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Okay.
15/f.
For the past year ive had thi s strange Obsession with weight.
I must weigh myself like 8 or more times a day.
And if i dont like what i see....
I wont eat for like the day or the next day sometimes.
Im not fat. At all.
Im pretty popualr.
I have a Gorgeous boyfriend!!!
And im not like stick skinny.
Im just not happy.
And I just hate this weight issue.
and i dont know what it is.
its not anorexia.
Or belemia.
I just have an issue.
what the hell do i do??? (link)
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same thing with me. i think im fat, and tons of people tell me im fat. I also have a great bf, who is adorable =]. He is what makes me understand theres nothing wront with me. sometimes i look at myself and tell myself im not fat, and im pretty, because everyone tells me that. look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself positive things, thats what my therapist told me to do. it will work after a while. dont stress about your weight, just eat healthy foods. it will be all good. or dont eat so much during the day. Also, if people are putting you down dont listen to them. they are just really jealous they want to look like you. atleast weight yourself like once a week. thats what i do, so i dont get so worried. also exercising will help. be active!
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ok lately i have been thinking of commiting suicide. most of the time i just get scared and dont do it. but im always depresses and crying for no reason. i need help and my mom doesnt want to take me to therapy because she doesnt want anybody to know what goes on in our house. my mom also says that if u commit suicide or cut yourself you will go to hell. thats basicly the only thing keeping me from jumping out of a window. so what are some free hotlines that i can call to help me through this or something because i dont want to feel this way. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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first of all you can tell a therapist anything they cant tell anyone else about it or they will get fired your mom shouldnt be worried about that. find a good friend to talk to. one that will understand. you can always IM me or E-mail me. I cant help with your problems. what is going on, what is causing you to cry and be depressed?
second of all, you should not kill yourself, i wanted to commit suicide to, ive cut myself for a long time, and was in the hospital for it. its not worth it at all. it doesnt help any of your problems. your just running away from them. the best way to overcome your problems is to face them, and talk about them. DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!
if you need someone to talk to im always here. i will help you the best i can. and you can talk to me about anything. i wont think youre stupid or anything else. alot has went on in my life to. and im very happy i havnt killed myself. everything happens for a reason. i guarantee you will be much happier after you talk about it. and when everything stops. so make sure you get back to me!
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Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?
Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :) (link)
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first of all you shouldnt do anything you dont want to. its good he isnt putting presure on you. most guys who do that are definitely not the ones for you. they will end up leaving you after they know they will get some from you. Just talk to him about it. tell him you love him but your not ready yet to have sex. tell him youre fine with the other stuff he does. hopefully he will understand and it wont happen. and most likely if u really like him you shouldnt regret it. as long as youre doing it because you love him alot, youre most likely not going to regret it. hopefully i helped you
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i am 15 i have been sexual active since june 28 and i have had sex alot with my boyfriend but all of the sudden we cant have sex that long because it hurts me. and now my boyfriend has noticed that around my clit its really red and under the lips or whatever its really sensetive and it kind of burns when i touch or he does
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first, you should always take a shower or atleast clean yourself there after youre done having sex. also dont use fragranced soap that will only make it burn more. if it keeps burning tell your parents ask them to make a doctors appointment. they can give you some kind of cream to put on.
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i might be prgenate and if iam im not to sure of how to tell my parents .. wat should i do (link)
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first of all you should check if you are. Get a pregnancy test. or ask an older friend to get you one. and if ur not sure if thats right than go to the doctor. you should tell your mom first usually they arnt so hard on you like your dad! but definitely tell her if u are. just ask her if you can talk to her about something and tell her to promise not to freak out your just trying to be honest. tell her you know it was the wrong thing to do and it was a mistake. tell her it just happend. hopefully she will understand. thats the only way i would know how to do it..
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This is my story:I have this guy friend who i've known for 3 years but we used to hate each other before we made out and well the other night he came over to my friends house and he brought a friend too and well him and my friend were kinda hooking up but he kissed me and we werer really wasted so i didn't know what i was doing and the next thing i moticed was the lights were out and i was dry humping with him.... does that make me a slut and could i get pregnate from that???? (link)
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no you definitely cant get pregnant from that unles he cums inside of you. it also doesnt mean you are a slut. usually those things happen when ur wasted. as long as him and ur friend wernt going out you are fine. not a slut. and atleast you knew him for a long time.
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ok im a 13/f i have a horse but i keep it at this guys house b/c his mom takes care of it for me. Anyway i go to his house like every other day after school and he always invites this other guy to his house and i really hate the guy he invites. But the guy likes me and if i like even walk past him he slaps my butt and crap like that i hate him but i kinda like the attention. I dont no if i should tell him to stop or just leave it like it is. Plese help. O yeah im only 13 and i would not go any futher that a kiss with a guy so dont even tell me bout that. (link)
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well how old is the guy, you should tell him to stop if you dont like it. especially if he is old. and if he is old tell ur parents
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if you have sex. and you;re supposed to get your period about two weeks after...will it just be late or will you completly miss it? i never under stood that.. (link)
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usually for me i just get my period normally.. unless it was the first time. it shouldnt interfier with your period.
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How much drugs and alcohol can you drink and take before your sperm starts to become weaker or get a lower sperm count? And do you always get morning sickness when you're pregnant? Thank you :) (link)
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To make sure you dont get morning sickness you should eat it will help it. And drugs period are bad (if are are pregnant). usually if u do drugs regularly it will become weaker. and not smoking like weed. usually like heroin, meth. exstasy, LSD, or inhalants.
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ive never given my boyfriend a hand job and i understand lots of people have asked how to do it and such, but what do you do after ive "finished the job".. i mean isnt it awkward with what youre left with? (link)
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after he cums why dont u start making out with him =] so it isnt an awkward ending!
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what are some side effects of birth control? i know it probably changes from person to person, but what are some.. thanks (link)
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some side effects are irregular menstrual bleeding, nausea, weight gain, headaches, dizziness, breast tenderness, and mood changes.
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What exactly is herpes and what does it look like? How do you get it? I have little tiny bumps on the inside of my vagina. Does everyone have this?
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its normal, but i'd use a mild soap to make sure it gets cleaned good. dont use fragranced soap on it. it will get sore.
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whats a hymen?? am i totally clueless cause i dont know?does like, everybody know? (link)
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people use "cherry" to describe it. it is what pops when a girl loses her virginity. it will bleed.
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i've been shaving down there for about a month now but like it doesn't always look great like i go over it once but it always starts bleeding not wear ive court myself just like as though i had a spot and i've like gone over it and the top has cut off, my friend said it could be cause i have really tough hairs i dont know though got any suggestions what i can do?? btw i did use soap but i tried shaving cream aand neither did any difference i also changed the blade and used an older blade didnt change anything :S (link)
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dont keep going over it. that happend to me once. it was weird.its because u are either pressing to hard or going over too many times. use soap, with aloe and put some kind of lotion after, so it doesnt get dried up from too much shaving.
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is there anyway to get rid of bacterial vaginosis besides going to the doctor. i'm very embarrased to show the doctor "down there" so is there anyways to treat it at home??? THANKS (link)
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Aqueous cream is a good soap substitute.
dont use strong scented soaps, use a mild soap.
and you would need an antibiotic. so you might need to go to the doctor.
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When I'm masturbating I rub up and down and stuff on my clit but for some reason it hurts a little..
At the same time it feels really good and the good feeling only lasts for like 20 sec.
but I feel like I wanna stop.
I'm not sure if that's an orgasm..
I don't know what an orgasm is.
But is that normal? (link)
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its normal. but maybe you should do some other stuff to.
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Im a male and i was interested in anal masturbation, i was just wondering if there was anything around the house you could use as lubricant for this?? (link)
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baby lotion, dont use fragrance.. rofl or it will burn ALOT!! or vasaline.
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i don't want to gross anyone out, but this has been bothering me.
every once in a while i get a thick, almost mucus like discharge from my...let's say "nether-region" (im a female). it's an almost clear, but kind of white color.
does anyone know what this is? (link)
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thats normal. it happens alot. especially after your period. its just another way of cleaning it out. dont be worried about it unless it starts gettin like greenish or bloody.. then theirs a problem, otherwise you're fine =]
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Okay uhm...
Lately, I've been looking at porn a lot.
Specifically lesbian stuff.
Videos, pics, anything.
I just wanna know...
Is this normal?
Cause I'm a 15 yr old girl.
You wouldn't think I 15 yr old girl would be interested in that kinda stuff.
Idk why I do it.
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Is it normal?
Is it perverted?
Is it wrong?
Is it weird?
HELPP!! (link)
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its definitely not wrong at all. perfectly normal =]
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on the inside of my vagina .. like not all in it but right inside of my vagina there is like rough skin or.. bumps or something.. is this normal? i've never done anything sexually with anyone. & i'm just wondering if this is normal?
and what is it supposed to feel like in there?
is it supposed to be all like up and down staright?
or is it all curvy and stuff? (link)
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its normal. dont be worried
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