what should i do?
thanx for helping, i rate all 5's.
xoxo
sincerely,
Puppy Love
Well does sound like puppy love. If you find out he does like you what do you think you would do? The age difference isn't a big deal. But to be honest to be in a serious relationship I'd say maybe wait it out a bit longer. If you like him just keep talking and get to know him well.
Hey, about what you said...if she dosn't talk to you when she's famous, then she for sure won't talk to me or any of us. I can't see her NOT talking to you though, of all people. Why do you think she wouldn't? How would you feel if in fact she did just stop talking to you one day? And how is it she always finds time to talk to you and not me?
Jack
I don't think she wouldn't. It'd be hard to take if she just stopped talking to me. I guess would just have to learn to live with it. That last one, I don't know if she always finds time to talk to me.
Hi Juan! How are you? How was your Christmas? Hope it was good. When Courtney gets famous, you think you can handle dating a star? She is pretty popular now actually. You know we're still waiting to see what happens between you two. It's like a tv show ha ha!
Sarah
Hi Sarah. I'm doing well. My Christmas was well spent. When she gets famous? I don't know if she'd still talk to me then. I guess we'll have to wait and see what does happen.
I have a Photojuke box from Gateway and when ever i go to sync the Mp3 player wiht windows media player it says "it cant find the portable device" I have all the updates WMP 10, SP 1 and 2 any one know what i could do?
Okay first of all it doesn't matter if you have both SP 1 and 2 on there. Do you connect through a USB port? Did the Photojukebox come with a CD to install a program? Most of those things do. You should install that first then connect it to the computer.
Just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas before I go!
Sarah
Merry Christmas to you as well! Hope you have a wonderfull day. Sorry I wasn't around to get back to you right away last night.
Hey! It's me. How are you? Just got on, hoping you are still up answering questions. I was thinking...you and Courtney remind me of Justin Timberlake and Britney Spears. Because you guys are going out and its all aww how cute. Then you guys break up and you guys are probably out doing your own things with who knows you know? ANd everyone knows and wants you guys to get back together but you havent yet. You two were made for each other don't you see that! Push your silly problems out of the way and get back together already!
Sarah
Well I don't believe that everyone wants us to get back together but thanks for at least your support.
i have a boyfriend who i love VERY much. we (his name is corey) went out for 4 months and then we broke up. when we broke up he went out with my best friend and then they broke up. then he went out with my other best friend to try to get over me and things led to other things.... she was moving really fast and he didnt want to get made fun of so he just went along with everything. well she gave him a blowjob. he broke up with her right after because he found out i still liked him. he regretted the whole thing. i was have a really tough time dealing with everything. then i went off to highschool before him *hes a year younger than me* and i got a new boyfriend. i went out with him for 7 and a half months but i didnt want to be with him. we were kinda off and on for a long time. things happened between me and him that i didnt want to happen, but i didnt know how to say no. i never did anythng to him... he did things to me sexually. and then i finally got the courage to break up with him. all my self esteem was gone by now, as u could probably imagine. i still liked corey a LOT and so we started talking again and we got back together. weve been together for over 3 months and i keep thinking about what happened between him and my ex-best friend. i just cant seem to get past it. he regrets ever doing it and he knows how bad it hurt me. we have talked about it, we have cried about it. i just dont know what to do to get over the past. i keep picturing what happened. and corey cant get over it either, he gets upset about it all the time. how do we get over it and what do we do about it? thanks for any advice you can give me.
Just wondering, have you shared what you and this other guy did with Corey? You really need to do that. If it's something that neither of you can't get over, then you have to keep talking it out. The thing is that it happened, can't change it now. You can only move on from it. You have to sit down and really think why it is that it bothers you though. If after that you can't get over it, I think it'd be better for you two to break up, because if that continues to be the topic it's most likely not going to go away any time soon.
listin, im 13 i have no girlfriend..and i havel ot's of froiends..who r girls..NO IM NOT GAY there are lot's of girls i like..ANY WAY, almost all my friends have been kissed now.. and it kinda makes me like feel weird.. and now.. i mean i just need to know what im doing wrong..people talk about that looks dont matter to them..then they kiss the most gorgeous people they can find...
PLEASE HELP ME
THANX
NEVER BEEN KISSED
Hey, honestly don't worry about it at all. You'll come around. I'll tell you something for me it didn't happen till about 17. No need to rush it at all.