We are expecting our first child and need baby name help. My husband and I have chosen not to find out the sex of our baby until he/she has been born. We have some names we like, but we aren't 100% sure on any of them. We thought maybe someone could suggest some that they really enjoy and let us know what they thought about some of ours.
Baby names we like so far...
Baby boy names:
Michael David
John Patrick
James Paul
David Austin
Baby girl names:
Grace Anne
Madison Faith
Anna-Claire
Elisa Grace
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
We like sweet, old-fashioned names, and traditional names mainly.
Thank you.
i like for boys....
david-matthew
davis-brian
cliton
henry
prince
for girls i like......
jessica-faith
anna-bell
hilary
celine
or jus plain hope
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I am 15 male and i do not share the same faith as my family. I am wiccan and i want to start telling people. not just my friends. I just dont know how to tell my parents. advice?
you have to tell them at some point. if this is what you really want, i wouldn't say i recomman it, but i do reconmmande that you tell your parents. you wouldn't want them finding out from someone else. this would not only make them furious but it would also question their ability to trust you. so tell them iam sure you guys would find a resonable solution together.
BYe HOpe I HElpEd
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Well, one of my cousins always comes over to my house, especially during the summer. She's a college student, and she's almost twenty years old; I'm a couple years younger.
Anyways, she lives about 45 minutes away from me, and has a lake cabin a couple miles away from my house. Some days during the summer, she pops in unexpectedly, and walks in the house without knocking or anything.
Her and her brother are nearly the same age, and one time they came over to our house, and my mom ordered dinner. It ended up costing over $40 just for the 4 of us, and my mom and I barely got anything, while each of them ordered a pizza and onion rings. They left after they got done, didn't throw anything away or clean up after themselves, and didn't even say, "Thank you" for the meal!
It's just little things like this; they have no manners, and sometimes my cousin comes to my house with her duffel bag and spends the night without even asking! She just assumes we'll say, "Yes".
Then, we just had a garage sale, and she was selling some of her stuff, and she barely helped at all! She was on Facebook for most of the time we were out setting up for the sale, and one of my friends, who was barely selling anything, was working like a dog! AND WE DIDN'T EVEN ASK HER TO HELP!
My mom and I don't want to say anything because we don't want to create any tension in the family, but it's just getting to the point that something must be said.
Communication is not a very strong point in my family, however, when someone says something, we all take sides, and it just turns into nasty finger-pointing episodes...
What should I do?
well you have to tell her how you guys feel at some point. and it's better soon than never. you guys have to put a stop to it before she owns your house. and maybe she doesn't even realize she is doing it when in fact she is.
TALK TO HER!
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My mom has always drank some on the weekends to relax from her stressful job. I've lived with this all of my life and there was never a problem. Well, my dad has been gone for about six months now (died in a car wreck) and my mom has started drinking more.
Dad's death was really hard on us but it's hitting mom the worst, I think. She drinks a lot more than she use to. She drinks every night and sometimes (more frequently this past week) passes out in the hallway floor before it's over. She's even missed work a few times because of her hangovers. Since she has started drinking like this I've started waking her up for work and stuff because she's been oversleeping dramatically. I mean, I don't want her to lose her job and I know this is a hard time for her.
Anyway, I am concerned over all of the drinking now. I know alcohol does some nasty liver damage and I don't want my mom to die too. I'm afraid to confront her about it because I don't want that stress to have her drinking even more. What do I do?
iam deeply sorry for your loss. my condenansis goes to your family. I also think your mom needs to be confronted. she needs to know that she has a daughter and that she needs to do whatever she can to amke sure that you are safe and that nothing happenes to you. she needs to be the aldult and know that this is as hard on you as it is on her. talk to her.
Iam sure she would understand
hope this help and again iam deeply sorry for your loss.
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My mom just left me and I don't know what to do! We got into a big fight because she was talking to this guy on the phone a lot and I asked her if she was cheating on my dad. She got really mad and went into her bedroom for awhile. When she came out she had some things packed and told me she was going to go somewhere else where she is appreciated more. I don't know what to do! My dad is gone for another 2 weeks and I don't know what I'm suppose to do in this situation. Do I call the police and tell them I'm alone and stuff and I don't know WHEN or even IF my mom is going to come back? I'm scared.
you should call your dad in this situation. have him know about what happened. and call a close by relative and ask them if you can stay with them.
you need to make sure you are staying with someone.
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hi im from canada and i struggle with helping my mom get over her addiction, im 14 and i have a chance of moving in with my aunt who is much more better for me and has more time, money and strengh too keep up with me. so do i stay with my mom for grade 8 and be stressed with the bills and her self or do i leave and start fresh with my aunt and hurt my mom for myself?
hey i think you should defitnetly leave.
but don't abandon your mom. make sure she gets the help she needs. for now you need to be with someone who would keep you safe. you need to keep your health and body healthy. so i think your aunt would so the job and your mom should get help somewhere.
and maybe in time you guys can live agian together!
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im very depressed
my good friend died of a brain tumor july 29th 07
and i misss her sooo much still
i cannot deal with it it never gets easier
i dont know what to do
everything reminds me of her .
i cry. and i miss her
.we were so much alike
we were suppose to do so much together
she was only sixteen
and its not fair
and.. i want her back
i do not know what to do
i just cant ever face it, or believe it
or..move on.
help
you have to face it!
Iam sorry about your friend. I know how you feel.
But putting yourself in a depressing mood is not going to help. you have to think about what your friend would have wanted.
you know she didn't want to make you sad by going a way. If you want to do something good for your friend, you have to be happy for her and for yourself. Be happy that instead of staying here and suffering each day, she went to a better place. Be thankfull that you had her as a friend and that no one will ever replace her. Becuase you and her were unique in your own special way. So instead of feeling sorry for her and yourself, believe that this is what God had paln for her and that she is in Good Hands.
Trust in God. and know that he hears your cries. And that he has something in mind for you. Believe that What he did Was for a Reason!
bye. I hope this helps.
GOOD LUCK!
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hey
i like this guy who is 4 years older than me. he used to be my manager and we talked alot through text message and back when he was still my manager we were flirting alot and he said Rules are meant to be broken but you just cant get caught. he got moved to another store, and hes leaving in a couple of weeks to go there. for 2 weeks he was being cold to me, then i messaged him asking him to come to a party with me, and he said that he will try but wont be sure because he couldnt get a lift. i ended up getting him a lift, but he told me that he will call me when he is ready to go but i still went and when i got to his house he said that he will come later because he didnt want to ditch his friend. i understood completely because i would do the same thing with my best friend, but i was still a bit pissed off.
then i texted him after the party saying "Damn you missed out on alot tonight" and he was like "Were still young, nothing that i cant make up for another time i hope..are u working tonight?" and i said "Well you missed out alot :P"
then later i said "You have to make it up to me for ditching me.." and he said "Really? Well i have the weekend off if thats any help.." and i said "Yeah it helps .. so what you gonna do to make it up to me?" and he said "Im still working on it..i could use abit of help" then i said "Sorryy youre on your own for this one.."
i was thinking maybe i could message him saying "Are you interested in me at all..or am i just being a jerk..?"
i really want to know what is going through his head! any ideas ?
hello there.
it's so pbvious that the guy likes you. he finds every excused to bring you to see him and find every way to see if you care that he is moving away. he wants to know if you will miss him and if in the future you will still think about him. like after parties and funny jokes etc.
well there you have your answere.
bye!
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well to start off there is this guy named Jay and he and i were always together, dating constantly but never really official, we didnt make it official bc he was moving to another country, weird i know but we kept in touch alot in the begining of his move kept up with birthdays and holidays then a month pass by and no talking happend. :( well then my birthday comes and he calls me i was extremely over whelmed with my feelings for him and and started to cry again over him. well then two to three weeks later which leads to now he calls only bc he misses me and wants to talk to me. he gets all i miss you, i need you, flirty, remembering the past of us. im really trying to get over him. and he is the one that said its okay to seee other people and move on already. im trying to move on, there is this guy named Adam and i've known him before Jay and well i started to like him and he likes me back, and Jay saw us talking over myspace and asked what was going on between us? i told him that he was just a frined, did i do that bc i still have feelings for him? should i have said that we are talking? i like both of them the same i think. and well i dont think im in love with Jay anymore, he broke my heart. I did something that i rereted with this guy, i think i only did that bc i needed someone to love me, since i thought Jay doesnt love me, he comes back when im happy and moving on and when i need him he isnt there. so anyways is he just messing with me bc he hasnt found a girl in his new location? and he knows im always going to be there? well im clueless on what to do i like both Adam and Jay the same but one i loved with great emotions and the other one is like a best friend i can settle down with.
any suggestions?
btw: sorry for the long story.
wht you need to do is follow you rheart.
hey ther!
it seems like you really are in a crisis. what you need to do is follow your heart. think about the future. like which one will always be there for you? and protect you? also which one like you for you and not just because you are pretty and want to feel rhier needs.
when you answer this, you will choose the right guy and the right best friend.
bye!
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18-female. my guy friend is 17/m
so i've known lets call him "nick" for about four years now. he recently just broke up with his girlfriend of three years, yeah shocking! i've always liked him so i was kind of happy about it. but then i heard from my cousin that he was "talking" to another girl. i was really upset, becasue i mean really? another girl already? and so one night i was like nick is there something you have to tell me, and he was like well like what. and then i was like i hear you have a "new girl" and he was like what! no!! who?! and i told him and he was like haha noooo where did you hear that from and then he always denied it well then the next day he was texting me all day and this girl is my cousin's cousin if that makes sense and she invited herself to his house because my cousin is next door neighbors with nick. well i was like nick why dont you go over there to see your new girl? and he was like SHES NOT MY NEW GIRL! why do you think she is? i dont have a new girl, i dont want one. and i was like why would she invite herself over there, to see you? and he was like i dont know, cant we be friends and why do you care anyways? and i was like because i hate being lied to! and he was like you dont ever even believe me and he knows i have a trust issue and i felt bad because he sounded SOOOO convincing you know? so i was like okay sorry i belive you, i wont bring it up again. well then that night it was me nick my cousin and the "girl" at my cousins house. the "girl" tries to get ALL the attention, its quite annoying. well then nick asked if she wanted to play air hockey downstairs and so just them two went down and after they were done they stayed down there and we watching a movie!!! i was so pissed, but i wasnt going to say anything well because i told him i wouldnt bring it up again and i didnt want to seem annoying because i knew he would say shes not his new girl. i just dont understand though? and my cousin was spying on them and texted nick and was like stop being a "pussy" and kiss her and then he said they were talking about it? i almost started crying. what should i do? am i over reacting? i dont want to seem annoying and i've already brought her up twice before! do you think there just friends? i know hes attracted to me, its not like i'm looking for a relationship with him though becasue i know he wouldnt want to get into one right away. after that night, i havent talked to him at ALL. any suggestions, comments? what do you think is going on.
girl you life is like a anime book.
hey!
crying won't solve anything.
just tell nick the truth. tell him why you get annoyed with you cousin's cousin. I mean you like nick and like you said maybe he is attracted to you. maybe he is trying to get you jelouse of him so tht you would tell him how you feel. you know how it is in comic books (girl confesses to boy). and believe me you are not overreacting. it's just what happens when you have a super cute crush.
bye
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Im 20/f and my girlfriend is considering joining the army. We have been together for 2 yrs and now have an apartment together. She has thought about joining before but now she is serious about it and its because her friend (who is also her ex girlfriend) is going. I see her reasoning for going and all the perks that would come along with her joining but I dont want her to go. And it kind of hurts my feelings that she's more worried about her friend going to the army then she is about leaving me behind. She knows I dont want her to go but I told her that whatever she decides I would support her. I just dont know how to handle this. I mean, she does talk about it bettering us and coming back to me and everything but I know that she would be gone for quite a while and there is always a chance she wouldnt come back to me. I want to be supportive and I want her to know that whatever she decides I will be here and I will love her but I dont want her to feel like Im perfectly fine with her going. i just dont know how to find a happy medium. I dont know.. This is just real tough and any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
P.S.- I would love to hear from people who have had their significant other go away to the military and how they handled it. But any help is appreciated.
hey there!
what you need to do is reassure her that tgoing to military is not fine with you. since you want her to know that you support her, maybe she has decide to do it because og that. what you need to do is tell you girlfriend that it is not okay with you. let her know how uncomfortable you are. and please do it fast before you ose her.
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Tonight I cheated on my girlfriend, my soul mate, the only thing that is keeping me alive. What makes matters worse is that it was with a guy. She won't ever forgive me. I want to confess to her if I do I know the odd of her accepting me back are farely high. But I can't risk that. If she says that she can't be with me I will kill myself, hands down. I just spent the last 4 hours crying and debating whether or not to tell her, then I remembered that I had an account on here. I need advise. Well, I want advice but I really need to talk to her about this. She'll be coming to see me in a few days, we have a long distance relationship butive been in love with her for over 3 years now. I can't live without her. What should I do? Opinions matter a lot to me right now, thank you.
hello sarline here.
to start off, why would you want to that to ure "soul mate". and secondly i think she would forgive you. I think she needs time alone to think things through. She has a big decision to make that would be affecting her for the rest of her life. Wheater to take or not to take you back. Explain to her why yoou did what you did and let her know you can be trusted to lrt your relationship last. (she will understand if she feels the same way you do about her). she might need some time to think though but iam sure it will work out.
P.S don't kill yourself. just think if you do, you would just leave her to be alone and no shoulder to cry on. and beside you will never know unitl you try.
bye.
write back comments.
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Okay so my friend Anna moved away a few years ago. While she was here she had a best friend Stephanie. Right before Ana Left her and Stephanie got in a huge fight and never talked again. Im stil best friends with Anna but have recently been hanging out with Stephanie a lot and were becoming good friends. I tell Anna everthingg but im really scared to tell her That im hanging out with Stephanie. Do you think its wrong im hanging out with Stephanie even though her and Anna are complete enemies. Or should i just tell Anna the truth.
hello sarline here.
look just tell anna the truth. Just because they aren't friends any more dosen't mean you can't be friends with both of them. If Anna is a real friend dhe should understand. Besides you get to choose your friends not her.
well write back
see ya
sarline
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i have this friend. She is so competitive. and she claims to be my best friend. So when i get something new, she has to get it, but in a better brand or more expensive to make me feel bad. example would be like; i just got a phone. a week later, she finally got a phone, but more expensive. then when i got a computer, she got one after, but in a better brand. I don't know why she does it but it is getting on my last nerve. Then when I come up with ideas, she steals them and make them into her own. for example. Our whole group of friends hasn't hung out in a while, and i was saying how it would be tight to have everyone get together at a sleep over and just chil. She went off and told all of them as if it were her idea. And it is so frustrating. She also tried to steal my boyfriend. I ended up having to brake up with him because of whole lotta drama. I have slowly separated myself from her. She asked me if we were still best friends, and I said no. And she was begging for best friend status. But I said no. And I have stopped telling her everything, and calling her. I just listen, because I will always be there for her, i have never betrayed her. I helped her lose weight, and told her when people were talking ish about her. But with all that, she repaid me with all that. I want to separate myself from her to the fullest. Do you guys have eny ideas? what do you think about the whole situation?
Hello there.
Listen, maybe this is also your fault.
What you need to do is tell her how you feel. She obvoiusly dosen't know waht is going on. The fact that she really wants to be your friends just proves it. And breaking up with your boyfriend because of this was not the right choice. If you trusted your boyfriend enough and new he wouldn't cheat on you, then you would have found a better solution. Another way is you are bringing this upon yourself. Once again talk to her instead of rejecting her. If all you say you did for her is true then that proves you are a great friend. Either she is jelouse or it's just a considence.
She know what a great friend you are and doesn't want to hurt you or be an enemy.
write back comments.
see ya
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I'm in 7th grade! Last year, I had a lot of friends. We kind of hung out in a group. There was this one girl named Kiara that we talked about. This year Kiara forgived me and we became friends. Then I lost all my friends and Kiara was still my friend. One day, something happened and i felt like Kiara betrayed me. She lost all her friends and I went back to my old friends that had been previously talking about me. Then I lost them again and Kiara felt like I used her and now I don't have any friends! What should I do at school when I am sitting there all alone with nobody to talk to and everyone else is with there friends talking and laughing?
well this is what you should do
Explain to them what really happened. I mean we all make mistakes. If they were really your friends in the first place, i don't see why they won't understand. Iam sure your a great person and that if it dosen't work out you can joine another table and try to become friends with other people. You just have to choose your friends carefully.
P.S next time when you are in a situation like that. Try and get everybody on the same page so that you can all be friends. So you would gain more instead of losing more.
this is sarline and don't
forget to write back comments
see ya.
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My cousin's grandpa just died. :(
I'm really close to my cousin, but I don't really know what to do or say to her cause I've never really had someone close to me die.
I was wondering what I should do?
I don't want to seem like a heartless person and I don't want to say the wrong thing and make her feel bad...
All advice is appreciated.
Thanks
hey sarlinr here.
the best thing to do is listen to her tell the wonderfull story they sahred.
tell her everthing will be alright and that he is in a wonderful and a much better place watching over her.
have and alone time with her and try to get her back into the real world
thanks and write back to sarline.
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So I just got braces. And I have a boyfriend and we kiss a lot? haha. But anyway, I havn't kissed him with the braces because i'm worried that something will go wrong and my braces will screw it all up. So is it really true that its really hard to kiss people with braces?!
hey sarline here.
no it is not true.(most of time).
but what i will do is tell him in advance.
iam sure he will understand. i mean he likes you and you guys can work out on a way so that you can kiss withoud getting your braces caught in his teeth.
that would be good(real kissing) haha lol.
but iam sure you would work it out.
good luck and write back comments.
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So theres this boy thats new to my high school and a year younger than me and i think he is really cute. one of my friends already told him i thought he was cute but i need to talk to him myself. i no he plays basketball and i do too (plus volleyball) should i talk to him about that? how should i approach him so i dont come off as creepy. Thank u advice is much needed ! :)
sarline here
try approching to him with a friendly view.
for example try and ask if he needs help with anything thing since he is new. if he does not have any friends invite him to sit with you guys at lunch.
it is that simple just start at friends and see how it works out.
maybe along the way you would find out that you guys have lots in common.
thanks for writing and send comments
sarline
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Okay,
So latley i've been getting this feeling like i miss some one.
And i think its weird,becasue i really can't think of anyone i could miss.
What does this mean?
A friend told me its not that i miss someone but that i "need" some one.
Do you think this is true?
Help ...please
sarline here
no i don't think that is true.
i think you do miss someone. maybe someone the you have forgetten or someone from your childhood.
i get that feeling sometimes and it turned out i did miss someome.
try to think back about who you could possibly miss.
perhaps a childhood friend, boyfriend, and etc.
okay write bak comments and see you later
sarline
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MY gf and i are together for almost 2 years, and now everyhings changed. i love her so much and i dont wan to lose her. i sometimes think that if she was not meant for me then i'll just end up my life because she's my life. it seems that our relationship is like a bomb waiting for its time to blow...everyday the clock ticks and the end is near for us. she always told me she love me but i could not feel it like before...was i too demanding for her to show it or she doesnt love me anymore? i am really confused and dnt know what to do..i wanted ending killing up myself so that i will not suffer the pain when the time comes..
sarline here.
you know your writting is almost as a poem.
But the real problem here is you. if she says sh loves you like a million times then believe her. she might not know how to show you that she does but when a girl says she loves she probaly does and you have to step up and show her that you love her too.
I mean think about it. If you kill yourself (you shouldn't by the way), who would she be left with. just imagine that tragedy that would be eating inside her. you don't want her to suffer do you? listen just trust her and don't do anything stupid and i think you are smater than that.
let me ask you. do you love or do you want her to suffer?
thanks for writting and don't forget to leave comments thanks and i like all my clients iam always there to help
sarline here
and see you guys later
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